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Redefining Success | Chad Carrodus | TEDxWaltonHigh


all right hello guys yes I graduated

from all in 2016 right now I am the

founder chairman of Kuroda’s asset

management ah

but today you know I just really want to

talk to you guys about redefining how I

learned the difference you know of what

success meant to me because I understand

that you know there’s a certain image

and certain things that I may exude but

typically you know I’d start off when

I’m speaking in front of crowds it’s

typically no shareholder meeting or an

investor meeting or something like that

so it you know typically start with

alright ladies and gentlemen please I

would say you know and will will open up

and start talking about last quarters

you know earnings but that’s Chad P

Crowe is present CEO today I want to

talk to you guys as chapter ODIs former

Walton alumni and we’re gonna start that

by telling you about when I went to

college and decided to get a tattoo like

any good story start with a pit bull and

ends with the girl that definitely don’t

overanalyze that one but so I went to

college at Baylor and in Texas and my

you know I had a I was in a longest it’s

really shift my I’m a high school

sweetheart and then things obviously you

know we probably we were broken up one

day and back together another day and

you know it’s kind of one of those

patterns and in that time my roommate

decided it would be a good idea for us

to adopt a pit bull I mean right you

know college freshman doctor brilliant

you know let’s do it

so we got a pit bull ah and then we

realized oh my god we’re going on spring

break to Cancun tomorrow so we get on

Facebook or

and you know who can you were in the you

know college Facebook groups who can you

know babysitting dog-sitting etc etc etc

and eventually we got someone to come

back and she you know it said I’ll do it

so I sent her the address and she came

ended up you know she dog said whatever

then you know she came back and I said

okay well it’s time for me to pay you

you know can you come pick up a check

and as you guys know I mean I could have

been mowed her like what 19 20 year-old

writes checks I mean that’s not nothing

but I said yeah come pick up a check and

then I said if you also want to have

dinner you know that’d be great bubble

blah

so what started as dinner ended up

turning into a four and a half day trip

to Oklahoma um where I got a tattoo um

mom was not happy to see that when I

came home needless to say so like I said

I understand that you know I exude a

certain image and I’m sure all of you

have already formed a perception about

me maybe you know it’s it’s obnoxious

its bold its outspoken yeah

but behind all of this in behind

everyone else I think that there’s a

story and that’s really what I want to

talk to you today about is because that

I think we’ve all kind of seen you know

that like pyramid of your I guess it’s

like the iceberg where it’s success at

the top and then all the other things

that um you know go under it everyone

who really likes to talk about the

success but there’s so much more that’s

not talked about and you know well I

this definitely might have been a

pinnacle in my career when Waka Flocka

refers to you as big Chad definitely you

know an exciting thing but there’s so

much behind that and the reason why I am

the way that I am the you know it stems

from a certain manner and I’m sure

you’re thinking okay you know elephant

in the room

your

young white male that grew up in a

fluent community like you know how how

many struggles and troubles could you

have had and you’re you’re right

honestly for the first you know good

good part of my life it was there were

there was no struggle there and then in

2008 as I think I’m sure many of you can

attest to my dad was he did real on the

steel industry and then things started

to I guess hit the fan so to say and I

think that this was a pretty good

description of the picture you know just

kind of the current situation like we

were trying to be that perfect East Cobb

family but it was like whoa what’s going

on here so you know it was definitely

the little things started getting taken

