[Applause]
how many of y’all woke up this morning
and said you know what I’m gonna be the
greatest failure I can be a couple of
hands ready no no no not me it’s
something that we do not set out to do
right but on our road to success
sometimes failure does happen do you
agree sometimes failure does happen when
we’re trying to succeed so what do we do
do we give up and quit no we don’t give
up and quit we pick up and we get going
and we move on now if it said Howard
Hughes which one of the this might not
be a real word I’m gonna make it up
gazillionaire that was one of the
richest men of all times when he died
his Board of Directors notified the
casinos that he owned and said okay hey
but we want y’all to do is shut down the
casinos for one minute and observe a
moment of silence and that’s respectable
and that’s cool but it was observed won
the pit bosses was sitting there
watching his watch and as soon as it hit
the sixtieth second said he’s had his
minute let’s start rolling that’s kind
of sad and a lot of us I want to ask you
how many of you going through life
trying to achieve its success have
something set you back and say well I’ve
had my time I quit
hey I’ve had my time I give up I don’t
want to do anything else how many of you
though going through success have a
failure and other people are willing to
point it out and say hey you’ve had your
time quit and move on I’m here to tell
you right now that’s a bunch of bunk
we’re not going to do that well we’re
going to learn tonight is how you can
take success and move it to a different
level than you’ve ever gone before and
in areas that you fail in time and time
again which if you’re like me you felt
I’m a bad husband I make mistakes all
the time to test my wife I make mistakes
but I’m not going to quit I’m gonna stay
with what I do and that’s what you need
to do and we’re going
do that today with this wham wam stands
for Whole Health Action Management it
can stand for anything that you want but
the thing is is you have to get to a
point in life where you say no matter
what comes at me
Wham I’m going to push through and I’m
going to move through and I’m going to
show you a couple of matrixes tonight to
help you achieve that success in your
life because if you don’t if you don’t
take these two things that I’m going to
show you tonight when setbacks does
occur when failures do occur it will
deter you from keep moving on and
reaching your dreams and nobody in here
wants that so what I’m doing is I’m
gonna show you this matrix on the board
I can’t can’t see over the screen there
should be a column down the left all
them across the top is that what’s
showing not yet how about now
ha pay no attention to the man behind
the screen that’s from The Wizard Wizard
of Oz if you look down the left you will
see a series of activities in your life
you will be intellectual you will see
spiritual you will see occupational you
will see environmental you will see
physical you will see a whole multitude
of areas that every one of us have in
our life and that’s not an all-inclusive
list because you can also add family and
you can add anything in there but across
the top there is the most important
thing that I want you to take out of
this there’s five steps in any area that
you want to list on that left column
that if you want to be successful in
this will help you guarantee success now
if you’re like me growing up from the
moment I was born I had my parents
telling me what to do what they wanted
me to achieve what they wanted me to
achieve after I graduated from high
school and to me that was a setback
because that isn’t what I wanted that
isn’t what I wanted to do after telling
you what you need to do most likely
you’re not going to do it however if you
come to me and you say hey Steve I’ve
got this goal
that I want to achieve that now becomes
a self centric goal a goal that you want
that you become more motivated to
achieve do you see the difference in
that me telling you what you should do
and you telling me what you want to do
which one are you more inclined to do
you see the difference in that but the
second thing in that is you can come to
me and say Steve in each one of those
areas in my intellect and my
spirituality and my physical whatever
area it is I have a goal having a goal
isn’t enough you now to need to create
an action plan to achieve that goal
because if it’s important enough for you
to have a goal it’s important enough to
you to have a plan to achieve that goal
you agree with that now how many of
y’all have ever heard that expression
those who fail to plan plan to do what
plan to fail that’s in any area of your
life including intellect physical
whatever it is if you do not plan to
succeed you are planning to fail that is
the way it is the third area in this
matrix that you want to look at is a
daily or weekly log and you need to
write that because here’s the thing is
even no matter how successful we are
trying to be no matter how successful
that we want to be you are going to have
setbacks but on the opposite side of
that you are going to have successes so
you need to create some of people like
