[Music]
good afternoon would I find today’s
topic very interesting because it’s
about spaces so I want to talk about
this space that means the most to all of
you and I’m talking about the social
media space to be honest it is the only
space that most of you can relate with
all of you are mostly on your phones or
using your iPads or laptops so clearly
coming from my generation where I’m
Generation X to the Millennial
Generation today we’re talking about a
big leap in technology and a very
different use of space
have you ever unfriended someone because
you thought about a candidate raise your
hand there you go it got that bad
Facebook not so personal that you had to
unfriend a best friend is it that the
irony you unfriend a best friend because
you exchange ideas on Facebook that you
don’t agree but it wasn’t just an
exchange of ideas that’s why you
unfriended them you know what it was at
some point during the last elections you
all broke into each other’s personal
space
do you agree boundaries were broken you
felt this friend cross the line if he or
she invaded a space I was willing to
listen to an exchange of ideas but what
he said she said cross a personal space
and this is why I decided to talk about
this today all of you are responsible
for taking care of your personal space
and the space
of other people on social media just
because it is social does not mean you
have to lose your sense of space social
media was supposed to give people a
venue to speak to let your voice be
heard but has it become a vehicle well
in if you stand alone you are the lone
Reed in a voice of one time instead of
you being empowered to speak you have
lost your voice do you feel that you
disagree with a point of view suddenly
you are trolled bashed bullied and
instead of you being given a space to
actually speak what happens is you think
perhaps my thoughts are wrong perhaps I
were I’m wrong perhaps there’s something
wrong with me why is it that everybody
feels a certain way and I don’t so I’m
gonna show you my personal experience in
the last presidential debate I moderated
the abs-cbn presidential debates a Tory
sympathy what if she is really bright
finanza solution that’s a bo kid mom
Emilio I think stopping you for you
cannot be a president
if you cannot kill it’s not the actual
comet I can permit I cannot Presidente
Oh sibling Marco Joseon young para
McLaren and Marshall oh well rebellion
low less violence and seppuku line you
know can that be taken on rebellion
nothing gonna be on II see that Marcos
yes definitely yes because it has
divided the country until now harness
lucky look I know
galette come back to America
Solano murderer way I did it was a
response to a question coming from media
it’s a concocted a pathetical question
and I was only replying alright the
winner cephalic mohammed pune yo now
it’s awesome enough new everything is
all everybody is okay said my order is
even if it is killing me alright I
wanted to show this because what you
just saw was a segment on the third
presidential debate of abs-cbn which I
moderated and this was a segment on fast
talk we did a fast talk segment and all
the questions with then candidate who is
now president to that they if you look
at the questions then aren’t they all
relevant today
don’t you agree none of us saw that
coming
the burial of former President Marcos
was a big issue there was a rally
declaration of martial law doesn’t
President Duterte in many of his
speeches mentioned this repeatedly I
asked him about Papapa he Caban
common element on my command Anakin and
a dragon he said yes and I asked him the
next logical question my Anaka ba
nanak Drogo
he said no but we see that the forefront
of president the therapist government in
the first six months has been his war on
drugs why am i showing you that video
after I did the debate
I was congratulating in Pangasinan by my
bosses the public the crown but
something really disturbing happened a
friend of mine texted me and said Karen
have you opened Facebook
have you seen Twitter so this was 12:00
midnight because that particular debate
which was life ended at 12:00 I said no
I haven’t seen it Karen you better one
you better open now the viewership of
abs-cbn among the other networks was the
largest among the three 46% of the
Filipino people were watching this
debate I opened it I could not believe
what I saw I opened Facebook and I’m
gonna say this openly because well your
Savior and your mature and this is TED
Talks I saw bullying like I’ve never
seen it before
Putin in a macaron Davila Mamata Khanna
Malik asana but na kita kita seroquel
Sasaki Nikita Akamai Inanna autistic
biased car buyer ANCA
I’m sorry they’re kids in the audience
but it loses impact if I don’t tell you
there were over seventy thousand social
media messages wanting me killed or
raped
think about that think about it and I’ll
be honest with you it bothered me I
asked myself was I wrong for asking
those questions I’m human but this is
the other side of social media I was
bullied now am I gonna cry and tell you
oh my god pity me I was bullied no it’s
par for the course I’m an adult it’s
there what happens next
imagine yourself waking up to being
hated by a whole universe
you don’t know I then posted a photo
after three days in Twitter of me and
then mayor de Tara thing because right
after the debate I took a selfie with
him the irony was among all the
candidates he was the only one I
approached for a photo isn’t that the
irony of life so I posted that photo and
I can’t remember exactly what I wrote
