Namaskar and what happened to all of you
a magical cord that connects to the
mother to the child from the womb of the
child to the pleasant of the womb before
mother was a very beautiful journey for
a child to grow for nine months and then
you see that as something happens that
of the cut-set I use it word has pruned
said to grow independently imagine if
this cord is not cut what could happen
you mentioned we know the result either
the mother will suffer the child will
suffer or both will suffer but there are
various virtual cords which we are
connected often we don’t prune there we
don’t realize they exist so his
existence of this course is bad I would
not say no I would not say yes to it but
we need to learn to prune them at the
right time so let me bring you few
stories so realizing that virtual course
need we prune at the right time and how
are you going to do this so let me begin
you the story I would say core number
zero because we all are sitting in this
room with lot of two important things
one is a great experience and exposure
and often we don’t prune them when you
come out of the home so some of you was
taking the same locality let’s say for
last 10 years 15 years or 20 years of
your life or maybe 30 plus years of your
life that you know everything in in and
out on your place I’m sure all of you
would agree with me so there was a man
who was living in our locality which is
close to the highway for last 30 years
he is going for a yuning walk I start
going for yuning walk he sees a little
boy standing on the highway he wonders
what his voice doing here on the highway
because there’s nothing to do on the
highway so he walks up to the little boy
and asked hey little boy what are you
doing here the boy looks up to the man
and says uncle I’m waiting for a bus to
come here the man says there is no bus
stop here the bus didn’t stop here
can you see a bust of there goes fan
mail bus comes then the boy again
blatantly says no uncle the bus will
come here the man thinks maybe the child
is playing let him do what he wants to
do so the man start walking ahead but
you know the experience and exposure is
such a bad fat thing that you don’t want
to get rejected so easily so the man
turns back and see the boss is standing
the same point so
man walks back to the depot again and
says don’t you understand I leave in the
same locality for last 30 years there’s
no bus stop here the bus stops fail
can’t you understand this much the boy
he looks up to a man and says uncle I
told you the bus will come here and he
puts his foot down like this the man
thinks for the last 30 years buses never
start for me how could the bus stop for
a boy and how can this be possible even
if you show hand bus doesn’t stop here
so man things let me see how this can
happen today so the man is trying next
to the little boy who is next to him
after movement a bus comes exactly stops
there the man is surprised because even
the little boy doesn’t show hand he
thinks it never happened to a man who
lives in same here for 30 years how can
this happen and William a democratic
country this is unfair he’s fat thing in
his mind the boy quickly gets into the
bus takes the window set puts his head
out and says uncle I forgot to tell you
the driver of the bus is my father that
is why they were stopped here so let us
cut that first chord of us I would say
core number zero before we listen to
various talks today and let us move to
the cordon bo1 the quorum of one talks
about husband wife and the gifted she’ll
when I say gifted she I am against dowry
so I wanted to use a word gift so I did
not know what to do it in a place like
Alpha Pradesh you need to take gifts
otherwise they’ll doubt on your gender
or the daughter or something or anything
else about you so people have been
defamed the first car the husband wife
I’ve got the first car in their life I’m
sure most of you got your first bike or
car it is very dear and near to you
right you not allow anybody touch it no
scratch to be done and various other
things and what did when he got he first
waken we go for a long drive mostly yes
so the husband wife decided to go for
long drive with the first car of them on
the day of the wedding I think of a long
drive after some time in the Union they
start discussing about what they could
do using this first car in their life
because both of them had never had a car
in their life so they come back in the
Union they parked the car and the
husband looks in the car he gets very
attached for him it is a very dear one
and in the morning a wife decide let me
clean the car so that my husband can
take the car to the office and show to
Kali that my husband has a car and
typically the first few days we all
clean our vehicle very nice after that
probably will never taste them at all so
the wife goes to the bucket and mob to
clean the car has she walks towards the
ground and she sees something very
surprisingly and she calls her husband
come over here husband thinks one day
marriage and she already started
screaming and shouting at me what kind
of wife she is but she now he has to
oblige because one day of marriage so
