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December 16 1995 Barbara Barnes July 3rd

2007 Jennifer petit May 2008

Beckett Brennan December 7th 2012 Erika

kinsman December 2011

Camilla Willingham I imagined that none

of you know any of the aforementioned

names but these are the names of a few

of the many women whose rapists have

still not received a punishment

equivalent to the crime they have

committed and all of these crimes have

taken place in America yes America

remember that brock turner case that

sparked national outrage for his near

six-month sentence why is it that only a

few rape cases are actually publicized

and spoken about in a country where rape

is so prevalent I am NOT a rape victim

myself however it is very challenging

for me to have hope in a nation where

rape is barely mentioned for me too

shameful that I come from and pledge

loyalty to a country where atrocities

such as rape often go ignored on a daily

basis beyond these borders however lies

a different side a more positive side

America is a force to be reckoned with

we are the global leaders and many

facets of the world including space film

and Technology our television industry

is admired all around the world

whenever I visit India I’m always

surprised by a did a remake of an

American TV show The Suite Life of Zack

and Cody

becomes The Suite Life of Karn and Kabir

good luck charlie becomes good luck

Nicky more so than our television shows

our cinema industry is highly acclaimed

Bollywood one of the largest film

producing industries in the whole entire

world tries to emulate Hollywood

by introducing more hollywood-style

action and fighting scenes bollywood is

also trying Abreu to produce more

meaningful cinema with more resonant and

powerful storylines instead of the

typical rom-com with dancing and music

another way america is a global leader

is through our lifestyle from a wealth

standpoint america is one of the richest

countries in the world although we may

have income disparities on the inside we

are still in a much better off economic

condition than many other countries for

example according to the united states

news

the average united states income is

$55,000 which is considerably high

compared to the 6,000 yearly income of

bolivia and nigeria our housing size is

notably large as well even compared to

countries just as developed and capable

for instance

the united kingdom has an average

housing size of 818 square feet compared

to ours at 2,500 square feet

as you can see america is an extremely

developed society and has crossed

several milestones however there’s still

one area that america struggles in

gender equality it’s not very often that

we see a rape crime make national

headlines or appear on the front pages

of newspapers because rapes simply

aren’t reported the United States

Department of Justice recently released

statistics stating that only 30 percent

of sexual assault cases are reported to

authorities what about the rest of the

seventy percent they deserve justice too

but why aren’t they reporting it an

article written in 2014 by Eliza gray

reveals why police rarely hear about

campus rapes she mentions how studies

show that many rape victims are afraid

of the negative reputation they may gain

if their names are associated with rape

they fear that they will lose their

friends and willingly choose to remain

silent

great also interestingly reveals that

many rape victims choose not to say

anything and start blaming themselves

for it ultimately resulting in them

losing their self-confidence and a sea

another reason why police do not hear

about rape cases are because most

colleges actually often discourage it

they fear that involvement with police

will lead to the defamation of the

campus

a recent study conducted reveals that

41% of public campuses have not

conducted a single sexual assault

investigation in the past five years

this indirectly states than the past

five years there has been no sexual

assault on these campuses which I find

really hard to believe because

predominantly the most rape cases in

America take place on college campuses

punishment to rapist is also a rare

occurrence

according to rain rai nn an anti sexual

abuse organization 994 out of 1,000

rapists or perpetrators will walk free

out of every 1000 rapes 310 are reported

to police

57 will lead to an arrest 11 are

referred to prosecutors 7 will receive a

felony conviction and 6 will lead to an

incarceration basically the vast

majority of rapists will walk free and

not even be registered sex offenders due

to the 690 of them that don’t get

reported these are devastating numbers

and really take away from the pride and

prestige of America the United States is

in the only country that suffers in the

case of sexual crimes Boko Haram a

notorious terrorist group located in

Nigeria actually hold rape camps that

are nearly impossible to escape about

three years ago 276 girls were kidnapped

by Boko Haram and as a result of it the

hashtag bringbackourgirls movement a

social media hashtag was created the

dominant reason for the abduction of

these girls was for the purpose of

babies these innocent young girls were

forced into birthing the children of

their captors Amma is a child soldier

kidnapped by Boko Haram reveals how the

older men of the group actually taught

him how to rape he mentions how he was

techniques of how to subdue a woman when

she was resisting and struggling since

then many more girls have been kidnapped

and this horrible cycle of rape and

sexual abuse still continues another

country where rape is common and

prevalent is India

the infamous Delhi gang rape sparked

international controversy but sadly the

Delhi gang group is a daily occurrence

in India acid attack is also commonly

associated rape over there every 15

minutes a woman is raped and every two

minutes a woman is a victim of a crime

these are terrorizing numbers the

biggest problem that India faces is that

the number of rapes is actually

increasing per year instead of

decreasing you would think that with

globalization and the increased feminist

movements that India would have reformed

just a little but instead it’s gotten

worse in 2014 there was an average of

reported 37,000 rape cases however

considering that most of India’s rape

cases aren’t even reported to

authorities this number should probably

be twice or thrice as much punishment

rapists has been uncommon in India but

there have been slight reforms and 2013

