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F.A.T | Mariana Tarres | TEDxUCC


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good evening, good evening, sorry
dark here appears at night you know
that before coming here came
walking out of nowhere girls but the
nothing and they shouted whores and 88 so
least they did not yell at me fat
if this is a subject this is a theme
because you saw that never fails
comes and tells you there are passages because those
you keep because you do not know how to eat you’re
fucking boluda imagine if you did not know
do not
and you saw that there are
protective of whales as
greenpeace good I am fat protective
gremialista piquetera patotera defender
of the trousers that make you the papo
now all metal looking at the paper
can stop me from watching dad how
your boyfriend a little bit fatter nothing
because avoid the fat woman not only
we have dads but we also have
before dad because we are more complete the
only problem that I have here in
córdoba is that when you want to cross
fast fast fast street and cross
with the chock there is always a taxi driver
way that screams at you hurry up fat daddy
apud well and fat I do not know what you rely on
not apart I warn you that if I run over
This ass does not have insurance
I want to know this afternoon if any cap
popular that raise your hand
1 2 3 4 and the rest that are pampita sofía
human alcohol zámolo are all skinny
God knows that life is a theme
the fat one because it’s all a fat topic
and the shoe does not because you saw that there is
fat woman who wears black shoes because she
pretends to hide something but there’s the
fat more risk the one that uses the shoes
flowered with daisy that ass
sunflowers seem nothing
and you know what’s coming now is a fat
enter a shopping mall when I entered a
shopping is like stairs
mechanics communicate with each other and they
they start to tell fat by the door
fat principal by the front door
fat for the main garment and that
they stop working and what do I do
I’m going through the main enemy elevator
of the fat one because when you arrive there is a
giant poster that says 300 kilos or 4
maximum people I only weigh half
and when I arrive there are two plates waiting
to climb and they see me arrive and they get
the good one tells me we do not get on or the
we go up hollanda the whole board we are going to go
all together as in a mantra and go
praying that the one that is
print the fat do not travel your image
we were on his trip 14 times until
comes to the physical room and I shit
boxing with the seller because when
I told him what had come between me if
A pair of hoops told me a scarf
of whore
Thank you
a whole subject is a whole subject to the fat
and the social networks of Levante says that
it’s very fashionable team there happen what
have and I in these social networks of
lift up like I’m more humble and you
Take the pictures there was here for here
and I was chatting I had it with a
I chongo and I went to sea with also something
more than voice tells me because you do not see much
in the photo it tells me how you are like
dices
nice nothing tells me how to do this
physically to define myself
plump I said no no no I did not go
to the point how much does it weigh?
look skinny I did not ask but you that course
I do not ask you how much the cobra measures you
and so perhaps in this way perhaps of
this way I could cover so many
social prejudices throughout
my life I could cover the pain with a little
of humor and without doubts my monologue of today
has the title my hand then should I do not know
how this was used not all that new
memory what is called fat without having
the title that I came but there is not
there I was also seeing my berries
I was fat and the truth is that I suffered
a lot of bullying and many discriminations
throughout my life yes but I did not come to
victimize I came to tell you a
very nice story and when I was a girl
the strongest bullying that I suffered what
I suffered in childhood when I had more or
less 67 years old and my dad waits for me
school door this is my dad
I was going to see his love vido weighed 350
kilos and walked on that bike did not walk and
the strongest was out of school and
see him there on that motorcycle
they know what it is for a 6 year old
see a person so fat more in a
town was like the fat man of the circus he
I was fat and I was also good fat
I would have been being fat
two then the bullying
and relapsed doubly not for my dad and for
me and managed to hurt me so much but
so much that they hurt my hero that
sometimes I was ashamed that you are going to
look at the school door and this
part excites me a lot
then I hid in the sentry box
porter hid me and I saw them go out to
my classmates and I wanted to leave last
so they do not see me with him and while I
I saw him laugh at my dad gave me
very much desire to grab a
machine gun and kill them all who
they laughed and the truth that I was 6 years old
I was going to get a machine gun or a fart
at this time
but the years went by and maybe the
insults did not diminish they did not arm me
there will always be discrimination in
perhaps the obese person I gave
less importance and the truth that if I
would have to put to kill all the
people who insulted me throughout
My life would not be hit by bullets like that
I decided to kill but by laughter
I’m a humorist, that’s why I make mines
Fucked up and I’m going to travel all over the country
bringing joy to thousands of people who
once they felt like I did and I
I realized I realized that in this topic
of discrimination if they are not only
discriminated against obese people
Unfortunately, Argentina is one of the
fattest phobic countries in the world but
not only discriminates against people
fat discriminates against people with
disabilities other than people
homosexual trans girls
Hardly get different work
in some company because this country
the truth is very prejudiced
and I want to tell you the father’s monologue
that I did it first if it’s a monologue
that is a little bit longer I
summarize here and he will laugh a lot to people
of the country with this monologue and I love you
tell because I wrote it I had 18
I was studying in Córdoba
study economics but not
they create this science question