comes running from bedroom and asked
what happened the wife says can you see
there he says I’m normal to see anything
what to see there she says see there he
says nothing is good to see what to see
the wife said the husband the wife says
to the husband that exactly same our car
has been missing anything has been
stolen by somebody the husband start
thinking one day marriage one day card
and I’ve already lost it what to do the
husband goes and sits inside on the
chair like this in the room the wife
comes in a bucket and mob lives on the
floor and she husband dull face she also
husband what happened the husband who’s
sitting on the chair looks up to the
wife and says what I’m going to answer
all my colleague that everybody’s going
to see my car in the first day and what
I’m going to tell your father who is my
father-in-law today that if you cannot
maintain car for one day how are you
going to maintain of my daughter for
rest of your life so everybody want to
mock at me the wife looks at him and she
goes behind him and puts a hand and says
what has to be done has to be done what
cannot be done cannot be done the
husband looks up to the face of whom his
wife and asked what to do the wife says
sitting here the car will not fall from
the heaven we need to go to police
station and file a complaint and see
what to do so they go to police station
and file a complaint but in Indian
context you know that even police cannot
require their own vehicle so he’s very
difficult to get a citizen car stolen
but a miracle happens after two three
months a car has been recovered so the
they get a call from police station sort
of car has recovered
please come and collect it back but no
people give you car in the same
condition saying like two months I took
it let me give you back in same
condition I don’t think any thieves will
do this so they go to police station and
husband sees a car in a very in order
promising condition he’s painting the
way the car has been recovered but you
see we haven’t take it
your car no the wife says don’t worry
let go and even Gary’s and see what can
happen so the go they go and even a
garish off or repaired and after one way
the call comes and says sir come and
pick your car car is in good condition
the wife says you are so attached to a
car you better go to the office I’ll go
pick from the garage shop the wife goes
to the garage shop she picks the car and
she sees a car in good condition now she
start driving and thinking last few
months what we couldn’t do it let’s
think what we can do it and she’s proud
riving and they start raining and you so
he becomes very romantic she put some
music and she start listening in the
world songs and she start driving and
her she’s going and join with her she’s
not a real judge someplace and she loses
the hand and she goes and – the world
now what then forms to the car now she
started wondering what I’m going to
answer my husband who trusted me and
send me to pick that car in even-even
husband comes back from the office he
sees a car in a very bad condition but
small dent has formed he doesn’t know
what has happened so he goes inside the
home he sees a why sitting on the same
chair you are sitting some months ago so
he asked his wife what happened the wife
says you know what I was went to collect
the car and something like this happened
I hit the wall at dent form then I don’t
know how to face his little afraid what
to tell you now that it is a husband
turn oh the husband was behind that puts
the hand from the behind and says what
has to be done has to be done and what
can what we done cannot be done
the wife looks up and asked what to do
no let’s poke you back together shop
again let’s see what happens in length –
like continue so this tells a story that
I learned it a very hard way that this
whole story I wrote because based on
incident which I came across I was
helping a recruitment process at IIC
Bangalore and I had got invited one of
the company for recruitment so I was
having a lunch with somebody and a
person came and said can I take a seat
next to you I looked at the man and said
yes sir please take a seat so my friend
who was having lunch with me he told me
he is the CEO of the company so I was
little surprised taking like somebody
like CEO for me sitting and having lunch
with you then I told him sir I had a
story about you is it true he asked me I
have a lot of stories about me and
please keep talking about me what is the
story you tell me said about a father
funeral so he asked me what is that
stories aboard I
I heard that when your father died you
were working while traveling he what
ended funeral he started working and he
came back in less than two days
what kind of any human relationship you
had at the father I asked so he looked
at me and he said see if I don’t work my
employees will not work if my employees
don’t work customers who get affected
the customer gets too affected the
stakeholders get affected see you big
change of people are getting affected
then I told him if my father dies I will
probably be crying and probably knew be
saddened for many many days I do not
talk to anybody around I cannot believe