daily logs that’s not me I can’t write
in Journal daily but some people need to
do it at least weekly what you do is
you’re keeping track of your setbacks
and your failures and you look back on
that you realize I tried this it didn’t
work I need to modify this I need to do
this but you can also look back I tried
this and it worked so guess what I need
to keep doing this I’m it’s the whole
concept that we need to do but when we
look at all areas that I have listed up
there that’s the only way that you can
achieve success in life so now you
created a person centric goal you’ve
created an action plan to achieve that
goal you’re keeping up with the daily
and weekly log to monitor success and
setbacks
there’s two more steps you need to
involve you need to involve an
accountability partner and if some of
these is kind of easy like if you’re
gonna be work out if you want to let’s
say I want to lose ten pounds will you
go find the accountability partner to go
work out with you to help you stay
accountable to achieve your goal that
you set for yourself you see how
important an accountability partner is
they help keep you motivated to do that
they need to do that and then the last
asset on this to achieve any of these
goals is a support group and again on
some of those areas that are listed if
their support groups are easy if it’s
spiritual what do you think your support
group is your church you’re right if
it’s physical your support group is a
gym you join okay but what about
intellect who would be your support
group for your intellect the college the
classmates that you have which you can
also find a study partner that becomes
your accountability partner that is the
only way in any area of these lives in
any of these aspects of your life that
you can guarantee success in your life
now I’m going to ask somebody to come up
here his name is Chris he normally works
behind the scenes he’s our cameraman so
y’all give Chris a big round of applause
[Applause]
and I’m gonna ask him to be part of it
you got to come up here because you’re
the one that told me I can’t come down
there so you’re gonna stand down there
expectancy sees one meter so I want you
to watch this I gonna catch now let me
ask you this you may sit down everybody
give him a round of applause roughly now
you’re thinking that’s kind of corny but
let me show you something if I would
have let go with that piece of paper
what would have happened it would have
hit him right okay let’s take him now
we’re taking him alleys walls of this
Chapel we’re gonna take him to the
railroad tracks all right we’re gonna
take the road tracks we’re gonna put him
on the middle of those railroad tracks
and here comes a train coming you see
the light the whistles blow on you here
to a horn everything
and he’s gonna go what’s gonna happen
he’s gonna get ran over well I’m gonna
tell you right now that there’s too many
of us and I’m including me in you in
this room that keeps getting ran over by
the same railroad tracks in life why
because we stand there and we take him
and what do we need to do move right all
you have to do is move off those tracks
and you don’t get hit by the same train
over and over again too many of us are
failing and one of those is because we
keep getting ran over by the same train
over and over and over again but we’re
unwilling to move MOV E and that’s an
anachronism and I’m going to teach you
in my last few minutes here of what move
stands for the M and move means motivate
and I’m gonna tell you right now I could
stand up here and I can tell you great
knowledge but I cannot motivate you to
do a dadgum thing unless you become
motivated to improve your life and
anyone these eight areas plus any other
area that you want to add to that
there’s nothing that you can do to
achieve success unless you become
motivated yourself so I can’t motivate
you I can push you I can give you
motivation but you have to take that to
motivate your own self
do you agree does that make sense okay
now oh and move has to deal with time
and time a lot of people talk about time
that there’s a word that starts with O
that people say you should blank
starting with all your time somebody
guess what that o stands for Oregon who
said organize you’re wrong it’s like dad
Jo I had a surprise if you had it right
but no you got it wrong it’s not
organized let me tell you why it’s not
organized your time my daughter got
married several years back and we hired
one of those things called a wedding
planner another words way to spend money
a wedding planner and she had the
waiting organized to the tee at this
time you show up at this time you show
up at this time the doors open and you
walk down that was great organization
but none of that meant nothing unless my
son-in-law showed up right all that
organization did absolutely no
good unless my son-in-law optimized the
time which means do with the time you
have the most you can do with okay so
organization means nothing it’s what you
do with the amount of time that you have
even where you’re at you can optimize
your time to achieve the success so that
