[Music]
my face might be very bad
maybe Melissa my head has found its
place experience terrible but in August
in 2016 one morning I was woken up by
phone call from a girl
Susan a long-lost friend of mine I pick
it up the thing that was his point but
there’s a weak voice saying myself again
I’m overwhelmed by this sudden Chanukah
and I was so I was trying to figure out
the wire to save her but I feel that I
had no other options and at least I
needed to stop her for the moment
so I said places now you have come for
my help you won’t kill yourself
and this before you get my break so I
need you to come to Shanghai by this
weekend to be honest I had no idea what
to do but that was the only option that
I could choose so two days later she
came to Shanghai we met each other any
airport and I directly took they to the
bomb I was about to take that on
together around Shanghai maybe perhaps I
thought that could easily be minutes and
help but turned out to be until we set
up one of those stairs in the bus do we
start to talk without the real problem
set
there have been taunting her for several
years there I began to understand the
stories I began to understand I began to
know herself narrated stories of her
past experiences but Susan was a
sophomore student a father died of a
heart attack and for several successful
treatments happy more real
and it was already set but uh but the
father to come back to them to request
ah-haaa that was an ordinary day in
ordinary morning Susan was speaking in a
back suffering a pain from his from the
period because she was suffering a
period and she a mark came back from
outside from an early exercise didn’t
bring the keys with her she’s not better
doors and the reason why she didn’t
bring the keys with there was that
because she was doing morning exercise
and she was wearing a pair of pants
without pockets I was surprised I was
surprised that Susan was telling this
story in such a specific and detailed
fashion but it seems as if she was
trying to justify something so Susan is
90 back to the second and painful and
sleepy she didn’t want together to open
it over that Obama why would she she had
that there was someone moving next to me
which is her father the father was
[Music]
well I believe that Mexicans have
experienced similar situations in our
daily life sometimes we can stop want to
get help you just want to line that for
a few more seconds don’t only does what
don’t go to school for running
this was something like that it’s very
very what we did but the cost was Susan
was too much she visits Barry at home
because she attribution she made it was
then she feels it the beloved father
she was the murderer of her father
because of the laziness because she
didn’t want to cover that I was
astonished to hear his story the
narrative of us ended up like this
several months before we back in
Shanghai he had already committed
several Oh Susanna trans life you say
father mother and the lack of knowledge
however at the bar he was sitting beside
me and she said I know it’s wrong and
it’s wrong but I meets my dad said watch
and if I had helped myself that’s that’s
the only way I could see him again
and that’s the occupation number that is
at the very moment after she finished
her story I began to make it clear and
perhaps I thought all of the narratives
all of the experiences all of herself
narrative stories all came down to a
single point at one decide she just
and the only to see her father in heaven
who said you know thyself and that’s the
end of the story
that’s that’s the end of the story that
she told herself she had been telling
herself
and there I decided to engage I decided
to rewrite this story I started with
several very simple questions for which
she could answer but I guess I started
with Susan do you believe in ghosts
yes she was super crying for exactly
there’s all that in the eyes and I said
do you believe that the coast of your
father is right now even in the book and
then I said you miss him so much right
listen so much what you see right now
right here she said yes and then I
raised the key question the very
question had changed almost everything
because I realized that all the
narratives end up yeah but the story is
not complete so I really questioned I
said okay Susan now kill yourself right
now right here you meet your dad that’s
your story
that’s how it is what is the first thing
yourself crying inside
Tony Susan what is the first thing
that’s trying to tell your father I kept
asking the same question but three times
she just didn’t respond and she said I
knew our furry friends and young very
close to success of saving the life she
had never thought of this question and
she never be able to do without the help
of the Philip Artie and I took one step
further I said okay you cannot just tell
you that that I just murdered myself at
home and now I can see you you don’t
want him another heart attack to you
with tears and I know I succeeded and
that’s it promise me promise me you will
you will live until one day you meet her
that the first thing that came out of
the mind was that I’ve had a wonderful
life and of course you promised me no
more lives a life per second but I said
Susan by chanting and writing a
narrative and herself enumerated stories
because our past is simply a story that
we have been telling ourselves and here
comes the concept of narrative therapy
the concept of narrative therapy is a
form of psychotherapy as seeks to help
you identify the events
so that they can come from bladder
problems in their face in future the
therapist which was me myself in that
story the thoughtless seeks to help
people help order a new narrative about
themselves will say a different
narrative about himself by investigating
their personal history in Susan’s
personal history she was aware of the
father and the only way that she could
see her mother was to kill herself so
that’s why she attempted several times
of suicide and she began to think that
was the only way to do it and I
completed the story I read birth the
story
well I gave her a new identity and
identity that engaged in her own
personal story identity
announcer therapy the approach aims not
to deflect people’s problems and
people’s identities with the problems
they may face in the future or the
mystic sentiment another the approach
emphasis tends to avoid the kinds of
wantonness
essentially the nature of the self that
lead people to believe that there is a
biologically determined to south which
dementia however there is not a
narrative therapy the concept of
identity as a primarily social evidence
can be changed
and I nearly gave her a tip interest so
this is how I say attention to that from
a beauty little girl to the responsible
daughter to promise to live until a
father monthly sad but happy when
meeting her again so ladies and
gentlemen this is the power of human
voice this is the power of conversation
perhaps it is the most powerful salmon
worth different changes the course of
history like the Declaration of
Independence for Martin Luther King’s
beautiful by them and sometimes it also
changes the course of an individualistic
because because there’s one thing that
human boys only human voices irritated
that makes all the difference we tell
stories we tell stories that shape who
we are what we do we tell stories
my face might be very bad
