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True Confessions of a Tie-Coon | Shreyas Parab | TEDxFarmingtonHighSchool


the tiniest little thing can change the

course of your day which can change the

course of your year which can change who

you are you know who said that Taylor

Swift I bet you that that was the first

time anyone has ever used a taylor swift

code to start off a TEDx talk so

congrats TEDx Farmington High School we

have just made TEDx history easy as that

in all seriousness though think about

that quote it’s kind of absurd right

nowadays humans are expected to live

longer than ever eighty years right and

to think that one instance in one day

could change a year which could change

your life that’s kind of absurd right

one out of 80 but what I’ve realized is

it’s true not just because it’s from

Taylor’s shift but because I’ve learned

it to be true two years ago I did

possibly the most ridiculous and unheard

of thing a ninth grader could do i

started at I company I started going

around school selling ties with slogans

like chick magnet or a baller or lacks

bro and ever since then my whole life

has changed and that was two years ago I

decided to take a leap of faith and so

here I am today two years later still

profitable and still having a lot of fun

it’s a lot of work I’m not going to

sugarcoat it I have to talk with

manufacturers retailers people all

across the world to help me make this

company a successful company and what

I’ve realized is that I still love doing

it that no matter how much work or how

many late nights I have to spend on it I

would wake up and do it all over again

the next day and through these

experiences I learned three main lessons

three major keys as DJ Khaled would say

to the path of succeeding and not just

building a tie company that sells

novelty neckwear but in challenging the

norm no one likes to challenge the norm

and people especially don’t like people

who challenged the norm if that makes

sense challenge in the norm is hard it’s

it’s the modern equivalent of being a

hipster right but with these three major

keys

I really hope that when you leave this

auditorium you can go out and challenged

the norm regardless of your age first

you don’t have to wait my whole life I

thought that I would have to wait until

I was something to start doing what I

wanted to do I would tell myself you

know what I’ll wait until I have a high

school degree or wait until after

college I’ll wait until I’m 10 years

older right but what I soon realized was

when I took that leap of faith I didn’t

have to wait anymore I didn’t have to

wait for someone else to give me the

green light I didn’t have to wait for a

parent a teacher a mentor to say go

ahead trace and do it I could just do it

myself no matter how old I was and this

means to me that the future is as far or

as close as you want it to be the future

can be in a decade or the future can be

next year next month tomorrow in an hour

the future is as close as we want it to

be and so there should be nothing

holding us back like our age from doing

what we want to do and following our

passions second as kids we’re going to

experience a lot of obstacles and people

who stand in our way simply because of

our age simply because we can’t vote

simply because we can’t drive simply

because we still order off the kids menu

now it doesn’t really matter how old you

are nowadays these this whole world we

have it at our fingertips right how many

of you guys have a cell phone right

everyone has a cell phone right nowadays

and we have the whole world at our

fingertips where we can create a

movement tomorrow we can start a company

tomorrow we can do everything that we

want to do tomorrow if we wanted and by

overcoming these obstacles that many

people face a long time ago we are

empowered to change the world because we

have this amazing network at our

fingertips we can reach out to anyone

and everyone from across the world to

help us overcome our obstacles I know I

had to do that two years ago because two

years ago I had no idea what I was doing

I was just going around having fun

selling funny ties right but what I soon

realized was I needed to have a business

plan I need

to file for taxes i had to you know

start a company really incorporated and

so i had to reach out to anyone who

would listen to me anyone who is willing

to help me and what I realized was that

people want to invest in us in kids just

this week I flew in from Los Angeles

right on Thursday landed from Los

Angeles where I was pitching to

investors five investors and two of them

were willing to invest in me and what

they both told me was that they weren’t

investing in just the ties they weren’t

just investing in the company they were

investing in me because when they invest

in kids when they invest in us they’re

investing for the future and people want

to do it they want to invest in the

future leaders of the country which we

are and this means that out there there

are hundreds if not thousands of people

willing to help you you just have to

find them and ask and I really encourage

you don’t be afraid to ask them for help

for mentorship for resources be is the

worst thing that they can say is no I’ve

had a lot of people say no to me whether

I’m trying to sell them at I whether i’m

trying to sell in their store or trying

to partner with them for long-term

growth a lot of people have said no and

what I’ve realized is that those haters

are gonna hate hate hate and we’re just

going to shake it off shake it off and

another Taylor served reference right

there because I really do enjoy your

music but really these people who are

going to tell you know find other people

who are willing to help you because one

note isn’t the end of the world and

that’s a segue into my next point that

as kids we have this freedom we have

this power to be able to fail failure is

great failure is okay in fact I love

failure because when I fail I can grow

from it I can learn as a person right

and that’s an opportunity that kids

that’s a freedom kids have because we’re

young people discriminate against our

age and say that you know that’s the

reason that’s going to hold us back but

I say that’s an opportunity right there

we can fail now because it’s not the end

of our it’s not the end of the world

because we can learn from it and keep on

growing because we have a nice bright

future ahead of us and

I guess what i mean by having a nice

bright future that means challenging the

norm but more importantly that means

following your passions that means going

out there and doing something that’s

going to bring value to your life and to

people around you that’s going to be

something that excites you every morning

that even if it’s a monday i hate

mondays right but if it’s going to

excite you and get you up on monday

morning and excited and eager to go to

work on that passion that’s what you’re

going to be able to do we all have

passions right whether it’s learning

sports music art taylor swift it really

doesn’t matter what you’re passionate

about but that you can go out and do it

and through this journey I’ve started to

write not like write an essay because

I’m really bad at writing as my English

teacher can tell you but I really

started to write my story after I took

that leap of faith I started writing a

story my story and what I’ve learned is

that we are our own writers you and only

you write the story that you want to

read because of novelty because of

having started to write my story I’ve

learned so much and I’ve kept growing my

passions after i started novel tie my

best friend and i decided to launch a ty

cobb sorry an education company called

spell for success design to help kids

study and after i started that we

decided to sell our company to a

million-dollar education company in

chicago for months it took to sign those

contracts when I first reached out they

said that we were ridiculous that we

were a joke no way you guys are 16 you

can’t have anything worth buying we

proved them wrong we shook it off and we

kept on going and four months later we

had sold that company because of novelty

I’ve gone the very great opportunity to

serve on nonprofits and organizations

that matter to me things that I know

will make an impact and things that I’m

passionate about organizations like the

National Campaign to Prevent Teen and

unplanned pregnancy or the harvard

graduate school of education or kid

backer enterprises a non-profit designed

to help low-income entrepreneurs succeed

in their small businesses now you might

say to yourself okay trace cool

these three lessons great have them

written down what do I do now right I

don’t want to start at a company totally

fine in fact less competition for

novelty what I want you to do with these

three lessons is not just go out there

and start selling ties like I did I want

you to go out there and challenged the

norm because I know all of you can do it

now there were dozens of haters as

Taylor Swift would call them who told me

that starting a company at a young age

was ridiculous that I should just focus

on school you know focus on the text

books don’t focus on selling ties or

traveling around the country meeting

young entrepreneurs it’s worthless but

now two years later I look back as Chris

Brown would say look at me now whether

you want to learn about everything in

anything whether you want to sell ties

whether you want to start a company or

you just want to make the world a better

place I highly encourage you use these

lessons in your life so I’ve gotten the

great opportunity to share the tiniest

thing that changed my day my year and

who I am and I really hope that you can find yours thank you so much

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