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good evening we are always wrong
to try to be right with people
who are convinced that they have all
the good reasons to think that they
do not mind raymond devos artist
famous for his word games we choose
rarely
it is superior to its customers
contributors
so how can we communicate with
them at best many will tell you in
mastering the art of always being right
tonight I would say the contrary,
would rather be mastering the art of
dialogue
the world of communication evolves to
no giant for decades and
yet we have never witnessed
so much misinformation and confusion
we have never seen so much
so much anger of frustration and
violence between individuals
how come it’s only
because people are afraid to listen to each other
we do not cling to
our opinions in order to costs created from
create a self protective block that we
will manage our fears of
uncertainty
that’s it if you have to remember that only one
a single sentence that would be that one
when I started my career in 2011
I coached I had for clients among
of my first policy clients
I promise you that it has a lot of
challenges and listening side it was not necessary
that I succumb to my fears in them
hearing about the issues and
risks for tunisia the famous
facebook’s syndrome we’re all going to die
I really lived it too
I did not want to succumb to the pleasure
to listen to their anecdotes about the
political world being a passionate me
even then how to do
learn to listen when it’s not
part of our job it’s not so
easy because if it was so easy
we will not attend this fight of
cocks of hens elsewhere between
policies in the media them that are
healthy was even the best side
likewise at least not to be
elect not to be elected but to
least to make citizens adhere to
their ideas we will not attend
also to this deaf dialogue between
unions and rulers them who are
responsible for our lives and lives
future generations
we will not be attending enough
bloody divorce between adults
consenting and we will not attend
also at this break
generational and art chic in the
business world
besides that we are trying to repair
with collective intelligence in
boosting in organizations
the aco reflection i can not yes this
it must be like doing it
first an awareness I you
asked to think about your conversations
do they rather have the rhythm
of a ping pong ball game after basle
where your only goal is to win
point after point
that’s what all the coaches say
sports or it would rather look
at a golf match a golf tournament where
the players
actually aims the same hole but
know they will gather it
the award ceremony also observed the
people around you is it you
teaches rather the rules of pine pon
well the rules of golf
it’s true that it’s rather the opposite
the real dialogue and here I’m talking about
fertile dialogue not due
ping pong of opinion and course and
activities that we try to do
pass for convert for dialogue
today
no I speak the dialogue it is a
balance between listening and speaking but
it is also to afford luxury
uncomfortable to change your mind
it’s an uncomfortable luxury
zaïm say try to ask a
unionist a politician to
couples do not think of the scenes of
households just to hypothesize
change your mind during a conversation
with in play it’s exactly as if
that you ask them to go
voluntarily fight against a
enemy but without a weapon without armor and in
leaving aside their knowledge and
their certainties
it means the internal fight that
we can live then our opinions
that we can say that our
opinions it’s like programs
computer in our heads and these
programs will really do everything to
control our best take the
on our best intentions
they even go so far as to create others
Tunisia had a nobel peace prize
thanks to the organization of the dialogue
national
yes, that’s still saying
virtues of dialogue
I can already hear your silences and
smiles you how do we do
precisely to dialogue game we are going
take the example of a researcher
scientist into good scientist when
he has an idea in his mind he’s going to do
an experiment and he will observe what
is going to happen
and in general what will observe
and always similar and not identical
to what he had in mind and from
blow there is a new idea that is going
occur
because they would have noticed
similarities and differences
so we will witness the emergence
continuous new ideas and suddenly
this is where a new idea a
new experience
a new sighting and news
ideas then there is the dialogue of a
scientist with himself
yes, we can talk to ourselves
besides I promise you that all
speakers have a lot of dialogue
with themselves these past few days
how does it go when we dialogue
with each other it’s exactly the same
process you are going to start a
conversation you will put aside
the self protector block and you go
listen exactly like the physicist the
researcher not the physicist the researcher
scientist will observe his experience
then you will answer with this
news that we pay to this news
understanding and of stroke as and when
as the dialogue progresses
you will have an ide flow and innovative
it’s as if now I
asked to change the ping rules
pong by mutual agreement of course or
first raid nobody is trying to win
second rule if someone is wrong
everybody wins
so you’ll go from a posture
from losing winner to a posture of
winning winner
so you’ll tell me that it’s in
a perfect world
it’s true we do not all have the opportunity to
interact with winners with
people in posture win winner but
for that you have the choice of
to stop playing not to play squarely
ping pong with these new rules
or to say that anyway in
keeping my posture the dialogue is
will be better
even if the other one has a posture of
losing winners and
what is certain is that you will put
by angry and you will not feel the
frustration that’s why I’m
asks what is expected
take the dialogue out of the closet and
integrate it among the disciplines
indispensable that are the writing the
calculation and reading
it was an experiment to conduct a
investigation
she asked the question know you hold
a professional conversation about
3300 57 people questioned 30 % have
answered no we could have had a
fabulous conversation with a handful
door
48% said yes but it was pure
randomly 22 % answered no I panic
I stutter and I’m downright nil
still a motivation to learn from
young age
the art of dialogue and competence
milk then costs what I would like
really make you pass as a message
is that man’s communication to
man and the eighth wonder of the world
which continues to breed to our
unknowing through dialogue and we
are all responsible for the
back in this world in full
move the diallo could be the
glue or cement that would collect the
individuals and societies
thank you
