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Resiliência: a lição das minhas mulheres | Abel Coentrão | TEDxVilaDoCondeWomen


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now it is badly used as they have come down
of the first intervener the only man
in the meeting terex those women
I’ll try to compensate there talking
women.
which is not very difficult because in
I really do. I hate them at home. But
also throughout my life is
that the men who are part of my
life also were not normally there
very present
in fact this is a trace that was purple
bring here and I’ll explain a little
trait that characterizes the community where
will take care of the caxinas
I would say they are a word with a lot of
meaning of this word to the
absence of mother
Notice is this case can be arrested if
felt in various ways
may be the absence of men
precisely can be the very absence
an administrative identity
nothing that is here is the place is not a
parish in a city concentrates in itself
a sociological such
logically speaking the fact that
people to be a main activity
what is fishing and then you asked
so fishing so but I went there to have
beach is a place and did not see a single
boat to the boats as the men who
are absent are out of this country
are in the foreigners are out there more
there is little that these traces of absence
we have to add yet another
that absence due to death
always plenty to
the event is for those who live off the sea and
idea is overloaded
sometimes with the fact itself
not even give us back our bodies.
those who have lost and in this
traces in these multiple forms of
face the absence is who is left what
women are left over and that’s why
they are so important in my
life and in that community I started
for introducing you a mother I did not find
best partner that looking at home would be
enough to my mother and my mother here
for a very simple matter it is well
documented in that sentence was with her
that holds even the magician is mine
first experience with the sea or better
experience I remember it does not have the
see how going to the beach with diving nothing
nothing traumatic is one thing
differently, I was in a classroom
with my friends with mine
woman teacher likes and turns a
employee and ovar two colleagues of mine
although the father had died
that night in that woman in the
wreck
I remember in a bad memory that in the
session of which day or not but
night in bad weather as usual
happen marvels landmarks feel the
wind in the shutters saw entering the room
practically and from listening in the
My mother’s side pray to us children.
rose we played we played the ball was
also this dangerous moment and can
steal the best we have in the world
my mother has another characteristic to
territory from which I come by force
physical exercise capacity and is
valued
which is normal because people
born to work in an event
and she saw if she was holding her son
firstborn who has a disability
physics that would prevent it from being
fisherman like the others
in fact she had this ability
greatness of not protecting and
ensure sufficient opportunities
to have a path that actually but
what we would imagine when
because it is much thinner than
It was supposed aa departure and why
I’m here, it’s going to happen today.
presented another person is my
great-aunt, one of my great-aunts has
some are still alive
this my great aunt is the granddaughter of a hero
the hero will save lives is but for me
basically I would sum up this lady
olivia book advertisement – it’s a word one
Why is it so important to smile?
smile that is something that we all
we know how to do in our life at the moment
any greater employee is that this
lady with many others would have many
reasons for not smiling was withdrawn
will the school worked hard upon
mind facing the house you live in the harbor
póvoa fishing from the varzim
child when married to rosary marry
with the cursor an experience here today
many people live but had the courage to
respond to this action two ways
first ending it
debussy at a time when this did not
was a normal future thing until
because popular music with its
customers in which they live at sea and
sand
I hit her when she wants
but the other passed it and beyond that
throughout their life in all always
that I found she always made a point of
try to show that she was trying to be happy
weigh all the adversities why
passed on
and a movie an image that stays in my
family album of this happiness I
this photo in the archive
is repeated several times in
every family wedding is my
theory miles always forced to do
a photograph of her dancing in both
was maybe the first person to tell me
remember is able to overcome
my disability and hotels launch a
little in my life but with her
I would find today if she had
legs no longer have to cast I have
sure we would walk a few feet
illness and then bring another woman
another that my grandmother’s grandmother did
In fact it did 82 this years ago just did
93 the bed is provided as you see
he is very well off his use and able to
tell us a whole life full too
outstanding experiences
I will not bring that aspect of life
of it that almost 1.5 dci significant
how do these people have to use
most unthinkable strategies for
living to live is my great-aunt ‘s
abel is her and her husband is not going to fail
like many women in that territory
have a husbands in cod fishing
six months is gone and she had to
work also do other things
among the various things he did was
does the mother leave at a time when
she had one of the very small children
baby practically lap to crawl her
had to go to work for failure and
onildo several times approached if the
and was in danger of dying.
drowned because she had no more than a
year
open a pit and deliver it to the
and you said I called because they are
minors
we would say today is not good is not
we evaluate the acts according to the current standard
of our lives
social status does not exist in this
time it happened to 50 60 70
years but maybe we’ll try maybe never
they are geniuses and if she did not go to work
not only made money probably
that those children like other
It’s not time would end up buried in the
probably buried because
nor were dead and in front
we left here another person more
as the most
contemporary is a cousin of the father to the
Flower village is bringing what for a
very particular issue and that at the same
common time in that community
three decades ago at about the turns
to see her husband a brother and the whole
crew of the family boat on the
wreck
When this happened she had three
children
one was young the other two were still
children and she like other people and
nothing I’m telling is exclusive
of these people
she basically exceeded all here
Eventually a family resumed business
therefore with a new vessel and in the
water had the fact that he was the
new one turns out to become more
recently angler and teacher
of her craft at times in a
television interview with sawa who does not
like the beach goes for internet we
teeth like the clear sea but when
will always always a bit bad because
have to man the sea is to look at the
truth never returned husband
and of course when you hear this little more
there is to say and now we present the
godmother of the plant
we called him, he also wanted my grandmother already
Is alive and I’m going back to the next family.
to my grandmother for a very
important
I’m here because the most regionalist
has a very intense relationship with the
my community and I learned to respect
community and work for her.
with this person
this person was very early
gut and 50 years
How do I do exactly 39 today?
years and always known black but always
Happens with a smile on my lips and I know
what a happiness society of vines
of the contact with the work mix
to do with others and went with her
I learned to be happy by provoking
some happiness in others I think
perhaps the most important lessons that
we can learn from these people
briefly creates challenges for these
people
in this final message that is a classic to
phrase of a Greek philosopher who says that
there are three dollar types – they are living dead and
those who walk in the sea is a form we
kingdoms value this experience
Strange to spend our days on a
may not fully respect but I
I wanted to say that for me there is also
three types of women live the
dead and those who do not save the sea
For those who live close, see how I am.
absolutely necessary and relevant
thank you
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