this you can work like this when
somebody dies in your family then he was
munching his food and then he said I
know but it’s very cool for you to
understand you’ll understand as you grow
so before he got up he said in these two
lines what has to be done has to be done
and what cannot attend cannot be done so
let us keep this part number one as we
move on to the core number two can you
see that money at honey so honey could
be he or she in them let us not have
worry about gender No so we know that
money can make only more money nothing
else so let me tell you the core number
two was story around this there’s a
conference happening where people are
talking about how to make more money I
am sure all of us loved to go to such
conferences so when you see such
conference typically people who are rich
who could invest in somewhere else and
they talking at discussing about it so
there’s a man who sitting in a
conference in between the talk he is I
fall into a lady and who is very
attractive that is why I see you for
somebody else and wise words also so he
walks up to the lady during the break
time and says why don’t you marry me I’m
a rich man the woman asked him back what
is that very proposition you have that I
should marry you what is in you that I
should marry you he says in few weeks
time my father’s going to die and I’m
gonna get all property in my name she
smiles and says looks good and then he
exchanged the card and she collects it
and he thinks maybe she’s go to agree
very soon has few days passes he’ll be
waiting that she will call or she’ll
come to the home and say yes to him
after few days he listens to a doorbell
and he wonders maybe she is the one who
has come here and she has come to agree
to me so he runs from the room thinking
she’s the one let you go open and let me
see that
yes thing on her face and let me see
that first person
so he rushes outside he opens a door
then these two he’s he sees to his
surprise that the same woman has come
married to his father and become a
stepmother inside know so we need to
learn to cut something about a car to
caught 3 I’m sure all of you connected
this especially if you are an
engineering college this is very
important who are P officer who is oil
you know who is a P officer here the
placement officer so when I was doing my
engineering I used to tell my personal
officer you are responsible for my job
and you should do this because you have
placement officer he’s looked at me and
they say you don’t attend classes you
don’t attend training you don’t do
anything actually want a placement I
said still sir it is your responsibility
right so you should get ready annoyed at
me and says I go out of how if
additional don’t know if your sponsor
should do it but several later years
when I become president of yourself I
understood a very interesting thing was
we often define our success rate by
keeping a gun on another shoulder which
is not true and which cannot happen I
learned in a very hard way to cut a cord
in my life or prune them in right time
let’s go to court number four this is my
what form a person’s personal experience
we used to go to Mumbai every invocation
in the month of October and April may
wish to have holidays in the earlier
time i am i mom you should take me to
meet one person and this was at shuttle
station we should go for one place to
xalapa session from solar poor we used
to go to Mumbai so in this we had about
1/2 hours of waiting time to have a
connecting train so what happened was my
mom would pull me my brother and my
father at times and introduce a man and
the pleasant we talked with like how is
your family the man has the same
questions to us he will tell come to our
home and mom will tell come to a home
quite near passed by and then I never
saw we going to his home neither he came
to our home we never know who is this
man is a mysterious man in my life so
one day when we are talking to this man
after the talk is over I asked my dad
dad who is this man every time we meet
and we talk and he says uncle never
comes to home neither we go to whom what
is this I said who’s this man so my
father looked at me and smile and said
he is your mother’s first marriage
proposal guy I said what he rejected or
she rejected how can you be in touch
with the
like this and my father looked at me
again back and said what is what isn’t
wrong being in touch with the good
people in the world I did not agree to
him for a while I took many years to I
agree what is time to say because I
would have felt if somebody rejects you
or you reject somebody else it cannot be
in touch with a person and it was very
hard where to for me to learn that you
can be touched so that day I realized
that some stations or some things in
your life never depart and the quad will
always remain with us and there’s going
to be part of her life let’s go to the
core number five face lift I was waiting
I went to my dad and I said dad I have
decided what I want to be so my dad
looked at me and said yes what is that
because he’s a doctor
he expect you to be doctor typically if
he is engineer he expected to be
engineer or anything so I said dad I
