m
[Music]
good evening assembled welcome I like
accuracy and say good evening ladies and
gentlemen is a turn pit 6 6 and
I will explain why we are
learn from childhood that has on one side
men and women on the other
this is a very simple vision of the
reality when a baby comes into the world what
are not good fairies who
lean over his pram but a
doctor
and it’s not a sweet he gives to
the child but a sex to do that he
will be based on the external appearance of
genitals a banana and here it is
boys with apricot and it’s a girl
if for many it does not pose any
problem there is for whom it is more
complicated because their genitals and
where biological characteristics does not enter
not in these two boxes where the calls
intersex people when this
intersexuality and so visible from the
birth
in most cases we will be buried
the child we will mutilate to do it
enter one of these two cases is
estimates that in France 2 % of the population
is intersex 2%
it is for example the proportion of
redheaded people
so if we rely on biology and
that we have rigorous ladies and
gentlemen is a wrong twist but
if we add to that things like
endocrinology or genetics she in
is that more aberrant
I pass you the details but there is no
binarity is not just about
biology once the child has been
fixed he will be educated according to
gender stereotypes says boys
he will be made to wear short hair
blue or teach him to play football at
to be strong we will tell him not to cry because
a boy it does not cry declared
girls will be made to wear dresses
pink we teach him to be sweet on
tell him to be kind
not to mention the sexism that represent
these nice and education steeped in
gender stereotypes there for that
it can create a real pain
the situation can be delicate the child
feels a distortion between what he
feels and what he is told he is
but hardly to express this feeling that
he often does not understand
I was a child and we played games
boys chi I was going by default in
the girls’ team because I was told
since my early childhood that I
was one but I did not feel
really my place not totally my
fancy dress games could go from the
cut is at the brawl of the princess to
super mad in adolescence i like to me
describe with words that I know
today problematic tomboy
this expression pose indeed
problem because it implies that a
male girl is not a real
girl that she is only a boy in
less well I know today that my
felt was that of a person
trans not binary but at the time I do not
did not know these terms trans no
binary transidentity it’s the fact
not or not entirely
recognize in the kind that has been
assigned to birth
libya did not laugh it is the fact of not
not or not fully recognize each other
dichotomies men women
in France it is estimated that 9 to 13 % of
population and non- binary round up to
10 it’s already five times more than
wheels that also means that in
this room 40 of you are
may be concerned with non-binarity
we all know these two acronyms
women / men female evil they are
simplistic and violent because he ignores the
reality of the kind which is a spectrum more
that a thing happily defined
many other acronyms have been
invented talent personally I am
2000 boy leno kind no panic I
will explain everything to you 2000 boy
means that I identify myself
partially but not entirely like
boys zeno kind means that I am
more comfortable expressing a part of
my identity with a word normally not
provided for this purpose for me this word his
oceans in the ocean
it moves it evolves there are currents
hot cold that’s how I
feel the variations of my kind on
spectrum
if we take it if we stay in
clichés that kind and includes pink for
the feminine and blue that we masculine
some days I will be bad
other days I go some other white
still i’m going blue train my dawn
felt it will be close to people
say gender fluid which are
people
gender identity vary at the scale
of a week or even to that of a
day that’s how I feel
described at the beginning of my questioning
about the genre but I understood that this
was not it not entirely
and today I know that I am in
trance long binary denis boy zeno kind
so I’m aware that what I’m doing
say I can you seem drawn by the
hair
absurd though it may be what
feel 40 of you this table there
you may sound complicated
impossible to remember
look at this picture some
know all the specimens
presented and this table the painting
periodic elements
we are made to learn by heart in
chemistry in high school and this chart it does not
did not happen all at once
the elements may not have been
necessarily planned from the beginning they did not
not invented they were just
discovered by focusing on the subject in
doing research on them to
gender identities it’s the same thing
look at this flag for you it is
maybe the symbol of the community
lgbt
already we say lgbt cuilhe lesbian gay bi
trans queer asexual intersex to
romantic and again if we want to include
everyone told lgbt Cuilhé smart
that’s why for simplicity
we can use the queer word queer
means no if that name and no hero
of atik yes again complicated words I
will you explain good straight I’ll you
do not do a drawing 6 a person if
he is a person whose feelings
kind corresponds to the one that was
assigned to gasoline so a person who
is not trans a person dic tic
it’s a person who is not
interesting so this multicolored flag
he is actually the symbol of men
homosexuals because there are so many
flags that identity
and or orientation here is a small
family that I really like
you probably recognized the Lama in
word and maybe even the lama be in
revenge all these little congeners you
are probably totally unknown I
will make the presentations
here all red and pink is found
the lama of lesbian women underneath
is the lama of trans people to
side with its flashy colors and
dapper is lama people
pan pan means all those sections