maybe Melissa my head has found its
place experience terrible but in August
in 2016 one morning I was woken up by
phone call from a girl
Susan a long-lost friend of mine I pick
it up the thing that was his point but
there’s a weak voice saying myself again
I’m overwhelmed by this sudden Chanukah
and I was so I was trying to figure out
the wire to save her but I feel that I
had no other options and at least I
needed to stop her for the moment
so I said places now you have come for
my help you won’t kill yourself
and this before you get my break so I
need you to come to Shanghai by this
weekend to be honest I had no idea what
to do but that was the only option that
I could choose so two days later she
came to Shanghai we met each other any
airport and I directly took they to the
bomb I was about to take that on
together around Shanghai maybe perhaps I
thought that could easily be minutes and
help but turned out to be until we set
up one of those stairs in the bus do we
start to talk without the real problem
set
there have been taunting her for several
years there I began to understand the
stories I began to understand I began to
know herself narrated stories of her
past experiences but Susan was a
sophomore student a father died of a
heart attack and for several successful
treatments happy more real
and it was already set but uh but the
father to come back to them to request
ah-haaa that was an ordinary day in
ordinary morning Susan was speaking in a
back suffering a pain from his from the
period because she was suffering a
period and she a mark came back from
outside from an early exercise didn’t
bring the keys with her she’s not better
doors and the reason why she didn’t
bring the keys with there was that
because she was doing morning exercise
and she was wearing a pair of pants
without pockets I was surprised I was
surprised that Susan was telling this
story in such a specific and detailed
fashion but it seems as if she was
trying to justify something so Susan is
90 back to the second and painful and
sleepy she didn’t want together to open
it over that Obama why would she she had
that there was someone moving next to me
which is her father the father was
[Music]
well I believe that Mexicans have
experienced similar situations in our
daily life sometimes we can stop want to
get help you just want to line that for
a few more seconds don’t only does what
don’t go to school for running
this was something like that it’s very
very what we did but the cost was Susan
was too much she visits Barry at home
because she attribution she made it was
then she feels it the beloved father
she was the murderer of her father
because of the laziness because she
didn’t want to cover that I was
astonished to hear his story the
narrative of us ended up like this
several months before we back in
Shanghai he had already committed
several Oh Susanna trans life you say
father mother and the lack of knowledge
however at the bar he was sitting beside
me and she said I know it’s wrong and
it’s wrong but I meets my dad said watch
and if I had helped myself that’s that’s
the only way I could see him again
and that’s the occupation number that is
at the very moment after she finished
her story I began to make it clear and
perhaps I thought all of the narratives
all of the experiences all of herself
narrative stories all came down to a
single point at one decide she just
and the only to see her father in heaven
who said you know thyself and that’s the
end of the story
that’s that’s the end of the story that
she told herself she had been telling
herself
and there I decided to engage I decided
to rewrite this story I started with
several very simple questions for which
she could answer but I guess I started
with Susan do you believe in ghosts
yes she was super crying for exactly
there’s all that in the eyes and I said
do you believe that the coast of your
father is right now even in the book and
then I said you miss him so much right
listen so much what you see right now
right here she said yes and then I
raised the key question the very
question had changed almost everything
because I realized that all the
narratives end up yeah but the story is
not complete so I really questioned I
said okay Susan now kill yourself right
now right here you meet your dad that’s
your story
that’s how it is what is the first thing
yourself crying inside
Tony Susan what is the first thing
that’s trying to tell your father I kept
asking the same question but three times
she just didn’t respond and she said I
knew our furry friends and young very
close to success of saving the life she
had never thought of this question and
she never be able to do without the help
of the Philip Artie and I took one step
further I said okay you cannot just tell
you that that I just murdered myself at
home and now I can see you you don’t
want him another heart attack to you
with tears and I know I succeeded and
that’s it promise me promise me you will
you will live until one day you meet her
that the first thing that came out of
the mind was that I’ve had a wonderful
life and of course you promised me no
more lives a life per second but I said
Susan by chanting and writing a
narrative and herself enumerated stories
because our past is simply a story that
we have been telling ourselves and here
comes the concept of narrative therapy
the concept of narrative therapy is a
form of psychotherapy as seeks to help
you identify the events
so that they can come from bladder
problems in their face in future the
therapist which was me myself in that
story the thoughtless seeks to help
people help order a new narrative about
themselves will say a different
narrative about himself by investigating
their personal history in Susan’s
personal history she was aware of the
father and the only way that she could
see her mother was to kill herself so
that’s why she attempted several times
of suicide and she began to think that
was the only way to do it and I
completed the story I read birth the
story
well I gave her a new identity and
identity that engaged in her own
personal story identity
announcer therapy the approach aims not
to deflect people’s problems and
people’s identities with the problems
they may face in the future or the
mystic sentiment another the approach
emphasis tends to avoid the kinds of
wantonness
essentially the nature of the self that
lead people to believe that there is a
biologically determined to south which
dementia however there is not a
narrative therapy the concept of
identity as a primarily social evidence
can be changed
and I nearly gave her a tip interest so
this is how I say attention to that from
a beauty little girl to the responsible
daughter to promise to live until a
father monthly sad but happy when
meeting her again so ladies and
gentlemen this is the power of human
voice this is the power of conversation
perhaps it is the most powerful salmon
worth different changes the course of
history like the Declaration of
Independence for Martin Luther King’s
beautiful by them and sometimes it also
changes the course of an individualistic
because because there’s one thing that
human boys only human voices irritated
that makes all the difference we tell
stories we tell stories that shape who
we are what we do we tell stories
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