want to do a hotel management course I
am to be a waiter
nobody wants to be so I’m disappointed
so my father looked at me and mocked at
me saying that how does a waiter take in
the hotel and he started mocking at me
so he said okay I am a waiter and if we
do this then I told Dad what is wrong in
being a waiter I said he said I’m a
doctor you should become a doctor so I
said no no I want to be a waiter I say
so you see this kind of argument
happened but I have realized what played
off years I coined this term called as
face lift I think perhaps we have
learned to probably lift everyone’s face
so that they learn to do what they do
and they grow otherwise there is a chord
which probably not help them to grow and
I’m sure we all have heard the name and
stream and we are war with the research
work is done a contribution is done to
the society so let me tell you a story
about him so the moment Einstein won a
Nobel Prize he was given an attention
which otherwise wouldn’t have got it
because there are many more scientist
who did not get a Nobel Prize
so the moment he got a Nobel Prize every
other University started inviting for a
talk and everybody that was a driver
would take him to various a new city and
every day the the driver job is to take
the the bag of the Einstein keep on the
floor and then the ice will come on the
stage the driver go and stand at the
entrance of the auditorium and the
instrument talk and people will clap and
cheer and make
noise because he’s a successful man so
drivers start thinking what is it so
great about Einstein that he’s been
recognized as being loved by so many
people how can this happen so one day
while driving back home
the driver takes little courage and says
master I want to know what is that in
you that people like you in so much and
people cheer at you the münster
understands the driver does not know
anything
he’s a very innocent man so he says I
did let me work that people give me a
Nobel Prize and this is why people are
like so mad about me so the driver let
me make curry again says master if I
also make a talk like you will you also
give me a Nobel Prize then this man
things like I cannot disappoint my
driver this is so close to me he thinks
for a while and it says okay do one
thing tomorrow you be Einstein and let
me be the driver let’s see what happens
because you have seen this presentation
quite a few times and driver is
confident were to what we delivered so
they start moving to the next unit in
the next day and so the incident becomes
a driver and rather become sense train
and in those days are no photograph’ to
know who’s Einstein you go with
invitation card they know you or the in
strain they would take you inside and
talk so while driving the who’s a driver
know us are you sure and confident way
travel deliver the talk he says yes
master have been seeing your
presentation for last 15 times I know
each one of you don’t worry he says I’m
confident about it
he says well I’m good let me see what
happens so he comes and keeps her he’s
back here and the driver goes Einstein
comes on stage and he goes and takes his
place this time and everybody start
cheering and clapping the moment he
comes onstage
the driver feels I am gonna get a Nobel
Prize today because everybody also like
me like the way they like master so
after some time the presentation starts
and he make the same expression away the
oxygen dead the way he pause for a while
he also did the same and everybody was
surprised to see that he’s done saying
your remarkable work
and Einstein was very surprised and
start thinking in mine I was very happy
about what thank God somebody could
replace me and I can do my research
worker and let this driver go every
other place and make a presentation but
at all gets over and after that one lady
from the autumn gets up and says I’m
straining I have a doubt the driver
doesn’t understand physics and
mathematics he doesn’t know what to talk
we only knew how to replicate things
what he knew but you need to still
answer the question if you ever run away
no because you’re answering on the stage
so he goes back in
for a while and he puts his hand and
says yes lady what is your question so
the lady says if I assume this would be
inert I make a hole on one side I make
whole another side I pass a ball how
would the ball travel he doesn’t know he
start scratching his head for a while in
things for a while but presence of mind
is very important he he thinks for a
while and then he looks at the lady and
says lady we’re asking such a simple
question to a Nobel Prize winner even my
driver can answer you wait for a while
there come here and answer here so the
driver comes rushing and to save his his
person and says and it is a fixation
surely it was not true
so what I’m trying to make a point is
there are pods we should know to manage
and work around with them and make
things happen for us because what I’m
trying to say or drive to all of you is
this let us learn to attachment attach
cords so that we grow we allow others to
grow and make a life better otherwise
probably we are shunting ourselves what
we could have been otherwise thanks very
much [Applause]
