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Love Should Not Kill | Narges Dorratoltaj | TEDxVirginiaTech


three years ago while sitting at the

infectious-disease class I realized for

the first time HIV is not the only

sexually transmitted disease at that

time I was a 27 year old girl who was

migrated from Iran and I was pursuing my

PhD was I the only person who did not

know anything about STDs couple months

later one of my friend who was suffering

from a very rare autoimmune disease

which was misdiagnosed with HIV for some

years called me and told me that she

came up with the idea to raise awareness

about sexually transmitted diseases in

the Middle East and North Africa the

spark was there and we just followed his

signs to make sure we are not the only

people who are suffering who do not know

anything about STDs in our community we

started to search online and we figured

out every day 1 million people get

infected with STDs and specifically in

the Middle East and North Africa there

are 26 million people who are infected

with the curable STDs and it does not

include herpes or HPV the two most

prevalent STDs worldwide back then we

were five grad students with one aim we

wanted to provide educational

information for the people who may not

have access to information about STDs or

sexual health either because lack

because of lack of education or the

stigma associated with this topic we

started to translate some information

from CDC up-to-date and other reliable

sources that we

new and modify them to make them

culturally appropriate for our target

population which were Farsi speaking

people all around the world if you don’t

know the native language of your on the

country that will come from is Persian

or Farsi and then one year later after

that call we launched our website the

first educational website about STDs and

sexual health in Farsi in the control s

website people can educate themselves

about the sexual health and STDs also

they can ask their question anonymously

from our volunteer group of physicians

so considering the fact that there is a

stigma associated with the STDs in our

community we provided the most important

feature of our website which is letting

people to ask their questions and our

volunteer physicians would answer their

questions within 24 hours and we used

the social media channels of course the

popular ones in Iran to promote the

services that we provide and it’s

amazing if you know that after two years

since we started this service our

physicians answered more than 12,000

questions and although we let people to

stay anonymous only 19 percent of the

people who asked questions from us

decided to not release their identity

and contact information also for

providing a better and more focused

services to our audience we started to

analyze the data that we got and what we

observed was a significant difference

that we were seeing in the questions

that are coming from females and males

females usually ask us questions when

they are experiencing symptoms or they

and they don’t feel comfortable to see

the physicians and they were afraid of

to do that on the other hand males

usually

protest when they have had sex in risky

sexual behavior and they are really

worried about their sexual health and

they’re wondering if they got infected

with any form of STDs we were providing

through and comprehensive information

about the sexual health and STDs in our

website but we were missing a very

important group of people in Iran who

did not have access to the Internet so

our team members decided to go back home

in Iran and then run some in-person

workshops to make that goal possible we

started to design some visually

appealing educational material with the

content that is appropriate for the

people with different levels of the

education these workshops are meant to

be interactive and we talk about the

signs and symptoms of the STDs the

available treatment and most importantly

prevention methods and at the very end

of the workshops people can ask

questions from the Midwife or the

physician of our team couple months

after we started running these workshops

about the STDs in Iran we figured out

that we cannot ignore the overlap

between the STDs reproductive health and

child sexual abuse and we came to that

conclusion after getting many questions

about basic concepts of the sexual

health also we had lots of personal

stories from the people who experience

child sexual abuse in their life so we

decided to expand our program and added

two other series of workshop the puberty

or sexual health workshops and also the

child sexual abuse prevention workshops

in the puberty or reproductive health

workshops we run some workshops for the

parents and all

so for the kids who may go through the

puberty who are going through the

puberty and let them know what are they

should expect from this period of their

time and one thing that we were really

that was really important for us was

that to make that puberty stage of life

fun and let the people to enjoy this

period don’t be afraid don’t be mad and

just just enjoy the time that they are

experiencing enjoy the changes but for

the child sexual abuse workshops we have

different approach we have two series of

workshops for the adults and also for

the children during the adult workshops

we focus on the importance of knowing

who are the potential abusers we let

parents know that usually abusers are

the people who their parents trust and

are very close to the children we talk

about the common scenarios that abusers

used to get close to the children what

are the signs and symptoms that a child

who has experienced child sexual abuse

may show and if they come across any

person who are experiencing these

problems what they need to do how to

manage the situation to minimize the

problem and most importantly we talk

about the prevention methods but for the

children workshops we have the different

approach we do not have any lecture

style workshop but what we do we start

with reading some books about how to say

no how to protect their private part

what is the difference between the good

touch and bad touch and then to

emphasize the concepts that we talked

about we do some interactive games we

ask kids to identify the private parts

and also we focus on the importance of

protecting it

and one of another game that we have in

the workshop is that input the

importance of the personal space let

them know that you have the right to

protect yourself by having the personal

space and at the very end of the

workshops encourage children to draw a

picture to have the take home message

with them forever

two years ago when we started this

program we were five graduate students

with no funding or support and our aim

was empowering the next generation we

heard so many notes and it took a lot of

effort to convince people to believe in

our vision but today after three years

we are not alone anymore

we are expanding every day and a really

good group of young educated people are

joining us and put the heart in the work

that we are doing I believe there are

not many people in this audience that

can read Farsi or Persian but this is a

sample of the message that we receive

every day from different people a person

got HPV vaccine another one gets tested

for the STDs other person got treatment

a girl do learned about our program let

her partner know about it and they

decided to educate themselves through

our website and these are the things

that are motivating us and then cause

that we stay here and don’t give up and

before leaving the stage I want to ask

every one of you to join us with your

spark and let’s have the revolution for

the sexual health education

no one should left behind because of

lack of education in her life thank you [Applause]

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