but I said he’s the leading presidential
candidate he can handle the toughest
questions and my thing is when you’re
the leading candidate anywhere in the
world you shouldn’t have it easy you
know why you’re bound to win and when
you’re bound to win it means that you
have to show that you’re ready and they
after it was interesting that president
Duterte then mayor came out with a
statement all on Facebook this is all on
Facebook I never spoke with him after he
won or during the campaign other than
interviews and he said to his followers
don’t bash her stop it I was not
offended and a strange thing happened
almost 80
percent of the negative comments about
me on social media disappeared so what
am I saying
is everything you’re reading organic the
answer is no it is not during the
campaign season you may think it’s
organic but a lot of it are organized
followers trumping one tune and you need
to be sharp enough to see it if you
don’t you will fall into the trap and
think if everybody thinks this way and I
don’t there must be something wrong with
me and I’m here to tell you no there is
nothing wrong with you social media has
introduced something else an intrusion
into your personal space and you know
what it is your mind
social media will let you bandwagon it
will teach you you know what it’s easier
to be with a group to go with the crowd
well I’m here to tell you stop it don’t
go with the crowd even if you’re on
Facebook and it automatically do you
know that Facebook automatically fix all
the things that you read because it has
a scientific method of already finding
what you read learn to get away from the
box search for new things look for a
different point of view don’t fall into
the trap of being in that point of view
my tips for social media which is this
is a personal experience number one you
may think oh my god my settings are
private well forget it nothing is
private nothing if you want to post
yourself naked I’m telling you when you
apply for a job at Citibank Goldman
Sachs globesmart they’re gonna find that
photo they will more and more people job
applications they look at Facebook what
has this person been posting
was he or she like in college so don’t
think oh I am super private right only
the Friends of my family and friends
friends can see me there’s no such thing
too if you’re unsure of something you’ve
posted delete it I realized that
Millennials today think this way I in a
post gonna nah hahaha a yo ho I delete
funny Linda gank Oh am i right
stop it it’s a false sense of prime it
is just social media it is not a binding
contract
do you understand next when you engage
don’t malign insult or humiliate I want
you to go back to your values what did
your mother teach you redeemable
Moravian and ‘santa or face to face Lee
when a man kya go in uni so what gives
you the right to do it on social media
would you slap a person in front of you
you wouldn’t do that you wouldn’t you
milli ate somebody in front of you or
here in Savior what gives you the
license the thing when it’s social media
it’s okay don’t accept profanity and
bullying on your page what you accept
and tolerate will foster my advice when
people are cursing on your page you’ve
got to block it or delete it don’t make
it acceptable as a new language for you
learn to block most of us are scared to
block put back the line don’t let people
intrude on your personal space blocking
protects your personal space
do not post what you want if you can’t
tell somebody in person you need to
learn respect
online this is very important verifying
requests
link’s attachments downloads when you
don’t verify you have an invasion of
your space which then becomes either
your hacked material is stolen or
frankly there’s a virus somewhere and
this is important don’t lead a fake life
I know all of us will only post good
things on Instagram Facebook and Twitter
and it’s right I don’t believe that you
should post how depressed you are if
you’re very depressed I think you should
talk to your parents your counselor a
close friend you have to stop seeing
social media as an intimate concept of
there’s just one person there it isn’t
like that and it’s important to start by
being authentic don’t pretend
don’t pretend you own a mercedes-benz
when really it was your friends and you
chose to sit there and have a photo you
get the point
don’t be that poser it will harm you in
the end don’t reveal feelings online
don’t share everything this is what I
realized I look at Millennials pages I
have among kins younger and everything
they’re naked online shooting themselves
talking to themselves I understand how
things have changed but you must
remember this try and preserve your
personal space get it back you know how
you’ll be empowered when you detach you
have to see social media as a tool you
cannot treat it as you am I making sense
and the last one detach count your hours
are you in social media for two hours
after a while drop the phone let go go
wireless
talk to people it is not the world and
that’s the end of my presentation and I
want to close
with this the spaces we have today are
defined clearly limitlessly but let me
invite you once again to value your
personal space and when I say personal
space I mean this the personal space
where you were taught good things good
values what’s right and wrong
what’s respectful bring that to the open
space of social media engage
insightfully intelligently stick to what
is true and good even when you banter or
disagree thank you very much and have a
good day
[Applause]
[Music]
good afternoon would I find today’s
