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Personal Relationship | YIFAN ZHANG | TEDxYouth@BBA


good afternoon everyone today I want to

talk about

personal relationship personal

relationship is a topic widely discussed

from the entire developed countries diet

to the highly advanced metropolis it is

also discussed through our time from the

Asian world see establishments of human

society to nowadays enters a predictable

future the reason why this issue

captivated attention of every human

being is because we humans are or social

animals without big fur to protect us

from CONUS or shaft teeth to rip the

prey applause to help us better

straining water or climb the trees or

mothers or dance and effective muscles

like ends to carry objects multiples of

our weights or even n women to protect

us from the predators we humans are much

more vulnerable than we think we are

therefore as relatively weak and most of

the nature how can we top the natural

cycle cooperation is a key of the

achievements of our human beings for

example parents nurtures our children

from separate fulness and admiration

teachers educate students for their

responsibilities and students help to

view the connection with the school

authorities such explanation gave for

attention to the emotional needs and and

also the physical ones

it’s true that emotional needs are at

least as important if not more important

than the physical needs no matter how

high a person’s abilities are if the

person cannot fulfill others emotional

needs no bruh would want to build a

connection with him or her many

professors is a

a personal relationship suggested to

gain some certain characteristics or

qualities so that we would help will

help us to be more popular and respected

by people these supporters are no not

always true for example sincerity is a

fundamental rule to follow is a

depiction of every professor nonetheless

sincerity won’t earn any beneficial

effects if you face a person who face

prestige and superficial respect more

than anything else I suppose that the

ability to differentiate different

people and to use different strategies

to communicate wisdom it’s more

important than these support universal

principles I used to follow these

principles blindly for I was confused

with the process of communication and

contact

I thought with those principles of the

easily earn others nice impressions but

I was wrong our sister benevolent

willing to help people but also

unpopular in the process of earning of

for environment for yourself I believe

you should understand that simply being

nice is not enough for human contact is

a purely emotional and sensitive process

presence and rational waiting and the

measuring sponges and advantages

especially the ones in school when some

way interacts with you when your

classmates want to spend more time with

you or when the strange person you met

just now chose to believe you help you

and make friends with you the keys that

determine determines all these things is

a personal experience and with you the

comfortable and joyful feeling instead

of the beneficial aspects of the

relationship in conclusion a popular

person should be good at spending happy

times with these or her friend instead

of having support holidays from the view

of psychology Walter single person

perceives himself or herself as

irrational and unimaginable because a

person can always find a reason for his

or her conduct people wouldn’t love or

hate someone for no reason

even though a reason can based on one

may be some bonus to another for example

is a formal instance of yashi who is

well educated

pianist with a perform most promising

future he crashed into app for

pedestrian and later steps a woman to

death many people think what gal doesn’t

dig is unimaginable how have a young man

so kind and gentle suddenly turned into

a Kulick murderer what made him do this

solo people would play understanding

towards Arjun Singh however he himself

managed to explain this to the bear he

felt we’re facing the accident about the

subject I just want to give you a

sentence when you think about person

with your heart you will understand his

or her actions and needs when friends

actually think for each other this is a

perfect friendship we want a true friend

need not should be one before but should

treat you with pure benevolence in his

or her heart and vice versa third we

should know how to contact with someone

we don’t like one needs to be build a

relationship with everyone else just

like I said above it is totally

understandable

don’t you like someone even though

everyone else likes him or her so how to

contact with someone you don’t

appreciate the first word is to avoid

interaction with him or whore Confucius

once said remain close to jinsol and far

too seldom in the sentence drinks lesson

can be replaced by someone you

appreciate and someone you don’t so

remain close to someone you appreciate

and far to someone you don’t however

what is there it must be a contact I

recommend you to give yourself a chance

and to observe that person

again habit so you still dislikes him or

her you can still find some valuable and

appreciable colonies in that person and

that is a start of a comfortable

interruption

moreover don’t try to hide your true

feelings from the person and pretend

that you like him or her very much

because the true feelings will always

show through some details and such

behaviors of treating both yourself and

others is home for to your mental health

it’s a long run it is not only damages

your social relationship and also your

courage to face your true self and such

you live without consuming and defeating

we cannot anticipate everyone to like us

or to like everyone a mature person

should understand that emotions are

temporary and deceiving because someone

you don’t like initially may be your

best friend or the closest person later

don’t trust our emotions too much but

also don’t hide them from others you can

express and use some tact for which in

conclusion to build a comfortable

environment for yourself you should know

how to discern friends worth making how

to preserve a friendship and how to

interact with someone you dislike and

that’s all I want to say thank you for listening

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