away you know more of the material

things they eating out okay big deal you

know the certain things like not as many

vacations okay big deal you know they’re

people people have a worse and then that

continued as especially growing up is

you know Walton students know in kind of

having to exude that that’s Assad of

keeping up with the Joneses and it

definitely got tough and you know it’s

it I don’t wanna go into too much detail

of how tough it got um but needless to

say financially you know our family’s

world got flipped upside down and then

kick down the car and it really wasn’t

missing the material things for me but

it was kind of seeing just the I guess

difference in morale and our overall

family dynamic between you know my dad

when when everything was taken care of

and comfortable as opposed to when you

know there weren’t the the resources

there so then you know like I said it

was little old keeping up with Jones so

here was my freshman Spring Break in

Seaside as obnoxious as so shorts are

coming it’s hot those are bad those are

good but you know so I kind of I was so

sick of having to be around you know all

of this I guess this pressure to fit in

and not having the means and resources

to just go and swipe dad’s Amex as vain

and you know shallow was that sound it’s

you know the the unfortunate truth so I

said if I can’t

that then I need to create my own

reality so I started really just

starting you know getting into business

and had that kind of business mind of I

never want to work for anyone else I

always want to be able to create what’s

coming next for me and you know really

just put myself in that mentality and

you know I actually when I was putting

this together I thought it’d be better

actually of just riding and just got it

speak naturally and I pulled all of my

tweets from you know when I was in high

school so that’s when I was a freshman

and you know I would do things like I

would buy and sell iPhones and you know

just babysit cash is king and the IRS

didn’t know about that one and you know

just anything that could make a dollar

I would absolutely always do and it got

to the point that I realized okay you

know I want to make a difference I want

you know servant leadership so I thought

what better way to do that then run for

class president so that is what I did

and sort of been fighting alcohol um you

know first of all if Donald Trump thinks

he was the first one to use Twitter as a

political platform stick

step aside Donald thanks Chuck check the

dates on this and it really did mean you

know a lot to me that this was something

good I want to do because anything that

I do you know I that’s always been my

prerogative I’m no smarter than the next

you know guy or girl I’m no you know

really no different in certain regards

but I’ve always kind of been hungry and

determined to drive you know I that

level of tunnel vision so it meant a lot

you know I really got in the moment and

unfortunately due to fake news the

election tonight come out as as planned

in I actually totally forgot about this

until I pulled up my tweet and I you

know personally thought it was hilarious

especially going with all the I guess

political climate going on right now

kind of seeing the parallel between that

because this is before that

I think someone had made up a story that

I had bought someone a cookie for a

voter you know if you’re gonna make up a

story make up a good one you know but

you know at the end of the day it didn’t

work out so that was my first real you

know I fail hard like I put everything

into something that I wanted and I just

so from there I still realized you know

I kind of had this realization that

everything does happen for a reason and

I’ve always had that passion for servant

leadership in I’ll you know aside with

business you know it’s it’s two things

that I think coincide very very closely

and they complement each other one

another because this is you know really

what Bill’s brings the fulfillment so I

started an organization called Atlanta

children’s charities which is here at

Walton still I started here and it grew

very very rapidly and we basically

volunteer with different organizations

such as the Ronald McDonald House st.

