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The story of dark honey | Khaled Ali | TEDxUUM


[Applause]

just like she woke up I’d be prepared

for her day she woke up her father’s old

those are for kindergarten then she goes

to her job by bus sorry she’s not

allowed to drive so she has to catch a

bus the roads are jammed with a traffic

thus she reaches her job blade which

causes her a deduction from her salary

however this lady decided to hook up

earlier at 5 a.m. to be prepared

catch her pals and reach before him

Kalidas she was born in July 26 1989

with named sama means the quality of

being emphasis ladies and gentlemen my

sister

the doctrine hello the same assumed

after almost five his mad she asked her

husband politely to continue and allow

her to continue her education then to

get a proper job because she has

believed to have more capability than

being a housewife she received a divorce

letter elicited of permission could you

imagine she just asked for a rise the

winter sentence in her heart cloud to

the loud of the black clouds and his

rain everyone in the society was

claiming scolding and attacking her

because the thing it’s a one is false

not a man to get a divorce

how dare you

Trinity force with your man you have a

daughter

how you supposed to rise it up now you

must be a bad mom you finish this it the

poor lady

kind so hard and I thought she’s going

to commit a suicide for real next day

she woke up at 5:00 a.m. as usual was

daily eyes harmful hard shot breathe

children young daughter what they what

to say nothing to say don’t have been

studied feeling of lost

clone lies right but then she called up

our city’s husky voice I will never make

you late

come to me my stand to get a better life

real self hillock remained in my ears at

that moment she started you guys in

yourself after all years of the bending

of what men provided for her and how her

husband classified her out of the range

she’s not retrained her Minds to be

adopted in a new system she programmed

she tries to get out of the

uncomfortable zone and realize the

society will go to blame her anyway in

fact she owned the independence from the

ignorance of the community because in

such a close minded society is women are

under the tutelage of men any particular

size means she will be tied up to

measure and have been always under man’s

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this is such a magnetization of women in

in in such a and you and animal

societies and consider as all this

injustice we’re in the other side behold

it comes with a protective community to

protect our women from any mental

deficiency a when I’m gonna are working

crazy to successful in this kind of

societies then was designed with

negative attitudes first to protect

themselves from anything that we hope

their back Oh anything that may damage

their vest their business interests by

lowing you up into your comfortable soon

I would give you an example you are the

single mother so you’ll be devastated on

oh you are bared young lady we are going

to dislike you so you bit uncomfortable

them or maybe a table for yourself now

you don’t have a capability to oh bloody

joke haha young lady priority for men

always they are always locate the gangs

I give you issues around it the pollen

down because other you mean our our mind

designed not to do ascertain or scan or

difficult things we always avoid that I

present but the speedy she didn’t bring

her ground himself first to keep herself

alive second to protect yourself from

all these because

in order to achieve the freedom in order

to achieve successful you have to do 113

and difficulties divorced happened she

couldn’t be able to change any events

because as a human being we cannot

change any events if you could then when

you are Jesus Christ or God or something

like that but we always can make a

decision in example a staying with

someone who treats you as a rubbish bin

it’s your decision to stay oh honey can

I help a bubble Sheikh please

oh no switch your bed sorry I’m going to

Liam

is there any job that you make is your

decision to stay this is exactly what

she has done she made the decision for

baby her role and get off for any events

by me in an industry independent

individual and if you keep doing himself

its indication she chose to work in

full-time job distance learning for

bachelor degree cool daughter all this

are at the same time however our women

are human yes they are the army would be

as well it’s a challenge requires you as

a woman to switch your emotion into a

decision that you want in order to

achieve the goal Dada

that’s all would be would be always

talking about the down ties is the

bigger what is the need of the darker

giving you their name his name

somehow but I asked who was what is the

whole story behind your nickname and she

said well one of my friends told me

somehow you are sweet and strong at the

same time just like the most expensive

time honey

that the beekeeper spending almost the

whole day collected while a beast

pinched him so badly down the belly in

the south end of Yemen and since the day

I got the same all right the bullet

behind this short story is surround

yourself with the boss to feel or as I

call them positive supporting group PST

what’s your support and surround

yourself with positive people they will

remain you healthy I am positive

come on any lingering situation they are

plenty of negative people waiting for

you outside

so stop avoiding them now okay gentlemen

for the gentlemen please close your eyes

for a while yeah please

he is thank you close your eyes okay

imagine there is a lady in front of you

she’s standing front of you okay if

you’re single so imagine a sub see you

says if your two ladies apps to your

imagination okay if you are married they

don’t imagine your wife otherwise you

will not sleep at all tonight remember

I’m guessing okay this lady is shouting

when you like you say it’s a shameful

for you to continue your studies it’s a

shameful for you to go out and get a

proper Gela you place where the dishes

are you may open your eyes huh thank you

what is the first bad you got like in

May or say that wait a minute

I’m a Manny right means you would be mad

to the top and beyond that it will got

no goals and achieve no beyond of

achievement no bows zeal so let’s

imagine the dark high over Samana if you

still look up into your comfortable zone

she will got no goals and more than that

there is no beyond that jeans

that’s why she shoes to get swept

sleeves constants determination this

regard

fighting respect more and more and more

just to have the beyond achieved at the

point

she’s holding bachelor’s degree in

she’s an English lecturer

she fulfills her daughter – she fees and

more than that she’s about to open her

new business which is fashionable to

graphics to do and asked why is a

photography studio she said Kelly I want

to take burnt food within this one okay

this is right you know that’s why they

invented front cameras and service

states you know women are photos anyway

increasing 54 straight cause my ignominy

to fallen isn’t it

well let me share with you some

statistic from my society the force it’s

happened at trades of 127 cases per day

a billion per day pair Sanji pen day one

to seven build a house this could be

heaven which means that it’s going to be

like five kids per hour

why are you sitting here enjoying today

there’s how enough kiss is just

happening there at this site and this

isn’t thinking it because it not only to

Foreman well excuse me

I’ll tell me something what the

empowerment is necessary for in society

in not if a man is educated and he’s

capable to do certain things so I like a

woman

let’s back again if a woman is educated

the whole family would be educated and

found a nearby winners are the bed poles

of the society an additional empowerment

means given a power of when women’s in

power she comes to poverty of bigger

powers which could be used to make in

life much and much a much better empower

means

provides and dependence which has

nothing to do with the phosphate so the

answer is no empower the foreman house

nothing to do with increasing of divorce

rate last week some of you may wonder

why there’s a guy on stage talking about

women empowerment these things

oh maybe international women they just

passed by said no no actually out of the

incident of my sister I realized the

status of women in my society is a way

way lower than I got them that’s why I’m

here

this magnificent story because gender

fights or gender inequities it’s a human

fights not of them air fights thank you

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