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Thank You Paula well good evening

everyone

my name is Matthew and this is my good

friend and colleague Josh our story

really begins about six years ago with a

simple but profound moment when we to

average absolutely average guts from

northern New Hampshire stumbled upon one

of life’s classic Forks in the road in

2009 after about eight years of doing

work informally in the Dominican

Republic we found ourselves in the

community of San Luis which is about a

about thirty minutes outside of the

capital of Santo Domingo Josh and I had

been invited into the bought a and the

the home was a very typical home dirt

floor one room scrapped corrugated steel

walls and roof and we had been invited

in when the hopes that we couldn’t do

something about a situation and what we

found when we entered this home was a

severely malnourished infant about three

weeks old who was failing to thrive and

had very little hope of survival

basically what was happening was because

of a slight change in the family’s

ability to bring in income this child

was dying of starvation as so frequently

happens in communities of extreme

poverty where a slight change literally

means the difference between life and

death this kid wasn’t gonna make it

so after talking to the family for a

little while we left kind of shaking our

heads a tear in our eye and we later

that evening went spent 25 hours on

three months worth of high-nutrient baby

formula and we left it anonymously out

in front of the family’s home however we

were quite doubtful that $25 was

magically going to save the life of a

child later that night Josh our

dominican friend and colleague alberto

and I sat on Alberto’s roof and we

reflected upon the eight plus years of

work that we had done in the

in Republic and what we had accomplished

and we decided quite definitively that

it wasn’t enough that we needed to do

more and in that moment we gave life to

the bought a foundation which would

become a vehicle for addressing some of

the serious human rights abuses on the

Betazed of the dominican republic

bringing minds and money and expertise

and empathy from new hampshire to serve

in some of the most destitute

communities in the world what we did not

expect at the time was the profound

impact that this little endeavor would

have on the lives of people especially

students living in the north country of

new hampshire this is a story about us

though this is a story about people and

cultures I’m gonna bring you back to

1996 Bill Clinton was president I think

I was a junior and he was already old

and the Macarena was number one on the

pop charts right over here at the

hospital Kayla Martin was born about

1,700 miles away in one of those bought

a homes a girl that we’re gonna call

Heidi was born now

Heidi’s gonna represent hundreds and

hundreds of girls born in the bat a

every single year you see Kayla was born

white in a US citizen that citizenship

guarantees her access to public

education access to health care access

to equal access under the law or equal

protection under the law and if she

absolutely needs it when she’s older or

any point in her life a safety net Heidi

on the other hand was born poor and

black now being black in the Dominican

Republic especially Heidi’s dark skin

tone means being vulnerable and

marginalized Haitian origin and descent

is often assumed an anti Haitian

sentiment is palpable at all levels of

dominican life

in addition Heidi was born without

citizenship anywhere she is neither

Dominican or is she Haitian she has

denied citizenship by the Dominican

government because of her Haitian roots

however she’s never been to Haiti

she doesn’t speak Haitian Creole and she

is not Haitian Heidi does not have a

passport she does not have a birth

certificate hi

he was born a stateless child I’m gonna

focus on those incredibly important

first five years for a minute

Kayla’s first five years were far from

easy born to a single mom in northern

New Hampshire that situation is not

particularly easy one to get through

however with hard work Kayla may not

have had everything she wanted but she

certainly had everything that she needed

she had clothes on her back she had food

on the table access to early childhood

education

Heidi’s situation those first five years

was different in her first five years

Heidi

slept every single night on an old

mattress on the dirt floor of her

family’s home with her five brothers and

sisters and her two parents she went

many days without food and when she did

have food it was often two to three

meals of plain white rice at age five

kayla enrolled at bethlehem elementary

school the same place that matthew nice

children started there they have small

classrooms with small classes dedicated

teachers a school lunch program a full

library technology it was really there

at Bethlehem that Kayla’s love for

learning flourished

in Heidi’s elementary school years she

often had to make the decision about

whether to go to school or whether go to

the local street corner or stoplight to

pedal or beg to help put food on the

family’s table when she could go to

school she was crammed into two

classrooms with a hundred and fifty

other students the rooms were sweltering

the roof leaked and when a trained

school was cancelled there were very few

chairs and desks and most of the kids

sat on the dirt floor to do their work

there was a one out house for all of

these children needless to say this was

not an environment that was conducive to

academic or personal growth for Heidi or

any other student at that school after

Bethlehem elementary school Kayla came

over to profile and that’s where I met

her

profiles consistently one of the best

school in the state and it’s filled with

opportunities and Kayla took them all

she acted in a play she played three

seasons of sports for four years she

took AP courses got into the National

Honor Society she took every opportunity

that the school provided her and because

of that combined with her

self-determination in that

hard work that her mom had instilled at

a young age she was incredibly

successful for Heidi though she was a

committed student strong and intelligent

and though she wanted desperately to

continue her studies because she knew it

was the only way to defend herself

because she did not have citizenship she

could not study beyond the seventh grade

