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Una emoción hermosa llamada empatía | Verónica Rojas Saavedra | TEDxSaintGregory’sCollege


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recently my best friend started to
mourn for a family program when
He told me what had happened and I saw his
Measurement sadness can help with it
but I did it because I thought that those
Other tears would help us too much
shortly after that sadness that
I slept and I released her in a mass.
peruan shelf
When the event ends, my mom
He came to ask me why I was crying
when I told her what had happened
he told me and he’s feeling an emotion
wonderful call empathy many
people are surprised with a girl from
13 years talks about this topic because
they think it ‘s a very difficult topic all
the truth to me I always liked the
difficult topics
for those who do not make empathy
empathy is seeing with the other’s eyes
feel with the heart itself
after the other
have you ever wondered what a
world full of empathic people
there would be no wars there would be less
competition less bullying would have more
communication and solidarity more
companionship less conflicts
the truth
showing empathy to someone leaves us
open their hearts and stop being what
more empathic
all this starts with a small gesture
a small gesture that would let us do
an empathy chain that would transform
our whole society
I know why it closed a
small gesture we can transform something
so ruined
but
and now I’m going to give you five examples of
small gestures that some of us make
every day and we realize that
are so important and those that do not
we would be good to start making them
first greet greet greet
someone lets us do
give it to someone we make it more
when we sweat someone we do it more
happy and that person will feel that he is
part of our life says to feel
important second eye contact for
me is the most important thing because when
you drink in the eyes of the other person
see what he’s really feeling if
that smile hides something or if that person
she is nervous like me
third ask how are you this alone to
take about five minutes
worrying about the fourth neighbor
be attentive and be attentive is to observe
and know the other that the other can
feeling neglected by someone
fifth give him a hand please do not
digitally
finally although it seems little help is
very important no matter what the problem
that is with the move or with what
economic that person is inspired
for that act and baha wants to help
others already you also then that
it would also form a kind of chain
of empathy as I said earlier
now
I’ll tell you something that I really
happened to me when they name me empathy me
it sounds like something I relied on that interest me
more and one day the truth that I started to
investigate and against something called
emotional intelligence
come out of that thinking and intelligence was
know a mathematical calculation or about
story but there is not something more important
called emotional intelligence that we
humanize
how the school teaches us
mathematics history geography us
I would have to teach about empathy myself
I think so because that knowledge
they are in the books but empathy not the
empathy is learned from your environment and that
better than learning with your teachers and
with your friends
now as a closing I propose a task
or an exercise which forbid
do now look at the person who
has next to look him in the eyes
wondering is it is hiding
something if so visit help
now I invite you
by practicing this exercise in your life
everyday
because in short it is as easy as breathing
and smile thank you
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