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The Love of Attraction | Puteri Nur Syafawati Binti Mohd Shamshir | TEDxUUM


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and if ever the look puffy if a little
cougar is kind of gerson so when I was
16 I was involved in a very prestigious
boarding school and in that school
everybody was so intelligent that
they’re so confident themself and have
nothing like that nothing at all I was
very shy and introverted it hurts him in
and I know that I would stand in the
same level at them and therefore I
isolated myself for my friends and this
bad a friend came up to me and she said
really I know things are hard for you
right now but if you really want to
change things only you have the power to
change that ah
so if I want to change things I have to
change first so I did and that was like
a mantra that I fixated on and be a
little obsessed over and now here in um
the boiler has a normal average student
I try to involve myself in various of
activities and that’s making many
friends
different circles and it won’t stick to
one and that’s where I developed a very
funny internal character I love all my
friends and they also love me for who I
am
so how to make how I make people fall in
love with me the title what it meant by
how do I make people fall in love with
me it’s not people asking me for
marriage no no no no no it’s about
people enjoying having me as their
companionship is about people wanting is
here my thoughts is about people wanting
me to listen to them when they’re doing
down and this in fact they have how do I
make people follow up with me so the
three simple rules I said in my life
fellas you make the first approach for
me simply I just went out I just walked
some phase and I met people that I know
and I’ll greet them Heiko me
hi my god hiya Pete it’s really
something very simple but
rather than do it so when I was in Japan
for my extreme study with the boxes – I
have a foster family
we chose now I’ve seen doubling of
sadhana and having this very interesting
conversation he was something about the
company that is working for he was
freezing his boss and I asked him
Oh sana what is so great about your boss
I admire him so much
and here you die it’s because my boss
remember my knee and also a birthday so
in Japan they have this culture whereby
a boss
remember all the employees being and
also birthday so you think have 1000
employee in the company so one of the
means that per day that day that day
remember so on my boss Tanaka’s birthday
he told me that he was his boss came on
to him and he said mr. computer thank
you for being born and contributing your
energy for this company
happy birthday so how do you think when
the head company approached him and
wished his birthday he still appreciated
he feel valuable to the company so that
the first addressed during the first
second is having that positive firing
you you see people are very attractive
positivity how many of you here have
friends that are randomly
any fighting going on when relations
call you dr. keyboard keepers arrogance
see I have those entrances are and
whenever that my friends suddenly knock
the blue like people around her loves as
well without knowing why so you see when
you have a positive mind into positive
action and the action gives out a very
positive result there is being genuine
in what are you doing so gentlemen is
something that you can’t measure genuine
is something that you feel so
effectively sorry when I was in Japan I
was a doorman in this program called
techniques and tactics is we’re going
there all the asean students exchange
students to be in one group and we have
compulsory classes
and cultural exclusivity so that part we
are all so close to each other it felt
like family a very a very economy but
this one guy was this one particular guy
that I would have considered in shot
because whenever he stands in front of
everybody
he’s doing his presentation she was
really good I swear better than any but
when we’re having parties Academy he’ll
just sit at one corner and leave his old
world he does at the top and he only
speaks when he needed to
so I told myself okay let’s do this so I
want an approaching once you have a
conversation with him that’s why he
avoids me she ran away from me and
that’s when I approach him again and you
know we familia and again and again
continuously and three months later I
can sit down listen and have a proper
conversation with them we even thought
together and all our other friends was
amazed
did he just sit down with you you guys
just talk to each other yeah whoa
something going on no we’re just friends
yeah so he had mr. wrong with all of us
and he can get to know us better and
vice versa
Dixon tada he came up to me he said Lily
that’s because you cannot are already
they leave thank you for approaching
thank you for not giving up on me and he
smiled the using gentlemen that was the
most beautiful six years that I have
ever seen from him and again there’s
nothing going on between us yeah so that
is German truth is something that would
make you feel tired because gentlemen we
fix our Germany No energies we say so
tada the treatment rooms that I said
what is it guys do you ever come on your
memory okay first why do you first
approach second being positive has a
positive value they’re being gentlemen
and that ladies and gentlemen are my
rules are having the law of attraction
and with that I thank you
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