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Finding Your Own Champion | Shikha Uberoi | TEDxBandra


champion that’s a word that I grew up

with my dad would come home from the

office and I’d charge you know running

into him being a tiny tot play a game

called hips with him he would lift me up

settle me down take me by the shoulders

and say champion I didn’t really know

what the definition of champion was and

what he was getting at but I felt a

sense of pride I said I felt a sense of

empowerment and a limitless ability when

he used that word with me I went on and

my entire family went on to pursue

professional tennis

I grew up between Mumbai India and

Princeton New Jersey and then we did the

big plunge and went for those tennis

academies in Florida splitting our

family between two different homes five

girls two parents two different homes

the family committed just making sure

that my younger sister Nia and I

succeeded in playing world-class

professional tennis so naturally I

thought champion meant champion and

tennis therefore I could equated my

success with tennis and that I had to

win a Grand Slam and that I had to be

number one in the world to fulfill the

definition my father lovingly called me

champion through a lot of downs and ups

and downs again I tried I sincerely

tried I got to top 100 in the world I

won us a silver medal at Asian Games in

2006 and then started to slow down

things weren’t feeling right I didn’t

necessarily have that burning desire to

want to win anymore

chasing a fuzzy yellow tennis ball got

very redundant

playing the same girls over and over

again in various glamorous locations

actually got boring from the outside it

might seem beautiful and might seem

really romantic big lights big stadiums

a celebrity lifestyle but it does get

redundant and for someone like me who

felt that I wasn’t a part of the larger

conversation who wasn’t a part of the

world on some level and really had a lot

more to give I started to find out that

that definition of champion was no

longer mine and mind you it wasn’t easy

you know we did the big shift the whole

family got involved and now for me to

betray this whole mission and vision

took a long time for me to really own

and I believe it was on one of my

comeback matches and hot El Paso

like 140 degree weather in a small ITF

tournament that goes parallel to

Wimbledon which I was just playing two

years before but I had to make a

comeback because I lost my ranking

starting all over again and extremely

bored on the court bored angry

frustrated and in those backhand down

the lines and they didn’t give me that

pleasure that they used to I realized it

was time to change it was time to

transition as painful as it was going to

be I had to move on I did my freshman

year at Princeton University in 2000

2001 then took a decade off to pursue

professional tennis and had to make the

difficult decision that it was time to

go back

lucky for me I already knew what I

wanted to do because there was another

passion that was burning inside and

keeping me up at night and waking me up

in the morning early to journal my ideas

wanting to create purposeful programming

that catalyze change in a hurting world

in a world where Millennials were

feeling passionate but a little bit lost

under

where they were supposed to go and how

they were supposed to achieve this cheat

excuse me this change that we need I

told my younger sister Nia who was also

on the tour with me at that time and

went back and was already in college as

she decided to retire from the tour and

I said Nia I want to create and really

change the world through the medium of

television and digital formats and I

don’t mind hosting one or two of them

either so she’s a tall you want to be

like the Oprah of India I said sure

she’s okay she could Edie you’re going

to be Oprah Chopra let’s do this so I

decided to go back to college and going

back as a 27 year old was not exactly

easy when my classmates were about 17

and 18 and it was extra tough when my

sophomore year they called me chica dee

dee then my junior year they were

calling me Chacon auntie and then by

senior year I became da dee I don’t know

how I aged that fast but they were

always teasing me but during my three

years the second part of my career at

Princeton I explored everything I didn’t

have to take six classes I only had to

take three or four but I did I didn’t

have to run for president I didn’t have

to start clubs and really stretch my

mind and go beyond knowing the world

that I knew with these blinders in this

myopic view of what I was supposed to be

as a tennis player and on that Princeton

campus and everything it gave me and

everything I gave back to it I became a

champion more so there than on a tennis

court I wrote my thesis on Satyamev

Jayate day I made six short documentary

films as well on unsung heroes and made

the show that originally was called

world heroes and the India launch was

called gone Banega hero which then

turned into the real deal the real deal

for me was one of the most defining

moments of fulfillment that I’ve ever

felt in my life it was a show on social

entrepreneurs one of who you’ll be

hearing from later today

start on the show as well and it was

about finding them featuring them and

funding them but more importantly I was

able to enable them I was enabled I was

able to enable an ecosystem that was so

powerful and so meaningful and so needed

it was everything I wanted to do and be

side by side with that an opportunity to

co-found a tech startup and mind you I

didn’t do very well in technology

classes at Princeton but the point was

that I believed that I could do

everything and anything I wanted to be

and do and I started to understand what

my father when we played hips together

and we did all these fun games together

he was talking about champion right he

wasn’t necessarily talking about tennis

he was talking about empowering telling

me Shikha you can do and be anything you

want to be luckily as Ajith was saying

earlier I was born into the parent

lottery so being able to transition from

professional tennis to Princeton

University to making TV shows and now

co-founding a tech startup called Indy

comm has been I would say significantly

easier for me than it is for someone

maybe coming from India unincorporated I

get asked a lot how did you transition

from tennis to entrepreneurship and I

don’t think it’s quite as big a leap as

people might think it is the values a

professional tennis player takes on from

hard work and resilience and persistence

and a lot of losing a lot of innovation

on the ground quickly moving and

hustling being the product and the CEO

of your very own company which is you

and the team around you your coaches

your nutritionists and what not really

our micro examples of what an enterprise

looks today for me to be able to

confidently apply decades of being a

professional tennis player and an

aspiring professional tennis player into

Indicom has actually been a little bit

of a seamless transition

I think to wrap up it’s important that I

express that not everybody as Emily WAP

Nick says she’s a multi potential ID and

she somebody I learned from on a TED

talk I didn’t realize there was such a

thing but I like to call myself a

multipotentialite because I’m able to do

various things and express myself to

fulfill my entire personhood knowing

full well that I’m more than just a

tennis player despite it being 25 years

of my life if I can leave you with one

message it’s about defining your own

champion being a champion is about

defining who you are with the passions

and limitless expressions of yourselves

create your own champion in you be

yourself and victory to you thank you [Applause]

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