are attracted without the kind of the
nobody’s an influence on his
attraction next you have the llama of
people to sexual also abbreviated
sms will be enough that they are
people who feel little or no
of sexual attraction to others the
sexuality is a spectrum there are some
people to sexual who are not going
wanting to have sex
others for whom it will not matter to them
others finally that they will want
especially because the sex is nice here
you have the flag of people to
romantic also abbreviated art or the
romantic people are
people who feel little or no
romantic attraction for others
on this spectrum we can especially
quote the people what romantic the
romantic people what are
people who do not do little or no
differences between romantic attraction
and other types of attraction that’s what
I am personally very hard
for me to be just friends because I do not
make no difference to sion in my
way of loving in society
the injunction romanticism is very present
and it can be very hard his ace and where
a hero because I am is one of
my most beautiful relationship is a
relationship that can be described as
platonic queer
intimacy of the intimacy of the projects
of intimacy hold hands
kissing doors sleeping together
shower together but no sensation
to be in cup repressed handily here
you have the intersex hand I you in
I spoke earlier
finally the last little lama is the
lama john to resort is one of
many rights non-binary flags and
then you have your hand tweezed but it’s
not the purpose all these works are
visible during the pride or march of
pride too often confused or
likened to gay pride
while as I just showed you
there is a lot more direction than
lesbian gay straight guys for some
it works so no reason at all
to exist because the course community is
accepted no longer has any right
claims
yet there are still some to think
that orientation or gender identity
are choices
worst pop recently implied that
homosexuality was a disease
worse still in some countries there are
conversion therapies where one
sends the people to me 6 and or not
and heroes to heal women
trans can not go into
women’s prisons
that would put the other detainees into
danger of rape yes I found him
this sentence on a known social network
it was not written by the user
lambda
it was written by jk rowling
the author of harry potter
that is to say how transphobia is
widespread assume assume trivial sexing of
babies I talked to you all about
the time and essence of the
transphobia transphobia it’s
especially but I will have a person
trans the mejean rage it’s him say he
while he feels like a woman or imposing a
binary promo to a person who does not
is not we know all the pros not
he is and adjectives feminine
male
yet there are other ways to
contact people yelle
it is no swell are are examples
of binary pronouns in norway he uses
officially the pronoun hate and the
Sweden is about to do the same
thing in France these products are not
in the dictionary and under the pretext
that they are not certain
oppose using them but the
transphobia leads to the dysphoria that is
feeling bad with your body
to not feel accepted and the
missing can go very far
it can lead to self-injury
even suicide
30% of trans people have already tried
to end their days
30% transphobia you m it’s not
necessarily suffer
there is even the extreme opposite of insurance
life that exists which is the euphoria of
kind of golden euphoria is to feel
comfortable feeling accepted and recognized
in its kind and in its identity
to be good with his body the most
great euphoria genre so far it’s
when I got in nets for the
first time my bender which is a
compression garment for
trans men to give a
effect of thor this dish be trans it is
not hard to be trans is not a
fatality in itself which is difficult in
revenge is to live and to
build in a world deeply
transphobic and to finish with this
transphobia I would like to introduce
three remedies
firstly abolish the stereotypes of
kind that are just a reflection of fashion
and period to help you there
I’m going to deconstruct big shots at
feudal Japan
men put on make-up to mask
their face and scare the enemy into
ancient egypt
the pharaohs have used makeup
eyelids to guard against the sun and
affirmed their social rank at the
rebirth the men refused to
cosmetics such as foundation the
eyeshadow the bluff for
match the beauty standards of
the time
look at this beautiful picture in
the es4 he is cute all dressed in pink
in the middle ages the rose was reserved for
men because considered a derivative of the
red and so as a color
warrior makeup does giant rose
feminine second cure stopped two
presuppositions of the kind of a person in
according to his clothes and his
attitude when
saw me arrive on stage you have
certainly presupposed you are
certainly said that I was a woman
yet I told you rather than I
am a trans man my binary finally
last cure support people
trans support us
it’s asking us what agreement and
let’s take slow that we prefer and the
use to support us is to use the
name that we chose even if we
did not take any steps
administrative support us it’s not
not reveal the birth name if
you know them
especially if we try to maintain it
secret support us and listen to us and
respect our choices support us his
his loved ones or comes out
listened to and be honored because it’s a
proof of great confidence coming out
that’s what I’m doing
before you and before all
people who will eventually see this
conference it’s a relatively
important but above all very stressful
vault shaped
together we can change things
together we can eradicate the
transphobia
together we can build a
world where everyone is free to be this
that he is and proud to be
here I am going to stop here I believe that
you had your dose for the terms
techniques
I leave you take care of yourself and
people you like thanks
[Applause]
[Music]
