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Time to Remember | Kassidy Brown & Allison Rapson We are the XX | TEDxLausanneWomen


hi I’m Cassidy and this is Allison we

believe it is time for women to remember

it’s time for us to remember who we are

and where we came from time to reclaim

the legacy and the lineage in the

history that could only ever be ours

because it is important to know that

feminism is memory and just so we’re all

on the same page feminism simply defined

is just the belief in the social

political and economic equality of the

sexes the reason why we have the term

feminism is because presently we have

not achieved this equality not in a

single country in the world and when it

comes to equality of the sexes there are

two raining schools of thought one is

that it’s an impossible feat and it will

never be accomplished and the other is

that it’s this distant dream something

that we might experience one day in the

future but what we are saying is that

it’s not just wishful thinking it is

something that has been accomplished and

achieved in our past in our human

history and because it has been done

before it can be done again this

expression feminism is memory is a truth

that women are Native Heritage have long

tried Hassan because as Native American

writer and poet and activist polyp gun

Allen once said the root of oppression

is the loss of memory you know feminism

has been around as long as women have

been around we have known civilizations

that have championed the inherent power

of women and included that power within

the structures and rules and regulations

of their society despite our history

books telling us something different or

leaving the story out altogether yeah

this is important to us because we are

the founders of a feminist media company

and we have spent the last two years

traveling the world documenting young

female revolutionaries leaders and

activists and we can tell you firsthand

the fight prepare

can be very frustrating and one of the

best examples of this frustration that’s

how the young woman that we documented

would share with us how their mothers or

the women who came before them had

better lives and they did they had more

freedom and more liberties than they do

now and we question how can this be so

if we look at other human liberation

movements we can recognize linear

progress decade by decade laws and

rights and proving why the social

consciousness evolves but with the

women’s rights movement it’s the one

that stands alone and it’s cyclical

nature of progress and why is it that we

haven’t been able to consistently move

the needle forward for women because

patriarchy it’s the system that

champions toxic masculinity while

diminishing all that’s female and not

only does this system seek to diminish

the female experience it aims to remove

it from our collective memory patriarchy

knows no loyalty whether you be

conservative or liberal Muslim or

Christian spiritual or atheist from the

east or the west it doesn’t matter

because we’re all operating within this

system of course we recognize that some

countries and regions are more

progressive and other shut out to

Scandinavia or Canada but we are all

still in this fight and to be clear we

are not saying that it is men against

women rather we are saying it is hyper

masculinity pinned against femininity

and both women and men suffer within the

confines of this system but for women

depression does go much further it’s our

very femaleness that is hated our bodies

our appearance our nature and even our

souls have been under massive attack

across the globe to various standards

and degrees women’s bodies are

commoditized and thought to be the

property of others from daily instances

a sexual assault to rape to the lack of

access to education to being paid an

unequal wage for equal work to only be

in value

you’d as wives and mothers that many

countries not even being able to choose

when we want to be mothers not to

mention femicide I mean how incredulous

is it that we have a term in our

modern-day lexicon to help explain the

mass killing of women for souley being

women this is an epidemic that Alison

and I have reported on and documented

from Brazil to Turkey for example in

Brazil woman dies every 15 minutes the

hands of her domestic partner in Turkey

around 1100 women have died too at the

hands of men in the past five years I

mean how infuriating is this it

literally makes my blood boil and on

that note something else we’d like to

address is that another thing patriarchy

would love for women to forget is that

we are fully entitled to the entire

spectrum of human emotion so to our

women let us say this if you are angry

go ahead and be angry into the men who

love women if you’re pissed be pissed

because the appropriate emotional

response to the atrocities that women

have been enduring for as long as we can

remember is anger it’s righteous anger

yeah and we acknowledge that anger and

protest and actually have long existed

and still exist take these photos women

protesting in the 1920s and 30s women

protesting in the 70s and women

protesting just last month you know all

these photos that we source our from

around the world and it’s sad to see the

similarities amongst them from decade to

decade to decade it is our hope and it

is our belief that if we can share the

knowledge that feminism is memory it

will help us build upon our successes it

will help us keep us from fighting the

same fight generation after generation

because it is our desire to see a time

when our daughters don’t have the same

protest photos another way that we can

really ensure that

progress moves forward is to fully owned

that we do not have to wait until

everyone is comfortable with our

activism before we take action think

about it this way imagine any other

marginalized people group who’ve

experienced depression would they wait

until the repressor felt comfortable

before they move forward no it doesn’t

work that way the oppressor should feel

uncomfortable because they are wrong the

oppressed should feel vindicated and

validated we women don’t need permission

because we are standing on the shoulders

of the women who came before us a new

fault for us we are supported and we are

surrounded we need to keep this at the

forefront of our memories yes one of the

great feminist psychologists of our time

said something to this point her name is

Clarissa pink Ola SDS and she said when

a woman is exhorting to be compliant

cooperative and quiet to not make upset

and go against the old guard she is

pressed into living a most unnatural

life the worldwide issue for women is

that under such conditions they are not

only silenced they are put to sleep

another way of understanding that is

that their memory is erased as women we

cannot wake up to who we are until we

remember who we are it is this

remembering that is the alarm clock and

this alarm is firing for all of us right

now in this very moment and we

acknowledge it is not easy to wake up

often for women who do they have to

challenge the romantic relationship that

they’re in the god they praised to or

the government that they adhere to the

system touches almost everything and

it’s very difficult to step outside of

it but the great news is is that waking

up is a total game changer there is this

proverb that declares be sure and know

the truth will find you out that’s the

proverb or you can borrow from what

Gloria Steinem said which is the truth

will set you free but first it will piss

you off

let the resonance of this just linger in

your being for a moment because what

this is saying is that what is true

indeed can never be permanently unknown

so what that is saying is that the truth

about women can be unleashed you know

the same only the strong will survive

how often do we hear this it is it is a

statement that speaks to the resilience

the power of resilience tenacity and

endurance we women of the here and now

we are the impossibly strong we are the

revolutionary daughters of women who

have survived thousands of years of

systemic shutdown thousands of years of

patriarchy trying to not only keep them

silent but keep them asleep women are

people whose time has come it is time

for us to be seen as equal there’s time

for us to be recognized as a powerful

and dynamic beans that we are and it is

absolutely our time to be remembered

thank you [Applause]

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