[Music]
good evening we are always wrong
to try to be right with people
who are convinced that they have all
the good reasons to think that they
do not mind raymond devos artist
famous for his word games we choose
rarely
it is superior to its customers
contributors
so how can we communicate with
them at best many will tell you in
mastering the art of always being right
tonight I would say the contrary,
would rather be mastering the art of
dialogue
the world of communication evolves to
no giant for decades and
yet we have never witnessed
so much misinformation and confusion
we have never seen so much
so much anger of frustration and
violence between individuals
how come it’s only
because people are afraid to listen to each other
we do not cling to
our opinions in order to costs created from
create a self protective block that we
will manage our fears of
uncertainty
that’s it if you have to remember that only one
a single sentence that would be that one
when I started my career in 2011
I coached I had for clients among
of my first policy clients
I promise you that it has a lot of
challenges and listening side it was not necessary
that I succumb to my fears in them
hearing about the issues and
risks for tunisia the famous
facebook’s syndrome we’re all going to die
I really lived it too
I did not want to succumb to the pleasure
to listen to their anecdotes about the
political world being a passionate me
even then how to do
learn to listen when it’s not
part of our job it’s not so
easy because if it was so easy
we will not attend this fight of
cocks of hens elsewhere between
policies in the media them that are
healthy was even the best side
likewise at least not to be
elect not to be elected but to
least to make citizens adhere to
their ideas we will not attend
also to this deaf dialogue between
unions and rulers them who are
responsible for our lives and lives
future generations
we will not be attending enough
bloody divorce between adults
consenting and we will not attend
also at this break
generational and art chic in the
business world
besides that we are trying to repair
with collective intelligence in
boosting in organizations
the aco reflection i can not yes this
it must be like doing it
first an awareness I you
asked to think about your conversations
do they rather have the rhythm
of a ping pong ball game after basle
where your only goal is to win
point after point
that’s what all the coaches say
sports or it would rather look
at a golf match a golf tournament where
the players
actually aims the same hole but
know they will gather it
the award ceremony also observed the
people around you is it you
teaches rather the rules of pine pon
well the rules of golf
it’s true that it’s rather the opposite
the real dialogue and here I’m talking about
fertile dialogue not due
ping pong of opinion and course and
activities that we try to do
pass for convert for dialogue
today
no I speak the dialogue it is a
balance between listening and speaking but
it is also to afford luxury
uncomfortable to change your mind
it’s an uncomfortable luxury
zaïm say try to ask a
unionist a politician to
couples do not think of the scenes of
households just to hypothesize
change your mind during a conversation
with in play it’s exactly as if
that you ask them to go
voluntarily fight against a
enemy but without a weapon without armor and in
leaving aside their knowledge and
their certainties
it means the internal fight that
we can live then our opinions
that we can say that our
opinions it’s like programs
computer in our heads and these
programs will really do everything to
control our best take the
on our best intentions
they even go so far as to create others
Tunisia had a nobel peace prize
thanks to the organization of the dialogue
national
yes, that’s still saying
virtues of dialogue
I can already hear your silences and
smiles you how do we do
precisely to dialogue game we are going
take the example of a researcher
scientist into good scientist when
he has an idea in his mind he’s going to do
an experiment and he will observe what
is going to happen
and in general what will observe
and always similar and not identical
to what he had in mind and from
blow there is a new idea that is going
occur
because they would have noticed
similarities and differences
so we will witness the emergence
continuous new ideas and suddenly
this is where a new idea a
new experience
a new sighting and news
ideas then there is the dialogue of a
scientist with himself
yes, we can talk to ourselves
besides I promise you that all
speakers have a lot of dialogue
with themselves these past few days
how does it go when we dialogue
with each other it’s exactly the same
process you are going to start a
conversation you will put aside
the self protector block and you go
listen exactly like the physicist the
researcher not the physicist the researcher
scientist will observe his experience
then you will answer with this
news that we pay to this news
understanding and of stroke as and when
as the dialogue progresses
you will have an ide flow and innovative
it’s as if now I
asked to change the ping rules
pong by mutual agreement of course or
first raid nobody is trying to win
second rule if someone is wrong
everybody wins
so you’ll go from a posture
from losing winner to a posture of
winning winner
so you’ll tell me that it’s in
a perfect world
it’s true we do not all have the opportunity to
interact with winners with
people in posture win winner but
for that you have the choice of
to stop playing not to play squarely
ping pong with these new rules
or to say that anyway in
keeping my posture the dialogue is
will be better
even if the other one has a posture of
losing winners and
what is certain is that you will put
by angry and you will not feel the
frustration that’s why I’m
asks what is expected
take the dialogue out of the closet and
integrate it among the disciplines
indispensable that are the writing the
calculation and reading
it was an experiment to conduct a
investigation
she asked the question know you hold
a professional conversation about
3300 57 people questioned 30 % have
answered no we could have had a
fabulous conversation with a handful
door
48% said yes but it was pure
randomly 22 % answered no I panic
I stutter and I’m downright nil
still a motivation to learn from
young age
the art of dialogue and competence
milk then costs what I would like
really make you pass as a message
is that man’s communication to
man and the eighth wonder of the world
which continues to breed to our
unknowing through dialogue and we
are all responsible for the
back in this world in full
move the diallo could be the
glue or cement that would collect the
individuals and societies
thank you
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