you want to achieve in your life or you
can say boy mom organize it put it in
your back pocket and nothing gets done
this mo motivate and optimize the vien
moves to validate – many times we come
up with reasons to quit it’s too much
harder to come up with reasons to keep
trying we need to learn to motivate
ourselves and the greatest story that I
ever think of is the story of David and
Goliath in the Bible when he went to
face Goliath he said because I faced the
bear and because I defeated the line I
can defeat this so I’m telling you right
now because of the trouble that you’re
going through right now because of the
circumstances that you’ve overcome right
now any of these things that listed on
the board and anything that you add to
it you can achieve it and you can go
past it because you can validate
yourself that you’re a winner but we sit
back and we want to look at our failures
too much we don’t want to do that so
that’s mo ve what’s the M stand for
motivate what’s the Oh what’s the V
validate let me tell you this right now
if you come up with something in your
life that you’ve got to motivate
yourself for that you’ve got to optimize
your time you’ve got to validate
yourself let me tell you what it’s not
going to be a bed of roses it’s gonna be
a heartache sometimes well that’s where
the e comes in that means endure means
you’re gonna have to endure the hard
times that come along but if you’re
motivated that ain’t gonna stop you if
you stop being during the whole during
the hard times you wasn’t motivated to
begin with so you need to endure down
through the hard times because guess
what the hard times they ain’t gonna
last forever you’re gonna start to rise
up things are gonna start being
successful but guess what you’re going
to come back down a little bit again
it’s life ups and that you agreed that
life has its ups and downs too many
times we and again I include myself
it when it becomes hard that’s when we
become need to become more motivated and
push ourselves through by optimizing our
time and validating ourselves that I can
achieve the goals that I have on there
because I’ve created a goal that
involves me I’ve created an action plan
that involves me journal my successes I
have an accountability partner called a
wife and I have support groups and every
one of those areas of my life I cannot
fail can I make mistakes yes can I have
some trouble along the way yes but I
will not quit and I will not give up I
will achieve my goal and that’s what I
wish for you thank you for having me
today
[Applause]
how many of y’all woke up this morning
and said you know what I’m gonna be the
greatest failure I can be a couple of
hands ready no no no not me it’s
something that we do not set out to do
right but on our road to success
sometimes failure does happen do you
agree sometimes failure does happen when
we’re trying to succeed so what do we do
do we give up and quit no we don’t give
up and quit we pick up and we get going
and we move on now if it said Howard
Hughes which one of the this might not
be a real word I’m gonna make it up
gazillionaire that was one of the
richest men of all times when he died
his Board of Directors notified the
casinos that he owned and said okay hey
but we want y’all to do is shut down the
casinos for one minute and observe a
moment of silence and that’s respectable
and that’s cool but it was observed won
the pit bosses was sitting there
watching his watch and as soon as it hit
the sixtieth second said he’s had his
minute let’s start rolling that’s kind
of sad and a lot of us I want to ask you
how many of you going through life
trying to achieve its success have
something set you back and say well I’ve
had my time I quit
hey I’ve had my time I give up I don’t
want to do anything else how many of you
though going through success have a
failure and other people are willing to
point it out and say hey you’ve had your
time quit and move on I’m here to tell
you right now that’s a bunch of bunk
we’re not going to do that well we’re
going to learn tonight is how you can
take success and move it to a different
level than you’ve ever gone before and
in areas that you fail in time and time
again which if you’re like me you felt
I’m a bad husband I make mistakes all
the time to test my wife I make mistakes
but I’m not going to quit I’m gonna stay
with what I do and that’s what you need
to do and we’re going
do that today with this wham wam stands
for Whole Health Action Management it
can stand for anything that you want but
the thing is is you have to get to a
point in life where you say no matter
what comes at me
Wham I’m going to push through and I’m
going to move through and I’m going to
show you a couple of matrixes tonight to
help you achieve that success in your
life because if you don’t if you don’t
take these two things that I’m going to
show you tonight when setbacks does
occur when failures do occur it will
deter you from keep moving on and
reaching your dreams and nobody in here
wants that so what I’m doing is I’m
gonna show you this matrix on the board
I can’t can’t see over the screen there
should be a column down the left all
