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No Gain, No Glory | Luyu Morris Ke | TEDxYouth@WIS


when you’re away from home multiple time
the age of 17 really made me realize how
a stanchion one of us can be but Kenny
always comfort though to begin with all
the madness were simply motivated by a
call from the great prophet and novelist
Paolo who once said if you think
adventurous dangers try routine
Italy so deep-fry once no disqualified
after nothing but totally locked
confused hooting you think due to half a
routine I thought that little program to
do waking up every day at 6:30 for
school going to schedule lessons I even
talked to a same terrific group of
friends or even caught it at work in
case you’re wondering well that’s you
know please don’t be there’s nothing you
or me you’ll be borrowing us that
Elena’s room have a routine this left me
thinking of having a nuclear particle
masses see humans are lazy a study
dumber dr. Donovan for active you
calendar suggests that one last to his
own devices
our subconscious nervous system
continues pfeif to himself to keep the
energy cost low and putting simple term
that pretty much means we as human our
brain is very lazy and he doesn’t want
to spend too much as I was thinking that
is why we’re finding going through our
by cell and social media much easier
than reading books because just does not
require effort and while you have a
routine you repeat a series of actions
it’s more you repeat them so Paragon
carries those actions first let’s think
you know after you want to require doing
them that’s why I feel full cock code
during routine every day and that
problem you know circle I’m gone here
refer ask the
frizam well you do actions that you’re
personally done before as is safer and
certainly requires less effort and every
time I try to step beyond our circle
you bring consent your warning and
attempt to stop you by sharing all the
negative consequences right and you can
start second-guessing the only part can
go away eventually
then the pudding this is in a better
term imagine this rare copy I’m standing
off that’s my comfort zone this will
attract a my talk if the one who hears
my speech and the longest perfect accent
just seems so I deal in this spot and
was a fellow circle stalkus austere ng
I’ll nose out there
do I meant to step on a circle I don’t
know I don’t think anyway the cha-cha
history every kind of step out of a
intentionally but do I want to do why
not
I mean outside the biggest space bigger
future bigger chances what can I do it
fear insecurity anxiety all those
negative thoughts came to you one when
I’m on my edge of comfort though every
time especially last year
every time while I’m trying to step
beyond a circle or my comfort them do
something that a little bit more
challenging I just start second-guessing
and I tend to the definitely mahat and
ask him what should I do
he pretty much gave me the answer every
saying every time you try to come for me
kids
you gonna be fine you you give the way
you are just staying there I felt really
comfortable following his instructions
course I’m just comfortable you know
and after a while I thought of it the
action I’m doing the asking the devil or
white gets it’s an easy way out I don’t
really get anything I love it I don’t
get to do the things I want to do I’m
gonna become I don’t get to become the
person I want to be so that’s a time I
said I really need to condition my mind
and just overpower those negative
thoughts and this is it to a seventeen I
still have all changed myself break away
from everything
try something a little bit more
adventures and the first thing came to
our mind that they
to adventure it’s traveling and after
I’ll try to make myself really
comfortable as possible I decide to go
alone on a budget so there he goes are
literally for an event ready for an
adventure of a lifetime so a backpacking
we found instead of a general plan
I just want through places that
attracted me sixty two days forty five
CDs cities and five cultures this junior
seemed very incredible and all along
officers all my comfort zone and have to
D make decision tomorrow no family no
friends to go to every day I woke up
have to think about where would I go how
together where would I eat and where
would I sleep so I’m sure to answer to
those questions seems so obvious but
items I’m struggling with a one in a
foreign country especially while you’re
17 I made all the decisions such as
staying out to 5 a.m. in a farm
exceedingly wrong because I’m trying to
find a hostel that 50 Cent’s should be
on to others and also flattening
abandoned stadium near mania border
because I don’t know why would II just
yeah you know I just haven’t changed it
kind of empowered doing everything yeah
and I wanted a I’m a lot harder
decisions but do I regret them them no I
don’t I feel like that’s really the time
of me being 17 @h h mi corazon I’m gonna
stab into the ED over I never felt like
the experience really made me become
much more mature and tomorrow I think if
they me better become better decision
making so at the end of day there’s
nothing I should be regret about or the
top of that as always alone as always
retired in the world to think and that
is time I’ll really figuring out what I
really wanted to do and
we want to become and I came up with it
admin to belief there’s some time a
super break from your comfort though
it’s all you needed when you’re away
from your friends family social media
basically those who tell you who you
have to be that is one free to figure
