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My Skin is Not My Story | Tomi Madarikan | TEDxLPCUWC


good afternoon everyone

last year around this time actually I

was in the Philippines for about a week

on a school that community service trip

and I remember on the long bus ride from

the airport I watched a movie now I

couldn’t actually hear anything that was

being said because the volume had been

turned all the way down but the images

spoke loudly enough there was an early

2000s movie Hollywood and it featured an

african-american male just and be the

actual embodiment of so many stereotypes

about african-american men so he was

dancing across the street and playing

basketball and at some point in time he

went to prison and then broke out of

prison

etc and I remember thinking to myself at

the time what a typical man what a

typical black man and as I heard myself

think those thoughts a we were shocked

came over me stereotyping generalizing

these are things that I am actually so

personally passionately against and yet

there I was stereotyping and

generalizing but more so that was a

Eureka moment for me because it was what

inspired me to write a compendium of

poems that I’ll be presenting to the

school community in April on the subject

matter of stereotyping generalizing in

the negative effects thereof and in the

words of Nigerian author Chimamanda

Ngozi Adichie the danger of the single

story um it’s also why I’m here talking

to you today

in that moment I asked myself that if

that simple negative image is what I had

to find within myself as the typical

black man then how did that affect how I

saw my brother’s what did that mean

about how

so my uncle’s my cousin’s my friends my

ladies and gentlemen that’s what I’m

here to discuss today

you see negative stereotypes as

constructed perpetuated by the media

they don’t just affect the way the

masses view marginalized groups within

society they affect the ways that we

members of these marginalized groups

grow to view ourselves the liberties the

limitations that we give ourselves and

to address this matter I think I should

tell you a bit about my context so my

name is eluate emilio or any cagey

midoriko or to me my very calm for short

I was born in England as already said

and I lived there until I was four and I

moved back with my family to my home

country Nigeria and moving back here

with a number of challenges on a more

personal level I remember that myself my

brothers we were teased by a number of

our peers at school because of our

distinctly British accents I still have

a bit of a trace of it not as much now

as before and it’s interesting how at

that age I was so teased but teachers

adults people in places of authority

would just smile when I spoke when my

brothers smoked it was so endearing you

know and what I found surprising was how

much my accent to them made me more

privileged and made me see more delicate

more sophisticated the notion that they

had that I hate the most was that my

accent made me seem somewhat more

intelligent and so how does this affect

little Nigerian children you might ask

why is this such an issue is because for

example when two children have gone home

and memory

and practiced a poem just as much as one

of another as one another and then they

come back and present that to the class

in the hopes that they can both be

entered into the school poetry

competition and yet one of them is

turned down because the girl with a

British accent quote unquote is a

teacher actually said this sounds more

intelligent that instills within them

the mentality both of those children the

mentality that what is of the West is

what is best that a Nigerian accent or

Nigerian manner Nigerian practices

Nigerian context will never be

comparable to in English and in a

country where English is the official

language therefore that someone

insinuates than a Nigerian expressing

themselves as a Nigerian accent may

never be viewed as someone with this

highest status or with as much to offer

as one who speaks as an English accent

see this post colonial mentality is one

that manifests itself in so many ways

that is just one of the examples and

while we are no longer Nigeria that is a

physical colony of Britain many

Nigerians many Africans are having their

minds in my opinion colonized by the

media today now of course I can’t

directly say that without taking into

account the fact that colonization is

not something that one can just throw

out there’s being recreated because of a

few media biases and assumptions of

course not the effects of colonization

are too great to quantify and I won’t

simplify them as such also people can

argue that what is happening today with

the media and portrayals that are as an

effect of the hierarchy of the racial

hierarchy that has been embedded within

so many post-colonial nation societies

as an effect of colonization but what

I’m here to discuss on negative images

and their effects on members of

like myself more often than not blacks

are portrayed as dangerous or servile

uneducated or unattractive in a lot of

Western media and the thing is be it

that doesn’t just affect the way we are

portrayed in other countries because if

you take Nigeria for example where I

come from on the radio on the television

on the internet these are the images

that we see these are the shows that we

watch the movies that we watch Hollywood

is not something that is lost or trapped

or boxed in to the United States for

example it’s something that transcends

borders of countries look at the images

that we have of Africa in the media I’ve

always had a hard time associating the

images of abject poverty of violence at

the media cells of Africa with my home

in Nigeria and that’s what course can be

attributed to the fact that I won’t lie

I am privileged not just as a Nigerian

not just as a black person or an African

but as a human being I’m grateful to God

for all of the things that I have and

the fact that I haven’t been exposed to

war to poverty to famine a lot of the

things that unfortunately many people

had to deal with many people suffer

today tomorrow yesterday but my problem

with the way the media portrays Africa

it’s not misrepresentation I have a

problem with under-representation Africa

is a big continent there are more than

50 countries but it is so often

generalized but you have even figures

within politics such as Joe Biden refer

to the whole of Africa as one country

