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Siamo vulnerabili perché vivi| Leonardo Fraternale| TEDxCoriano | Leonardo Fraternale | TEDxCoriano


from what the human being was
and so I do not speak only of the
if I speak too
before and although this is in the human slang
resilience has very few years
You’ve heard about it since 7 Oct
ten years no more
in reality and lucky Lisa knew her
because to be human it was put in
world hunted in the world to say in
way and it is gharian to be there in the world
we have dealt with the
made of its etymology ie
resilience from exile re silvio vuol
to say that it was those who came there
you know there have not been many phrases
in history they went down in the ships for
those who went up were the residents
while many people did not have it
not even the strength to go back up
they let go down they left
dying is from there that the word is born
very ancient even if we use it only in
modern etymology we will see in this
very short time flowing the
we will spend together that there are some
things of words to which we do not have
called changed meaning
whereas at the beginning they connoted one
he specifies what we have today
often changed in a negative sense
I said from what the human being is born has
had as an adaptive feature
to resilience not resistance e
although today the word e
resilience you saw at the beginning and
various and in some of our colleagues that
they have talked about is borrowed from
physics, that is, the capacity of any one
material to return to the state
native to
I give you bad news we are not
material we are not the steel we
we can not answer one himself
stimulus in an identical way because that
whether it’s internal hopes is not important
because here 130 140 people almost 7
billions in the world at the same stimulus
they respond differently
totally different and this because
we are human beings and human beings
they have a unique DNA of impressions
unique digital iris is ok
another thing that is unique
we are living here and 7 right now
billions of people
when we are the last time he appears
rowing in history here is normal then
that you do not answer the same way e
with the same stimulus because we are
human beings
one thing that hurts me hurts less
to our mayor or nothing happens
another person and we react in a manner
different the ability he always has
had the man come back to a point and not
as a material, however, because the
residence can not be bought in
pharmacy anywhere can not
spread the capacity it has on
always had to come back to assume in the
concept that Latins have been saying
climbing up something that means something else
compared to the less we mean today
we mean falling if we go up from
some parts we have fallen and this
what is very important because what?
to do with a word that Italian today
and derogatory is ugly and no longer comes
qualified that instead studying well
the etymology of which we are
forgotten because now the schools do not
they teach but only give the option la
word and resignation the word la
resignation what is resignation
the resignation in etymon resine is
something that means this does not yield
I’m resigned means this break up
a seal and when a seal breaks
something for those who read the apocalypse or
other smaller books minor authors rom
for a seal it means to unveil
something szokol give something
the same word philosophy sofia from
safest means to put in
clear the chiaraluce take out not
it means only wisdom means this
what here and then resilience e
resignation go walking for a walk
they hold hands
moon does not exist without the other I think
that losing one of them would make us
less human and why it is given by
same life as for the ancient Greeks it was
lived with something under it
called ananke necessity and life
proceeds for changes proceeds for
rapid changes to which
the human being has adapted and has done
of his change as an agent the fact
of rendered the arts and dear invent each one
time and then what happens when
everything changes when everything around us
change we can do two things or do
like sailors who let themselves die
or go back trying to go up again
in the boat and when someone tries to
get on the boat you imagine that
someone tent we hand one of
things I understood in mine in mine
journey of life that has passed the vehicle
century and this every time I have
needed
I have always found hands around me
able to take me and help me
to make myself clear on the gesture of asking
help I did it and the paradox is
just this when I did not ask
help because I wanted to look like
superman
obviously there was no one when I was there
had the courage to challenge myself
to raise the hand
there were at least six hands that have me
known to withdraw into the boat and then
as some people who know me
and those who know me I hope
all you need is that whatsapp of people
I mean they know that I love reading so much
or and you will understand at the end of my short
speech because I like it so much
read and even here there is a trauma me
like to read and from the west
I like all of course, of course
Greek classic to die for but I attend
also to texts in sacred quotation marks
sacred call for those who want to say
separate was a sacred in the team in the sense
religious and less than a week ago
happening as I do not sleep that this
this I do not sleep mipa bedside opens me
the new testament you know how
gospel
and there is something that a true reader
that does not read enough about to go
beyond the words that are vergate black on
white on a sheet there is something
the other episode happens to me now
thursday holy handshake you remember it
garden of olive trees no garden of olive trees
jesus and asked them all a little before
keep watch, help me stay close to me
others sleep is interesting
metaphor did not really ask and he
has fluctuated between two states
up and down up and down
at the same time if you read it
both matteo and giovanni and it’s perfect
between the resignation of the task that he
he hears him coming on and doing that
step that says yes in this case to his
Dad your will be done but albeit
we know it also risen for those
do not believe it ok we know it for the
readings him the fact that it would be solved
he did not know this is all the theologians
they say he did not know it then
he was going to meet
ok has accepted has resigned and is
come back up in the boat to do that
so he was born to be young
the same thing will change with the principle
of individuation that is what becomes
six
that’s wonderful
but we heard from the stories today
some amazing stories and usually
we are all led by the newspapers
we read that you do not read why
Italian does not read known books that do not
you read it is known
I read for you not worried 218
last year so I raise the average done
the Chievo, however, I got tired of
raise the average so have children of