good evening assembled welcome I like
accuracy and say good evening ladies and
gentlemen is a turn pit 6 6 and
I will explain why we are
learn from childhood that has on one side
men and women on the other
this is a very simple vision of the
reality when a baby comes into the world what
are not good fairies who
lean over his pram but a
doctor
and it’s not a sweet he gives to
the child but a sex to do that he
will be based on the external appearance of
genitals a banana and here it is
boys with apricot and it’s a girl
if for many it does not pose any
problem there is for whom it is more
complicated because their genitals and
where biological characteristics does not enter
not in these two boxes where the calls
intersex people when this
intersexuality and so visible from the
birth
in most cases we will be buried
the child we will mutilate to do it
enter one of these two cases is
estimates that in France 2 % of the population
is intersex 2%
it is for example the proportion of
redheaded people
so if we rely on biology and
that we have rigorous ladies and
gentlemen is a wrong twist but
if we add to that things like
endocrinology or genetics she in
is that more aberrant
I pass you the details but there is no
binarity is not just about
biology once the child has been
fixed he will be educated according to
gender stereotypes says boys
he will be made to wear short hair
blue or teach him to play football at
to be strong we will tell him not to cry because
a boy it does not cry declared
girls will be made to wear dresses
pink we teach him to be sweet on
tell him to be kind
not to mention the sexism that represent
these nice and education steeped in
gender stereotypes there for that
it can create a real pain
the situation can be delicate the child
feels a distortion between what he
feels and what he is told he is
but hardly to express this feeling that
he often does not understand
I was a child and we played games
boys chi I was going by default in
the girls’ team because I was told
since my early childhood that I
was one but I did not feel
really my place not totally my
fancy dress games could go from the
cut is at the brawl of the princess to
super mad in adolescence i like to me
describe with words that I know
today problematic tomboy
this expression pose indeed
problem because it implies that a
male girl is not a real
girl that she is only a boy in
less well I know today that my
felt was that of a person
trans not binary but at the time I do not
did not know these terms trans no
binary transidentity it’s the fact
not or not entirely
recognize in the kind that has been
assigned to birth
libya did not laugh it is the fact of not
not or not fully recognize each other
dichotomies men women
in France it is estimated that 9 to 13 % of
population and non- binary round up to
10 it’s already five times more than
wheels that also means that in
this room 40 of you are
may be concerned with non-binarity
we all know these two acronyms
women / men female evil they are
simplistic and violent because he ignores the
reality of the kind which is a spectrum more
that a thing happily defined
many other acronyms have been
invented talent personally I am
2000 boy leno kind no panic I
will explain everything to you 2000 boy
means that I identify myself
partially but not entirely like
boys zeno kind means that I am
more comfortable expressing a part of
my identity with a word normally not
provided for this purpose for me this word his
oceans in the ocean
it moves it evolves there are currents
hot cold that’s how I
feel the variations of my kind on
spectrum
if we take it if we stay in
clichés that kind and includes pink for
the feminine and blue that we masculine
some days I will be bad
other days I go some other white
still i’m going blue train my dawn
felt it will be close to people
say gender fluid which are
people
gender identity vary at the scale
of a week or even to that of a
day that’s how I feel
described at the beginning of my questioning
about the genre but I understood that this
was not it not entirely
and today I know that I am in
trance long binary denis boy zeno kind
so I’m aware that what I’m doing
say I can you seem drawn by the
hair
absurd though it may be what
feel 40 of you this table there
you may sound complicated
impossible to remember
look at this picture some
know all the specimens
presented and this table the painting
periodic elements
we are made to learn by heart in
chemistry in high school and this chart it does not
did not happen all at once
the elements may not have been
necessarily planned from the beginning they did not
not invented they were just
discovered by focusing on the subject in
doing research on them to
gender identities it’s the same thing
look at this flag for you it is
maybe the symbol of the community
lgbt
already we say lgbt cuilhe lesbian gay bi
trans queer asexual intersex to
romantic and again if we want to include
everyone told lgbt Cuilhé smart
that’s why for simplicity
we can use the queer word queer
means no if that name and no hero
of atik yes again complicated words I
will you explain good straight I’ll you
do not do a drawing 6 a person if
he is a person whose feelings
kind corresponds to the one that was
assigned to gasoline so a person who
is not trans a person dic tic
it’s a person who is not
interesting so this multicolored flag
he is actually the symbol of men
homosexuals because there are so many
flags that identity
and or orientation here is a small
family that I really like
you probably recognized the Lama in
word and maybe even the lama be in
revenge all these little congeners you
are probably totally unknown I
will make the presentations
here all red and pink is found
the lama of lesbian women underneath
is the lama of trans people to
side with its flashy colors and
dapper is lama people
pan pan means all those sections
are attracted without the kind of the