a magical cord that connects to the
mother to the child from the womb of the
child to the pleasant of the womb before
mother was a very beautiful journey for
a child to grow for nine months and then
you see that as something happens that
of the cut-set I use it word has pruned
said to grow independently imagine if
this cord is not cut what could happen
you mentioned we know the result either
the mother will suffer the child will
suffer or both will suffer but there are
various virtual cords which we are
connected often we don’t prune there we
don’t realize they exist so his
existence of this course is bad I would
not say no I would not say yes to it but
we need to learn to prune them at the
right time so let me bring you few
stories so realizing that virtual course
need we prune at the right time and how
are you going to do this so let me begin
you the story I would say core number
zero because we all are sitting in this
room with lot of two important things
one is a great experience and exposure
and often we don’t prune them when you
come out of the home so some of you was
taking the same locality let’s say for
last 10 years 15 years or 20 years of
your life or maybe 30 plus years of your
life that you know everything in in and
out on your place I’m sure all of you
would agree with me so there was a man
who was living in our locality which is
close to the highway for last 30 years
he is going for a yuning walk I start
going for yuning walk he sees a little
boy standing on the highway he wonders
what his voice doing here on the highway
because there’s nothing to do on the
highway so he walks up to the little boy
and asked hey little boy what are you
doing here the boy looks up to the man
and says uncle I’m waiting for a bus to
come here the man says there is no bus
stop here the bus didn’t stop here
can you see a bust of there goes fan
mail bus comes then the boy again
blatantly says no uncle the bus will
come here the man thinks maybe the child
is playing let him do what he wants to
do so the man start walking ahead but
you know the experience and exposure is
such a bad fat thing that you don’t want
to get rejected so easily so the man
turns back and see the boss is standing
the same point so
man walks back to the depot again and
says don’t you understand I leave in the
same locality for last 30 years there’s
no bus stop here the bus stops fail
can’t you understand this much the boy
he looks up to a man and says uncle I
told you the bus will come here and he
puts his foot down like this the man
thinks for the last 30 years buses never
start for me how could the bus stop for
a boy and how can this be possible even
if you show hand bus doesn’t stop here
so man things let me see how this can
happen today so the man is trying next
to the little boy who is next to him
after movement a bus comes exactly stops
there the man is surprised because even
the little boy doesn’t show hand he
thinks it never happened to a man who
lives in same here for 30 years how can
this happen and William a democratic
country this is unfair he’s fat thing in
his mind the boy quickly gets into the
bus takes the window set puts his head
out and says uncle I forgot to tell you
the driver of the bus is my father that
is why they were stopped here so let us
cut that first chord of us I would say
core number zero before we listen to
various talks today and let us move to
the cordon bo1 the quorum of one talks
about husband wife and the gifted she’ll
when I say gifted she I am against dowry
so I wanted to use a word gift so I did
not know what to do it in a place like
Alpha Pradesh you need to take gifts
otherwise they’ll doubt on your gender
or the daughter or something or anything
else about you so people have been
defamed the first car the husband wife
I’ve got the first car in their life I’m
sure most of you got your first bike or
car it is very dear and near to you
right you not allow anybody touch it no
scratch to be done and various other
things and what did when he got he first
waken we go for a long drive mostly yes
so the husband wife decided to go for
long drive with the first car of them on
the day of the wedding I think of a long
drive after some time in the Union they
start discussing about what they could
do using this first car in their life
because both of them had never had a car
in their life so they come back in the
Union they parked the car and the
husband looks in the car he gets very
attached for him it is a very dear one
and in the morning a wife decide let me
clean the car so that my husband can
take the car to the office and show to
Kali that my husband has a car and
typically the first few days we all
clean our vehicle very nice after that
probably will never taste them at all so
the wife goes to the bucket and mob to
clean the car has she walks towards the
ground and she sees something very
surprisingly and she calls her husband
come over here husband thinks one day
marriage and she already started
screaming and shouting at me what kind
of wife she is but she now he has to
oblige because one day of marriage so
comes running from bedroom and asked
what happened the wife says can you see
