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Following and Achieving Your Dreams | Anna Svetozarova Milkovski | TEDxYouth@AASSofia


today I will encourage those who

question himself that anything is

possible if you believe in yourself this

doesn’t mean that you can fly or that

you can run forever

but it means that you can achieve

anything that can be done by someone

else have you ever done something that

you thought would be impossible like

getting an a on a test that was that you

didn’t even open the book for or getting

an F on a test that you studied for if

that is the case then you’re the proof

that I need for today

you’re the outcome of the impossible

becoming possible by the way the reason

why you received an F on the test you

studied for could be not that you can’t

get an A but that you didn’t try hard

enough this also includes anything from

getting a lot of money versus not

getting enough and working hard and

cleaning houses all day long versus

sitting on a comfortable chair looking

over a beautiful city we have a teacher

in our school who always says that those

who work hard are not always the ones

who succeed but why is that I wonder

well I don’t actually know but I’m bound

to find out soon when I graduate a mummy

and daddy are not there to feed me

anymore anyhow if you set goes to

achieve your dream whatever it is have

an open mindset and if you never give up

it is more likely you achieve something

and grow as a person even if you achieve

less than what you’re aiming for but you

have to try because one day when you’re

an old Grandma and Grandpa you can go

back and say at least I tried this will

help shape communities in the direction

of helping us believe in ourselves and

helping us become a more successful

society because we learn to have a

journey in their life

in our lives and through that journey we

can all move forward moving on if you

want to overcome a challenge if you want

to grow as a person or if you want to

achieve a goal then think of it this way

you’re standing in front of a very tall

fence with electrical wires on top and

if you haven’t guessed yet you want to

jump over that fence so how do you do

that you motivate yourself because on

the other side there is something you

desire however in order to do that you

need to set a goal for yourself you need

to know that you might phone your back

and hurt yourself so you need to stand

up and keep climbing once you do that

you’ll feel better about yourself and

you could achieve your goal you might

have to make sacrifices such as quitting

bad habits like being lazy and

practicing over and over again therefore

you need to make time for your goal how

do you do that you may ask well

prioritizing is the best way

prioritizing helps you distinguish

between what you want to do right now

versus what you want to have

accomplished in the future do you want

to stay at home and watch TV or do you

want to go out and work out at the gym

in the moment you might want to stay at

home but you know that if you do that

you will never achieve your goal of

having a good body there’s a study done

by Andres Eriksson a Swedish

psychologist who claims that achieving

greatness requires time about 10,000

hours is how much the Beatles have spent

performing on stage and same goes for

Bill Gates who spend 10,000 hours

programming on a school computer this is

the 10,000 hour rule which has proven to

be true if you decide to be good in

something like playing an instrument for

example then to be perfect in it you

need to spend 10,000 hours playing it

which is seven years if you spend three

hours a day playing that instrument

basically to achieve a certain goal you

have to aim high and to be willing not

to give up while spending a lot of time

on the

in addition confidence leads to success

therefore to succeed you need to have

confidence why confidence leads to

success is because if you’re not

confident in what you’re doing you do

not know what you’re doing the

confidence I come is simple and goes

like this fake it till you make it just

do it and celebrate any success along

the way confidence comes from the inside

so you need to convince yourself that

you can do this and that if someone else

can will so can you you cannot be

confident if you constantly have

insecurities about yourself to keep

fighting for your dream you have to

believe in yourself you have to look in

the mirror and accept your flaws you

have to believe you were born for a

reason because we all are

whether that reason is you sitting on

the couch eating potato chips while

watching Titanic or if the reason is

you’re becoming a star it really does

not matter as long as you feel

accomplished there’s a reason why no one

is perfect and that is exactly it that

no one should be because otherwise they

would feel useless the happiest people

are the ones who live their life to the

fullest no matter if they have wealth

security or assuming house with the

swimming or our house with a swimming

pool in it

so again prioritize what is more

important to you do you think you need

to like yourself to succeed decide now

and don’t ever doubt yourself for

example there is Stanley Terry Fox Run

for 143 days and five thousand three

hundred seventy three kilometers with

one leg having been amputated eventually

because he had cancer it spread through

his body and he did die but because he

didn’t give up he managed to give

inspiration to people to follow their

ideas through folk shows both practice

and confidence to follow his goal

basically if you want your dreams to

come true

you have to follow them never give up no

matter what happens and most importantly

set

pose for yourself and okay but now you

may think Ana but we’re not all like

Terry Fox we don’t all have such

determination and we can’t do it well

but everything we do is there about our

mindset and personalities if your mind

is telling you that you can’t do

something they begin to believe this and

therefore you begin to not do it

mindset goes from being able to control

your body physically to being able to do

things you never thought you could do

such as Malala Yosef I the 14 year old

Palestinian girl who got shot in the

head by the Taliban because she wanted

to have the right to go to school

however she survived and she began

encouraging girls like her to go and

fight for the right of education

therefore her mindset is set into the

direction of believing in herself and

pursuing on what she wants

no matter the threat because she

prioritized what was important to her

lastly do you ever look back to what you

did wrong and regret it so bad don’t

because people who have no regrets are

the ones who realized that all of these

mistakes have led them to this to where

they are right now even if you can think

of many people in your head of what

they’ve done and that the thing that

they’ve done is so bad and it cannot be

forgiven nor undone then think of the

ones that you really thought would fail

but actually succeed Donald Trump sure

how to mines growth mindset we all

thought he was going down and would

never win the election but he did I also

have a growth mindset

I failed 9th grade math and the only way

that I was able to move to 10th grade

was by doing an online course during the

summer and I did it currently my average

grade in math is around 85% to 92 what

people tell me about failure because I

always believe that there’s a way that

things can change

in the positive way the only way to stop

failing is to

your thought process and to accept

failure with the clear mind you have to

let failure flow through you let the

negative thoughts fly away as you can

think of whatever you did wrong and how

you can make up for it basically the

only way to succeed is by making

mistakes and failing because if you

always do things right then what is the

point of having dreams or ghosts in the

first place

now I’m going to ask you to please do

something for me I’m going to ask you to

please close your eyes yes even the

people who are recording me mum close

your eyes and think of something that

you regret doing think of that one thing

that you really regret doing I don’t

know what it is being yourself in public

whatever just think about that and think

of how that one little thing made you

grow as a person then open them and make

a wish something good believe it will

come true and if you’re actually able to

reflect on what you’ve done wrong and

think of how that thing can actually be

positive then you will succeed because

you know what you want from life and you

know how to get it thank you [Applause]

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