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Wayward and Wise | Arjun Puri | TEDxYouth@BVChandigarh


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in the other countries obsessed with

marks and grids the obsession continues

where your name is replaced with your

board results you’re not Rahul anymore

you’re not Anjali or 97% or 61%

somewhere along the way that is really

sort of affected me as an individual

when I was growing up in Calcutta I was

very fortunate to have attended one of

the oldest schools in this country I

went to Lamarck Nia College which is

probably one of the oldest schools in

India and what we had at school was what

I’m going to talk to you about was a

holistic education I’m going to talk to

you about this initially the obsession

of wanting to becoming a doctor an

engineer or lawyer if you want to do it

that’s fantastic but like me if you

sucked at mathematics that kind of takes

away from the science and engineering

aspects for sure

so when I was 17 or 16 years old I went

and spoke to a teacher and I said I want

to study social sciences I want to do

humanities and his reaction was are you

a girl

awkward and I thought to myself I said

why can’t I study history and literature

and these beautiful things that make

things come alive but I did commerce

with mathematics and struggle through

maths I had 12 math tutors I learned

more about drumming and the Rolling

Stones and Pink Floyd than I ever

learned about trigonometry and and

mathematics needless to say I scraped

through maths with the social pressure

of wanting to go and taking more

tuitions always raised one questions why

do we go to tuitions essentially we’re

paying people to teach us what we should

be learning at school and then it

becomes a social sort of angle of things

your parents would want you to say I

want a rota tuition I need extra help

and so as a culture we started creating

a pressure situation for our Paracels

for our students for our children so

when I decided to move back to India I

spent a lot of time in England as an

investment banker okay

and it involved a bit of math and a lot

of my friends job that the recession

happened because I pressed wrong numbers

not true by that so Investment Banking

which was an interesting aspect where I

learnt a lot about how other people

studied different things and chose

careers not relevant to what they

studied so in India when I remember

growing up they said if you wanted to do

banking or consulting you had to have

economics of Beco or BBA

the person who sat next to me on my

floor when I worked at Merrill Lynch had

theology he studied religion and his

thesis was on Judas and this was the

person who is sitting right next to me

the person on my left studied

Shakespeare and then I started

questioning something very important how

important is the information passed to

our students and parents about what we

should study there’s a very famous

American writers name is Charles

Bukowski his court said find what you

love and let it kill you in India we let

everything everything else kill us apart

from what we love okay so this is a bit

of my story before I get into where

education and how important it is for

you to be a well-informed young Indian

student if you are to lead this country

into a developed stage for the longest

time

India’s developing when I was six years

old we were developing when I’m 21 we

were developing I’m 32 we’re still

developing at some point I would love to

hear India’s developed okay now if you

watch football this part is very

important I’m a die-hard fan of a

football team called Arsenal okay and

they never win so whoever said yes I

mean I love you but you know we will

never win okay let’s this embrace that

if anything else we live longer because

when Arsenal plays a heart grows

stronger so this is me after Arsenal

lost the game I was 25 years old I had a

fantastic job in London and I said why

am I here what is the reason for me to

live in London and I said well it’s

mostly football not the job and if a

school isn’t winning and I hate my job

what am i doing that so then I said

back to India where in India I was born

in Calcutta my family is full of writers

and professors and and filmmakers my

grand aunt was mahasweta devi who was

one of the most respected writers and

one of the most translated writers from

India so to think of coming back to

India and getting into writing and

cinema was always a possibility but I

must tell you all one thing if you have

an idea you must go on a journey and

that is very important you must talk to

people believe me when I say this people

have time to talk to you if you spend

five minutes with them so I landed up in

Bihar like most people from London would

and it was a remarkable experience

because there were days when someone say

please don’t come outside of a house is

the Cobra and I would think okay this is

something I would never have imagined

and then they would days where you would

drink water out of a tap where you would

put a cloth and the water would come

through the cloth and you would drink it

and then you would see there was full of

mud and you start realizing how

privileged we are as individuals as

Indian as human beings but how far this

privilege take us do we like to keep

getting richer do we is our life on this

planet to become more successful and

quantified with money or will we make

one promise in one pledge that we will

try and make a difference in one more

life in a lifetime so my travels across

India led me to meeting these wonderful

people but seen for instance right he

took me to his village to play Holi

there’s no need to but when he took me

to his village I realized how many

children don’t go to school it broke my

heart

all my school I fought about I need a

new uniform I need new bata shoes I need

both shoes I need football starts and

here you were in an environment where

people didn’t even have the ability to

go to school question idea number one

you’ve come back to India what are you

going to do about it

how many people do you know how many

people can you talk to to try and make a

difference so I walked into a school and

I started spending time on weekends to

but you know children didn’t come to

school to learn they came to eat because

there was something called midday meal

parents couldn’t put two square meals

for their children this is also the

reality of the country we live in you as

educated people have to start taking

ownership and responsibility so when I

started teaching in these village

schools I was moving from up-2 be hard

to Madhya Pradesh to Karnataka and the

stories were the same farmers would want

their children to go to school because