topic very interesting because it’s
about spaces so I want to talk about
this space that means the most to all of
you and I’m talking about the social
media space to be honest it is the only
space that most of you can relate with
all of you are mostly on your phones or
using your iPads or laptops so clearly
coming from my generation where I’m
Generation X to the Millennial
Generation today we’re talking about a
big leap in technology and a very
different use of space
have you ever unfriended someone because
you thought about a candidate raise your
hand there you go it got that bad
Facebook not so personal that you had to
unfriend a best friend is it that the
irony you unfriend a best friend because
you exchange ideas on Facebook that you
don’t agree but it wasn’t just an
exchange of ideas that’s why you
unfriended them you know what it was at
some point during the last elections you
all broke into each other’s personal
space
do you agree boundaries were broken you
felt this friend cross the line if he or
she invaded a space I was willing to
listen to an exchange of ideas but what
he said she said cross a personal space
and this is why I decided to talk about
this today all of you are responsible
for taking care of your personal space
and the space
of other people on social media just
because it is social does not mean you
have to lose your sense of space social
media was supposed to give people a
venue to speak to let your voice be
heard but has it become a vehicle well
in if you stand alone you are the lone
Reed in a voice of one time instead of
you being empowered to speak you have
lost your voice do you feel that you
disagree with a point of view suddenly
you are trolled bashed bullied and
instead of you being given a space to
actually speak what happens is you think
perhaps my thoughts are wrong perhaps I
were I’m wrong perhaps there’s something
wrong with me why is it that everybody
feels a certain way and I don’t so I’m
gonna show you my personal experience in
the last presidential debate I moderated
the abs-cbn presidential debates a Tory
sympathy what if she is really bright
finanza solution that’s a bo kid mom
Emilio I think stopping you for you
cannot be a president
if you cannot kill it’s not the actual
comet I can permit I cannot Presidente
Oh sibling Marco Joseon young para
McLaren and Marshall oh well rebellion
low less violence and seppuku line you
know can that be taken on rebellion
nothing gonna be on II see that Marcos
yes definitely yes because it has
divided the country until now harness
lucky look I know
galette come back to America
Solano murderer way I did it was a
response to a question coming from media
it’s a concocted a pathetical question
and I was only replying alright the
winner cephalic mohammed pune yo now
it’s awesome enough new everything is
all everybody is okay said my order is
even if it is killing me alright I
wanted to show this because what you
just saw was a segment on the third
presidential debate of abs-cbn which I
moderated and this was a segment on fast
talk we did a fast talk segment and all
the questions with then candidate who is
now president to that they if you look
at the questions then aren’t they all
relevant today
don’t you agree none of us saw that
coming
the burial of former President Marcos
was a big issue there was a rally
declaration of martial law doesn’t
President Duterte in many of his
speeches mentioned this repeatedly I
asked him about Papapa he Caban
common element on my command Anakin and
a dragon he said yes and I asked him the
next logical question my Anaka ba
nanak Drogo
he said no but we see that the forefront
of president the therapist government in
the first six months has been his war on
drugs why am i showing you that video
after I did the debate
I was congratulating in Pangasinan by my
bosses the public the crown but
something really disturbing happened a
friend of mine texted me and said Karen
have you opened Facebook
have you seen Twitter so this was 12:00
midnight because that particular debate
which was life ended at 12:00 I said no
I haven’t seen it Karen you better one
you better open now the viewership of
abs-cbn among the other networks was the
largest among the three 46% of the
Filipino people were watching this
debate I opened it I could not believe
what I saw I opened Facebook and I’m
gonna say this openly because well your
Savior and your mature and this is TED
Talks I saw bullying like I’ve never
seen it before
Putin in a macaron Davila Mamata Khanna
Malik asana but na kita kita seroquel
Sasaki Nikita Akamai Inanna autistic
biased car buyer ANCA
I’m sorry they’re kids in the audience
but it loses impact if I don’t tell you
there were over seventy thousand social
media messages wanting me killed or
raped
think about that think about it and I’ll
be honest with you it bothered me I
asked myself was I wrong for asking
those questions I’m human but this is
the other side of social media I was
bullied now am I gonna cry and tell you
oh my god pity me I was bullied no it’s
par for the course I’m an adult it’s
there what happens next
imagine yourself waking up to being
hated by a whole universe
you don’t know I then posted a photo
after three days in Twitter of me and
then mayor de Tara thing because right
after the debate I took a selfie with
him the irony was among all the
candidates he was the only one I
approached for a photo isn’t that the
irony of life so I posted that photo and
I can’t remember exactly what I wrote
but I said he’s the leading presidential