there he says I’m normal to see anything
what to see there she says see there he
says nothing is good to see what to see
the wife said the husband the wife says
to the husband that exactly same our car
has been missing anything has been
stolen by somebody the husband start
thinking one day marriage one day card
and I’ve already lost it what to do the
husband goes and sits inside on the
chair like this in the room the wife
comes in a bucket and mob lives on the
floor and she husband dull face she also
husband what happened the husband who’s
sitting on the chair looks up to the
wife and says what I’m going to answer
all my colleague that everybody’s going
to see my car in the first day and what
I’m going to tell your father who is my
father-in-law today that if you cannot
maintain car for one day how are you
going to maintain of my daughter for
rest of your life so everybody want to
mock at me the wife looks at him and she
goes behind him and puts a hand and says
what has to be done has to be done what
cannot be done cannot be done the
husband looks up to the face of whom his
wife and asked what to do the wife says
sitting here the car will not fall from
the heaven we need to go to police
station and file a complaint and see
what to do so they go to police station
and file a complaint but in Indian
context you know that even police cannot
require their own vehicle so he’s very
difficult to get a citizen car stolen
but a miracle happens after two three
months a car has been recovered so the
they get a call from police station sort
of car has recovered
please come and collect it back but no
people give you car in the same
condition saying like two months I took
it let me give you back in same
condition I don’t think any thieves will
do this so they go to police station and
husband sees a car in a very in order
promising condition he’s painting the
way the car has been recovered but you
see we haven’t take it
your car no the wife says don’t worry
let go and even Gary’s and see what can
happen so the go they go and even a
garish off or repaired and after one way
the call comes and says sir come and
pick your car car is in good condition
the wife says you are so attached to a
car you better go to the office I’ll go
pick from the garage shop the wife goes
to the garage shop she picks the car and
she sees a car in good condition now she
start driving and thinking last few
months what we couldn’t do it let’s
think what we can do it and she’s proud
riving and they start raining and you so
he becomes very romantic she put some
music and she start listening in the
world songs and she start driving and
her she’s going and join with her she’s
not a real judge someplace and she loses
the hand and she goes and – the world
now what then forms to the car now she
started wondering what I’m going to
answer my husband who trusted me and
send me to pick that car in even-even
husband comes back from the office he
sees a car in a very bad condition but
small dent has formed he doesn’t know
what has happened so he goes inside the
home he sees a why sitting on the same
chair you are sitting some months ago so
he asked his wife what happened the wife
says you know what I was went to collect
the car and something like this happened
I hit the wall at dent form then I don’t
know how to face his little afraid what
to tell you now that it is a husband
turn oh the husband was behind that puts
the hand from the behind and says what
has to be done has to be done and what
can what we done cannot be done
the wife looks up and asked what to do
no let’s poke you back together shop
again let’s see what happens in length –
like continue so this tells a story that
I learned it a very hard way that this
whole story I wrote because based on
incident which I came across I was
helping a recruitment process at IIC
Bangalore and I had got invited one of
the company for recruitment so I was
having a lunch with somebody and a
person came and said can I take a seat
next to you I looked at the man and said
yes sir please take a seat so my friend
who was having lunch with me he told me
he is the CEO of the company so I was
little surprised taking like somebody
like CEO for me sitting and having lunch
with you then I told him sir I had a
story about you is it true he asked me I
have a lot of stories about me and
please keep talking about me what is the
story you tell me said about a father
funeral so he asked me what is that
stories aboard I
I heard that when your father died you
were working while traveling he what
ended funeral he started working and he
came back in less than two days
what kind of any human relationship you
had at the father I asked so he looked
at me and he said see if I don’t work my
employees will not work if my employees
don’t work customers who get affected
the customer gets too affected the
stakeholders get affected see you big
change of people are getting affected
then I told him if my father dies I will
probably be crying and probably knew be
saddened for many many days I do not
talk to anybody around I cannot believe
this you can work like this when
somebody dies in your family then he was
