I thought that you and my friend how
often do we see that in our own
friendships a lot sometimes you see it
because you’re upset and we feel a
friend set us down sometimes you say it
it’s at that moment we realize that this
isn’t a true friend at all friends of
arguments no matter the age you could be
entering primary school or you could be
graduating you could be starting a new
job or you could be retiring often
arguments are caused by the smallest of
things for example you forget to wait
for a friend at the bus stop after
school and they get annoyed I make a
snarky comment which then escalates into
drama but sometimes this arguments can
be on a larger scale I can act a
betrayal or a lie some people say the
friends who don’t argue are not true
friends at all in a way I agree turning
up to a certain point do you have a
friend who you argue with all the time
well maybe the truth is you don’t have
much in common with that person after
all spending time with a friend who
clumps me once you up is annoying in the
end perhaps the friendship is like you
to just drive you both mad and piss all
out altogether now if you have a friend
who you never argue with at all
well that’s suspicious too right are you
really able to be ourselves with each
other do you genuinely agree on
absolutely everything and never have a
single disagreement
it sounds unrealistic to me so we all
know friends argue it’s just how we
respond to an argument that tells us
whether the friendship is a true one
there’s a famous saying sticks and
stones may break my bones but words can
never hurt me
in my experience I think it’s untrue
words can be so impatient hurt even more
than sticks and stones
we need to be very careful what we say
to our friends because once you’ve said
something it can’t be taken back then
why did you say I like toothpaste you
can easy squeeze as much toothpaste up
the tube as you like have you ever tried
getting it back in so you’ve got your
GCSE is coming up or job interview you
need to prepare for I’m one of your
close friends sunny says something rude
or spreads a bad rumor about you this
could not only distract you and ruin
your day it could potentially ruin your
future if you let it get to you if a
friend has been unkind to you definitely
don’t be unkind back but also don’t
ignore it or show that you’re hurt
because then they think they’ve
succeeded in upsetting you and will
carry on one of my best friends once
told me the way to make hurtful comments
stop is to kill them with kindness
imagine that says someone says to you
your nose is big all you have to do is
bite your tongue turn the Tri charm on
smile and say something nice back to
them like yes I know my nose is big your
nose is really nice you’re so pretty
well I’m sure that person will think
twice about saying something rude to you
again sometimes it’s acetone the wrong
yes it’s hard to believe but it’s true
we say something without thinking or
worse just liberally hurt someone it’s
not easy to admit that we are wrong and
apologize pride gets in the way and your
pride could be the one thing that
prevents an easy solution we all know
that feeling the longer you take to say
sorry even more the other person feels
hurt and Confused
the longer it goes on the more the
problem grows and gossip doesn’t help
let’s face it we all gossip
maybe unintentionally move the
excitement but it always leads to
trouble
gossip is like Chinese whispers person a
something small that person beat person
si si passed it on to D and D to e each
time the story changing I’m coming more
and more exaggerated eventually the
store get back to pass
in a very hurtful way they’ll confront
passing a leading to a massive drama and
confusion that’s the thing with gossip
it spreads quickly because everyone
wants to feel like the Internet but we
need to remember there is always that
victim
somewhere along the line of whispers who
ends up getting hurt social media makes
us worse it’s great to communicate with
friends and family to keep up to date
with news to swap photos videos and
music but it’s too easy for social media
to be used negatively how does it feel
when you’re left out of the whatsapp
group that everyone at school is talking
about you don’t even know who they may
be talking about there must be a reason
why you’re not included mustn’t there
well no not necessarily
look how easy it is to make someone feel
excluded and upset friendships can be
the most important things in our lives
in fact the friendships we make now may
well last all our lives we need each
other to confide in to laugh with to cry
with as a shoulder to lean on we need to
learn to work to our friendships not to
take them for granted and not betray
them so we never need to say I thought
that you were my friend you can always say I’m so glad you are my friend