traumas of conflicts people who are pain
ok there is and instead I change the
paradigm can be sent more time there
I talk about one thing we can talk about
resilience talking about love is gone
back with the mind
those of you have not been overwhelmed
time in the life of love
raise your hand who no and who no that is all
no one being with me in love here
raise your hand who has been in love or
less once at all you do not but it arrives
do not worry and how it ended or
how it’s going is not important because
the thing that makes love love itself
it suffers from love, we review it
my first love that I had my father me
he said it’s not the right one for you
Mom told me it’s not the right one for
you and me according to you absolutely crazy
like a horse
I love it , I wanted it then I said it
I want then you change the desire but how
says freud genius has arrived here in the
earth is not known because it says
Fortunately love is bad
a disease that has the advantage of lasting little
and I do not say it is because this looks
that Socrates knew it because there
we arrive is because when you are among
thick and the invitation to think about the figure
of the cupid like cupid figures is a
innocent
just a point a son of counting a
point that there is right point to yours
heart not as an organ intended by
cartesianamente as an organ on which
he shoots the arrow is not that then how
you can tell point not to do it once
that goes between thick and must be dramatized
what he he can get is a can
say nothing but that chemical mess
that rock and roll that you have in the
head can not last their science
cola sky at most can last but
you’re really good 36 months later
what happens you put six
in love you have a world completely
different of the flowers gods see the cows
that fly you do not miss, just think about her
for a principle of utility always of
less
oh yes it is a certain point and back
attention socrate tells us something there
he says it in three of the 31 dialogues he tells us
that when he was shot in the war
carroll when you come back because you come back
we come back pregnant clear I do not say it
I know it’s not a bad word to be pregnant
that is, he says the word prettiest awards
full of two my before me being
to give birth to a new one if this is new
if you know what he must do he must re new
start again in an old world with a
old scenery to understand again how
I put my feet up I do not trust
I changed gear changing taste shoes
what happens because to establish a
relationship with the beloved all loved, you must
to reconfigure things we must
reconfigure everything because it does not last
then there is, for example, a study
beautiful of harvard arva of four
years ago where there is a squeeze
correlation between the duration of two
people who are together and
the interdependence they have is more yes
they stand alone more the relationships last the
that disassembles theories when they say
to the madio person without you I do not live
I, without you, die without you
I usually go crazy about these relationships
they last are harbingers of time
no because true love what you do
then concrete in the long lasting relationship
and when the two people are not
indispensable to each other ie
they stand alone and when they do
they meet because this is an encounter
they have the pleasantness of spelled and they do not
point the clock thinking we do
love on Fridays on Saturdays and I do not speak
of a physical act I speak of love in
high sense of the term up to vii
degree
and then when I come back I said one
traumatizing stuff that changes the world
like love
we must find ours
because then what is resilience
resilience the ability to give oneself
different biography ok where we are there
he allowed us to forgive our own
past traumas and to arm ourselves with one
something absolutely different that
it’s much more powerful because we have
you see lost a big word because
we took it from the positive thing
we put it in the negative but this
happens with almost all the words in
Italian that we do not know anymore the
word and vulnerability life there
it pierces because we are vulnerable
and then if we do not scramble it if not
let’s sleep if we did not say
every day I want to be perfect
I want to have the perfect body
wife the perfect husband the car
perfect and perfect work the money
perfect that does not exist all of these
things are an invention a narration
wrong
we could talk in that instead
park that we make of a new se
another thing to tell him for example that he does not
you’ll never be perfect I could not be
but you can fight
you can fight and then watch life is
fall in love with whoever you want but with your heart
and when you did and still you are
It was a bit bad
thank your vulnerability because
that vulnerability is from there that grows
resilience and good for life but
above all, the vulnerability is there
saying something to you , you or you are
alive that’s why you’re vulnerable
we can not take it off, however
I want to leave with words and there
I tell a beautiful story
I have been not to enter
I risked at the age of nine
to die a 13-hour operation right away
and half and or if the title the dialogue of the
my parents with the doctor and let’s say
that was 50 50 and although at 9 you do not
has the faculty to understand what is the
death
believe me it makes a bad impression when you
they do anesthesia
after 13 and a half hours of intervention I have it
put six now to wake me up
the good soul doctor who saved me the
life also the hearing in part with which I have
a beautiful relationship because I care
for the first time two and a half months e
so he brought me to life for i
the next four for the next 14 years
one day and that’s why I like it
read and unveiled not the maps
conceptual then come back I give myself a gift
book and it was a book of poetry and me
said my super dear this you
I still have a gift at home with the
his signature
read it in the most difficult moments and
reading I found a poem of lord
tennyson which is called ulisse from the
which I tell you only the final part
because long and forgive the emotion
because I still go all those moments
bandaged and says come and dear friends do not
It’s too late to look for a world anymore
new push yourself off and sitting down
belin order for listed i are solved
because my purpose consists of
sail over the sunset and the baths of
all the western stars as long as I do
die it could happen that the abysses
c swallow we could perhaps touch
the islands are happy and see the big one
achille that we know once and
although much has been taken a lot
still waiting and even if we are not
now that force that in ancient days
move earth and skies what we are
we are the gual nature of the heroic hearts
weakened by time and by fate but strong
in the will to fight to look for
find and never give up
thank you

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