munching his food and then he said I
know but it’s very cool for you to
understand you’ll understand as you grow
so before he got up he said in these two
lines what has to be done has to be done
and what cannot attend cannot be done so
let us keep this part number one as we
move on to the core number two can you
see that money at honey so honey could
be he or she in them let us not have
worry about gender No so we know that
money can make only more money nothing
else so let me tell you the core number
two was story around this there’s a
conference happening where people are
talking about how to make more money I
am sure all of us loved to go to such
conferences so when you see such
conference typically people who are rich
who could invest in somewhere else and
they talking at discussing about it so
there’s a man who sitting in a
conference in between the talk he is I
fall into a lady and who is very
attractive that is why I see you for
somebody else and wise words also so he
walks up to the lady during the break
time and says why don’t you marry me I’m
a rich man the woman asked him back what
is that very proposition you have that I
should marry you what is in you that I
should marry you he says in few weeks
time my father’s going to die and I’m
gonna get all property in my name she
smiles and says looks good and then he
exchanged the card and she collects it
and he thinks maybe she’s go to agree
very soon has few days passes he’ll be
waiting that she will call or she’ll
come to the home and say yes to him
after few days he listens to a doorbell
and he wonders maybe she is the one who
has come here and she has come to agree
to me so he runs from the room thinking
she’s the one let you go open and let me
see that
yes thing on her face and let me see
that first person
so he rushes outside he opens a door
then these two he’s he sees to his
surprise that the same woman has come
married to his father and become a
stepmother inside know so we need to
learn to cut something about a car to
caught 3 I’m sure all of you connected
this especially if you are an
engineering college this is very
important who are P officer who is oil
you know who is a P officer here the
placement officer so when I was doing my
engineering I used to tell my personal
officer you are responsible for my job
and you should do this because you have
placement officer he’s looked at me and
they say you don’t attend classes you
don’t attend training you don’t do
anything actually want a placement I
said still sir it is your responsibility
right so you should get ready annoyed at
me and says I go out of how if
additional don’t know if your sponsor
should do it but several later years
when I become president of yourself I
understood a very interesting thing was
we often define our success rate by
keeping a gun on another shoulder which
is not true and which cannot happen I
learned in a very hard way to cut a cord
in my life or prune them in right time
let’s go to court number four this is my
what form a person’s personal experience
we used to go to Mumbai every invocation
in the month of October and April may
wish to have holidays in the earlier
time i am i mom you should take me to
meet one person and this was at shuttle
station we should go for one place to
xalapa session from solar poor we used
to go to Mumbai so in this we had about
1/2 hours of waiting time to have a
connecting train so what happened was my
mom would pull me my brother and my
father at times and introduce a man and
the pleasant we talked with like how is
your family the man has the same
questions to us he will tell come to our
home and mom will tell come to a home
quite near passed by and then I never
saw we going to his home neither he came
to our home we never know who is this
man is a mysterious man in my life so
one day when we are talking to this man
after the talk is over I asked my dad
dad who is this man every time we meet
and we talk and he says uncle never
comes to home neither we go to whom what
is this I said who’s this man so my
father looked at me and smile and said
he is your mother’s first marriage
proposal guy I said what he rejected or
she rejected how can you be in touch
with the
like this and my father looked at me
again back and said what is what isn’t
wrong being in touch with the good
people in the world I did not agree to
him for a while I took many years to I
agree what is time to say because I
would have felt if somebody rejects you
or you reject somebody else it cannot be
in touch with a person and it was very
hard where to for me to learn that you
can be touched so that day I realized
that some stations or some things in
your life never depart and the quad will
always remain with us and there’s going
to be part of her life let’s go to the
core number five face lift I was waiting
I went to my dad and I said dad I have
decided what I want to be so my dad
looked at me and said yes what is that
because he’s a doctor
he expect you to be doctor typically if
he is engineer he expected to be
engineer or anything so I said dad I
want to do a hotel management course I
am to be a waiter
