and hardest to perfection one can have
it can be easy because the ones you love
are usually the ones who support you and
the ones you rely on it can be hard
because at some point of your life you
may lose that loved one you can lose a
loved one from rather a tragedy or even
from growing apart losing someone can be
a very difficult thing to go through but
it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s a bad
thing from their death you can learn
something I have realized that a person
that every moment of their life is
always learning something new
it made me learn to talk specific
language later have to walk and do
certain things then we go to school and
learn an amazing amount of lessons but
the one thing that not all schools teach
used to love and cherish your loved ones
when I was 13 years old I lost my
beloved baby sister she was only 2 years
old it was the hardest thing I’ve ever
faced till this day my baby sister’s
name was Raveena but we called her in a
few short Nina was diagnosed with Down
syndrome she spends most of her life in
hospital taking medications and getting
TACT’s to see if everything system was
all right I remember my span of about 3
months when she was in the hospital
every single day taking medications and
getting injections whenever I saw her
her arm was bandaged bruised from all
the injections that she has gotten but
even with all that my baby sister would
just forget about everything that was
happening to her and do it for the
children and laugh and enjoy her life
her smile was the only thing that kept
me on the coast after all that happened
my mom used to tell me whenever I got
her shots
there’d be tears stinging in my mother’s
eyes and my baby sister would look up at
her and smile as if she was telling her
I’m alright mom don’t cry because of me
because of her my mother said that was
so much pain and emotion it urged me to
think about life differently my baby
sister’s death gave me a reason to see
life in a different light made me want
to make sure that my baby sister’s death
wasn’t for nothing
I wanted to make a proud no matter where
she was I wanted to make a
I didn’t know how to do that at that
time but I think I do now it is human
nature to take others for granted people
don’t realize that whatever you have
whether it is their friends or family we
often don’t appreciate them until
they’re gone from international service
I think that people regret them most in
life Auto relate to the relationships
they have built with others but I ask
you instead of regretting about the
people you lose or the relationships
that fall apart
why not cherish every single day you
have with those you care while you still
can and you can start doing this today
even if you haven’t had dinner with your
family for the past few days or you
haven’t done anything together with them
there is always a thing called today
where you can start new from those
international surveys there’s nothing
about not getting a specific piece of
coding or buying a new iPhone they all
regret the thing that most of us have
already why should we regret them 10
years time think that everybody regrets
when we had the chance to share
instead I hope you can learn from my
loss after losing my beautiful baby
sister I went through a phase and I
might even still be going to that face
to this day when I was in middle school
I didn’t really care about how I did I
just want the flow and wasn’t that sad
or disappointed if I got a be like how a
kind of denial and this 10th grade I
heard a bit more and I strived for
better grades it wasn’t until my
babysitter’s death that I started the
lid for Ace waiting for creates and not
looking for you it’s a really
disappointing thing to do some people
might think it’s weird when mourning the
loss of a loved one it would be natural
to lose focus on schoolwork while I took
the opposite I tried harder to make sure
that she was proud no matter what and I
thought the only way I could do that was
to study hard and get good grades well
get off I got good grades but while I
gained something I also lost something I
lost the connection with my family I
noticed the time that I spent my family
was lessening and then all of a sudden I
realized through my sister’s death that
the height the time that I have my
parents and siblings is not forever it
doesn’t matter if you’re not good at
something if you’re interested in it
I bet desired practice actually does
make perfect but don’t make but make
sure you don’t lose yourself to your
work instead of losing yourself you
should retain yourself take something
life-changing out of your experiences
the life did you think be realizing that
lot of people have what you have family
loved ones or even a good education and
that needs to be grateful for everything
you have last year fifty five million
people died those fifty five million
people that behind loved ones family
members friends who’s gonna miss them
dad can be a frightful thing especially
for those who are left behind you can
also see one affair when loved ones were
taken away before their time but as I
tried to believe everything happens for
a reason I remember one day I was with
my friends having a good time and then
all of a sudden my mom calls me and
tells me to come home when I asked why
she said that I needed to come home and
babysit my baby sister because she had
earned to run back then it was a pain
watching over her but when I think about
it now I would do anything for her to be