out we really want to be so expectation
the statute there’s no in fresh view
also limits you most of the times you
know how you have to figure 30 minutes
breaks they take a pill a selfie in
order to impress your friends or
strangers on social media that exactly
I’m talking about and when you live your
selfie game you’re buying your social
media PlayStation everything that’s
controller actions that is one you’re
free to figure out what you really want
you to do so some of this new belief is
that comfort zone is a great temptation
but nothing really cool
nothing really growing there the
bandwidth of a person a game about
between my comfort zone is probably
hitchhiking this is why you’re standing
facing the traffic stick your son now
I’m making connection with a driver and
hopefully if they gonna stop somewhere
to pick you up and drive you to your
desk for your destination
funny enough application culture woman
mom used to warming to not even talk to
strangers but now has to stab into a
total stranger car for 10-plus hours
which now deal without knowing their
language whoa that are you saying if you
talk to mystery month ago I would just
tell you I never have never gonna try
this one of attempt suicide but one of
the turkey miss summers things were very
different
the buzz feet were insanely high high
enough to cou possibly break my budgets
and made me and our families you know no
enemy I’m gonna have no money in the
foreign country which
make me home that’s pretty much again
and so this time I tried I think about
Gale my confidante kind of odd my
routine try this to that time because
that’s only awake and self state in the
beginning I don’t want to try it out but
funny enough I added up his shocking
throughout Turkey Georgia a mania for
the total of 5,500 kilometers for those
of you that not regular numbers that is
equal to the last I going crisscrossed
throughout the entire Europe which is
pretty long and this attending always
paid me a lot of money it is much more
than free right Irie had a chance to
talk to the locals and share my express
and story with them and therefore
there’s and furthermore I will also
offer a chance I really do look deep
into the cultures such as Tahoe Uranus
about the enforce had a Java woman
talked to dread and secret police about
their controversial yo status and last
but not least Sri Lankans north towards
Chris Cavanaugh the sports so much in
their eyes quickest and most rugged
religion and funny enough sometimes
whole odds moose can depend on the
readout of pictures and those kind of
things I will never look as deep if I
never got hit in my comfort zone right
and every time try to picture yourself
doing something to has to be challenging
now you can’t you didn’t do in the past
such as asking your crush out to prom I
just told your stranger that you want to
talk to you picture yourself as your
favorite protagonist in your action
movie cinq-cinq picture yourself as
conquers James Bond or the Explorer
snow white whoever they just the hill
that you want to be if they never have
the guts to step out of their confidant
the possible dangers what was he ever do
was he become the hair that your love
where they ever find the treasure wave
behind those dark areas that case or
whether they ever win ago that they love
well I love leave that one file for now
for the unpublished present you go
you’ll go talk to you about girls but I
can definitely show you what you might
miss precious treasure that’s finally
we’re seeing those dark caves it’s
definitely the people see this one
really tempting as we we’ll know making
your friends just such a great
experience call you got you should live
by their stories and then about the life
was she never experienced before
I want small scales became lighting you
need come on laughs till we get action
have impact on your life and that is
great I just talked to you stranger but
how many of you guys in the room have
the guts to evoke for gender in the
first place we all know we want to do it
but just think all right it’s out of
comfort though in this quote social
constructs you don’t really approach
strangers even though you want to talk
to them and find them interesting you
wouldn’t never approach them barely any
time something really toxic oh but I
will never alone while traveling solo
the reason being is out our schools to
beyond my comfort zone all alone and if
I just don’t wish anyone concerts don’t
talk to anybody I will never make your
friends I should be lonely you know
and the try to imagine me sleeping fast
five star hotels take luxury buses or
taxis and compared me compared to me
like sleeping hitchhiking and sleeping
tall person dorm in a five dollar off
though it’s very less comfortable but
the rewarding they calm place or simply
priceless right well I taught out of a
Charlie but that’s not only written get
out of their comfort zone stops now
right here right now Vivian talk to this
dungeon after take a new awkward
then to a new artist has no harm in
trying right I just want you to conquer
the impasse or get a journeyman rush
while you’re doing something new when
you really change yourself it feels
great
we as humans we have unlimited potential
and we’re still culture also destiny
okay you think down with a confident
strong coos I can rice with our wheels
we all have the bases achieve great
things but the only thing not walking
away is a scene right here
Oh mind so step out of that circle and
become the cycle you would definitely be
thank you
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