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Perspective : Path to Perfection | Eshita Kar | TEDxYouth@UCVTS


I’m gonna be talking to you about that

perspective so I’m sorry you should see

the looks on your faces just priceless

what’s wrong you must be surprised after

all when he walked out here with that

fidget and that stammering you must have

thought I was a poor young teenager with

a bad bout of stage fright but now that

you’ve seen me stand here talk a bit

more confidently that has all changed

it’s quite interesting actually just by

giving you a little bit more information

about myself your perspective of me has

changed it is a pretty simple concept

the more you can hear taste touch smell

or see about an object or a situation

take this Apple for example I know I

know I know you must be thinking Ishita

are you crazy this is very clearly not

an apple it’s a boss but hear me out for

a second

we go about our daily lives and we just

see things and assume things about them

without really thinking Without Really

reflecting on what we observe maybe if

we took the time to reflect on what we

were observing maybe look a little

closer peel back the layers maybe I

don’t know open the box you would see

that the truth is something quite

but if something as simple as an apple

can fool our perspectives and our

perceptions what does that really say

about the reality around us after all we

go about our daily lives perceiving and

observing a plethora of things according

to a study done by the University of

California San Diego we consume about 34

gigabytes of data every single day

that’s enough to overload a laptop for a

week at least if you’re using Windows we

don’t have the time to sit back and

reflect on everything that we’re

observing to really think deeply about

the conclusions we’re making so if

something as simple as an Apple can

completely full our perspectives can we

truly trust the reality around us of

course not we humans are too

self-centered to egoistical too limiting

and our knowledge and too self-centered

to truly understand the nature of

reality around us our overabundance of

emotion and limited knowledge prevents

us from seeing the world around us my

overabundance of knowledge prevents me

from seeing reality all the time this

might be a strange question to ask but

how do you guys have siblings it’s quite

quite a lot I have a sibling too she’s

five years older than me and her name is

Jessica now as all people who have

siblings know we love to fight a lot

every day every night especially when we

were younger and when I was in eighth

grade I used to fight with my sister

daily my sister at that point was in

college and she was kind of the apple of

my parents eyes she was the idol the

person I was supposed to look up to but

I didn’t think that was true I wanted to

prove my parents wrong prove her wrong I

made it my wife’s goal to basically show

my parents that my sister was doing

something she wasn’t supposed to do so

one day when she was in the shower I

snuck onto her laptop used my crazy

hacking skills to open it up basically

inserting a password and lo and behold

began searching what do you think I

found

was it maybe a browser open with

twitter.com or facebook.com not quite

perhaps she had Netflix open watching

the latest episode of Breaking Bad nope

that wasn’t it either then definitely

definitely candy crush her sonic dash or

something along those lines that was a

no to what I did find did startle me

though there was an excel sheet open

with a bunch of numbers and dollar signs

and only later did I understand that it

was actually the record she was keeping

for all the financial transactions in

the numerous clubs she was involved in

in college she opened a tab open that

had a twenty page paper on the future of

economics and how it relates to

philosophy and no the next tab over a

document with two pages of notes I also

found an interesting private tab and I

was like this is definitely it I’m

definitely going to find some

incriminating evidence here so I opened

it up and what was there was a recipe

for cinnamon buns something I have been

begging my mom to make for my birthday

but something she wasn’t able to do at

this point I shut the laptop and kind of

snuck out of her room and sat down to

reflect over what I had seen to see if

there was any hint of incriminating

evidence I could use and later when my

sister came to me with the plate of

cinnamon buns I felt this indescribable

feeling of guilt of a sort of

disappointment in myself my sister had

been the idol she had been caring for me

and caring for her grades and cared for

entire family but I had been suspecting

her I hadn’t seen her true nature my

overabundance of jealousy

have prevented from seeing that she was

truly a sister no one else could have I

still wish I could turn back the clock

until older is shader’ little Ishita

that she should reflect on what she had

seen reflect on her sister before making

these misguided conclusions I wish I

could have told her to wait until she

had a broader perception of reality

but what does having a broader

perception of reality really mean does

it mean answering all of our questions

does it mean about lighting the details

of every situation in the world does it

mean finding the truth truth it’s an

interesting word for us it means the

absolute or a fact stuck solid a fact

that cannot be altered but the original

meaning of truth is not what you think

it is truth comes from Old English were

seen and Cotto Germanic and it’s

original meaning was just a constancy or

a faithfulness observed in the world

around us not what we think as the truth

but in reality that’s what the truth is

for us it’s a constancy or faithfulness

we observe in the universe around us I

mean think about it take gravity for

example you know the thing that keeps us

stuck here on earth I think that Newton

discovered when he was hit on the head

of an apple

well before Newton’s time people thought

that we were stuck here on earth for a

very different reason they believed that

we just naturally belonged here on earth

that we just tended towards the center