they had one simple argument 13 years

before they earn well this evening they

can go and read the cattle I’ll see them

I’ll see the prayer of the product

tomorrow so India was opening up to me

in ways that I never imagined it to okay

and the journey essentially and this is

food but I’m going to come to this now

it really allowed me to meet more and

more people I would have spoken to maybe

20 30 40 thousand people over the last

four five years and my agenda has been

very simple how do we make education

accessible how important is it to break

the mold of these centers that promote

home schooling you look at quota today

you take away childhood and you speak to

children and I went to quota and I met

kids and I said do you want to be an

engineer no sir I want to be an MBA I

want to make lots of money where are

these aspirations coming from where are

these ambitions coming from parents and

as a collective effort across schools

such as yours another many others here

we need to start addressing that one

simple thing studying what you love now

where we lack massively in this country

is providing a holistic education to our

children what is a holistic education

why can’t we study physics with

philosophy why can’t you study

psychology with Mac well not math whiz

but as we know I’m not very good at

literature the idea is also for students

from a young age to have community

outreach to work with the

underprivileged to teach them

understand ourselves what privileges so

every school in this country this is

probably my 200th talk where I’ve been

going and telling people send your

children out there try and live one week

in a village try and see if you can make

a difference holistic education will

only lead you to becoming smarter

educated and passionate human beings

somewhere along the way we realized that

success is determined with money it’s

not really it comes down to you leaving

a legacy and you my friends are the

future of India so a holistic education

is what is required so when I moved back

to India I realized there’s a lot of

movement happening within the secondary

and and junior and sort of primary

school education with the midday meal

and things like that so I had the

opportunity to do something incredible I

joined the team to build one of India’s

first liberal arts colleges remember me

at 16 that was shunned away and said you

can’t study humanities you can’t study

social sciences this is me 16 years

later saying we will build the number

one college of liberal arts in this

country where every boy every girl has

the opportunity to study anything that

he or she wants to study you want to do

theater with physics of course we work

towards it you want to do things that

you’ve always loved and thought will I

make a career out of this we’re going to

give you that opportunity it’s very

important to ask yourself one question

and parents often tell me this what is

my first my son’s first salary going to

be now and I tell them I’m not a

soothsayer I’m not an astrologer I can

tell you what your son’s birth class is

going to be at college we often forget

there’s a journey involved before

reaching somewhere we’re so impatient

that we’ve already reached five years

away from where we are without ever

realizing where did those four years ago

so today I want you to do one exercise

when you go home on a piece of paper you

can lie to the world but you can’t lie

to yourself I’ve tried so what I would

want you to do is one is obviously

support Arsenal that’s very important

secondly what I want you to do is on a

piece of paper write the subjects you

love write things you’re passionate

about it could be

food it could be anything related to

things that make you happy happiness is

underrated okay and things you hate math

no um sorry and things you hate crumple

that piece of paper okay

keep it in your wallet when you decide

to study going to college open that

piece of paper and be honest to yourself

very important we live in a start-up

generation you can do incredible things

with your life and if you want India to

win more Olympic medals you have to

start doing things you love you need to

tell your friend who’s a good sportsman

to pursue it oh well we can have more IT

jobs as you can see because you go to

Seattle you go to Washington and you’re

on the tube or naturally like oh they

see off to Microsoft okay we have to

break that mold we have to come upon and

have more leaders as a nation if you ask

yourself again

how many global CEOs we have you are

gonna be surprised in the renewing at

Pepsi probably this boundary at mastica

this attended ale at Microsoft seven or

eight we’re a nation of over a billion

without 27 people and three people have

done with an extra Bosh well done you

know think about it how do you become

the next global leader how do you become

someone giving people jobs and not

seeking jobs education that is the most

important thing education and not

because you have to wake up for a nine

o’clock class sleepily walking in your

pajamas but you are excited enthusiastic

to walk into a class because you love

what you are studying

I’ve had six careers and I’m 32 I’m

writing a book and I teach on food I

teach the history of Delhi through food

and biryani and kebabs and I mean I also

do some vegetarian stuff so if you are

ever interested but it’s important that

I collated two of my most important

passions writing and food I did dream of

becoming an investment banker and

holding a green card I did dream of that

when I was 17 because that’s what

everyone told me but at 25 when I gave

it up I realized that my heart beats for

this country and by the time I’m 50 I’m

going to realize that was the best

decision of my life and I’m going to

leave you with one thought that’s me 26

years ago on this day I was a model

and but not a face model I was working

for bata so clearly have good feet and

this is an important day because today’s

Durga Puja okay and today I’m gonna tell

you whatever this is should you take

whatever you do in life keep the child

within you alive because that child is

not going to judge that child is not

going to get on order of Goswami show

and have a shouting match that child is

going to actively allow you to be the

most reasonable you’ve ever been in your

life you will laugh you will make others

laugh and you will be honest so embrace

that India by being that child you

always were more importantly remember

Bukowski his words find what you love in

this term a subject a stream something

that you can make your life out of and

don’t judge spread the good word right

so thank you very much for listening to

me and build a good India thank you [Applause]

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