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The Hijab: A Way of Life | Mariha Junaid | TEDxYouth@RVA


the Magic Kingdom a wonderful place

where all your dreams come true my

dreams were at least until I heard mmm

oh my god I can’t believe her mom makes

her wear that wait a minute what

after a brief confrontation I realized

that that girl was talking about my

headscarf more commonly known as the

hijab see I was in the Magic Kingdom

that day on my way to meet my favorite

Disney Princess Merida from the Pixar

movie brave and I was fixing my scarf in

an attempt to get the perfect style the

perfect coverage however those girls

thought that I was a quiet uneducated

oppressed girl that deserved to be

pitied

however I am NOT oppressed nor am I an

educated considering I’m standing before

you today instead we should consider the

hijab to be a form of social expression

contrary to the mainstream idea that

it’s a form of female subordination

today we will delve into a whole new

world and identify what the hijab is

then we’ll look at the different reasons

behind wearing the hijab before we

finally look at how the hijab allows a

woman to let it go and empower herself

first let’s actually think about what

the hijab is according to the

merriam-webster dictionary the hijab is

a traditional covering of the head and

neck that is worn by Muslim women the

definition is technically correct the

job is much more than that the hijab is

not only a cloth a woman uses to cover

herself but a lifestyle a lifestyle

that’s prescribed to men as well a man

should lower his gaze when speaking to a

woman in order to show her respect in

both genders shouldn’t touch one another

casually unless there is a relation

between them though it sounds strict and

straight-laced it’s not as extreme as it

seems see it not only humbles the woman

but the man as well so they must respect

one another as equals you are wearing

the hijab right now you just didn’t know

it the hijab is not only how you dress

but also how you act and interact with

others how you judge yourself and how

you view the world around you that is

your

and some women choose to symbolize that

hijab by wearing the headscarf now we

come to the next question

why do women wear the hijab anyways

according to many misconceptions that

are around the world many women are

supposedly forced to wear the hijab

however that’s further than the truth

according to Islamic teachings a woman

cannot be forced into doing anything

against her will a philosophy our dear

Merida strongly believes in there are

many reasons behind wearing the hijab

and it can really vary from person to

person for me it took about two to three

years to decide if I really wanted to

wear the hijab or not but my journey

with the hijab began much before that as

a young girl I was enamored and

fascinated by the hijab all the

different colors and styles through so

many options however I was scared I

started the summer before seventh grade

at the time it felt like an uneducated

decision one that was fuelled by

instinct sure my parents supported me

wholeheartedly but I could still feel

the unwanted stares as I walked on the

street later on I realized that I felt

like I had a duty to represent my

religion and my gender in a positive

light I was frustrated with the way I

was being represented in society and in

the media when I turned on the news I

was considered to be the wife sister or

daughter of a terrorist and when I

looked to society as a woman I was being

judged more by my appearance not by my

intellect in other words if I chose to

go against societal norms I was

considered to be oppressed and if I

chose to follow them I became an object

the hijab allowed me to silently express

my opinion breaking the mold of how a

woman is valued in society by changing

the way I dressed but also shedding a

positive light on my religion of Islam

through my contributions to society in

the hijab I was able to find peace and

protection after I started wearing hijab

I really began to let it go I became an

independent and empowered women the

hijab allowed me to feel more judged by

my intellect and my

actions not by my appearance popular

Malaysian artist Yuna skyrocketed to

fame in the United States after her

creative lyrics became known to the

likes of Pharrell Williams and later

moved on to perform a full US tour with

Florentin machine however unlike many

mainstream artists hood of today Yuna is

not your typical beauty her bare minimum

makeup of red lipstick and cat eyeliner

grace her for APS in two full albums

along with her hijab Yuna was recognized

for her creative talents not for her

appearance but that doesn’t mean muslim

woman can’t be fashionable as well

according to studies done in january

2015 the muslim fashion industry was

valued to be at 96 billion u.s. dollars

that is a lot of glass slippers see what

we felt is he has a society is the

positive impact the hijab has on a woman

we take in the secular anti a job

sentiment seen in our media and

portrayed in society and subconsciously

also portrayed them when presented with

the idea of hijab

however in Islam a woman is equal to a

man she gets the same rights that he

does she can be the breadwinner of the

home the hijab allows a woman to go

above appearance and focus on her mind

so that she is in more control for

actions when you think about it the

hijab is a beautiful idea one that is

happily embodied by many women around

the world however it is an idea that is

under constant attack especially in the

current climate of our country after the

dreadful attacks in France last November

the number of Islamophobic incidents in

the United States raised significantly

almost higher than the numbers in the

months following 9/11 as of October 26th

2016 after all show up as of October 26

2016 there have been a 111 reported

incidents of Islamophobia in the United

States now these are things that have

led to police charges or actual police

filings but haven’t considered the

harassment that many women face on the

street every day after the election

many Muslim communities feared that this

number would increase significantly and

we’re concerned about the women and

girls that chose to wear the hijab there

is something wrong with that and we have

the power to fix it we have the power to

accept and respect the hijab now I’m

asking you something very simple today

I’m not asking you to completely fall in

love with the idea of the hijab nor am I

asking you to wear a pillowcase on your

head every time you go out but what I am

asking you is to be open to the idea of

the hijab consider to be a form of

social expression the hijab is not a

chain that holds a woman back from her

true potential but is instead the key to

her success those that choose to wear

the hijab wear than individuals

individuals that choose not to succumb

to society’s norms the hijab keeps a

woman steadfast in which he believes in

and strong against her obstacles that

day at the Magic Kingdom I got my

picture with Princess Merida as you have

seen before and let me tell you it was

pretty awesome on my way home as I chose

the 20 Instagram filters that I applied

to this picture I chose something I’d

realized something really really

important sure there was Merida in that

picture a beautiful independent and

strong Disney Princess who embodies many

values that I tried to embody myself but

there was also me and who says I can’t

be a princess to accept I would be

wearing a crown of a different kind

thank you

[Applause]

thank you so much for that powerful talk

you certainly taught me a lot I hadn’t

known about Islamic culture and I thank

you again for reminding us that we must

accept and respect each other no matter

what no matter how different we may seem

I do have one question though you said

your favorite princess was Merida but is

brave your favorite Disney movie or do

you have another as a very proud classic

student Hercules is my favorite doesn’t

even know I mean accurate a maybe

Hercules is my favorite that is also my

favorite movie guys you make connections

every day it’s amazing Maria thank you so much you

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