economic and had started tennis I was going
tennis and the truth is that I shit
heat in tennis lessons because it was
summer they did 40 degrees and I played with
jogging was not because it gave me
very embarrassed to show my legs
really was very typical the fat person
timid shy and was on the court
of tennis playing with a lot of heat the
teacher approached me I made myself see sea
what’s wrong you tell me you do not have to
come with those recontra pants
hot so I did the next
class if you do not come with the skirt of
tennis player you are not going to play tennis jereije
nor in fart shows the legs and he
he said take out the prejudice of the head
as if the prejudice was mine
the question is that my teacher was very
decisive and really if I did not get
that blissful skirt could not return to the
tennis court
the question is that I left the class of
thinking tennis I went to look for skirts
I was a week for all cordoba
seeking support double the size XL
that I never got anywhere I decided
send me to do with a dressmaker and
when I managed to have the skirt passed
two weeks of missing the class
of tennis and two weeks of trying
convince not get that bracelet
from going out into the world show my legs
show my cellulite I told myself more if I
suck an egg people will be overcome
grip
to the previous night of the tennis class
I had legs so white that I
I put self-tanning boy I put on
authorizing here to fall anamá
ferreira here for each floor here
it’s on top of me, it stains all my hands
I left the sheet stained, do not do it in
their houses if the question is that the other
day I put on the skirt grabbed the
racket and I came to life and when it came
when he came to the corner only to the
corner of my house with the skirt of
tennis
I wanted to cross the traffic light I just got
in red
one step a taxi driver quickly and I
shouted fat daddy current to what I
I made three steps backwards it makes me the
cord and I evolve to my house
I was 18 years old at the time
going through a very big crisis because
my dad died and the truth is that
I was very depressed and I had searched
in tennis a way to clear me of
do not depress me half shut myself in my house
eat not and I always say wow the power of
the words I left tennis for a
asshole who told me fat for pure that
only saw that I’m fat but does not know
how old am I because he was not with me
not then I say how can it be that I
I left tennis something that I loved
and the power of words I remember
every day of my life that taxi driver
in all the show that I make of mines
fucked but deep down I thank you
because today I do mines fucked by
the whole country writing monologues of
things that made me suffer like things
what my ex told me as things that I
said this taxi driver and then what was
barbarian I won a lot of money asked me
if he keeps driving a taxi I now
manages a bmc to want to kill the park
so that’s it
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and I realized that obesity is a
socially accepted disease to be
mocked and discriminated against nobody is going to
make fun of a person with cancer and
they’re going to say correct carcinogenic da
shit but if you’re just going to say one
fat person because unfortunately
we have so rotten society that
we believe that the fat always has to
be the hub of laughter not the fat one is
While a person with cancer not
guys to nobody with cancer neither fat nor
people with disabilities or
homosexuals or whatever if that’s what
that I want to make clear in this talk and
in my campaigns that I have been doing as
long ago a lot of time I decided
speak to people who suffered
the same as me the people that some
once they felt bad or discriminated against or
that do not fall within the canons of
beauty yes and the truth is that I started to
teach them to us people
We have the right to wear a skirt
show legs to get short
air the pool to use one of the
great campaigns that I did at the level
national was the campaign of my photo in
Mayan incentive to thousands of people
fat girls go to the river go to the
because it’s hot and because they need it
and because people want me to tell them
something is always going to talk always going to
Tease you teach people to love each other
respect yourself value and above all to
laugh at yourself you know why
as one laughs at himself he becomes more
Strong gets braver if I laugh
first of all the ridicule of the boludo
that he does not make sense anymore
the mockery already lost grace because I
first I laugh at myself then he goes to
seek to annoy someone who
really hurt you and want you to
I say one thing to people they always go to
find everywhere unfortunately
people who are going to make fun of you
always but you have to take it
of how who comes from unsuccessful people
who unfortunately needs to make fun of
others to feel a little more
important in your life understand those that
they did not achieve anything nothing of their life yes and
well basically they question me a lot about
with this to promote self- love not
I teach them to love themselves
forgive them for looking in the mirror and
embrace your body
and they know why he taught them to love their
body or fat
skinny you know why because it’s the only
body that they are going to have and they are going to have to
Learn to love him despite the
circumstance even though it is not the
body of the magazine and it is enough to be guided
magazine body that body full of
photoshop only magazines exist
if that body that represent the means
only represent 5% of the
society the other 95 is not that if eye not
It’s wrong but let’s stop rotting the
head to teens with bodies
tireless because they never reach that
body full of photoshop real life
It is not a cover photo of the magazine
faces real life is what you
are watching at this precise moment
you want to teach my fat carlos that
follow me will teach them to be fat
happy because many told me the
fat people can not be happy because they do not
can be moved by diabetes because of this
because of the diseases that
carries obesity is true carry
diseases that’s why they have to take care
their bodies but they know what the
more serious illness that entails the
Obesity social prejudices
What are left in your soul ?