nobody wants to be so I’m disappointed
so my father looked at me and mocked at
me saying that how does a waiter take in
the hotel and he started mocking at me
so he said okay I am a waiter and if we
do this then I told Dad what is wrong in
being a waiter I said he said I’m a
doctor you should become a doctor so I
said no no I want to be a waiter I say
so you see this kind of argument
happened but I have realized what played
off years I coined this term called as
face lift I think perhaps we have
learned to probably lift everyone’s face
so that they learn to do what they do
and they grow otherwise there is a chord
which probably not help them to grow and
I’m sure we all have heard the name and
stream and we are war with the research
work is done a contribution is done to
the society so let me tell you a story
about him so the moment Einstein won a
Nobel Prize he was given an attention
which otherwise wouldn’t have got it
because there are many more scientist
who did not get a Nobel Prize
so the moment he got a Nobel Prize every
other University started inviting for a
talk and everybody that was a driver
would take him to various a new city and
every day the the driver job is to take
the the bag of the Einstein keep on the
floor and then the ice will come on the
stage the driver go and stand at the
entrance of the auditorium and the
instrument talk and people will clap and
cheer and make
noise because he’s a successful man so
drivers start thinking what is it so
great about Einstein that he’s been
recognized as being loved by so many
people how can this happen so one day
while driving back home
the driver takes little courage and says
master I want to know what is that in
you that people like you in so much and
people cheer at you the münster
understands the driver does not know
anything
he’s a very innocent man so he says I
did let me work that people give me a
Nobel Prize and this is why people are
like so mad about me so the driver let
me make curry again says master if I
also make a talk like you will you also
give me a Nobel Prize then this man
things like I cannot disappoint my
driver this is so close to me he thinks
for a while and it says okay do one
thing tomorrow you be Einstein and let
me be the driver let’s see what happens
because you have seen this presentation
quite a few times and driver is
confident were to what we delivered so
they start moving to the next unit in
the next day and so the incident becomes
a driver and rather become sense train
and in those days are no photograph’ to
know who’s Einstein you go with
invitation card they know you or the in
strain they would take you inside and
talk so while driving the who’s a driver
know us are you sure and confident way
travel deliver the talk he says yes
master have been seeing your
presentation for last 15 times I know
each one of you don’t worry he says I’m
confident about it
he says well I’m good let me see what
happens so he comes and keeps her he’s
back here and the driver goes Einstein
comes on stage and he goes and takes his
place this time and everybody start
cheering and clapping the moment he
comes onstage
the driver feels I am gonna get a Nobel
Prize today because everybody also like
me like the way they like master so
after some time the presentation starts
and he make the same expression away the
oxygen dead the way he pause for a while
he also did the same and everybody was
surprised to see that he’s done saying
your remarkable work
and Einstein was very surprised and
start thinking in mine I was very happy
about what thank God somebody could
replace me and I can do my research
worker and let this driver go every
other place and make a presentation but
at all gets over and after that one lady
from the autumn gets up and says I’m
straining I have a doubt the driver
doesn’t understand physics and
mathematics he doesn’t know what to talk
we only knew how to replicate things
what he knew but you need to still
answer the question if you ever run away
no because you’re answering on the stage
so he goes back in
for a while and he puts his hand and
says yes lady what is your question so
the lady says if I assume this would be
inert I make a hole on one side I make
whole another side I pass a ball how
would the ball travel he doesn’t know he
start scratching his head for a while in
things for a while but presence of mind
is very important he he thinks for a
while and then he looks at the lady and
says lady we’re asking such a simple
question to a Nobel Prize winner even my
driver can answer you wait for a while
there come here and answer here so the
driver comes rushing and to save his his
person and says and it is a fixation
surely it was not true
so what I’m trying to make a point is
there are pods we should know to manage
and work around with them and make
things happen for us because what I’m
trying to say or drive to all of you is
this let us learn to attachment attach
cords so that we grow we allow others to
grow and make a life better otherwise
probably we are shunting ourselves what
we could have been otherwise thanks very
much [Applause]
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