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Life as an Introvert | Pete Kim | TEDxKISJeju


hello everyone today I’m here to talk
about how I live life as an introvert
now you might be wondering how can I
possibly be an introvert and simply
giving speech like this in front of so
many people you’re absolutely right
I shouldn’t be here I’m not supposed to
in fact I’m faking like an extrovert
right now talking a louder voice and
making a lot more gesture than I usually
do I’m not like this an introvert like
they should be hiding from the cart
cause of the nervous that I might I
might start a conversation with someone
I don’t know well stay hungry because
I’m doing doctor 200 roots of my home
playing games we won’t corner of my room
with headsets or completely cut off from
the outside world but I asked myself am
I gonna stay like this forever do I
really want to live my life like this
and the answer is yes there wasn’t
something you’ve probably expected but I
do enjoy my introvert life it’s funny
how people think and support personality
is better than that of an introvert it
seems like the world would rather depict
an ideal leader as an extrovert rather
than a different so while people think
being an introvert has disadvantages but
I say discriminating introvert is a
great mistake we’re making according to
higher ability org while introverts are
a minority group in our society they
want the majority of the gifted people
more than 75% of the people who have I
260 or what the 60 or above are
Albert Einstein Rosa Parks Bill Gates
Steven Spielberg
sorry the Newton Eleanor Roosevelt work
Zuckerberg Larry Page al wore very
severe Abraham Lincoln JK Rowling word
puppet
Mahatma Gandhi Hillary Clinton Michael
Jordan these are lists of names like a
from intercom who wore an ill-considered
of introverts for readout scientists
politicians petitions basketball players
businessmen and bus services about
violent resistance the list goes on and
on
although outnumbered being an introvert
should not be part of disability but a
mobility of amazing ability to be a very
good observer and seek enlightenment
through introspection like how Aristotle
once said the way yourself is the
beginning of all wisdom what I want to
guys what I want to tell you is this
don’t think that extra parts of better
than introverts or introverts are better
than extroverts think why introverts of
you the way they are at the in our
society we denied to ourselves that we
don’t discriminate interprets against
extroverts that we do both of them
equally without prejudices but if that’s
true why are there so people that meet
who are living a fake extrovert life
today I want to break everyone’s
prejudice about introverts I will do the
common myths that people have about
introverts see how my you can relate to
first of all people think that
introverts don’t have any friends I’m a
living example because our department
still have decent amount of friends but
different from experts we introverts
consider quality over quantity we’re
making friends this means that the
author a few friends but there are also
one who can truly understand me and so I
can lean on any time second minute
introverts don’t like people read
Rupert’s enjoy having time to ourselves
but that doesn’t mean that we don’t like
hanging out
man researchers estimate at the
watchmaker 50 to 74 percent of the
population if I’m wrong the other 50 to
36 percent would be staying at home
right this moment where are they we also
do go to parties amusement parks and
other public places but we just store
back to spend all of our time in those
places and there’s optimist and
extroverts with this piece of time I
want to reach out to third myth
introverts are sadder than extroverts I
believe same song is sadder than other
is a very subjective point of view so I
can’t think that what is it a happier
life than other based on their social in
social behavior or facial expression but
that that guy might be living a happy
life – no one is safe from subjectivity
we all at some point get affected by the
best media society family tradition etc
so the rubric you use to judge whether
or not someone is living a happy life or
not is actually the goal you set
yourself to live an idea item which
means that it isn’t necessarily
applicable to others I’d say this
because this is how an introvert are
creatures in this world we are not set
when we spend our time for ourselves
in fact we choose to be alone it’s the
difference at the source of
entertainment
there’s preventing people from
descending each other extroverts are
happy when they’re out party for we
introverts enjoy the solitude I’m an
introvert and I’m very happy and
satisfied with my life this is just as
much as other experts we do spend more
time alone but please understand being
alone and only is a different thing okay
our last live for today in Hertfordshire
means I and being an introvert is a
company
different then but for personal insight
there for social interaction because
they fear others negative judgments but
if if a person is an introvert they
avoid such interaction because they
prefer be the hope there’s a company
that’s a complete difference being an
introvert and scientists actually has no
direct correlation so we learned a lot
about introverts where should we go with
this
I suggest you grab her introverts right
and start telling them you know decide
that much better now and make sure you
leave them alone because you understand
that way a world isn’t a rapid change
technology is developing faster than
ever this is changing how many people
leave including the lives of introverts
take this as an advantage for example
share with the world what you have
learned today the vast region of
Internet that we might have been killing
talented introverts moping their
opinions we are allowed voice
suppressing their actions that are
concept less leadership and most
importantly misunderstanding that we
revegetated with residences also with
their work we invite three introvert
friend to a party user technology such
as social networking service instead of
asking them directly and remember after
a fight assure them they don’t have to
come reader works like most of you like
to be like to be invited after all
please change the way you look and interprets
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