know that that’s crap
let’s move to another field that’s known
as Chartered Accountancy that makes
money and I flunked all over the county
and dr. you dropped it then I moved on
to like oh no my real strength is
basically I am gonna be a CEO of a
company and that’s what I’m gonna do so
I’m gonna work hard I’m gonna do good
all levels a levels and I’m gonna go to
the best person school because that’s
the way I’m gonna cry in the corporate
ladder everything this point perfect
lumps is great I mean the sophomore year
at my small business wedding photography
I am peeing I’m making money I’m
teaching tuitions and you know I was in
that phase I was I was very close to
where I was going on you okay life is
finally setting them but then one
incident changed everything I fell in
love I fell in love with this girl who
it was very smart she used to sit right
in front of the class in the second row
brilliant our lives and all I could
think about was her then but I didn’t
have the courage to talk to her and most
importantly she diverted anyway existed
so I was in the backseat fourth row guy
through the front cedar who was officer
performing in the classes and everything
four months past the fall semester is
about to end and exams are on our heads
so I’m sitting right outside the
economic block building enjoying hot
cocoa when I saw her name is Sarah
the Sarah was walking right so and I was
but I pretended not look at her I used
my phone I was Frank you know taxers
trying to act a little busy and she came
to me it’s just like hi otic can I sit
with you my inner self under cool man
this doesn’t happen to you you’re not
that guy and then two miles like that’s
an all-clear and please sure take a seat
and she’s like it’s been a long time I
want to talk to you about something I
know my nervous I know things I don’t
know how to say this I have a lot of
anxiety I’m stressed so I’m just gonna
say it in one shot would you cover my
engagement this weekend and now that was
a big I wish and that’s the incident
that really evolved me to be a better
person
it taught me two things number one when
you want something you don’t delayed for
four months you doing you go out and get
it at that right point in time and
number two there’s a difference between
liking and loving something I liked my
work at that point in time it was simply
just about making money and I liked it
but Sara I used to love her when I was
with Sara I forgot about work I forgot
about everything in my life when I was
at work I was still thinking about Sara
and that’s where the difference was
drawn but why wasn’t I able to
understand that in the first goal and
what I when I intersected into myself
the problem lies with how we all
individuals are groomed we have one
model of success we have all been there
right our parents tell us okay so do
hard work live a good life that’s all we
get at homes right show of hands how
many people have heard this from their
parents yes
hard work you’re gonna succeed the
problem with this framework is it only
has
one outcome attached to it the either
gauge performance by being academically
brilliant or making more money and there
is no other option and when we all try
to search and hunt the same goal down
not everyone reaches it because we like
it we don’t love it in my talk and my
perspective of living life changed I
wanted to fall in love again but this
time not with the girl with life itself
I want life as my relationship my
relationship with my leg and what
requires a relationship is trust with
life going through the hard times and
relationships are never easy how many of
us have ever been in a relationship come
on show fans oh no you guys are lying
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anybody who has been in one will tell
you how hard it is their fights their
times you want to just give up
but you keep moving forward you keep
building the relationship you want at
the end of the day you want to marry the
guy of the girl right and I want to
marry my life one day
and that’s my objective now it’s very
easy to say you know I have to spawn in
love with life but nobody actually tells
you about how to fall in love with life
we don’t have that framework available
am i right you know what you wanted in
life anybody what do you want dude tell
me okay he’s blacked out he doesn’t know
at this age and what we don’t realize is
our time is very limited it’s you at the
point present you’ll be like okay you
know I’m just 16 or 17 out of gazillion
more years to live on life and go on and
figure it out right let me break it down
in math an average Pakistani lives for
66 years that’s what Google says about
it you have already wasted 16 after 40
you won’t have the energy or the will to
pursue what you want that leaves us with
24
you spent it are sleeping driving
talking eating and that takes about 12
hours of your life per day that cuts
your life half which means you only have
12 years to follow your passion you’re
66 your life
it only has 12 years in which you can
actually make what you want to be and
you’re gonna spend that doing something
you don’t even love that’s not a fair
trade for me I would like that and I
don’t want anything for you guys this
way so how do you fall in love with like
how do we find what interests us what is
our inner core do we don’t work what is
what were we made up what why aren’t in
this universe why God has created us for
some reason do we know that reason
so I created up I resource a lot on this
farm alive
tested on people when I came up with
this three simple steps they’re just
three simple steps and nothing more than
that
and if you take them today I could
promise you if you apply them in your
life you not only be more personally
effective would be a better human being
overall so step number one meditation
it’s basically called disconnecting with
the world we are all surrounded by noise
every day we walk out we think obedience
we hear opinions do this do that or
disagree or is a better one since we
should towards this field this has much
more potential your career advisors
everybody’s just corrupting your head
with something and when you come home
you’re like oh I’m just gonna sleep you
do mean nothing yeah absolutely do
nothing and you go home and go to sleep
what I tell you to do before sleeping
just before sleeping for 30 minutes just
shut down everything you know like no
phones no mom no dad your friends no
nothing no internet no Facebook just you
and your core now let me just try this
the heart is a very very powerful organ
it creates emotions for you right and we
don’t listen to it and if we keep
silence for just one second you’ll be
able to hear your heartbeat
and you’re gonna ask your heart one
simple question now we solve each and
every single problem of your career or
whatever that’s probably you what’s that
one thing that one thing that will that
you’re gonna do in life even if you’re
not baby
nobody’s gonna appreciate it it’s just
you doing that thing and it makes you
happy
ask yourself this question time and time
again it will take four months a year
four years ten years it’s gonna take
time when when you get the answer things
are gonna get a little better I’ll tell
you my my answer came and asked my
question I like aren’t good with people
and that’s the only thing I got I love
being around people my teammates can
tell you how much I love being around
every people every day my office is
filled with students I have literally
told them out the point I can break down
they don’t even let me eat at 11 a.m. at
11:00 p.m. and 9:00 a.m. I’m getting
text messages and calls but I like that
and what I do is definitely is do the
second step of life now I know okay I’m
good with people well what’s the second
step you find your life in an abstract
don’t tell me you want to be an engineer
no that’s the worst we can find your
life tell me you want to be an inventor
because inventors can be an artist
invention can be a musician in venture
can be anybody who loves creating new
things you want define your life like an
engineer doctor there feels that’s what
you’re gonna choose later on in the life
not at this moment it’s a defining an
abstract maybe you want to be I don’t
know you want to dance all day long
that’s fine that’s show of energy you
can get away it feels with that and
lastly and the most important is
understand the difference between a
hobby and a career
we all have hobbies everything there are
careers a hobby is something you just
like doing a career something you’re
going to give your life to like your
soul mate you take your career you put
that ring on the
career we asked the Curia to marry you
you want to keep it for the rest of your
life you don’t want to let it go with
that easily and hobbies like you know a
flame baby so with that said I just have
one last message to wish you guys you
are the captain of your own ship your
friends your family your parents your
mentors your teachers they are the crew
of that boil ship who’s gonna help you
do where you want to go in life and my
advice is you start your journey today
thank you very much [Applause]