often do we see that in our own
friendships a lot sometimes you see it
because you’re upset and we feel a
friend set us down sometimes you say it
it’s at that moment we realize that this
isn’t a true friend at all friends of
arguments no matter the age you could be
entering primary school or you could be
graduating you could be starting a new
job or you could be retiring often
arguments are caused by the smallest of
things for example you forget to wait
for a friend at the bus stop after
school and they get annoyed I make a
snarky comment which then escalates into
drama but sometimes this arguments can
be on a larger scale I can act a
betrayal or a lie some people say the
friends who don’t argue are not true
friends at all in a way I agree turning
up to a certain point do you have a
friend who you argue with all the time
well maybe the truth is you don’t have
much in common with that person after
all spending time with a friend who
clumps me once you up is annoying in the
end perhaps the friendship is like you
to just drive you both mad and piss all
out altogether now if you have a friend
who you never argue with at all
well that’s suspicious too right are you
really able to be ourselves with each
other do you genuinely agree on
absolutely everything and never have a
single disagreement
it sounds unrealistic to me so we all
know friends argue it’s just how we
respond to an argument that tells us
whether the friendship is a true one
there’s a famous saying sticks and
stones may break my bones but words can
never hurt me
in my experience I think it’s untrue
words can be so impatient hurt even more
than sticks and stones
we need to be very careful what we say
to our friends because once you’ve said
something it can’t be taken back then
why did you say I like toothpaste you
can easy squeeze as much toothpaste up
the tube as you like have you ever tried
getting it back in so you’ve got your
GCSE is coming up or job interview you
need to prepare for I’m one of your
close friends sunny says something rude
or spreads a bad rumor about you this
could not only distract you and ruin
your day it could potentially ruin your
future if you let it get to you if a
friend has been unkind to you definitely
don’t be unkind back but also don’t
ignore it or show that you’re hurt
because then they think they’ve
succeeded in upsetting you and will
carry on one of my best friends once
told me the way to make hurtful comments
stop is to kill them with kindness
imagine that says someone says to you
your nose is big all you have to do is
bite your tongue turn the Tri charm on
smile and say something nice back to
them like yes I know my nose is big your
nose is really nice you’re so pretty
well I’m sure that person will think
twice about saying something rude to you
again sometimes it’s acetone the wrong
yes it’s hard to believe but it’s true
we say something without thinking or
worse just liberally hurt someone it’s
not easy to admit that we are wrong and
apologize pride gets in the way and your
pride could be the one thing that
prevents an easy solution we all know
that feeling the longer you take to say
sorry even more the other person feels
hurt and Confused
the longer it goes on the more the
problem grows and gossip doesn’t help
let’s face it we all gossip
maybe unintentionally move the
excitement but it always leads to
trouble
gossip is like Chinese whispers person a
something small that person beat person
si si passed it on to D and D to e each
time the story changing I’m coming more
and more exaggerated eventually the
store get back to pass
in a very hurtful way they’ll confront
passing a leading to a massive drama and
confusion that’s the thing with gossip
it spreads quickly because everyone
wants to feel like the Internet but we
need to remember there is always that
victim
somewhere along the line of whispers who
ends up getting hurt social media makes
us worse it’s great to communicate with
friends and family to keep up to date
with news to swap photos videos and
music but it’s too easy for social media
to be used negatively how does it feel
when you’re left out of the whatsapp
group that everyone at school is talking
about you don’t even know who they may
be talking about there must be a reason
why you’re not included mustn’t there
well no not necessarily
look how easy it is to make someone feel
excluded and upset friendships can be
the most important things in our lives
in fact the friendships we make now may
well last all our lives we need each
other to confide in to laugh with to cry
with as a shoulder to lean on we need to
learn to work to our friendships not to
take them for granted and not betray
them so we never need to say I thought
that you were my friend you can always say I’m so glad you are my friend
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