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Un salto a la confianza | Martín Ciapponi | TEDxJoven@CNBA


[Music]
the first day of classes
change school and well
very enthusiastic about being someone new
someone else have recognized the
famous the first that matter that
we have is music be teacher that
half guys the music teacher
welcome to dallas school but that
they are having a good time in a moment
guys like the first day I want that
let’s break the ice I want someone
he sang happy birthday
we were then professor
repeat who wants to win it obviously
spectral silence
nobody answered guys are going to do
choosing my son are not effectively
he chose as well as a weight or cut
the school singing the happy birthday
with thirty compañeras talked to my
30 years that I would have for five or
six years
my illusion of being someone is
destroyed nobody because I tell you this
to show them how the guy to
show them how I cry when I started
the school and my adolescence was shy
quiet and introverted about everything
important is that the eyes of the
others start a lot always weighs a lot
but what happens what am I going to tell you
here what happened between is asked not to
I could say a word to anyone
even this kid who now costs what
cost
he goes up on stage to tell them a
history a process a process in which
I gained confidence in myself I’m going to
talk about that self confidence
well I liked to sing the first
day
I like first and second year but a
done a moment of my life
a decision that changed it
Completely celebrating the second year
start to croatia
I started floor acrobatics classes by
pure interest of assholes assaulted everything
time in bed or old people broke it
a thousand times but it paid off
because when first class party does not
explain what I felt I no longer felt
I was happy I had fun is
happy and it was amazing really
they think it’s a place where everyone already
where everything is unusual where they are
outside of people does not walk with the
feet
walk with my hands on my head
He flew his head off but more
incredible was what I felt at the end of
the class I noticed a
awesome interesting during
an hour and a half of jumping has taken me
that weight over
He has taken my eyes from others and
I felt Bolivian and I had fun
that ‘s where I mean what the
passion the passion that place is a
tool that we are shown
we point from a lot of point of view
more internal more genuine more real
they show us how really
we are and he also teaches us how to
we should live the life I liked
so much so much that it will continue
applying and taking off the stunts and
they continue teaching and to this day
I’m a teacher or at least I’m
starting to do it but if they are not
far
let’s go back to the school where
I sang and if you want we go back to third
year where there was not even a slap
because in the end I take some
Matters to March
I came to matters to March but that
He also taught me something else because in
the summer said they came and they told me that
yes at school
very safe yes yes a week
they came back they imagine sure although without
school safe if I’m sure to
understand what motivation means
the motivation is to ask yourself why
is why
At that time my motivation was my
friends and I needed not only wanted
I needed to be with them motivation
union because they look for it because it is
I understood that you have to be aware
searched the grounds
search on this trust must
look for everything to look for the reasons
because I do this because the other because
I say this because I think so because
answer so you have to look for them does not give
security for the long reason of being and of
act like that by asking me why
everything began to emerge my personality
began to emerge toad and as is logical
I did not like everyone and
everyone did not like me
had some problems with some
people and understood and what does the
word context for me context
It means that I have beside the
people around me
now for example you are my
context
imagine electricity light
sound travel better by some
drivers who have better ones with others
and worst drivers with us happens
something like that
There are good and bad contexts there
people who encourage us with the
which we connect that do not want us
they take care of people who do not
they stagnate that show us that they will not be
with which we connect and I ‘m not
talking about good or bad people is
it’s about people who at that time
there are not the right people and if
is necessary it must generate them alighted
but I also realized that as
we are people we are human we are
we used to do from the beginning
of the times to change our environment
then why can not we change
other contexts we may need to
keep growing to follow
developing ourselves look at the
negative towards positive
whatever the cost acrobatics taught
another important thing taught me a
way of seeing life a beautiful way
to see life
to see it as a process as if to say
steps to make it more current
we understand that you have to live some
simpler and simpler things to
live the most risky and intense
even sometimes we have to go back
to fall, try to get up again
but this kick can help us
also to be reborn after he taught me
that the process is about the present
we do not have to stop pulling or
last
nor for the future do we need
keep us plan because really
the present means enjoying as
says Jorge Drexler love the plot more
that the outcome
last of these points the trust
I want to talk about what’s inside
our divide our life and
also the thematic scenario does not
we have two zones the comfort zone that
has to do with the known where the
inertia of habit brought us with what
comfortable and another area that are the same
with the known the dark and what is not
we want to see the fears
let’s imagine now we’re also
acrobats that is a class for whom
they are acrobats and sanz now that I
I want to lose the vertical what a
beginner learns at the beginning of the
classes the techniques the transfers the
postures and more or less what is
taking out in the first class is something
similar to this if that is perfect
Now imagine that your dream is to be
acrobats already spend three months and continue
here I see that I ask him what happens
carlitos swiss re same answer
logical moments I’m afraid afraid that to
pass me
see now as the context that
it would be the class that would be the teacher
It encourages the moon to raise its vi I will
takes care
then there is the student says well and goes up
but there comes a time where to go up
He says okay but I could care
get to do it only to her the moment
fatal of the apocalypse where it comes from and
it happens what happens and now it takes it as
a challenge to start there are countless
answers because I tell you this is a
excellent metaphor of what happens to us
us day to day in life
how many times do we keep in a
place even though we do not want to be four
Sometimes we remain with someone
always be used to being with
that someone fears
many people do not have overvalued
because it ‘s true fears protect
but they also hold back our fears are
wise
we need to hear the facts like this
as recognizing our area of
and comfort listening fears
we are coming to a kind of
balance to finally achieve what
that the acrobat what you who
they had managed from the beginning
vertical ng
[Applause]
last part of the talk my confession
when I started this talk about
months
I wanted to talk to you only trust
how anne trust makes me very little
a little
I actually had to talk me change
realized that he is not winning just
confidence was winning love I was
giving self-love thing that never again
I had done and I can never believe it
I realized
He has never given me love and now I am
doing all these years what am I
doing
let’s distinguish love from or there’s a song
of grandpa’s pills expresses well
pride viewed from above and not
only to others
instead self – esteem is transmitted and
it spreads any good person and with
reason but each person needs a
love fee
We need to give love to give us love because
if not that if we do not give ourselves love
where it comes out we’re going to expect that
someone come and want us nothing
We are willing to develop ourselves
to grow
we want to talk to each other, do not criticize us
Let’s take time to think about ourselves, I learned
I learned that mature but I learned it
You can fly but first you have to
account that we have to thank
[Applause]
[Music]
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