in my life and the chance to watch over
her just one more time that day when I
was in my building waiting for the
elevator to come down I wish those words
were the most regretted words that ever
passed my mind and I sometimes think to
myself oh stop trying
stop trying to fulfill their dream start
bad habits and just don’t care anymore
being a teenager is hard I know because
I am one you’re pushed to be the best
college in the future just a pile on to
that stress Tina just moves and
personalities can change really easily
even if you think you’re all grown up to
your parents you are still the little
child
if your parents have cared for you and
loved you with all their hearts I can’t
we do the same if kids truthfully tears
their family and don’t take the for
granted I truly believe people’s lives
can change now it may seem like your
parents don’t Angie
but in a few years time you’re gonna
look back and admit that many of the
things the coach were right and much of
the vice to give you was wise parents
can be really strict so they can be
really easygoing but remember that hairy
parents raised you
sheeps through arts day we need to learn
I realize that it’s loving the ones that
are close to us should not be a hard job
to do you don’t have to buy them
anything or call them daily goodbye kiss
when you’re leaving the house can mean a
lot simply saying word two syllables
hello or goodbye can mean something for
your loved one one thing I learned from
using my sisters that master start
loving the ones that are close to us
before they’re gone family should be the
most important thing in life even if
some of us have little of it I remember
the day my beautiful baby sister died my
aunt came to my school in the middle of
the morning to pick me up the school
manager came to my class to tell the
teacher to excuse me and she asked if a
sister had been sick those words didn’t
even say anything he’s just had her mind
is blank
all I could think was nothing I was so
shocked that’s my wonderful baby sister
was absolutely gone once actually saw my
sister all I could think was what now
what am I supposed to do some of the
voice inside my head were saying that
everything was going to turn out alright
and other voices had to punish others so
that my pain could go away even if you
do push away people it’s not gonna heal
you all it’s going to do was hurt even
more
the back there’s also an important thing
to have for your family members even if
they’re younger than you
my parents are super strong and caring
you have gone through they can make me
the life and living aunt who thanks for
that my mom is the most strongest person
I’ve ever met
she’s gone through hell it wasn’t one of
her daughter’s aunt he’s immensely
strong I always wanted to be as strong
as her but it’s hard it’s hard wanting
people to see you as strong but really a
car yourself to sleep I can’t imagine
life without her
my father is the most caring and loving
person in the world he never raised his
voice to anyone and through his day
night ma stop just to make our life
easier
he is so selfless he does everything for
his family and nothing for himself when
I grow up I want to be my parents I want
to be the person who’d do anything for
their family my big sister is also a
huge inspiration for me she tried to go
hard in everything all the hard work
pays off for her she got a hundred
missing scholarship to really good
school in America and to also make sure
I have fulfilled my dreams she helps me
make big choices and she’s always there
for me my big sister and I were young we
used to fight all the time we still do
sometimes but we both know you love each
other my little sister is also a person
whom I truly respect even though she’s
still little she has the personality of
love and the kind of person she laughs
every single day and that laugh makes
everyone laugh she makes life worth
living I participated in an exchange
program to Japan just this past month
during the first four days I’d be with
my host family I was really homesick
whenever I did something with my host
family I wanted to be with my own family
that month was where I truly realized
you need your family you need them to be
there you need them to care for you we
are still teenagers I don’t get easier
and there’s a good chance to become
harder every single year so even if you
think you do so much better without your
loved ones think again remember all the
times where a family member helped you
with something for an example helping
you with your homework cleaning your
room making you food they may even want
they’re always going to be there for you
even when you might not want it your
high visualising life without specific
members of your family I hope you
typical ten-time team I know we are
still teenagers and I suppose some of us
won’t even think about these things but
my recommendation to you is to do think
about them in the end it won’t be a
piece of clothing or a new iPhone that
your best it’s going to be your own
family
one of the hardest parts of life is
losing someone and not knowing what to
do about it so when you ask yourself the
question what now listen to the voice
that comes from your heart listen to the
voice where it says everything will be
just fine as long as I people to love
people who love me
I lost my wonderful baby sister but I
also gained the realization that love
needs to be shown every single day you
have those you care you have to show love he’s got a chance