the Indian government passed the anti

rape bill recognizing that the age for

sexual consent was 18 years and anyone

under the age of 18 was sexually touched

or sexually their own common set then

that would be counted as an offence this

bill also states that police must report

all cases brought up to them the one

part of this bill that brings up mixed

reviews is that it does not account for

marital rape as an offence isn’t that

shocking as devastating and

disheartening as these numbers are

America is even worse every 107 seconds

someone is sexually assaulted and there

are about two hundred and ninety three

thousand cases of rape per year this is

shocking to me because I would have

expected the rankings of America and

India to be completely opposite and I

have a feeling that this would be

shocking to many of

you as well because of the way America

portrays themself to the rest of the

world we point fingers at other

countries for their ill treatment

towards women but at the same time we

have thousands of rapists that treat

women equally as bad just because we are

like this now doesn’t mean we can’t

change we set global trends we have the

power to change the ways of the world

it’s all in our hands why don’t we take

advantage of this power to better the

world instead of showing off how wealthy

and potent we are according to the

United States news America is the most

powerful nation in the whole world which

means that we are politically

economically and militarily the most

powerful and influential nation why

don’t we take advantage of this power to

not only benefit us but benefit others

by personifying resolves as a perfect

example for other countries to emulate

as they already try and do in order to

build ourselves up to the perfect

example we need to be the country with

the least gender inequality so we can

spread these values and way of life to

the rest of the world well how are we

going to do that let’s start with our

government we claim to be one of the

most women empowering and women’s

supportive countries in the world yet

country such as Tajikistan Afghanistan

Pakistan and Uganda have a higher

percentage of women in their government

than us India has even had their own

female prime minister yet here we are

with forty five consecutive presidencies

of just men there are more women than

men in the United States the only 17

percent of our Congress is female it’s

not that women aren’t smart enough or

don’t have good ideas it’s just how our

society works some women’s ideas aren’t

even considered for the sole purpose

that they are women we need to encourage

the participation of women in our

government because every decision made

in our country directly affects them if

there aren’t enough women in the

government to protest a decision made on

birth control or reproductive rights

that a wrong decision could be made and

women will just have to deal with

another injustice by using the United

States government

as an example we can soon diffuse these

same principles to all other industries

of the United States many companies will

look at the success of the United States

government with the addition of women

and realize that both genders are needed

for the success of a company by starting

at the United States government we will

slowly work our way down to jobs at a

local level and help even out the number

of men and women in the workforce

ultimately leading to higher efficiency

the structure for government is a big

change but a small change we can make is

by enforcing gender equality and our

normal households by defying gender

norms for instance

Dodd’s cooking and taking care of the

kids dad’s making school lunches and

doing household chores mom’s holding a

job these gender roles that we have

enforced upon ourselves have turned us

into such a strict society that doing

anything outside of the norm is shunned

and looked down upon even if it is ok

many women in Southeast Asia and

developing parts of Africa are forced to

do manual labour while their husbands go

off to the city and work for better pay

in America if we encouraged a woman and

man’s role to be interchangeable

maybe these women in Southeast Asia and

developing parts of Africa can also go

up this city and work and receive better

pay like I said in the beginning rape is

an issue that often goes unheard of in

the United States these social stigmas

we have around speaking up and attaining

justice need to be demolished women

should not fear speaking the truth about

their experiences we need to encourage

our women to speak up about any sexual

abuse or harassment that has happened

towards them so we can set an example

for countries like India where rape

isn’t punished in order to bring about a

change in societies like India where

rapes don’t even get reported we need to

encourage our women to speak up about

any sexual atrocity that happens towards

them

most women sit quietly and that’s why

countries such as India receive the

perception that if America all developed

and all don’t punish rapists and why

should we if that’s the same path we’re

headed on

we can take the Brock Turner taste for

instance he only received a six-month

prison sentence yes he is a registered

sex offender but only a six-month prison

sentence for such a heinous crime is

unacceptable in my opinion what type of

image are Reaper training to other

countries that it is okay for men to

rape women and they will barely get

punished in order to bring about a

change I encourage all women who have

been sexually abused to speak up and

keep fighting until justice is given it

might seem like a tedious process with

tons of court hearings dramatized news

articles and lots of disapproval but if

every story and every detail isn’t heard

we will be stuck in the same cycle of

injustice forever

gender equality is possible we’ve seen

to come together and work to make it

come true globalization has helped us

achieve many things let’s use it to

bring about a permanent change into our

societies we constantly blame and

criticize other countries for their

malicious ways towards women or the lack

of women empowerment but at the same

time we aren’t perfect we are far from

perfect now I know that perfection isn’t

achievable but let’s make America the

closest country to perfect there is so

we can set an example for other

countries to follow America is the

change we need to help eradicate gender and equality

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