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Face reading-Unconscious observation to conscious knowledge | Mukta Vora | TEDxGCET


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she got so very much interested by the
appearance by Upton’s of it that she
grabbed it and started reading it
picking that will be a great way of
spending her summer vacation
she got engrossed in the content of it
and hence asked for more such books on
all occasions as gifts as per in
birthdays or other occasions that girl
was me and that book was face language
per orbital Whiteside my mother though
is not someone who believes in such
things but because she is a loving
liberal librarian and a book lover
herself she was very supportive of me
all throughout today when I tell people
that I’m a face reader I usually get one
of these three reactions one oh really
what do you see on my face
the other being asset astok that’s nice
Oh
the third one most frequent is where
should I hide my face some even plan on
dressing like this when they know that
they’re meeting a face reader for a
casual meet we analyze these reactions
we come to a conclusion that the basic
belief with behind these reactions is
that people think what I am doing is
something unusual or different from what
others do but I beg to differ
we all our face we all had some such
instances in our life and we meet
someone new and we kind of have that gut
feeling that we gonna have a great time
with this person or it’s better to
maintain some distance from that person
why does this happen it happens because
a subconscious mind if tethers are
experiences it tries to find common
characteristics with people with whom
we’ve had similar experiences and
creates patterns around
so whenever me something someone new we
automatically try
check those characteristics and relate
our memories and experiences in the past
now the problem with this is that many
times we don’t even know whether the
basis of our analysis is true or not or
it’s valid or not this is what I call
the unconscious observation side or face
reading difference between the common
practice of face reading and the way
face readers do it is the common fact
this goes by unconscious observations
whereas face readers go by conscious
knowledge the conscious knowledge that
comes from years of research by scholars
this conscious knowledge helps me in
giving a 92% accuracy when I talk about
my reading here the conscious knowledge
can be bifurcated in two degrees one is
reading a person’s expressions and
getting to know what the person’s
feeling what emotions are going on and
the other is reading a person’s facial
features in order to understand that
person’s personality or characteristic
traits humans have 43 facial muscles and
hence we are able to give more than
10,000 expressions researchers say that
these expressions come naturally to us
we don’t let them dr. Paul Ekman has
spent decades in order to learn to
understand emotions and expressions
across the globe and he says that the
expressions are same for ceilings across
doors
this can also be proved by people who
are born blind they also have same
expressions for same feelings now
because this comes naturally to us we
can now conceal at 100% what happens is
that even when we lie we do show our
true expression at least for a tad bit
and then we replace it with the
expression that we want to show so there
are many people who work as lie
detectors who are reading these micro
expressions that come on the face for a
fraction of a second whereas when I talk
about me I am
still a learner when we talk about this
aspect I my forte lies in the second
category which is reading a person’s
personality from that person’s face from
the time we are born there are several
energies flowing in and out of our
bodies depending on the experiences that
we have the interpretations that we make
the feelings that we have so these
energies when they flow really
frequently very often they leave a mark
on us and we are reading those facial
features because face is the most
accessible part and has the maximum
amount of features we reading the facial
features in order to identify the
characteristics of the Associated
energies so in this case it is a very
enchanting thing although I personally
believe that it is unethical to read
person’s face without that person’s
permission so I would request if anybody
is comfortable enough to give me that
permission I would like to give a small
demo about it over here although I want
it to be a real quick thing okay please
come in come on in anyone I will request
the organizing team to help me select
one hi
you’re a person who would like changes
but no drastic changes slow or gradual
changes you are emotional but you do not
show your emotions that easily you would
show a little bit of it some of it via
your words some of it via behavior but
you would hardly show the whole thing
out front are you very analytical also
very calculated so most of the times you
think the lot like there’s not a single
time when your brain is empty you’re
also very observant you would look for
more and more details and things that
interest you you are also very good at
convincing people people many times
don’t even know when they got convinced
you would compromise in relationships
but you used to compromise a lot more
earlier now you’ve started checking
whether the other person’s also equally
invested in the relationship or not
pretty much broad-minded but there are a
few things against which you would not
go you’re very selective in few areas of
your life but other areas you would do
away with if there are some situations
but in those areas you would want those
things by hook or by crook
if someone else is not able to give it
to you you’ll work hard for
by yourself you like simplicity with the
pins of style in it you’re very creative
but you do not utilize it that well
there’s a sense of aesthetic Ness in you
that you need to get out that so that
you are able to benefit more from your
own personality thank you so there are a
lot of people who show interest in
learning face reading and I would like
to share it to you but there are a few
things that I first advise them one
thing is that to understand others it is
extremely important to understand
yourself secondly observe people their
expressions their behavior their
feelings their facial features
next comes learning which feature talks
about which cap personality trait and
last but not the least practice practice
practice practice day in and day out I
remember when I was learning I used to
experiment a lot with people around in
order to check whether what I’m learning
is true or not in that case once when I
was in my eighth standard and I read my
faith for my class teachers face and I
got to know that she’s a very emotional
person I intentionally didn’t do my
homework and gave her an emotional
reason to check whether she really is
emotional well she was not only
convinced but she also was so very much
caring to me the whole week I published
mom if you’re listening they do this at
any point of time I’m really sorry that
I manipulated you back then but you were
