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Going Beyond Simply “Being Grateful” | Matthew Santos | TEDxYouth@IndependenceSchool


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good afternoon um so I just want to

start off with a quick question so raise

your hand if you’ve ever heard of the

mcdonalds happy meal well I think that’s

everyone now keep your hand raised if

you’ve ever ordered a happy meal just so

you can get the toy yeah that’s a lot so

I think you guys were relate to this

story so um so when I was younger I let

used to live in Brooklyn in New York

City and my parents were always busy

working so my grandmother would always

take me around the city and two stores

to libraries to many different places

but the one thing we always the one

place we always went to every single

week was mcdonalds always have to go

there and at mcdonalds i would always

order the same exact order the hamburger

happy meal every single time and I

really aussie I didn’t really cared

about the fact that my grandmother was

buying me the food all I really care

about was the toy I had so much fun

playing with a toy and that’s all I

cared about and look forward to and so I

didn’t realize how wasteful this habit

was until much later my family is

originally from the Philippines and we

go there once here and the Philippines

as you can send a map is an island

country in Southeast Asia and one of our

family vacations we went to the

Philippines and we went to a fast food

chain restaurant called jollibee it’s

very similar to McDonald’s and so my

family walked out of jollibee and we saw

this kid in the parking lot this young

poor kid he was about this tall and he

was about the same age I was when I was

living New York see and he was just

going like this to us too many other

people as well he was asking for money

and so my parents actually went back in

to jollibee born in my hamburger meal

and gave it to the boy and I was young

and I I was so surprised like why is

this kid so happy I was just thinking to

myself like there was no like there was

no toy or prize all it was was just a

burger and it made me realize later on

that the kid was really happy about he

viewed the burger as a prize not the toy

and it was something that he was truly

grateful for and so I encourage you to

be grateful as well there are so many

things in this world to be grateful for

and however on top of that I also

encourage you encourage you to go past

simply being grateful and you need the

move past simply being grateful in order

to help others and in my sophomore year

of high school that’s what I did so one

thing I was always grateful for was my

shoes I always had good shoes to run in

and being a high school cross country

runner and track runner I would always

be grateful to have the shoes of you I

would able I would be able to wear every

single day for practice and one thing I

noticed on my family trips to the

Philippines was that there were so many

people especially kids even your age

even younger actually that don’t have

these shoes or their shoes are very worn

out and in fact my grandfather he used

to used to walk miles and miles to

school every day on a dirt road with no

shoes on and you know it was really bad

for his feet so on my sophomore year of

high school I conducted a shoe drive and

a tower hill many students and teachers

donated hundreds and hundreds of pairs

of shoes and we sent them over to the

bow junga elementary school in the

Philippines and one summer I personally

went over there to the Philippines to

that school and I personally distributed

the shoes and they were so grateful for

it and these are the kids there they

were about your age as well and there

were hundreds and hundreds of pair of

shoes and if I had

is right here I could give you each like

two or three pairs of shoes that’s how

much we were able to collect and how

much the students and teachers that

Tower Hill were generous and this is

just another picture of me and the kids

and the teacher right there and this is

just one of their classrooms and their

classrooms they don’t even have like air

conditioning and it’s very very hot

there so they have to study while

they’re sweating so this is one of the

way i encourage you to move past simply

being grateful and to really be active

in the community i challenge you to take

the first step so first ask yourself

what are you grateful for every day

there are so many things to be grateful

for in this world and maybe you are

grateful for the your lunch that you get

to eat every day so take it again take

that and take it further so maybe you

can volunteer at a soup kitchen or

something or let’s say you are grateful

for the jacket that keeps you warm every

day if I were to take if I were to open

this door and the cold air would come in

and everybody would be freezing it’s

really cold outside especially in this

winter time it’s I was just outside and

it’s like 30 degrees outside and there

are people out there who don’t even have

clothes to wear even in this weather so

again take something like your jacket

take something you are grateful for and

really help someone else attain it so

you can um maybe donate one of your

jackets that you don’t use anymore or

let’s say you are grateful for your

education I mean here at Independence

it’s a great school so you’ve got to be

grateful right um you have great

education here and maybe you can

volunteer the tutor at tutor someone who

may not have the same educational

opportunities as you do or maybe you can

make it even more simple once you can

maybe have a lot of knowledge in a

certain subject you can help one of your

friends who may be struggling in that

subject and you maybe you may be saying

oh I’m not I’m just a physical

or I’m just a 6th grader but I’m telling

you right now you are not just anything

you are you you are your own person with

the great capability of doing

unimaginable greatness in this world and

nobody can ever ever stop you from doing

so nobody and I mean that and expressing

your own personal gratitude will help

you live a personal / will live a

happier and better life but it is once

you move past simply being grateful and

help others that the world becomes a

better place so I challenge you I really

do challenge you to take one of the

things you are grateful for in this

world and help someone else attain it

you

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