microphone so thank you all for coming
today and this lovely morning January
today I’m talking about introductions by
social interactions and the reasons it’s
so important is because much it gives me
every single day bureaucracy Oh bleep
whether it’s being people are saying are
you a friend these are very useful
skills to know what we’re talking about
today there’s a little more about me why
I myself I’m talking about this of all
people I’m talking about what’s
happening to your brain was mrs. King
meeting people I’m talking about some
the perfect expression Furies that
stretch it out on the world wide web I’m
not my personal waiver construction and
a final battle over so my personal
backgrounds that I lived everywhere my
parents I’m across the United States may
different places especially live in the
small teams where everybody knows
everybody we will attempt economic
crimes are pretty quickly and easily
it’s very good skill mine but it’s less
copy of newcomers more just play hey
like hog roast I let hobbies too much
regrets after Mudgett now I’m going to
actually build a relationship on top of
that so Stratton exchange at the time
now i’m going to talk about the neuro
chemistry of what is going on inside
your bringing people so they’re abundant
from chemicals actually difficult the
main ones I’m talking about our dopamine
oxytocin stairs up so dopamine is known
as the happy belated sex would
approximated achievements especially in
the clubs like
stuck there and the engine is a patient
of success into the ward so I think that
meeting the dopamine goes up log and
meet someone when you’re about to meet a
person they’re really excited to meet
them you’re really trying to form a
connection or afterwards we met somebody
and you’re just happy I did next one we
talked about this oxytocin on the hub or
on and maybe bonded and show that we
break your skin to skin contact I can
that would happen during the
introduction when impurities on one’s
head this is also put the eye contact
intention is oxytocin especially
releases with trust don’t you trust
someone so why do we never got a good
handshake with an awesome apartment
where next kind of all if Sarah tongue
so strict replaced many different roles
the body but specifically in this
instance it’s known for mood now this is
what you’re gaining respect or
recognition and pride and eat some
sunshine happiness and peace of some
kind of certain it’s actually a
four-month that wants a lot of whitening
teeth so sterics one I didn’t slow you
guys are very depressed that it’s high
it’s a good chance of being energized
happy so quickly shere Khan’s levels so
now you’ll be talking about specific
part of right all there are many parts
of your brain that are working on your
meeting someone I want cause
specifically about the amygdala so
Nicholas two diamonds in the center of
your head in case of all five moderator
motivation and tells us what to do and
kind of navigate our social world sorta
safe so other parts of the very mixed
apt options so the parts the brain that
actually pricing options are also in
first impressions so the reason I put
logos named high school from progressive
remind me of it and while all these snap
judgments are going on looking similar
interests they’re looking for mutual
acquaintances and not a lunatic scale
just an actual thing come on me meeting
someone crazy I guess so the perfect
introduction series which will start
right now is firstly know your
surroundings you are Eddie who are you
with looks like we’re on were you with
please your role and what is your
overall goal interaction less is more
acceptance of business they also want my
love of is this year the first one be
humble and embrace your understatement
people emission victory about I’m not
student body president chat or have just
a senior I’m just a senior so we metal
don’t tell them something they already
up or if you’re a Miss aesthetic go fill
up something on your business card where
they can just figure out make the most
of a time in do have a good first
impression ed use something sacred my
only sometimes mention that you are good
why your work resources to them as a
business it and find a common interest
like I said the Opera earlier so group
introductions are a little bit different
in this case you have my share story but
this is a big one do not joke around
group addresses I’ve done this many
times and failed in the process so is
please note that share relatable
information as well all about movies all
of these connections for example where
do you know the person who’s juicy to
rear up or how do you feel about the
sudden through this forum and why we
have a little fun I find that game to
work although not for me because I just
don’t
but it also helps so the handshake this
is the kind of big part of presentation
that emphasize on them so aunt Ida
physical body and other person shows
signs of strength or weakness Jesus
agreement made different countries
especially in the Western civilization
and casual or form so the handshake and
what personally I think a not stick your
arm out like this when you’re shaking
some of em probably not a great sign but
I decided and eposide it like your own
with kind of like at your side of the
little and whenever so every person has
wedding between the thumb and their
pointer finger right here when you’re
kicking as another person you want a lot
the wedding and like I say block until
it’s a really formal a true kind of
handshake we feel it and you think wow
that verse is strong you’re not even all
right so your grip I have a really
technical that’s not to say that you
want to put all your fingers slightly
around them and ask person models please
do it easy is going to do on private
person next year really well also do
another demonstration the end pictures
of firm grip we really really don’t want
to hurt anybody I’ve done this to do
like shaking hands especially the girls
did you not like it it’s awesome okay
there’s always gives you a really really
big grip is my personal problems that
could be a sign of weakness book another
from other than recession
sign of respect so it hand sizes I have
had the spins been varying sizes we have
almonds just try to lock the webbing
really kind of emphasize how you’re
shaking hand out the other person feels
attention in between when we began to
feel a little softer I think I really
all just do not however the matter how
big hands as long as you have to not
feel uncomfortable and getting a
headache still show your presence
anymore so shape it stuff that makes a
lot of happen you don’t want to be
waiting you’re on around like this or
any other person is just stupid the
smaller and cleaner the shape is the
better now I look this up look through
psychologist and all that and actually
number is 1 2 3 shade itself or cleanse
going back a little if you’re kind of
like this people on the grip half and
you’ve on there so I am this is key when
meeting someone local directly through
person’s eyes after your kind of
calculated your shape make sure to
introduce yourself save your name
sometimes I’ve said the wrong name I
said my last name about climate doesn’t
really help suppressing your own name
and another tip is to make nothing I
contact with a person to know the person
I call when you’re done I that really
connects and know that person a little
more on that he’s gonna think so
confidence confidence is good don’t
focus on the other person’s thoughts
that very common that a lot before doing
an impression in some deep breath upon
it Brett like this it lowers your
partner a lot and when am I lost you
first think that you’re doing something
and you’re doing it well you usually
relax while doing it always remember
that less is more and a little bit quick
smile laughing shaking someone’s hand
little bit of a positive tone as well
comments so that’s really it on an
ancient part you should try it and like
i’m going to give you guys some time why
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