candidate he can handle the toughest
questions and my thing is when you’re
the leading candidate anywhere in the
world you shouldn’t have it easy you
know why you’re bound to win and when
you’re bound to win it means that you
have to show that you’re ready and they
after it was interesting that president
Duterte then mayor came out with a
statement all on Facebook this is all on
Facebook I never spoke with him after he
won or during the campaign other than
interviews and he said to his followers
don’t bash her stop it I was not
offended and a strange thing happened
almost 80
percent of the negative comments about
me on social media disappeared so what
am I saying
is everything you’re reading organic the
answer is no it is not during the
campaign season you may think it’s
organic but a lot of it are organized
followers trumping one tune and you need
to be sharp enough to see it if you
don’t you will fall into the trap and
think if everybody thinks this way and I
don’t there must be something wrong with
me and I’m here to tell you no there is
nothing wrong with you social media has
introduced something else an intrusion
into your personal space and you know
what it is your mind
social media will let you bandwagon it
will teach you you know what it’s easier
to be with a group to go with the crowd
well I’m here to tell you stop it don’t
go with the crowd even if you’re on
Facebook and it automatically do you
know that Facebook automatically fix all
the things that you read because it has
a scientific method of already finding
what you read learn to get away from the
box search for new things look for a
different point of view don’t fall into
the trap of being in that point of view
my tips for social media which is this
is a personal experience number one you
may think oh my god my settings are
private well forget it nothing is
private nothing if you want to post
yourself naked I’m telling you when you
apply for a job at Citibank Goldman
Sachs globesmart they’re gonna find that
photo they will more and more people job
applications they look at Facebook what
has this person been posting
was he or she like in college so don’t
think oh I am super private right only
the Friends of my family and friends
friends can see me there’s no such thing
too if you’re unsure of something you’ve
posted delete it I realized that
Millennials today think this way I in a
post gonna nah hahaha a yo ho I delete
funny Linda gank Oh am i right
stop it it’s a false sense of prime it
is just social media it is not a binding
contract
do you understand next when you engage
don’t malign insult or humiliate I want
you to go back to your values what did
your mother teach you redeemable
Moravian and ‘santa or face to face Lee
when a man kya go in uni so what gives
you the right to do it on social media
would you slap a person in front of you
you wouldn’t do that you wouldn’t you
milli ate somebody in front of you or
here in Savior what gives you the
license the thing when it’s social media
it’s okay don’t accept profanity and
bullying on your page what you accept
and tolerate will foster my advice when
people are cursing on your page you’ve
got to block it or delete it don’t make
it acceptable as a new language for you
learn to block most of us are scared to
block put back the line don’t let people
intrude on your personal space blocking
protects your personal space
do not post what you want if you can’t
tell somebody in person you need to
learn respect
online this is very important verifying
requests
link’s attachments downloads when you
don’t verify you have an invasion of
your space which then becomes either
your hacked material is stolen or
frankly there’s a virus somewhere and
this is important don’t lead a fake life
I know all of us will only post good
things on Instagram Facebook and Twitter
and it’s right I don’t believe that you
should post how depressed you are if
you’re very depressed I think you should
talk to your parents your counselor a
close friend you have to stop seeing
social media as an intimate concept of
there’s just one person there it isn’t
like that and it’s important to start by
being authentic don’t pretend
don’t pretend you own a mercedes-benz
when really it was your friends and you
chose to sit there and have a photo you
get the point
don’t be that poser it will harm you in
the end don’t reveal feelings online
don’t share everything this is what I
realized I look at Millennials pages I
have among kins younger and everything
they’re naked online shooting themselves
talking to themselves I understand how
things have changed but you must
remember this try and preserve your
personal space get it back you know how
you’ll be empowered when you detach you
have to see social media as a tool you
cannot treat it as you am I making sense
and the last one detach count your hours
are you in social media for two hours
after a while drop the phone let go go
wireless
talk to people it is not the world and
that’s the end of my presentation and I
want to close
with this the spaces we have today are
defined clearly limitlessly but let me
invite you once again to value your
personal space and when I say personal
space I mean this the personal space
where you were taught good things good
values what’s right and wrong
what’s respectful bring that to the open
space of social media engage
insightfully intelligently stick to what
is true and good even when you banter or
disagree thank you very much and have a
good day
[Applause]
[Music]
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