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La potenza dell’incontro | Valentino Magliaro | TEDxCittàdiSanMarino


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I am a tireless dreamer and I have
started here
here and when I imagined being one
future president of the board I dream
in 2029 to be the Italian premier
I imagined being the future
president of the council because everyone
I think one day I can become
astronauts fireman
the doctors no one wants to point out the
I recommend , however, today I do not speak to you
of this that I will not even speak to you
of the people I met there
I will talk about the power of the meeting and there
I will talk about the rainbow
I do not like rainbows
I do not like them because they are not capable
to see in beauty, however, loves
imagine them loves to imagine them in the
meetings with people but above all
the rainbow is something that can be
describe the meeting as best as possible
person imagine elements to make yes
that a rainbow is not enough
look we need water and
water is the vital element is a
important element
water is not only in nature and in
our body and then we need the
light because light is that element that
it gives beauty joy and it is that element
which then allows you to emphasize
what can be or not even alone
a drop of water
we can live the rainbow we live it
see in people we can
observe above all we observe it
when walking we see that later
a storm when the sun is reborn
we look at the lights and as we do
we approached from the on the rainbow then
after a while it disappears then after a while
then reappears as a while then disappears
after a while he appears because
the rainbow is something that is not fixed
to look for the rainbow you need
move I need to move in one
direction or need to change
perspective and then imagine yourself
apply this in the meeting and try
given to count you why I in all the
meetings I do with any
I try to look for the rainbow
the rainbow seven colors
I started from last on the purple
purple indicates mystery
before contracting a person you
that person does not necessarily have it
you know you have an idea
try to think like that person
can think reason to imagine a
something before contracting a person
you think you know something already
that person maybe suitable to look for
on the Internet
if there is any information ever
send search for information
particular try to know and to
identify a knowledge a knowledge
particular because I want to go back to here
because I have to give you the definition
of the rainbow because the rainbow is a
optical phenomenon or better this is
written when you go looking
rainbow the arc less optical phenomenon
which produces an almost continuous spectrum
of light in the sky when the light of the
sun through the drops
of water remained in suspension and if I
I start to do something I expect of
succeeding is not my success
personal is not the success of the
person I met was successful
that thing that together joining all the
passages from the mystery from the idea to know
from sharing from trust
success succeeded by that action
what is created together is that thing
that we met we passed
our barriers and we did
something
already just the fact that it’s done
something together
means that that relationship had
success but not necessarily with
We have tried success we have found
the rainbow between the two people because
there is a second exercise to do
poor identify if you are water or yes
seduces because if it is water it means that
in that meeting there is someone who
it comes as strong as a storm or you
allows you to stay alive because you
then quench your thirst if you are water inside
of that meeting your thought
must become that of ok but what
it happens when he meets one
person who is light for me what happens
the moment I meet that one
person who allows me to or quench my thirst
the others then to make storms and happen
it seduces us seduce we must identify
if I can manage inside a room
make others shine then there and the
power of the meeting if in the moment in
which within the others light up and if
others enlighten you need to understand who
inside that room and water because if
we identify people
and every meeting we imagine it as I have to
understand if they are water on a light then
I can afford to understand that
which is the next step because the
power of the encounter is always one
search for the rainbow
I was 26 years old in my life
the chance to meet many
people people that this world give
positively influenced more or less
I had the chance to have dinner with
barack obama had the chance to
have a private dinner and talk for
three hours with a Nobel Peace Prize
muhammad yunus first nine for peace
in 2006 I shake hands with ban ki
moon
I had a conversation ten minutes
with tim cook and apple
and so on but that is not the element of
distinction is not that power
of the meeting that the accelerator me
then allowed to be able to have the
chance to meet many
other people and I spend 40 days
a year to meet people of whom not
I know absolutely nothing about people who me
they write online and ask me this
valentino has read your story
for me you are inspired then
I answer
choose a day choose a city
let’s meet for me it can be
inspiration because your story is not there
I know you my chosen one but I want it
I want to feel you from the saying
you have to understand if in that person and in
that circumstance
I can not go further
I can stop and think that I am
light the other person and water or vice versa
my thoughts must travel further
I have to understand behind that person that
what what what remains
I have to understand what my action is
next one
I have to understand what allows us to overcome
every kind every kind of phase each color
from the mystery but the idea from sharing
of knowledge from sharing everything
what happened before
from action to success
I need to understand if that person
then it’s the chance to be impactful
for many other people never reason
with me I can be important to them
we can be important for many
other people I alone can be
important for a person because I
before being important to him I am
It was important for someone else and then
someone else someone else is still
because someone made me think of
how to be as incisive as possible
for the others I dedicate a large part of the
time to tell stories and
listen to many others listened to
listen to what comes inside you in
every word that a person tells you
started thinking about what can be
within yours I yours
part of color you try to be
positives smile and do not get on
serious because we are human anyway
I am a human being like any other
person in this room is being
human that makes the difference
you can chat with hundreds of thousands
of people
you can hear them on Skype, you can talk
with them in any kind of medium but
the meeting with a person will determine
whether or not a rainbow can be born between
the two people meet with one
person allows you to locate or
less if all seven phases can be
complete because if you do not meet
we never exceed the mystery phase if
we do not meet
we do not have the chance to
share ideas
when our thinking on
travel at the same time if not there
meet
we do not have the chance to
share the knowledge that is born in
that room at that moment in
that meeting if we do not meet
we can not take an action if not there
we meet in our meeting can not
happen and a success will not happen
it means that we have not had any impact
for others
Be dreamers I am a tireless
on yout hours but look for the rainbow
thank you
[Applause]
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