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Sucesso: Você Pode! | Mary Elbe Queiroz | TEDxDeVryRecifeWomen


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good evening
I feel like a successful woman
problem in saying this is people
usually they are intimidated in
to speak of the qualities of conquest and
own success
in compensation you do not have the least shame
to say of the failures and 200
especially women
I am you pub a city ​​of 23 thousand
inhabitants and got where I came to this
exactly what I want to pass on to you
as a way of showing that I’m not
an alien I am no different from
no one
anyone that you’re there too
You can get where you want, but we can
talks about success and what is success
success is what is power is career is in
family and happiness is having children
breathe think a little what is the
success for you you choose each one
chooses its concept of success and
run after him like I told you
I was born there in pernambuco and epub cities
both have on the map with four years I saw
went with my family to live in petrolina
then at age 14 there was no
college in law school
here on the reef 850 km away
traveling with my sister
older driving away from the family
was a teenager
but I came back exactly what I thought the
that would be my life goal because
For me, success is reaching the goal.
which I propose I proposed to myself
and for that purpose I got in.
of me have parents and have harmony
I went exactly to make my son
master’s degree in reef also after
did the doctorate in são paulo did the
postdoctoral studies in lisbon and today I
lectures in brazil’s entire lecture
in Brazil outside of Brazil but to arrive
I studied a lot nights and nights here.
studying at the weekend but I got
balance love dating fun
I was married, I have two beautiful daughters.
wonderful and voice and eit a divorce
super difficult but not painful
crying and I did not regret
knows that thing of raises shakes to
dust and turns around after
five days and five nights crying
I got up and saw what I’m doing here.
I took a shower and put on a dress
red and write my second book
I never gave my regrets or the
I cry because because I had exactly
sure and where I wanted to go and there
in this walk several things were
important to me I discovered that
there are some keys that all
Successful people
they have in common and that any person
You can also get enough to want
the first thing we have to do is
to observe is to believe in oneself
usually mainly women
they do not have self-esteem
self-confidence is not certain that
can when they can
We can do everything we can to do.
others and within the people who
achieve or goal you are pursuing
self esteem
You have to have love for you if you
You love each other like you want it to.
other people will love me
so you have to believe because you
can achieve something else that is
very important the determination focus
You have to know exactly what you
want to go back and not go through
above nobody trampling over the
others and you get nowhere
thereby
but you have to go there and search for what
You want to stop and not regret it.
nor crying because you go
need to work hard
No one can get where they get where on your
goal without working
How many nights I was clear on my
postdoctoral studies and woke 4 hours
morning
The day will not even dawn when the mother
It was beautiful, that macedo solo and
on the beach for a good trip
but not enough 99%
you have to deliver 100% and in that 100%
You can not forget to balance
exactly the family that is the most
important to dedicate to children and
whether you should click yourself because you
You also have to take care of yourself, it ‘s a cake.
Are you going to make a cake?
ingredients and missing one it does not
complete then it has to be 100%
dedication and work and something that
I think super important to transform
obstacles in the
Instead of facing this, it’s worth everything.
world men and women instead of you
that this is a difficulty that
will not you have to put it in your
head what you will overcome
Because you’re seeing far away, you’re
seeing exactly where you want to go and
if you think so you arrive is difficult
I will not say it’s easy
There is a day that you will wake up, you will.
being tired and discouraged but you have
to go forward and there’s something
important to follow the mirins example in
someone who can inspire you
admire
sometimes that person on your side I
I have to my house is something very
interesting in my life I had a
congress of tax law in bahia
that every year I went there and when
arrived a year ago to see a student at
speak as a teacher or teacher
I was looking at the audience and the lady.
so studious I wanted to do
masters
why do not you make her turned to me
and I said I can spend hours just wanting
We said goodbye and she left the year.
Following
I’ll give a lecture at the same congress there
The student Valdir is just going to school.
doing mastery saiki good tone cheerful
she was a teacher and was looking to
I told the audience with my friend
besides our scholars, she is thin
then I looked at her and just say what
left was regime
then she turned and said I can look at it
want
there in the dividends although in the 3rd year I
I get there she comes thin and screaming at
teacher teacher I am
finishing the master’s degree and that’s cool
When are you going to be the bank of the sentra?
Then the teacher told me I have
a very serious difficulty in my
Marriage with the lady you find there I stopped
they regale it for him this
subject I will not comment
only you will be able to decide more
In the meantime, you study, you work.
has its financial independence has
Autonomy after you solve what you
want
so sometimes a word of
someone who is near you for me
Motivate but do not wait for this word
be yourself your own inspiration and
seek within you this weapon if
convincing every day that you can
In this walk you will identify the
people who have already achieved success will
know exactly that some of these
characteristics are important to me
these were the highlights that go with me
today in the face of adversity diantes
negative thoughts
We get tired, we have no day.
wants to get up but always aiming away
What am I trying to achieve?
today one of the concerns I have
beyond clear tax law is
think how I can contribute to that
other women know and take
awareness of how they can get
also here and only depends on them and only
depends on them decide and then I had a
very strong example inside my house
that my mother was the strong woman who
arrived there was walking out of the pub
He left the warehouse and put me to study.
but you do not have to wait for a person
outside or inside
really look inside you and there I
I have a tip for everyone to find a
magic word
question, you make it
instigate the moment you had
feeling weak and disheartened my
magic word is i’m more i alligator is
what does water mean?
interest
means I’m strong and I can
now that I can anyone can by
that you can not brigade too
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