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Le triomphe dans l’adversité | Nadia Ladjeroud | TEDxUniversitéLyon3


ladies and gentlemen dear audience it
we are easily eligible that the
society can have an influence on
our life our consumption
our cultural preferences are
perfect examples
but did you know that society finds
even his say on our way
intimate to handle a drama weakness and
dishonor would be so the reaction
conventional it imposes on us because
unfortunately yes there is a diktat
unconscious the one of complacency in
the pain where every individual is pushed
to exploit his drama lived as an excuse
justifying his inaction
my name is nadia la jude
I’m 20 years old and two years ago and three
month in the bad weather that affected
the Riviera
I lost my big sister so very
quickly this death was perceived by others
as a brake that had to if this
is not stopping me from the sparrow slow down
somewhat
because after all what is society
could expect nothing from me
some saw me already abandoned my
studies
others advised me to do a
pause to back down for somehow
better to jump afterwards but at this
received idea that one tried to me
disguise in personal choice the opposite a
psychological mechanism
still little known in France resilience
hence the capacity that developed
some people to cross
adversity in pulling a plague
apparent the best of consequences
so I decided to take my pain
and turn it into something
positive for me but also for
others
I was aware ladies and gentlemen
that I could act and more than anything I
refused to wait for life is short
I had the proof so it was necessary
an idea a project an objective towards
which converge and that’s the reason
for which one month after his death
I decided to start an action
humanitarian in his memory
the yasmina project he was aiming for
building a well in a city
by jane of ventilated room at 400 kilometers north
togo and in gradual delivery
collection that allowed
meet the needs of first
need
I did not know yet but I was doing
proof of resilience ie
I advanced in this difficulty that
hit and position me where
no one was waiting for me I had in
head only one mantra it was
turn this darkness around
me in glowing light
if I had to schematize resilience
game would definitely divide into three
steps the first would be acceptance
of reality a book I read to me
here a lot helped the epictetus manual
the stoic wisdom that is drawn
advocates a gradual journey towards
happiness with a distinction
fundamental
On the one hand, there are the elements
are inner what are our thoughts our
choice our actions
since they are intrinsically linked to us
you will agree that we can
to control conversely are
external events that happens to us
a moment t
with more or less impact on our
life not part of our
psyche neither of our body can we
so the controls and the toilets are
crisis situations that are part of
this second type of event in
which ones to start
gradually to reverse this ratio
of victimization
especially since in this room
everyone has at least one time and is
faced with the difficulty
did you know that on average one person
out of two is brought to live a
trauma in his life a person on
two if we take as sample this
auditorium
it would be like everyone
turning towards his neighbor on the left
he would see an individual wearing
burdens that must be removed
the negative connotation because as if
precisely said confucius no stone
can be polished without friction then zero
soul can not re loses its existence
without experience
it is important to understand that
adversity is not an exception and
that she will end up touching us all
day so certainly we have to accept it but
began to see in her a
opportunity to develop all his
potential
the second step will be the transformation
the turnaround where I start acting
on what I master
that’s why I
started this project in a short time
ten-month time so assuredly yes
I encountered difficulties
and even the first one I have
had to face precisely this diktat
unconscious of idleness of man faced with
the pain but the most important here
was never this cutter thinking about it
what has been crucial is fundamental
is that for the first time I had
trust
I believed in myself and more than anything I
believed in this water project the
satisfaction of one of the needs the
more primary that is and that in addition
go make up my insolent response
face to death because when we think about it
the water and what took the life of my
big sister but on the other hand the water
and this has allowed hundreds of
Togolese women and men to be saved
it’s proof that the same event
by adopting a new angle of aproz all
changes what appeared to you
as a plague then becomes your
fuel which is the very basis of
resilience the third step will be
the action and convergence of all our
efforts towards this ultimate goal mine
it is true was humanitarian but he
is not fixed you too you can in
find a
according to your interests be worn
by an inspiring ideas something
that pushes you to jump from bed each
morning and this even though the world around
you collapse or are brought to
collapse
never leave a single bad
past
define the rest of your life and
toys your first ambitions
look at me ladies and gentlemen nadia
20 years
quasi-holder of a law degree
public I admit to still having trouble in
close laundry and yet I managed to
to be resilient so you
also you be able to
especially since this concept you
will bring where no one is waiting for you
July 23, 2016 would have been the 32nd
birthday of my big sister then
a received idea would have wanted it to be
a sad day and yet
I keep one of the best memories of
my life because in this date I can not find myself
and not at home but at thousands
of kilometers in the heart of the savannah
Togolese inaugurating the well
source
yasmina so modestly yes we can
to say that I brought to this people but
I can guarantee you that I have received
the more resilience will operate in us a
awakening to this received idea that one
we vehicles since any small where everything
is going well in life it’s fake ladies
and gentlemen all is not well at
opposite
life is a succession of steps more
or less difficult but you know what
none is insurmountable in this
room one represents a sample of
humanity and each of us is a
potential potential
that’s why I
conclude my remarks by quoting you a
proverb of Chinese wisdom found I
lava or at the bend of a disney movie the one
it says that it matters that the wind
howls the mountain never bends in front
what does it matter that the wind howls the
mountain never bends in front of him I
therefore invite you to demonstrate
the whole force and the honor
than
owns the mountain facing this life that
can scream in front of you thank you
[Applause]
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