Joseph’s mercy care and just various

organizations around Atlanta that our

goal was to kind of plant the

philanthropic seeds in these you know

young people growing up and you know a

shelter honestly you know community like

East Cobb and putting them in an

environment where we were providing you

know through the means of donations and

you know volunteer time providing the

resources to give kids in other you know

areas that are very very close you know

to ours the resources and the tools to

build you know the metaphorical houses

that you know we built as Walton

students and you know we may have used

tools that they didn’t have so I figured

well if we could provide them the tools

you know the nation they could build the

house is not really where you know

that’s where that stemmed from and that

was absolutely I mean to this day the

most fulfilling thing cuz I can realize

you know Wow

yes the exterior success is – you know

it’s exciting to a degree it’s fun for

like 10 minutes you know it gets old

this I started to realize you know after

hearing people’s personal story

personal anecdotes that what I was

taking for granted people were praying

for in that I mean is it just a

statement that once I had that

realization I wrote it in a journal and

it just kind of every time I hear it the

hairs of mine on the back of my neck

just kind of raised because it’s very I

mean if you put that into perspective no

matter what level you’re on in anything

it’s something that I think is very far

to think about but on the same token you

know I kind of knew that I needed to be

able to pay for you know college and

things like that because unfortunately

there was no trusting to fall back on

although if there’s any donors out there

that would like to start one but my

whole mentality was as I said you know

create your own reality and on and on a

pursuit of success and what I thought

success was was because you know I had

the the family to infrastructure the

friends the community the only thing

that was missing

I guess so my element of success was

money and that’s I mean honestly that’s

what I decided to chase and I chased it

and I chased it hard so when I was 16 I

got the coolest job a 16 17 year old

could have and I was selling private

jets and private jet charters to

different celebrities and CEOs and

things like that so I would you know one

one night I think I was a junior in high

school and we we had a work party that

night before and we flew in on a

helicopter landed on the roof of a hotel

for a party and then you know flew out

for the party

and then I went to school the next day

and first period of it’s kind of you

know that that dynamic was definitely

strange um but it was something that I

created these opportunities myself I

kind of really didn’t have a last name

to piggyback off because that would have

made it a lot easier and well I did have

you know maybe some benefits that others

may not have there’s always people that

have overcome obstacles and I’ve always

thought of my I guess you know youth as

a platform not so much a boundary so I

continue to do that and I realized that

even though like I said I had the

it’s still you know the world just was

enough for me and that’s unfortunately

the weight that I am so I decided to go

out and start with software company you

know and it’s it just from failure and

that’s just how I learned and you know

we can sit here and talk about the

successes all day but the failures are

what led up to this and it’s being told

no so many times to where you just you

know almost it becomes a game like ok

let me just get it yes just forget you

know kicks and gigs so I I did that and

you know as I said finally I kind of got

that balance of you know work life and

my high school sweetheart who I asked

her prom on a helicopter just because

I’m super obnoxious and over-the-top and

she said please do not do anything

over-the-top or embarrassing so I and

you know we had these cool opportunities

you know we were able to travel over the

world because I had this you know

personal financial independence and

someone to share it with at a young age

you know and we’d go to different events

and you know I was connected different

immunities and that’s you know Evander

Holyfield who honestly I had no idea who

he was until in you know he was like a

kid like he didn’t you know I was

supposed to know who he was like oh you

don’t know who I am but you know we have

those opportunities and honestly that I

think that this was one of the best

balances that I’ve had in my life having

that personal and financial dynamic and

I was like wow you know I found success

and then I went to college and you know

left left home left the nest and kind of

definitely got out of my comfort zone

and had leveraged those I guess that

financial cushion that I had built for

myself and went over the top of that

needless to say so this was a taxidermy

leopard that we had in our dorm that

died of natural causes

so that is a disclaimer no animal was I

mean this was it was a natural cause

I just thought it’d be you know my

roommates family had owned an exact you

know animal ranch and it got bit by

staying so I thought what if we just put

it on the wall you know so I would just

do always over the top and just it

extravagance just always just been been

my thing and standing out regardless of

you know the reception of how that you

know may seem and you know kind of was

away from home away from you know the

the girlfriend and you know all those

things and started to really definitely

kind of explore the opportunities that

money would bring and realize how

temporary those things were and I you

know really start have those

realizations so while it was fun to go

out you know by you know

tables and everyone became your friend

you know when you when you buy a VIP

section everyone’s your friend but then

when those things don’t you know aren’t

there it becomes hard to determine so

eventually you know I kind of had this

coming to coming to God moment and had

realized that it wasn’t about you know I

was misinterpreting success in so many

different ways at first I thought it was

material and then I thought you know it

was all about fulfillment and then I

kind of realized it was nice to have

that mix between the two and then after

I lost the mix then it was you know back

to material and when I had the material

you know just I mean things or had never

been worse so it was just I was so

confused and it was hard to figure out

at such a young age and not having that

foundation and that guidance to really

understand that so that’s kind of what

my the reason why I got that tap tattoo

and when I got that it’s still here I’ve

gotten it removed yet but it’s I’d

rather just do it make the mistake learn

from a mistake because out of all the

mistakes I’ve had I think I’ve had ten

times the opportunity and I’ve had a lot

of like a lot more mistakes and I’d be

willing to admit I mean so I think it’s

just all about creating or but you know

your unreality if that’s you know

success and I think at the end of the

day everyone want success but what it

comes down to is what’s the

this means to you you know not everyone

wants to be allowed outspoken obnoxious

you know this and that’s fine and it’s

really about chasing what you really

want in understanding what you want so I

think I’ve kind of redefined success

personally is a balance and that’s

between happiness trials frustration

failure encourage so that’s how I

learned kind of my mission and my

purpose of success by going from you

know one in to the other and then ever

in between so thank you guys so much I appreciate

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