look at in the 1980s song by the band

band aid it was titled do they know it’s

Christmas and it was written or

performed in response to famine in

Ethiopia and yet the whole song is

addressed to the whole continent of

Africa with degrading lines such as

nothing ever grown

it never snows the only water that ever

flows are their tears in Africa do they

know it’s Christmas time at all how does

that make me feel I mean first of all

these are straight-up fallacies it’s

just wrong

Africa is a concept that has so many

different climatic regions you have

tropical climates such as that which

exist within Nigeria you have the desert

you have the savanna so generalizing and

just giving straight up incorrect facts

or assertions it’s just plain unfair and

that’s just one way in which Africa is

underrepresented and misrepresented

another is that a lot of Western

television shows and Hollywood movies

don’t in my opinion often enough feature

distinctly African characters and cast

members a lot of the time the closest

that we black Africans get to having

Africans in these movies and TV shows is

African American actors or Afro British

actors and actresses and so how does

that affect us well as a youth I can

tell you for free that growing up

watching television shows what listening

to music we so often see characters that

we have a lot in common with as those

that we can emulate more than others so

things like age ethnicity the people

that we see the images of people that we

see that we feel we have something in

common with become our role models I

remember for example that I loved Hannah

Montana but I always found Raven from

that serene but somewhat more relatable

for me I find that so many of my peers

back home in Nigeria especially the boys

enjoy adopting aspects of African

American hip-hop culture especially as

portrayed by the media

I want to some of the negative effects

of this the fact that a lot of the time

these images that are associated with

aspects of that culture are very

negative you see young black men on

television

being abusive aggressive images of

aggression men committing acts such as

suspect criminals at what is shown on

television you had men beating women

black men I’m referring to what does

that make young men view as acceptable

as worthy of emulation what do they

therefore aspire to become or look at

the images that we have of young black

women you see I come from as I said

Nigeria most of us are black many of us

are like my skintone but of course

there’s a wide range she had people

significantly lighter than me people

rather darker than me and so when I

watch television shows or when I see

music videos and the women who are

deemed as beautiful are significantly

lighter than me then maybe if I didn’t

have a mother who affirms me constantly

that I am beautiful then I’m supposed to

be proud of Who I am because of what I

have to offer it not because of the

color of my skin then maybe I would have

been many of the women buying bleaching

creams today because they feel as if

they are not beautiful enough as black

women as dark women dark women and

television shows a lot of the time in

Western media especially shows from the

United States even though specifically

meant to empower African Americans

feature dark-skinned women as less

attractive less desirable aggressive

angry they’ve been dealt a bad hand of

society so I’ve told you about the

effects on one who looks at these and

looks at the media for images that they

feel they can relate to and some

characters that perhaps they can emulate

but what happens when one doesn’t adhere

to certain stereotypes and by speaking

with the accent that I do and dressing

the way that I do by being able to

relate to ask

that said more than one culture in the

way that I have I’ve been nothing but

myself for my whole life but to too many

people I’ve always been different I’ve

been an exception to the norm it’s

incredibly unfortunate the number of

times that someone has walked up to me

and said you’re not black enough and

what does that mean well I’ll tell you

when it strongly suggests it suggests

that I’m not angry enough all the time

not poor enough it suggests that maybe

I’m too confident or I’m not enough of a

replica of a dark-skinned

african-american female as negatively

portrayed in way too many Tyler Perry

movies you don’t sound black enough you

don’t sound African enough you are an

Oreo you’re not really African and all

of these translate to you aren’t cookie

from Empire nor are you Eddie Murphy

from coming to America or maybe even

Lupita Nyong’o from 12 years a slave you

see a lot of the images that the media

sells as I have tried to illustrate are

negative overly simplified generalizing

an education of course is what enables

us to see through these constructions

and protests allowing them to remain the

status quo but my sadness lies in the

fact that the media is also a mirror and

that it reflects what society actually

believes what people think the notions

that they have and what that means to me

is that we are very far from achieving

equality and open-mindedness and that is

why people like me

Africans blacks dark-skinned women are

portrayed in the ways that we so often

up so members of society I look to you

today and I have a few questions why do

we always feel the need to put labels on

everything and everyone

do we not realize that when we do such

so simplistically we ignore the

individuality originality complexities

and even contradictions that lie within

ourselves as unique human beings my talk

today is a call for all of us to not

allow our minds to be soiled fertile for

seeds of under-representation

misrepresentation and the effects there

are to be sold by the media because

these seeds germinate into negative

preconceived notions and therefore

impose limitations on our own ability to

reason independently so please let us

make blank pages of our minds today

because that is the only way that we can

truly see ourselves in the ways that in

in the ways that we actually are and not

with the 2-dimensional character traits

that the media has assigned us on the

basis of our skin tone or our gender our

socioeconomic status our belief systems

etc because only then will we truly be

in charge of our present and our

identities but also our future and our

destinies thank you very much [Applause]

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