them across the top is that what’s
showing not yet how about now
ha pay no attention to the man behind
the screen that’s from The Wizard Wizard
of Oz if you look down the left you will
see a series of activities in your life
you will be intellectual you will see
spiritual you will see occupational you
will see environmental you will see
physical you will see a whole multitude
of areas that every one of us have in
our life and that’s not an all-inclusive
list because you can also add family and
you can add anything in there but across
the top there is the most important
thing that I want you to take out of
this there’s five steps in any area that
you want to list on that left column
that if you want to be successful in
this will help you guarantee success now
if you’re like me growing up from the
moment I was born I had my parents
telling me what to do what they wanted
me to achieve what they wanted me to
achieve after I graduated from high
school and to me that was a setback
because that isn’t what I wanted that
isn’t what I wanted to do after telling
you what you need to do most likely
you’re not going to do it however if you
come to me and you say hey Steve I’ve
got this goal
that I want to achieve that now becomes
a self centric goal a goal that you want
that you become more motivated to
achieve do you see the difference in
that me telling you what you should do
and you telling me what you want to do
which one are you more inclined to do
you see the difference in that but the
second thing in that is you can come to
me and say Steve in each one of those
areas in my intellect and my
spirituality and my physical whatever
area it is I have a goal having a goal
isn’t enough you now to need to create
an action plan to achieve that goal
because if it’s important enough for you
to have a goal it’s important enough to
you to have a plan to achieve that goal
you agree with that now how many of
y’all have ever heard that expression
those who fail to plan plan to do what
plan to fail that’s in any area of your
life including intellect physical
whatever it is if you do not plan to
succeed you are planning to fail that is
the way it is the third area in this
matrix that you want to look at is a
daily or weekly log and you need to
write that because here’s the thing is
even no matter how successful we are
trying to be no matter how successful
that we want to be you are going to have
setbacks but on the opposite side of
that you are going to have successes so
you need to create some of people like
daily logs that’s not me I can’t write
in Journal daily but some people need to
do it at least weekly what you do is
you’re keeping track of your setbacks
and your failures and you look back on
that you realize I tried this it didn’t
work I need to modify this I need to do
this but you can also look back I tried
this and it worked so guess what I need
to keep doing this I’m it’s the whole
concept that we need to do but when we
look at all areas that I have listed up
there that’s the only way that you can
achieve success in life so now you
created a person centric goal you’ve
created an action plan to achieve that
goal you’re keeping up with the daily
and weekly log to monitor success and
setbacks
there’s two more steps you need to
involve you need to involve an
accountability partner and if some of
these is kind of easy like if you’re
gonna be work out if you want to let’s
say I want to lose ten pounds will you
go find the accountability partner to go
work out with you to help you stay
accountable to achieve your goal that
you set for yourself you see how
important an accountability partner is
they help keep you motivated to do that
they need to do that and then the last
asset on this to achieve any of these
goals is a support group and again on
some of those areas that are listed if
their support groups are easy if it’s
spiritual what do you think your support
group is your church you’re right if
it’s physical your support group is a
gym you join okay but what about
intellect who would be your support
group for your intellect the college the
classmates that you have which you can
also find a study partner that becomes
your accountability partner that is the
only way in any area of these lives in
any of these aspects of your life that
you can guarantee success in your life
now I’m going to ask somebody to come up
here his name is Chris he normally works
behind the scenes he’s our cameraman so
y’all give Chris a big round of applause
[Applause]
and I’m gonna ask him to be part of it
you got to come up here because you’re
the one that told me I can’t come down
there so you’re gonna stand down there
expectancy sees one meter so I want you
to watch this I gonna catch now let me
ask you this you may sit down everybody
give him a round of applause roughly now
you’re thinking that’s kind of corny but
let me show you something if I would
have let go with that piece of paper
what would have happened it would have
hit him right okay let’s take him now
we’re taking him alleys walls of this
Chapel we’re gonna take him to the
railroad tracks all right we’re gonna