for life because cholesterol
high can be cured because you can lower
of weight but you will never forget
that taxi driver boludo that screams at you I scream
fat daddy current not then
because he taught them how to make cheerful fat
because the theme of being happy was something that
they were taken away from society where it is
written that fat people can not be
joyful where it is written that no
can be happy is a rule maybe not
I do this writing is a fat man I do not know
can love and accept and love as
it is and they know because I want them happy
because when a person starts to
fattening self-esteem starts to go down and
the depression starts to increase and everything
that does not equal more fattening as
depression increases I will continue
getting fat because I love you happy
because I want them positive because a
fat positive and happy will have desire
to put on the shoes go to
gym go dancing zumba have a good time
have fun and want to take care of your body
depressed person the only thing that’s going to
to achieve is to continue destroying I know that
Many times I have been asked how
we can help obese people
because many on all networks
social that are all many opinólogos
they tell you fat to close your mouth and move the
ortho and will know how you’re going to get off
weight if it were so easy I ‘m going to
it will have to be pampita not because I tried
many methods to lose weight and
the truth is that they did not work and the
true that if you have a person who is
happening a situation like that and they want him
give advice have advice from
a good experience you know the cousin
Paula’s neighbor started a gym
which is great not know everything
she lost weight she is divine always
comment read a nice experience but
Do not give an order if you promise me
and the truth is that the woman that I am today
to love new that I am today that grew up that
He was facing prejudices
would love that the output of this
university is your dad waiting for you in
his little motto do not go running hug him
strong and not have to kill them all
your
and the truth that I apologize to heaven
for that 6- year-old girl who feels
embarrassed by him for real and also
I want to tell you that when I was a girl in
my town in my neighborhood on the corner
there were some guys that always
they gathered and armed me from the woman and
I was very fat
then he had told us a song
for the two that they made fun of and they
a lot of fun but until today
that the agreement and the song said half
subway
the trembling sister is not going to
forget more to the song guys in taxis
yes half a meter to the trembling sister
When it goes by the street, everything trembles
around her loyal to half a meter because
I was a PT and I was obviously trembling and
I always say that those guys had
reason but they fell short because no
I am a tremor
I am an earthquake but that attitude
now I want them to go where they are all
my girls if they can go by
to pay for it, I want all of them to pass
those invite a couple of friends a strong
applause for them to receive them
girl covered me the screen read reads it
that says back
which says no stronger stronger fat
it’s not an insult, it was clear to them
loud applause for my models that
they came today
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Thank you
let’s learn
we learn to respect the diversity of
bodies each one is how is each one
nobody is going to be the same as the other amen
they want to take care of themselves and stop saying
that fat people do not take care of themselves because they
I can assure you that there is not a fat man
get up every day of your life
thinking what to do to improve your health
it’s a disease today does not come to talk about
the disease as such unfortunately
in argentina there are still people who
discusses that obesity is not a
disease is a disease
unfortunately yes so good and
unfortunately it is a disease with
what else is done in this on the subject
medical aesthetic if they earn millions of
silver thanks to obesity and thanks to
that social works do not cover
best treatments to lose weight
so I want to know guys you guys that
you are here that are fat because
There are many prejudices about
Fat women can dance
can have sex
Ah good
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you can tie the laces
good for you to see that despite
be fat we can do a lot of
things can be mothers
good many thanks
we wait for them even the exit to the
exit from the university we are not going to
take pictures all the girls in clothes
inside yes really so that it
begins to normalize the diversity of
body can not do it inside the
university but outside like that so if
they want to accompany us see you thanks
good for what
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