nobody’s an influence on his
attraction next you have the llama of
people to sexual also abbreviated
sms will be enough that they are
people who feel little or no
of sexual attraction to others the
sexuality is a spectrum there are some
people to sexual who are not going
wanting to have sex
others for whom it will not matter to them
others finally that they will want
especially because the sex is nice here
you have the flag of people to
romantic also abbreviated art or the
romantic people are
people who feel little or no
romantic attraction for others
on this spectrum we can especially
quote the people what romantic the
romantic people what are
people who do not do little or no
differences between romantic attraction
and other types of attraction that’s what
I am personally very hard
for me to be just friends because I do not
make no difference to sion in my
way of loving in society
the injunction romanticism is very present
and it can be very hard his ace and where
a hero because I am is one of
my most beautiful relationship is a
relationship that can be described as
platonic queer
intimacy of the intimacy of the projects
of intimacy hold hands
kissing doors sleeping together
shower together but no sensation
to be in cup repressed handily here
you have the intersex hand I you in
I spoke earlier
finally the last little lama is the
lama john to resort is one of
many rights non-binary flags and
then you have your hand tweezed but it’s
not the purpose all these works are
visible during the pride or march of
pride too often confused or
likened to gay pride
while as I just showed you
there is a lot more direction than
lesbian gay straight guys for some
it works so no reason at all
to exist because the course community is
accepted no longer has any right
claims
yet there are still some to think
that orientation or gender identity
are choices
worst pop recently implied that
homosexuality was a disease
worse still in some countries there are
conversion therapies where one
sends the people to me 6 and or not
and heroes to heal women
trans can not go into
women’s prisons
that would put the other detainees into
danger of rape yes I found him
this sentence on a known social network
it was not written by the user
lambda
it was written by jk rowling
the author of harry potter
that is to say how transphobia is
widespread assume assume trivial sexing of
babies I talked to you all about
the time and essence of the
transphobia transphobia it’s
especially but I will have a person
trans the mejean rage it’s him say he
while he feels like a woman or imposing a
binary promo to a person who does not
is not we know all the pros not
he is and adjectives feminine
male
yet there are other ways to
contact people yelle
it is no swell are are examples
of binary pronouns in norway he uses
officially the pronoun hate and the
Sweden is about to do the same
thing in France these products are not
in the dictionary and under the pretext
that they are not certain
oppose using them but the
transphobia leads to the dysphoria that is
feeling bad with your body
to not feel accepted and the
missing can go very far
it can lead to self-injury
even suicide
30% of trans people have already tried
to end their days
30% transphobia you m it’s not
necessarily suffer
there is even the extreme opposite of insurance
life that exists which is the euphoria of
kind of golden euphoria is to feel
comfortable feeling accepted and recognized
in its kind and in its identity
to be good with his body the most
great euphoria genre so far it’s
when I got in nets for the
first time my bender which is a
compression garment for
trans men to give a
effect of thor this dish be trans it is
not hard to be trans is not a
fatality in itself which is difficult in
revenge is to live and to
build in a world deeply
transphobic and to finish with this
transphobia I would like to introduce
three remedies
firstly abolish the stereotypes of
kind that are just a reflection of fashion
and period to help you there
I’m going to deconstruct big shots at
feudal Japan
men put on make-up to mask
their face and scare the enemy into
ancient egypt
the pharaohs have used makeup
eyelids to guard against the sun and
affirmed their social rank at the
rebirth the men refused to
cosmetics such as foundation the
eyeshadow the bluff for
match the beauty standards of
the time
look at this beautiful picture in
the es4 he is cute all dressed in pink
in the middle ages the rose was reserved for
men because considered a derivative of the
red and so as a color
warrior makeup does giant rose
feminine second cure stopped two
presuppositions of the kind of a person in
according to his clothes and his
attitude when
saw me arrive on stage you have
certainly presupposed you are
certainly said that I was a woman
yet I told you rather than I
am a trans man my binary finally
last cure support people
trans support us
it’s asking us what agreement and
let’s take slow that we prefer and the
use to support us is to use the
name that we chose even if we
did not take any steps
administrative support us it’s not
not reveal the birth name if
you know them
especially if we try to maintain it
secret support us and listen to us and
respect our choices support us his
his loved ones or comes out
listened to and be honored because it’s a
proof of great confidence coming out
that’s what I’m doing
before you and before all
people who will eventually see this
conference it’s a relatively
important but above all very stressful
vault shaped
together we can change things
together we can eradicate the
transphobia
together we can build a
world where everyone is free to be this
that he is and proud to be
here I am going to stop here I believe that
you had your dose for the terms
techniques
I leave you take care of yourself and
people you like thanks
[Applause]
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