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La beauté au coeur du corps | Marion Querol | TEDxNarbonne


who among you is beautiful
go ahead and raise your hand among you
is not beautiful raise your hand too
good full kanaker hesitate on the answer
and others that I do not seem to know
whether or not they are
for my part, my vision of beauty has
much evolved and what is certain is
that today I find you all very
beautiful when I was a teenager I dreamed of
look like a star
the spice girls fascinated clothing
colorful and flashy shoes at
Vertiginous heels impeccable hairstyle
excessive makeup glitter rhinestones
the total nothing was left to chance
everything seems so perfect and it’s
exactly what I was looking for months the
perfection good it must be said for that
I was at least as organized as a
pilot who would proceed to the ultimate
verification to the small takeoff
flashback we are projected 14 years
earlier in my teen room it’s 6
hours my alarm clock rings we are at a
Way of the Cross before the beginning of classes
I clearly have more than a minute to lose
if I want to get to college mind
quiet
so that’s gone meteo consult and the
the day before, it’s going to be sunny today
so that means I can finally m ma
all new skirt she is blue she
is beautiful although as I put
with what and panic I see parade
a thousand and one possibilities of outfits in
my head it makes me dizzy good I
tests a big one for fittings
I’m slowly going down the hall
searched but I do not know how many
pairs of shoes that I line up in front
the mirror that I class by style by
color by author by preference
the wardrobe I catch four or five
clothes that just held a
balance we do not really know how
do I have and this is after x go back
in front of the mirror with a word then a
other canton of the heels of the sneakers
here is a beautiful glittery fabric makes me
of the eye is there but I do not believe it
it’s exactly the same block as the one
of my skirt water buckets
good i’ll let you imagine the step
accessories with these color reminders
the hairstyle where each wick is at its
square
makeup is impossible to get out
without makeup
I was going to forget the varnish this expensive
varnish that I remove and that I put back
every morning the exact color and I
say that’s correct about my outfit is not a
half tone lighter to darker 1
otherwise my whole day is
spoiled oula oula
it’s 8:35 am there will have to be there
go the ultimate parade in front of the mirror
not bad
with a few more hours it would have
been perfect but a little it will go for
today
why there is always such
satisfaction
I can not do more than that
here I am that outside
deep down I want to live with a
mirror I have in front of me for
make sure everything is in its place when
nothing goes beyond
and that my showcase is up to this
I want to send but it’s not
possible then I go out my mirror of
pocket and I check
I check I check again and I
recheck why I’m so addicted to
detail why everything is so complicated
in my head
I come to college is she a star
who would go down the red carpet at
Cannes film festival
I advance not to ensure the head up
the smile on your lips
perfect the illusion is there everyone
do not think me on two – extroverted then
that in reality if he knew well I would
lets guess at the moment of
vocational guidance to what
I went go I listen to you and ben
yes the aesthetics
beauty institute change of scenery
but now, bathing in everything
a bunch of crem products perfumes jean
but the showcase idea but no longer the
this time that of others
here customers come to see me
men of women are waiting for my advice
my care my look
for me who used to erect
a wall of make-up between the others and
me but here is obliged to take care of
the other because for the other it is
much more than a simple appointment at
the beautician is his sacred moment
it’s like all of a sudden I
realized the common points between them
and me that all the efforts that I
were doing to beautify my showcase
my image my appearance was
maybe not so light anodyne
no name what makes this
young woman so beautiful so flirtatious happens
at the institute headlong and passes all
the session to ask me how I
find merkel see herself not she is
sublime
the mountain paris and between icy and I
have to spend the whole session at the
reassure and reassure her for small to
little see it open a little bit my
certainties crumbles 1
it’s really the moment of taking
consciousness
and if we were much more than our
body and if we were much more than
windows with different facades
stay on the surface become me
now impossible my flat vision
superficial illusory and meaningless
beauty is like evaporated
my place is no longer in the window but at
heart of the human it’s bubbling in my
head it sparkles in my heart a wind
liberator
new change of scenery
but now in the middle
hospital and more particularly in
oncology background certainly
much more different than before
but strangely I feel very good
well I feel in my place I am
now socio beautician I you
hear from the social what socio
beautician to explain you with
me neither sting nor infusion neither pain nor
treatment or medication
it’s a little parenthesis of
gentle comfort for all those who
cross this tornado which is the
sickness disease
that’s a word that impresses because
two diseases stem from the treatments
treatments stem from the effects
secondary hair loss decides
eyebrows nails that blacken and who
falls dehydration of dull skin
gray and tired and ill-being
pain mutilation impotence loneliness
the list is long and it is all
longer than the illness at this funny
power than to go back to the
surface to bring out and do
scroll through all those who were buried
hitherto the milestones the
accumulated pain the anxieties the
wounds of the past all spring so
how to keep moving forward in this
tornado
how to stay the course
when all of a sudden the estimated the
self-confidence flies away the reflection of
mirror become unbearable
the gaze of others also rape there and
my mission
my reason to act and my passion to wake up
this spark two beauty quotes
deep that I perceive at the bottom of
every person in every look is
as if I were connected this
spark is there and she asks that
to be revived and for that I have several
tools it can be a facial
hand care to overcome the
dehydration treatments a
massage a makeup to learn to
draw eyelashes and eyebrows a sophro
relaxation a foot reflexology
I do not really have a limit on
content of my sessions each person
is different
so I do not care about anything
freeze never scheduled anything to
in advance everything is possible because
everything happens in the moment with for
only goal the best be but before
any body care or relaxing I begin
always my sessions by a simple and
little question how are you
him to fork to yourself
starts at 20 who has this gift to crack
the shells the masks the sails
we could go to touch
the essential heart to this heart when we
spent his whole life to stay afloat
when we know for so long
forgotten we have trouble listening to it
so this is the moment of confidences the
moment to make a point
a self- assessment of his life and if
precisely the disease was this
alarm bell that allows me to
listen to me
this alarm bell that allows you to
wake up to reconnect to oneself
know platon said it 2500 years ago
we can not seek to heal the
body without seeking to heal the soul well
I understood that was hounding
wrapped only the envelope the
body does not make sense
in fact it’s a bit like cinema
you watch a movie and all of a sudden
the picture is getting confused
do you think the solution
is to change the screen
or do we have to go back to the level
the projector to see and understand this
that goes well by grasping that the
body is just this projection
outside of everything that’s happening to
interior
everything becomes different and from that
right now my job my practice my
care takes on a whole new dimension
a more subtle dimension more sensitive
more empathetic
I do not speak to patients anymore but
I address myself I do not touch
more than the body but I touch the
beauty in the heart of the body I hope that
now you will see each other
as I learned to see it and that
you can see yourself as I am
see in your beauty a beauty well
deeper of far more durable than
your only facade
so I rest you the question that
among you feels beautiful
[Applause]
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