my first sense of achievement in this
field so when you shock when you try it
out and when you see it work it’s an
amazing feeling I can’t express it in
words so it’s better if you try it out
although there are a few considerations
that you need to keep in mind when you
are trying it out firstly that makeup
Beauty enhancements and plastic surgery
would modify a person’s appearance but
obviously would not modify a person’s
behavior hence check out for that
secondly angle of view the same feature
when we look at it from different angles
might seem different in size
even in shape at times and hence for a
big nerd it’s always a good idea to read
a person’s face at eye level the third
thing is proportions whenever you are
deciding upon the size of any feature
you need to look at the whole face and
not in it individually you need to keep
in mind the proportions and ethnicity
wherein we are trying to say that
whenever we are deciding what big or
what is small we decide upon it
according to the average standard of
that particular country or region
hence in your way or when your client or
your it were the person hitting does not
come from the same country that you come
then you need to check what is the
standard size of that particular nation
so you need to explore your those things
a little bit also one needs to keep in
mind that when we read people’s faces we
are able to only get to know their basic
or general nature best behavior can be
different if they are in some particular
situation or if they are behaving with
you according to the relationship that
you share with them so opening the doors
do personality reading from face I would
like to tell you to open your phones
check your selfies and relate to the
tips that i share
do you have dense eyebrows or do you
have sparse eyebrows by dense eyebrows I
mean that a people whose eyebrows are
almost totally covered by hair if you
have dense eyebrows you are someone who
loves to know more and more in detail
you’ll dig things through be it because
if you’re beat by your own thing by
observations or by asking others if you
have sparse then you would be a person
who lives in their own world the more
the hair in the eyebrow the more details
will a person need one also needs to
take the percentage if 50% eyebrow is
dense 50% is sparse then in 50% areas of
the person’s life that person would
require details and 50% not this can be
used a lot even by students when they
facing the job interview if your
interviewer has dents I broke them more
detail answer like when you’re talking
about your strengths you can tell them
instances that showcase your strengths
so that they are able to buy it better
but if your interview has sparse
eyebrows then it’s a better idea to keep
it keep it as precise as possible
this can also work for salesman
salespeople can give more details to
customers with dense eyebrows and vice
versa next thing that we’ll look at is
the spacing between the eyebrows do you
have merit eyebrows people who have
married I’ve rose like things to be
stable they would want to know if about
it if a change is on its way if you have
wide eyebrows like if you have a wide
gap between your eyebrows then you would
love changes you cannot be no particular
routine uh if you have a medium gap then
that would mean that you would do good
with routine but you would want to
change once in a while so if your spouse
has married eyebrows ensure that you are
able to provide stability to your spouse
so that we espouse does not feel
insecure if your spouse has a wide gap
then try and not leave even a single
opportunity of spicing up the
relationship do not go to the same place
for every single date okay and if your
spouse has medium gap then your spouse
will find it sweet if you are able to
give them a little bit change from the
routine by taking them out once in a
while well the daily thing will be too
adventurous for them here again the
consideration of the proportions comes
into play Pizza where in both these
people have similar width in the eyebrow
area but the gap is very different so
the guy would want inform changes and
the girl would want a lot of changes so
exactly what I’m trying to prove is that
you need to look at the full face and
not just the gap okay
focusing your attention towards the lips
specifically the upper lip do you have a
pick up lip if you do then you are an
elope reiative person some
even from you as a talkative person and
you would love to like you know use more
words in order to express your opinion
whereas if you have a thin upper lip
you’ll be a precise person your one
sentence can have an essay hidden in it
and people need to read between the
lines in order to understand exactly
what you meant when you sit if you have
a mean map a lip that would mean that
you take time to open up and if you feel
comfortable then yes you will be
talkative otherwise it depends from
situation to situation so this is a tip
that you can utilize when you are trying
to build rapport with people if you see
someone who has thick upper lips then
you need to have long conversations with
them in order to have a bonding with
them and ensure that you do let them
talk more if you talk if you want to
build relationship someone who is who
has thin upper lips then you need to be
careful that you do not rush too fast
you need to be patient and if you want
media if you want to build relations
with someone who has medium upper lip
then it’s better to let things go
smoothly go with the flow here again the
consideration of view of sorry angle of
view comes into picture when in you can
see that in these three examples over
here you would feel as if this girl does
not have an upper lip at all over here
at least a tad bit is visible so you
will think that this this girl would
hardly talk to you and this one gives a
little more so because these pictures
are taken from various angles we are in
a confusion here what is the size of the
upper lip so if you strongly eye angle
so from the eye level then you’ll be
able to get to know the truth here one
thing I would like to mention that we
all would understand that face reading
is a very one of the very very good
tools of understanding a person but they
it should not be used to manipulate
someone I think we all would agree that
there
no alternative to integrity so be
careful about that when you practice it
also you need not necessarily be a face
reader in order to understand people
like I’ll give a personal example
whenever we face difficult times my
husband and I we both handle each other
I must say he is able to handle me much
better than I can
here I used my face reading skills
whereas he handles me because of his
love and his own of unconscious
observations which he’s turned into
conscious knowledge so the idea here is
that the unconscious observations might
hold but if you have conscious knowledge
you they might be able to empower you a
lot so get your unconscious patterns
your unconscious observations to a
conscious level in order to be able to
make informed decisions and have a
better future head thank you so much
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