of the earth because the earth was the

center of the universe obviously we can

scoff other beliefs now what silly old

cavemen and philosophers but who’s to

say that we’re not the same this was

their version of the truth for 1,300

years and in all honesty our theory of

gravity isn’t that much different it’s a

theory not a law not something that has

been set in stone it’s just a constant C

or faithfulness we’ve observed through

several experiments and scientists are

discovering crazy new things about

gravity every single day gravitational

waves bends in space-time and equally

alien sounding ideas so who’s to say

that we’re right about gravity that were

and close to it that we have even

reached the trip but if the truth is

such a hard thing to reach then what

should we do after all truth is

essential to our society truth is what

holds our world together what hold us

together without truth society people

our brains would run amok so what should

we do to at least take a step further

towards truth my good old friend

Friedrich Nietzsche had an answer to

this he was a philosopher who invented

the concept of perfect perspectivism a

philosophy based on the perspective

he stated that in order to be a better

human to reach that truth you must take

on as many perspectives as possible you

must know as much as possible about the

world essentially he took the phrase

step in everybody else’s shoes to a

whole nother level you know when we were

kids he used to sneak our hand into the

cookie jar and grab a cookie or fight

over our siblings over teddy bears and

our parents used to tell us go get some

perspective he’s just said the exact

same thing but to a whole new extreme he

said to almost go on a buddha-like level

and be one with everything being part of

every perspective but you know me I love

to question everything so when I first

read about Nisha I had a big question in

mind is there a point at which we can

have too many perspectives is there a

point at which we have so much knowledge

on the world that we just lack happiness

I mean it’s not such an alien question

if you think about it Santa Claus is a

great example when I was five years old

I was a Santa fanatic every Christmas

Eve I would run to the evergreen tree

which wasn’t mine and took a couple

branches then I would grab my old potted

plant in my storage room and kind of

stick those two figs on decorate it with

as many ornaments as they as I could

and warm up a cup of milk have some

cookies ready bite a little note to

Santa and that was it I had my entire

Santa preparation ready but one fateful

night when Ishida was five years old she

woke up early on Christmas day very

early so being a little curious brat I

decided to run out of my bedroom and

peek at the tree the tree and see if

anybody had left anything there what I

saw really surprised me and it’s still

with me today instead of Santa Claus

pushing some presents under the tree I

saw my parents drink a gulp out of the

milk by toke up here to pick up the card

read inside left a little bit and write

something there and they also slipped a

little present underneath the tree at

this point I was smart enough to know

that I shouldn’t be awake and ran back

to bed and when I woke up later that

morning and started investigating the

tree I realized that the card the

present they were all labeled Santa now

at this point I knew that Santa had just

been a figment of my imagination I had

learned more about it had observed more

and gained perspective I suddenly had a

newfound gratitude from my parents

because they had been doing this every

single year but was I necessarily

happier as a result not quite after all

it’s a irrefutable fact that our

perspectives continue to change and

those changes might not always be for

what we think is the better those

changes might bring those happiness or

sadness after all maturity is when the

big parts of perspectives and change

occurs as were maturing Society tells us

what we should do society gives us

perspectives to look through and our

peers shape our perspectives when I was

a kid I was super wacky

I had my head shaved at age four I ate

everything in anything with such fervor

that I went around my mouth instead of

in it and I thought that the beautiful

and majestic deer were actually horrible

carnivores of the night who loved

children’s flesh

most importantly I loved to write and it

was my dream to become an author but as

I grew up my perspective changed the way

people viewed me changed and I changed

as a result I started growing out my

hair because everybody else was doing it

I started eating a little less and using

a lot more napkins and I lost my

fascination with plants and animal in

nature I also lost my goal of becoming

an author now Here I am a student whose

goal is to achieve straight A’s to get

into a great Ivy League college to have

a stable job a stable house to live like

maturing has caused me to lose that

creative spark I had as a kid am I happy

that I’ve matured

well maturing is not a fun process and

childhood is perhaps the most beautiful

epoch of life but it’s also an

irrefutable fact that I have gained a

lot of knowledge and a lot of new

insight through this maturing process

whether it be about gravity or my sister

change whether it being ourselves our

bodies or our perspectives is a was a

natural part of life it happens and why

take the time and think about everybody

else when it’s your life

niece just says that you should take on

everybody else’s perspective to become

this better human being but I say what’s

the rush

life has ups and downs and the whole

point of the journey just to enjoy those

ups and downs to enjoy your changes in

perspectives nice you might say to try

and everybody else’s shoes but I say try

on this pair of shoes wait until it

grows into your

then move on to the next then move on to

the next take your time after all you

are unique not as a you of the past nor

the you of the future can even clean to

be like you in your perspective so enjoy

that uniqueness cherish that uniqueness

cherish your individuality cherish your perspective thank you

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