together we’re going to create an
experience this talk the Venn diagram of
belonging we’ll explore our humanity
through our three bodies circles
[Music]
so while you’re sitting here tonight
let’s let this experience wash over you
let those thoughts rise and fall let
your body settle into what we’re about
to experience together
as we begin life three bodies circles
are aligned we sense the world our
mother’s touch our father’s voice the
taste of rice-cereal through these
senses we begin to distinguish the
our self pulls away
as we begin to create an eye
the eye from the toddler I do it
those first distinctions start creating
the patterns those fundamental patterns
of our belonging
[Music]
so she’s had enough of the unfair speed
the unfair treatment of her siblings she
takes her green and white polka-dot bag
and she stomps down the stairs she has
no idea where she’s going she’s just out
belonging starts here we take our
belonging our understanding of belonging
into our teen years and those
fundamental understandings begin to
create language structures or currency
as what I’ll be calling it this currency
we exchange in the world how we exchange
our wants and needs in our fundamental
[Music]
so she
steps out at midnight to see that boy
she likes and she believes that he is
where she belongs because that’s what he
tells her she belongs with him the
passion to belong lives here there’s a
brief moment as we come up next where
the three circles once again come
together how now we’re creating infinite
distinctions of the mind we begin to
believe things based on what it is we’re
thinking our thoughts become our
experience
and this experience it begins to fill
feverishly oh my goodness we think we
the belonging starts to drift because
it’s all about what we’re thinking
[Music]
so she’s gotten into college this wild
child she’s found her place in the Sun
she’s taking all the classes
she’s just crushing it as we’ve heard
tonight right she’s competing with
everyone and everything including
herself these circles they keep going
they keep telling us they keep telling
us that we need more that we have to get
more our mind is creating these infinite
distinctions of things we don’t even
know these things that we want to
achieve money status access it all comes
those are the constructions that the
mine build begin to believe this is what
and Western humans most of us stop here
q heartbreak
who this anger its righteous and she
demands her ability to express it but
she wants to be in environments she
loves other people she’s beginning to
explore that you or me and I am you
because I am angry and you’re angry too
we’re gonna be this together
so she goes out and she starts building
communities and building ways of being
together this belonging is now being
filled with experiences of togetherness
we are the ones we’ve been waiting for
[Music]
these circles of belongings appear to be
different because these infinite
distinctions are now assigned to the
meanings of the thinking that we have
about our beliefs and our feelings we
believe what we feel because we think
and it starts to get a little more
complex we start developing structures
to even deepen our ability to see and
belong thus awareness starts to build
this awareness of this exchange so I am
you and you or me
[Music]
and then she walks out of a meeting
and she has a pause and she’s she’s
thinking about that pause she’s going
over who said what what the tone was how
was it exactly hard to go what was
paying attention she’s using these
distinctions to explore how it is that
she is separate or in this case not
separate she’s beginning to see how I am
you and you are me through my ability
her ability our ability
who we are together this infinite
exchange the
awareness that comes with that
[Music]
so as we begin to explore that level of
awareness we begin to understand not
just projection but introduction beliefs
structures that build how we are in the
world and these structures they expand
they expand so far because now it’s not
just me it’s not just you it’s all of us
we are all in this together this
awareness we understand what we’re
building here together
not just the we but the actual you and
me and how we are together so let’s take
a moment settle ourselves
feel the salerno’s rising in you allow
to fill your experience
and because you can feel your feet in
extend your awareness to the person
sitting next to you
[Music]
recognized
that all of us are here together and
this awareness extends beyond just your
body and beyond their body and that we
all belong here together simply because
and this belonging it brings us to the
deepest sense of intimacy we have ever
this belonging brings us to an awareness of wholeness
experience this talk the Venn diagram of
belonging we’ll explore our humanity
through our three bodies circles
[Music]
so while you’re sitting here tonight
let’s let this experience wash over you
let those thoughts rise and fall let
your body settle into what we’re about
to experience together
as we begin life three bodies circles
are aligned we sense the world our
mother’s touch our father’s voice the
taste of rice-cereal through these
senses we begin to distinguish the
our self pulls away
as we begin to create an eye
the eye from the toddler I do it
those first distinctions start creating
the patterns those fundamental patterns
of our belonging
[Music]
so she’s had enough of the unfair speed
the unfair treatment of her siblings she
takes her green and white polka-dot bag
and she stomps down the stairs she has
no idea where she’s going she’s just out
belonging starts here we take our
belonging our understanding of belonging
into our teen years and those
fundamental understandings begin to
create language structures or currency
as what I’ll be calling it this currency
we exchange in the world how we exchange
our wants and needs in our fundamental
[Music]
so she
steps out at midnight to see that boy
she likes and she believes that he is
where she belongs because that’s what he
tells her she belongs with him the
passion to belong lives here there’s a
brief moment as we come up next where
the three circles once again come
together how now we’re creating infinite
distinctions of the mind we begin to
believe things based on what it is we’re
thinking our thoughts become our
experience
and this experience it begins to fill
feverishly oh my goodness we think we
the belonging starts to drift because
it’s all about what we’re thinking
[Music]
so she’s gotten into college this wild
child she’s found her place in the Sun
she’s taking all the classes
she’s just crushing it as we’ve heard
tonight right she’s competing with
everyone and everything including
herself these circles they keep going
they keep telling us they keep telling
us that we need more that we have to get
more our mind is creating these infinite
distinctions of things we don’t even
know these things that we want to
achieve money status access it all comes
those are the constructions that the
mine build begin to believe this is what
and Western humans most of us stop here
q heartbreak
who this anger its righteous and she
demands her ability to express it but
she wants to be in environments she
loves other people she’s beginning to
explore that you or me and I am you
because I am angry and you’re angry too
we’re gonna be this together
so she goes out and she starts building
communities and building ways of being
together this belonging is now being
filled with experiences of togetherness
we are the ones we’ve been waiting for
[Music]
these circles of belongings appear to be
different because these infinite
distinctions are now assigned to the
meanings of the thinking that we have
about our beliefs and our feelings we
believe what we feel because we think
and it starts to get a little more
complex we start developing structures
to even deepen our ability to see and
belong thus awareness starts to build
this awareness of this exchange so I am
you and you or me
[Music]
and then she walks out of a meeting
and she has a pause and she’s she’s
thinking about that pause she’s going
over who said what what the tone was how
was it exactly hard to go what was
paying attention she’s using these
distinctions to explore how it is that
she is separate or in this case not
separate she’s beginning to see how I am
you and you are me through my ability
her ability our ability
who we are together this infinite
exchange the
awareness that comes with that
[Music]
so as we begin to explore that level of
awareness we begin to understand not
just projection but introduction beliefs
structures that build how we are in the
world and these structures they expand
they expand so far because now it’s not
just me it’s not just you it’s all of us
we are all in this together this
awareness we understand what we’re
building here together
not just the we but the actual you and
me and how we are together so let’s take
a moment settle ourselves
feel the salerno’s rising in you allow
to fill your experience
and because you can feel your feet in
extend your awareness to the person
sitting next to you
[Music]
recognized
that all of us are here together and
this awareness extends beyond just your
body and beyond their body and that we
all belong here together simply because
and this belonging it brings us to the
deepest sense of intimacy we have ever
this belonging brings us to an awareness of wholeness
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