take the road tracks we’re gonna put him
on the middle of those railroad tracks
and here comes a train coming you see
the light the whistles blow on you here
to a horn everything
and he’s gonna go what’s gonna happen
he’s gonna get ran over well I’m gonna
tell you right now that there’s too many
of us and I’m including me in you in
this room that keeps getting ran over by
the same railroad tracks in life why
because we stand there and we take him
and what do we need to do move right all
you have to do is move off those tracks
and you don’t get hit by the same train
over and over again too many of us are
failing and one of those is because we
keep getting ran over by the same train
over and over and over again but we’re
unwilling to move MOV E and that’s an
anachronism and I’m going to teach you
in my last few minutes here of what move
stands for the M and move means motivate
and I’m gonna tell you right now I could
stand up here and I can tell you great
knowledge but I cannot motivate you to
do a dadgum thing unless you become
motivated to improve your life and
anyone these eight areas plus any other
area that you want to add to that
there’s nothing that you can do to
achieve success unless you become
motivated yourself so I can’t motivate
you I can push you I can give you
motivation but you have to take that to
motivate your own self
do you agree does that make sense okay
now oh and move has to deal with time
and time a lot of people talk about time
that there’s a word that starts with O
that people say you should blank
starting with all your time somebody
guess what that o stands for Oregon who
said organize you’re wrong it’s like dad
Jo I had a surprise if you had it right
but no you got it wrong it’s not
organized let me tell you why it’s not
organized your time my daughter got
married several years back and we hired
one of those things called a wedding
planner another words way to spend money
a wedding planner and she had the
waiting organized to the tee at this
time you show up at this time you show
up at this time the doors open and you
walk down that was great organization
but none of that meant nothing unless my
son-in-law showed up right all that
organization did absolutely no
good unless my son-in-law optimized the
time which means do with the time you
have the most you can do with okay so
organization means nothing it’s what you
do with the amount of time that you have
even where you’re at you can optimize
your time to achieve the success so that
you want to achieve in your life or you
can say boy mom organize it put it in
your back pocket and nothing gets done
this mo motivate and optimize the vien
moves to validate – many times we come
up with reasons to quit it’s too much
harder to come up with reasons to keep
trying we need to learn to motivate
ourselves and the greatest story that I
ever think of is the story of David and
Goliath in the Bible when he went to
face Goliath he said because I faced the
bear and because I defeated the line I
can defeat this so I’m telling you right
now because of the trouble that you’re
going through right now because of the
circumstances that you’ve overcome right
now any of these things that listed on
the board and anything that you add to
it you can achieve it and you can go
past it because you can validate
yourself that you’re a winner but we sit
back and we want to look at our failures
too much we don’t want to do that so
that’s mo ve what’s the M stand for
motivate what’s the Oh what’s the V
validate let me tell you this right now
if you come up with something in your
life that you’ve got to motivate
yourself for that you’ve got to optimize
your time you’ve got to validate
yourself let me tell you what it’s not
going to be a bed of roses it’s gonna be
a heartache sometimes well that’s where
the e comes in that means endure means
you’re gonna have to endure the hard
times that come along but if you’re
motivated that ain’t gonna stop you if
you stop being during the whole during
the hard times you wasn’t motivated to
begin with so you need to endure down
through the hard times because guess
what the hard times they ain’t gonna
last forever you’re gonna start to rise
up things are gonna start being
successful but guess what you’re going
to come back down a little bit again
it’s life ups and that you agreed that
life has its ups and downs too many
times we and again I include myself
it when it becomes hard that’s when we
become need to become more motivated and
push ourselves through by optimizing our
time and validating ourselves that I can
achieve the goals that I have on there
because I’ve created a goal that
involves me I’ve created an action plan
that involves me journal my successes I
have an accountability partner called a
wife and I have support groups and every
one of those areas of my life I cannot
fail can I make mistakes yes can I have
some trouble along the way yes but I
will not quit and I will not give up I
will achieve my goal and that’s what I
wish for you thank you for having me
today
[Applause]
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