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The Drive Behind Progression | Karim Khan | TEDxAlYasminaAcademy


so what does drive us what does help us

develop and make life easier for

ourselves well I believe it comes down

to a few things now please watch the

video presented on the screen while i

narrate what occurs to you all right so

as we can see here there is a male and

female spider and so the male spider the

smaller one on top managed to attract

the female by flaunting his colors but

as you can see here he is being rolled

up into a ball and he will turn out to

be her dessert sort of like a

marshmallow and then there’s this video

this is bull was pheasant and he has got

spectacular wattles he’s impressive

enough when he’s going about his normal

business but when she is around he gets

impressive though he is she is very

don’t ask me about what that whole thing

was because I have no idea but in this

video produced by BBC wildlife so David

Attenborough states he is not good

enough and this brings me to competition

it is natural within every species

competition is one of the main driving

factors that lead us to improving our

lifestyle it is a never-ending cycle

that takes place every day for each and

every one of us it drives us and pushes

us to succeed it is the survival of the

fittest and it is natural selection as

we know it so people working jobs

throughout every day of their lives deal

with us and they’re always trying to

impress constantly trying to flourish

within their workspace attempting to

stand out from everyone else attempting

sorry and in order to gain that

attention and potentially a promotion as

well this is because us as humans we

crave recognition and as we continue to

compete with each other we achieve more

and more our lives become easier the

intensity increases as the smarter we

get we gain more knowledge as more

research is done and more discoveries

are made this further relates back to

science science is the basis of

everything we know biology chemistry

physics scientists are constantly trying

to out compete each other every day

leaving their own little mark unique

mark in history this in part is

consistent of and due to genetics

and DNA some people are pre-programmed

to have a drive for competition all they

want to do every day is compete to prove

that they are better than everyone else

but having said that there are people

that do not come preprogrammed to

compete but this is that this does not

result in a lack of motivation it does

not result in a lack of drive the way I

see it motivation is something that you

need to earn something you need to gain

and the way I see it you have to work

for it you have to work hard in order to

achieve something it doesn’t just come

to you when you wanted to otherwise

we’ll all be steve jobs and bill gates

and we’d all be billionaires and it

wouldn’t be special anymore but how do

we manage to motivate ourselves well one

of the answers is competition which I’ve

already talked about but there are

several other factors one of them I find

is fear of failure and this is personal

to me as well because I think about this

every day and it is what drives me I did

mention that we crave recognition but we

don’t only need it when we succeed and

go above and beyond but we also create

recognition and want it when we complete

a hard task whenever you’re attempting

to complete a task that is so hard that

you barely manage the completed at the

end you want recognition that is what

you crave and so nobody wants to be

considered a failure by anyone else by

their peers by their families or even by

themselves so I personally don’t want to

be the person within a team or group or

workspace that is considered the failure

I want to be the person that is relied

upon and given tasks rather than not

relied upon because they have a

reputation for not fulfilling tasks

successful

and I don’t even want to be the person

who misses out on important

opportunities because of that reputation

opportunities that can land me in places

later on in life I’m sure you could

agree especially those of you that have

ever been in that situation but not now

try to imagine this try to imagine

yourself in a situation where you’re

exhausted and you’re trying to complete

a task but it’s just not working out

you’re you’re close to the end but you

don’t know what to do next and suddenly

you get that little boost that little

boost the motivation that little push

forward that energy that suddenly

supplied to your brain that drives you

forward and you complete that task that

is because of fear of failure you are

too afraid to fail you don’t want to be

known as the failure and it is quite

powerful this fear of failure that we

have and it’s extremely influential

within our lives that’s not the only

thing I want to talk to you about there

is another factor there is also

extremely important failure isn’t

pleasant so I don’t want to leave you on

that note but the other factor is and

it’s having a dream every person in this

audience has their own dream their own

perception of what life should be like

later on and so now as humans we always

try to achieve something no matter what

it is try to think of a time when you’ve

either gone to the gym or worked out you

feel that little boost of energy at the

end as well where you feel happy you

feel enlightened that is because of a

neurotransmitter in your brain called

dopamine neurotransmitters are the

chemicals that are injected into your

brain through glance that allow you to

feel different things everything you

feel is in fact a chemical reaction now

dopamine

used to be considered the feel-good

chemical and this is because every time

you complete the day task you would get

a little hit of dopamine in your brain

which would make you feel happy and so I

wanted to go from talking about this

good feeling this dopamine and how you

can actually control that because it is

controllable people can use their brains

that they’re the hormones they’re

invited to their advantage and so this

is done by a step-down refinement you

take a large task maybe your end goal

maybe the goal for the end of the month

at the end of the year and you break it

down you break down into small

individual tasks that you can divide and

conquer and so with these tasks you

slowly train yourself to be happy once

you achieve and complete that task you

slowly train yourself to become more

motivated once you break down those

tasks you will find that it is easier to

complete the overall goal and so you can

control your dopamine level so use it to

your advantage and those in my opinion

are the main driving factors of what

causes us to progress as a species

humans have progressed a lot in the past

20 to 30 years much larger than the

hundred years before that and that’s

because as we come smarter and more

knowledgeable and the technology becomes

better as we progress we make it easier

for ourselves so therefore how long will

this movement forward last I don’t know

only time can tell what I can tell you

is that compete fear overall fair

failure but do not feel fear the little

farriers because you can learn from your

mistakes if you fail from a small task

take that mistake learn from it and move

forward use your powerful brains they’re

there for a reason

and dream big because everyone wants to

leave their own little mark in history

thank you very much

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