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This is not a happily ever after | Wellensa Assefa | TEDxYouth@Arada


today my talk will be on the definition

of depression from the point of view of

a depressed person steps on oxygen on

your road to recovery and ask but not

least what’s to do when around a person

who has depression many who don’t know

how to deal with it

first things first what is depression

depression is alike in brain activity

symptoms include lack of sleep loss of

appetite not interesting takes action

usually for aging exciting and the rose

on together step number one on my image

for a month I have to introduce myself

again my name is Will and sassy pop I’m

15 years old I was born and raised in

Saudi Arabia I only moved here six

months ago I have three older sisters

happiness and two very loving parents I

enjoy watching anime I love you biryanis

my favorite day of dough because Monday

what else is there

my favorite color is purple all in all

and I am what you would call an average

teenager other than the fact that I’m

depressed and I happen

five years now what I’m getting to is

that there is absolutely no criteria for

a person to be depressed as in it can

literally be anyone therefore you

shouldn’t feel bad about heat in your

life just because everyone else says

it’s amazing or you shouldn’t feel

strange about how you feel differently

about things that other people find very

normal because other people’s opinion

doesn’t have the power to change how you

feel and how you feel is what really

matters

your life doesn’t necessarily have to be

jam-packed in tragic events for you to

feel like your existence is a tragedy

step number two do not deny if in shorts

that number one was it can be anyone’s

number two would eat can be you when I

first started feeling and showing the

sentence I mentioned but it was before

my brain was like transitioning to in

panic mode deny deny

everything well no I am so hungry and I

would basically show through down my

throat

once I was stopped littering and uh hmm

you know I’m thinking of unicorns my

eyes are closing I’m laying down

it’s definitely seat or and another

major meeting and very hard and at some

point my brain was like so used to it so

like freedom no no that’s not that’s not

real but at some point is functioning AB

you need disguise that sounds like they

were just going to arguing like you

are happy no numbers the taking action

well as an acquaintance once said when

it comes to the question Internet

oppression or any other mental illness

in general that’s when you find it most

advice because experienced people will

write a lot about it

the Internet’s but if you don’t have the

woods

terrific central to search or if you

tried and didn’t get any results I would

recommend seeing a psychiatrist or

therapist and if you’re underage this is

when an adult has to know it can be

anyone from a teacher to parents to an

older sibling but they should be

responsible they should be an adult and

I think that’s only creative anyways

chances are they won’t react the way you

want them to well good for me my sister

Lois and she told my parents so it was a

lot easier but other people like more

distant relatives and normal people in

this country in general don’t even think

of mental illness as illness as in the

during its translation in a heart for

the world depression is the word or dome

so honestly people here are not so

accepting about it and if it’s hard to

admit somewhere else would be even

harder here as a friend once but if

depression is considered a first woman

anyways I did end up seeing a

psychiatrist and I don’t want you to

judge all psychiatrists by my experience

but honestly I need to know my side

characters I don’t know maybe it’s

because people in this country respect

them a lot doctors general and think of

their very highly ones even the

psychiatrists that were very recommended

I honestly did not like at all I just

felt like there was any arrogance maybe

it was just because I was insecure about

talking about

so another person who I barely know at

all and the pills were even worse they

drained my energy not like I had an

energy but I had an emergency supply for

the world pens but now I learned Ivan

anyways I didn’t like it but your

experience hopefully would be different

number four is patience for number three

to work you will need number four as in

you’re probably not ready for a

psychiatrist your first fill probably

not anything for you and the side

effects are horrible and it takes a lot

of time to charge whatever code is going

to work or not so it’s going to take a

very long time and you will need to be

really patient you should trust and rely

on whatever it since you are relying on

a lot but at the same time not too much

please Isis at number five don’t have

expectations this is where I am right

now

okay I basically gave up on anything

everything and anything I’m just at the

standstill

I’m trying to find the solution and the

problem all with meaning and many people

are doing this immediately who needs to

know they’re going around on adventures

and do things I spend my food and I’m

not you know single bit honestly I’m

gonna find my solutions someday to

finish off things that you should and

should not do when I don’t know

depressed or some other person is my

very first anyways first of all when you

are asked to listen just listen as if

this is the tests okay this is what is

decided whatever just offend or not

because if you’re not and they’re

probably not talk to you seem way like

ever again first of all don’t judge at

all so judge just listen

second of all don’t try to relate their

situation with yours at all and third of

all in my opinion you should back off we

are told to back off as if a depressed

person lets you know they’re depressed

or leaves to around them even when you

know they’re depressed then they trust

you enough information and a person

asking you to back off it’s not in any

way up to be for help so don’t think

that you should stay because everyone

needs their privacy other than that

there are things that you should not do

in my opinion at all three things you

should never say to other first person

number one I understand you don’t you

never did and you never will understand

in person unless you were depressed or

unless you are depressed depressed

people don’t need your understanding

they need your acceptance you should

just do it up in a way number two

why don’t you just choose happiness in

smile this is so much

there’s the finest artists which I hold

back very far today anyways first of all

I never chose depression depression

which shows me and it’s haunting me a

stroke second of all you tell me to

smile I just told you my because secret

and your attorney

you’re pretending I don’t have that kind

of energy even my word supply is gone

number three and in my opinion the most

annoying it’s all in your head I’m not

sure about you but I know I can’t live

without my head that’s influenced my

speech please have a good afternoon

[Applause] [Music]

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