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Say Yes to Social Media | Aleksandra Doncheva | TEDxYouth@AASSofia


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before we begin I’d like to ask you to

raise your hand if your users of at

least one social media profile platform

be it Facebook Instagram yeah all right

as you can see being on social media is

really common it’s actually so common

that nearly 1/3 of our 7 billion

population are users of it this means

that you can theoretically influence

2.46 balances people of you through your

posts now keeping this thought in mind

imagine the following scenario it’s a

very boring day you’re stuck at work

you’ve got nothing to do so you begin

scrolling down your Facebook page

suddenly you see your friend Mia’s new

profile picture and you’re completely

shocked by this picture because the last

time you saw me as she looked completely

different she looked like this Wow I

know now – how many of you have you has

this ever happened you’ve seen or you’ve

learned something new about a friend

that you no longer talk to from one of

their social media accounts yeah I mean

imagine if it wasn’t for their post on

social media you would have no idea what

has happened to this friend and the same

thing goes back to you if it wasn’t for

your social media posts people have no

idea who you become or how you’ve

changed but this is exactly what the

beauty of social media is you can use it

to influence your friends perceptions of

you as well as you can show people that

don’t know you so well who you really

are so that people have the right

opinion at you so today instead of

criticizing social media like the

majority of people do our instead talked

to you about how social media can

actually be beneficial to our own selves

as well as your own society I will talk

about how we can use social media to

create the first impression that we want

others to have of us to show people are

interested they honest that they don’t

necessarily know about as well as to

influence people about major global

issues so now that we’ve established

that Facebook is the window to your soul

for the world why not start using it to

create the first impression that you

want others to have of you let’s say

that you’re moving to a new place or a

new job or you’re even switching schools

most likely people in your new place or

job or school will be aware of your

upcoming arrival and they’ll try to find

you somewhere on the internet so that

they can get a sense of what kind of a

person you are personally I’m extremely

guilty of doing this the second that I

know which people are coming to our

school I looked them up on social me

and I base my opinions about them right

up there and right here is people’s

chance to to influence my or anyone’s

understanding of who they are before

others have even met them based on what

you’ve checked based on what you’ve

shared be inspirational quotes party

photos or even memes people will judge

you and they’ll create some kind of an

opinion about you before they’ve seen

you in person so depending on what you

want people to be thinking of you the

first time they see you start posting

content that shapes you into that kind

of person for example let’s say that you

want to be seen as social and outgoing

by your future friends then start

posting pictures of you at events

pictures with you pictures of you with

friends or picton start posting things

on your friends profiles that way your

future friends will be thinking of you

what you want them to be that’s your

social and I think that establishing

your personality on social media will

not only help people have the right

first impression of you but it will also

help you make friends more easily down

the road once other social people with

similar interests see that you’re like

them they will be much more open to

starting a conversation with you the

first time they see you in person

the second way that you can use social

media for your benefit is to show people

your interests that they don’t

necessarily know about as well as you

can use it to express yourself let’s go

back to your friend Mia she moved across

the country you no longer keep in touch

with her but you kind of do get a sense

of what she has been up to through her

social media posts you noticed that she

has recently posted many things about

how much she loves indie music and what

big of a fan she is a bit now but the

funny thing is that when you knew her

and when you were friends with her she

used to absolutely hate it

but from these posts you can tell that

her music taste has absolutely changed

and that she’s a fan of indie music

right now this could act as a way for

you to pick up a conversation back with

me and see exactly what she has been up

to and eventually you might become

closer again and be friends again as you

can see from this scenario being active

on social media and expressing your

interests and your passions and what you

like can help teach people that don’t

know you so well who you really are this

can eventually lead to new conversation

openers with strangers and quite

possibly those changers can one day turn

into friends the third way that you can

use social media for

a benefit is to influence people about

major global issues unfortunately it is

21st century and we’re still fighting

major global issues such as

discrimination poverty and climate

change yet the rise of social media

actually gives us a voice that we can

finally use to win these fights anti

discrimination campaigns such as hashtag

Amazon in New York City hashtag black

lives matter have won viral over social

media platforms and have made many

people stand up for equity environmental

pages such as these ones are being

created all over Instagram and Facebook

with the goal to raise environmental

awareness about our suffering

environment as well as offer all the

lifestyle changes that we can make so we

can decrease our environmental impact

there are so many other great examples

of social media initiatives but it is up

to you to decide which you choose truly

matter to you and you should begin

voicing for change towards them on

social media

simply starting a hashtag campaign

starting a page or even voicing opinion

your opinion are all powerful ways to

which you can influence people to do

something about a problem facing us so

if social justice is right at your

fingertips why are you still not taking

advantage of achieving it and before I

conclude my talk I would like to

acknowledge some of the skeptic opinions

that some of you may have the may be

holding you back from using social media

to its fullest potential we’ve heard

countless stories about privacy issues

cyber bullying and hacking all these

issues are obviously really dangerous

ones but there are of course ways to

reach you can protect yourself from them

if you ever receive any kind of a

request from a profile that you don’t

know or it seems a bit off either it has

an appropriate content it has repeated

links and all that stuff simply don’t

accept the account also keep the content

only visible to your friends as well as

that secure passwords for all of your

accounts so that complete strangers

don’t have access to your personal

content if you ever begin receiving

weird messages or threatening messages

or you became being cyber bully simply

block and report those accounts and

that’s me and probably most importantly

don’t ever share anything that makes you

feel uncomfortable or that should remain

private because after all social media

is about expressing what you like and

what you’re comfortable with so

basically if there

one thing that I want you to walk away

from this talk today is that social

media is probably the easiest and

quickest way through which you can

influence people the truth is we’ve a

human nature a judgemental creatures and

will continue to judge no matter how

much we try not to so we might as well

just shape people’s opinion of us into

the kind of opinions we want them to be

even better yet not only can we use

social media to create the self image

that we want others to have of us but we

can also use it to empower people

towards making an important change in

this world so what are you waiting for

go ahead and post

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