so she left school she went and found

odd jobs to help out with the family’s

income and she cared for her little

brothers and sisters she resisted the

path that so many of her young female

peers took to get married and begin

having children at a very young age

Heidi had effectively fallen into the

cycle of poverty as so many had done

before her that would prohibit her from

ever leaving the but a in 2010 these

stories start to converge a little bit

I had Kayla in class with me when we

showed up to school and learned about

the devastating earthquake in Haiti I

remember we were able to watch the thing

unfold right on my smart board but the

experience was completely academic I

mean I did my best I stood up on desks

and ranted and raved about how an event

like this could hurt the extremely poor

but the bell rang and eventually the

kids just left

Heidi’s experienced with that earthquake

was incredibly done following the

earthquake people flooded into Heidi’s

community fleeing the devastation in

Haiti the already minimal resources in

Heidi’s community were stretched

incredibly thin in her household alone

the number of residents increased from 8

to 13 and Josh and I remember very

clearly being in San Luis at that time

the people coming from Haiti especially

the ones that landed in Heidi’s home

were severely injured or burned from the

earthquake these were difficult times in

San Luis and hunger was rampant in 2003

the stories actually collide Kayla

traveled with the but a foundation down

to San Luis but a in Santo Domingo and

she worked for a week side-by-side with

girls just like Heidi it was there that

they realized that those 1,700 miles the

color of their skin and their language

didn’t actually separate them as much as

they thought they loved to play they

played some of the same games they

learned to laugh

had a lot of the same ideas about their

future they wanted to be successful they

wanted an education and at some point

when they were older they wanted to be

able to provide for their own families

when these two worlds collided centuries

of misunderstanding of cultural

difference of contrived political

borders and boundaries melted away and

they were replaced with lasting

friendship and understanding Heidi had

found in in this collision a voice and

when these two worlds collided all that

had been before and disappeared was now

palpable in their future it see at that

point or up to that point

Kailas understanding of extreme poverty

was simply intellectual but to be able

to actually spend a week side-by-side

tasting it smelling it feeling poverty

in her hand it absolutely changed her

life I remember she was sick as a dog

getting on the plane to come back and

what she was worried about was

forgetting the experience and she told

me I can’t let this stay like this there

has to be something that I can do for

Heidi he gained an ally someone who

could share her story with all its ugly

poverty and oppression with the rest of

the world something that she had never

been able to do because she does not

have the power or privilege to do so for

the first time she felt hope for a

better future because she had found that

voice and as Kevin mentioned before we

cannot underestimate the power of that

hope so where are these ladies now kayla

was invited to be here tonight but she

couldn’t make it she’s at Georgetown

University getting her degree in

international health with a minor in

Spanish she helped us a ton with this

slide show and she told me truly not a

day goes by where she doesn’t think

about that experience she did leave me

with this quote though it was my first

experience with poverty at the level and

it was eye-opening and how much

disparity exists in our world the

experience forced me to take a step back

and analyze my own values and what I

want to do with my life I want to do my

part to eradicate extreme poverty and to

abolish serious human rights abuses

around the

Heidi is now back in school through the

help of Abbott a foundation scholarship

she is studying to become a lawyer to

serve hopefully in the future the

vulnerable people in her community

through a partnership in a collaboration

between people from here and people in

the Dominican Republic the children in

Heidi’s community now have a brand new

school that serves 900 students who

before did not have had not ever gone to

school because they effectively didn’t

have one

the school has ten classrooms it has a

basketball court it has functioning

bathrooms and toilets it has a strong

and dedicated faculty and a committed

administrative team

it has desks and chairs and materials

the people in Heidi’s community now have

a two-story 2500 square foot community

center where for the first time the

entire community can come together and

begin building and planning for a better

future they have a small clinic they

have access to public health initiatives

things are looking up in that community

though there’s still lots of work to do

you see the world isn’t as big as it

used to be northern New Hampshire and

Santo Domingo are not as far as part as

they once were we believe that it is our

responsibility to foster the connections

that aid the most vulnerable amongst us

we believe that it is our responsibility

to inspire both individual and

collective action for good we think that

bringing the Kaela’s and the Heidi’s of

the world together is just one of the

ways that we can be the change that we

hope to see in the world

so to circle back around and kind of

wrap things up a little bit

two years after Josh and I found

ourselves standing over this dying

infant I was leading a group around the

community of San Luis and this woman

comes running up to me she’s all excited

she’s like my town my town she comes up

and she gives me a giant hug and she

says I need you to meet somebody

I was like okay she disappears around

the corner and comes back a couple

minutes later and I remember it like it

was yesterday running behind her was the

most beautiful vibrant healthy little

two-year-old boy

twenty-five dollars they have the life

of this kid Josh and I and every single

one of our programs with a simple but

profound quote by Margaret Mead never

doubt that a small group of thoughtful

committed citizens can change the world

indeed it is the only thing that ever

has thank you [Applause]

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