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How to Help Yourself By Helping Others | Mandarivaa Lkhagvasuren | TEDxAmericanSchoolOfUlaanbaatar


last name everyone as you can see the

talk of the day today is how to help

yourself by helping others we rise by

lifting others have you ever wondered

how life would be so different if human

beings were unconditionally helpful in

kind to one another dictionary defines

the word volunteering as to freely

offers to freely work sorry too freely

work to do something and working for an

organization without being paid and

wikipedia defines the word volunteering

as an action that benefits to a person

group or organization as you can see

these definitions do not mention how

volunteering impacts the volunteer

themselves one of my fellow volunteer

friend said volunteering is a win-win

situation but I see it it’s the more

than win situation for a person who is

volunteering for the next few minutes I

will talk about why we should volunteer

and the benefits of volunteering

specifically why we should volunteer

abroad I will begin my talk sharing my

experience in Kenya since I was a young

girl I always wanted to volunteer and

help people in some ways growing up I

heard lots of stories about Africa for

my parents where they have traveled many

countries like Kenya Tanzania Ethiopia

they always said one cannot resist the

lure of Africa this was one of the main

aspiration for me to go there after

living in London eight years I moved

back to my country summer

2015 so I began searched for

volunteering programs in the search

lasted for months finally I found

madhavi key community in Kenya through

an organization called love volunteers

and in the December late December 2015 I

went to Kenya for a five-week

volunteering programme and I didn’t know

it would be the best experience that I

ever had in my life it changed the way I

see through everything Kenya was a

spectacular as a country and the people

Ali I met all the way through was truly

amazing and it really touched my heart

and so at the very moment when I landed

at jomo kenyatta airport in Nairobi I

already felt at home I felt really

comfortable and excited obviously and

the air that I breathe it was strangely

familiar even though it was my first

time in Kenya and I’ve been through many

countries but I never felt like this

before initially i chose the women’s

empowerment program which was to work

with and encourage girls from nine to

twenty years of age and the girls who

had survived from the sexual abuse child

labour human trafficking gender-based

violence and forced migration these

girls went through horrific in their

lives but now they’re happily living

with their friends their babies and the

caretakers of the italia eggless girls

shelter at the girls shelter I try to

bring best out of me by teaching

english also art classes and helping

there with the jurors like cooking

cleaning taking care of the babies and

also you know what Carole’s like to do

like singing dancing and putting the

makeup on and although I went there to

help for them I felt there were the ones

who helped me they have been eating the

same food every day instead of wanting

something else they were thankful for

the food and especially when they eat

meat they pray and they they were

thankful for the animals who sacrificed

themselves and the girls were just

amazing and fun to be with I love the

very every moment that I spent at the

girl shelter in three weeks only we

already became family sisters and their

kindness not only showed in that way but

also in many ways and this was one of

the many lessons that I have learned and

when it’s a playtime they didn’t have a

bowl to play with so they made a ball

out of their tights how wonderful and

creative are these girls when I left

there as I said I was the one who has

been helped and I was the one who is

thankful for daytime on my last week of

Kenya I decided to volunteer at the baby

orphanage called angel and helping with

the baby’s taking care of the babies it

was just one of the most amazing feeling

that I ever had they had the cutest

brown eyes and the curly hair and some

even called me Mommy

it just melted and broke my heart at the

same time because I think the one of the

greatest tragedy and life is the child

who is suffering and through his or her

early ages without having the support or

guidance of their loving mother that’s

why I think it’s such a noble case for

me to work and help at the earth

orphanage our duties included taking

care of the babies changing the nappies

bathing them feeding them you know yet

and I and the toddler size so they

wouldn’t get into mischief because you

know the toddlers and I was just so

happy that I have helped them and I was

there for them to show them love and

affection that they’re cared I noticed

that every child was really unique and I

hope one day that they would have a true

family to get raced with working with

the babies and the women was the best

thing that ever happened in my life it

was really really rewarding that I was

really surprised that how much we can

get by giving and if you ever thought

about volunteering just take a leap of

faith and go for it because the price

so why volunteer as we know

lots of benefits if we volunteer there

are lots of benefits to the other person

group or organization however there are

many prosperity’s for the volunteers

themselves based on my experience the

volunteers include making difference in

our life gaining confidence learning new

skills developing our characters

boosting our career options being a part

of the community it provides you with a

sense of purpose develops new interests

and hobbies that allow and also it

allows you to have fun while helping

others moreover you learn to appreciate

of more of what you have because we are

never happy about ourselves or what we

have we always want more our human

desire seems to never be satisfied but

volunteering it will help you to

appreciate more of what you have it

shows that lovin a total stranger is

possible how obviously by volunteering

it’s an opportunity to grow and redefine

yourself and adding on top of all these

benefits the most important thing that I

loved was how it made me feel so when I

decided to go to Kenya volunteer in

Kenya I told my friends and they were

like why volunteer abroad and some seem

to be very surprised somewhere a bit

disappointed and some thought I was

brave but volunteering abroad it gives

you lots

of opportunities it opened my eyes to

see a world in a different light and

also it allows me to it’ll out my

improved my awareness and respect for

the other cultures and it showed me that

you don’t have to speak the same

language to understand one another also

it allowed me to getting out of my

comfort zone and it changed my life were

better forever and you also have a

better sense of feeling that what’s

going on around the world that’s why i

chose volunteering in kenya so it’s

important to know if you want to

volunteer where and how to start and I

have a few tips for you so firstly you

should start now if you think of

volunteering you should give at least 3

to 12 months if you want to volunteer

abroad because it takes lots of time to

the vaccinations and travel visas and

all this so make sure you have enough

time for that and number two research

try to collect as much as information

you can there are different

organizations then that support

different causes but unfortunately in

Mongolia we don’t have an organization

that tells the volunteers that sense the

volunteers abroad so you need to search

for the internet so that you can collect

as much as information you want number

three decide on the country which you

would like to volunteer as i said i

always had africa on my mind so choosing

kenya from that continent was made my

and number four decide on the cause so

now you decided on the country it’s

going to be easier for you to decide on

the cause and I think it’s helpful to

list what you can do and what you want

to do and contrast the lists and go for

what you want to do even if you think

you cannot do it don’t worry you’ll

never know until you try it and

obviously practice brings practice makes

practice makes one step closer to the

perfection and number five choose an

organization once you decided on the

cause and the country it’s going to be

easier for you to choose an organization

but before choosing the organization

contact with the form of volunteers via

facebook and ask their experiences about

the organization and lastly request

volunteering so once you have decided

the organization you just have to

request volunteering and pay the deposit

everything follows from there they give

you a clear guidance of the travel visas

vaccinations what you should do in what

you should expect and wash what you

should need so once these steps are

completed all you have to do is wait for

the day that you leave and the real

adventure begins from there volunteering

in Kenya was the best thing that ever

happened in my life it didn’t only bring

joy and happiness to the others also it

led to my personal growth and also

spiritual growth that is an experience

that you cannot vote of any amount of

money i hope that

one day each one of you choose the

volunteer and the experience that great

feeling that I have experienced while I

was volunteering in Kenya and help

yourself by helping others thank you [Applause]

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