everyone it’s really really exciting to
be there
I just need my friend a last year Emily
I just gotta work very Hong Kong last
year so happy to see you again
and then Frank’s MUC inviting me to John
tags for a speech and also fans Kara to
introduce me carrots Mia right thanks um
this is I’m Ellie um let me show this
picture I’m just a person just like you
but I’m a bit different I went to the
open house when I’m three years old so
this is my picture so you see who’s me
did you plan it so actually everyone
every time I take photo I will stand in
the middle so I just met someone to know
me so do you see that who is me
and also the top it’s all in the middle
in anthem keep smile that is me um my
father why I go to open house because my
father is autistic he can take care my
brother and me and sometimes she didn’t
fitness so I always go to the final like
a search foot in the ribbon rubbish bin
I think they just try before to pick up
the foot all struggling for from the
word speed I mean you never say before
but this in Hong Kong doesn’t want what
I stand here I just searching for in the
rubbish bin and one day when I was one
foot in the ribbon wear boots bin and
then I see a social worker he found me
and talked to me and asked my one
question is like a little girl
why do you pick up the food while you’re
eating the food at the bin and I replied
that I was hungry and she crying and
happy after that I’d taken away to the
oven house and living in the open house
was the bad experience do you have some
friend living in our house no there was
only rules rules and rules and I just
phrased a very strict house mother
everyday but there was I would be
trained to be very good south discipline
from today no in the open house no one
hug me and tell me bedtime story so this
is quite difficult for me I live in
northern house but in that timing I
think alone why I’ll be there why I stay
here Oh Bonnie and why I looking here is
so terrible but the house mother teach
me a lot
I remember one day this is the first two
three days like I didn’t want to it I
think is pretty 46 hours so how do you
feel in front of six hour you didn’t get
through it how do you feel angry right
yeah and I just think if I have parents
I think will be like that but up to
there have you hungry I just loved it
all and now the house mother I’m hungry
and did you guess what she doing
she waiting for me she know I will love
the doll then she hopped me and talked
to me I know you’re hungry
I prepared a fourth in kitchen it’s for
me is very touching because she need to
train me and when I when I eat in the
kitchen she told me you now in oven
house you need to take it by yourself no
one to care you you need to stand strong
and I just listen what she talking after
that day how do you get and it every day
what she make I just finished other foot
so until now I’m very strong
self-discipline I don’t I know what I
need to do him I’m very strong planning
and grown she teached me a lot but I
still and did not understand why
everything open house why I was fool
I still angry to the open house
I still angry towards the world also
towards myself I just think I was poor
and the world only but there was no one
there and I could only realign myself so
I was depressed I did I did not see hope
in the world and I have tried to suicide
free time after the open house I
returned home and then start to work
very hard my mind was for money money
I just feign money can buy everything
that wanna meet but I was not happy at
when I was empty and still want to kill
myself
I stopped to know for reasons why I was
still depressed I spent almost five
years to look for the secret of the
happiness I have changed because of
relationship I think you all have a lot
of best friend right so I think it’s
very important the relationship I need
to talk to your friend so relationships
very important because of love your
friends will love you and support you so
what is very important because I feel
the love I remember that from their
house model from the halkan house and
from the teacher and most important from
God Oh at them have hope in in my mind
because I failed a lot and they gave me
support by walking along with me
listening to me and they accept me as I
am right so I think you have a friend
it’s very important to listen listening
to you and accept you are Who I am I was
the girl with problem and anger inside
and when I change my attitude my
behavior and share love with others when
I began that how do you feel how do you
guess my emptiness was gone and my
behavior it’s very a lot of people
saying me I’m a blind person because I
talked to you each other I chair to the
others and then I feel happy I never
feel alone and then I try to use my life
to share to the others because that I
want to open a charity gala I want to
help under perforation family and walk
along with the pool I want to share
three words with you that describe the
change process this is my parents edge
what I have it’s okay
the first work I would like to share as
well oh the first thing that need to be
changed as well as I understand the poor
value because I was one of them that’s
just how they faint so you must remember
the poor always say that I’m poor you
are rich I need to help did you listen
before Yeah right I’m the poor you know
rich you come to we need to take care
for me and so I have to take what this
what is mine so I need to take it I’m
pitiful so you need to take care me
yes well loom will not help the present
but make them more depressed and also
the environment also a fret the world is
too
what a victim the most is their family
different family members may have
different values so I never work only
with the individual I work with the
family is a system so that families I
supported them about six years so I
would tell them the story what I want to
tell them is that even though you are
poor you can contribute in your own way
and also you need to know that your pool
so that you can understand your
situation better I want them to be
grateful to works happy how they receive
because it’s not entitled to you by
changing their values they can see the
world differently
let me tell your story that is my chart
you first member zero zero one
her name’s life she’s a single mother of
two when i first time to meet her she
just pick up the carbon box at the three
have you seen boy and some soap all just
so yeah she’s only 14 years old she pick
him I told became the first member of
charity and camrec early to pick up the
phone because he was cool and she won a
lot of material support her and then I
just told her you need to share because
it will make you happy she didn’t
understand as well because you feel not
enough but I slowly change them because
I spend a lot of time to counseling her
now she’s the one chillin at jail I
regularly at the same time
I would get to know her children and
invite them to our youth group the
daughter has been exposed to a more
positive and proactive out of you and
the weather system as notably more
outgoing and cheerful well well he was
the first step to change the sir
second world share well you cannot be
changed without sharing I want to share
love and I want them to share up to the
others you spend time with people
outside working out there are no
shortcuts if you have friends and close
friend how do you do what I do in the
night time spend time with them right
it’s very important
no shortcut you need to spend time with
the pool and other people and then many
professional out there but they only
working during the office hours when you
love someone you spend time and do pain
together
and the future my husband Adams here
he’s a person and we were going to move
in together with some youth probably for
living training program I think at least
12 to 20 kids you together living with
me it’s very exciting right call them
you Frank it’s not easy but today up to
you do this II think there John is ad
she only 21 years old and then to give
me a long time when you share your life
together the people will feel that you
are walking with them it’s very
important remember like their mother
and then one day and to tell you why I’m
so close with life one day she had
misunderstanding between me and she’s
the string I betrayed her and she didn’t
answer me and she don’t want to see me
and I go to there to her subsidy wider
bank and locked the door and I know she
inside but she didn’t respond me so I
get a first year was cold
I didn’t spit up but she know that I’m
standing at the front door and this
happen hours she didn’t open the door
and I feel very disappointed that they
were sad and I back to home and start
crying I don’t want our relationship to
end so how do you guess is it finished
no she called me in the midnight and
speak crying we both crying at least one
hours she just think she want to tell me
something she wanted told me who was she
thinking
this is he didn’t know how to say that
so when in the midnight he feel all the
memory how I did him in her life she
feels love so when she called me we
didn’t say anything
we just crying after the day that
recalls relationship she just me like
him for example and maybe I’m her mother
she
you only 30 years old and I just strange
very surprised and happy to see that
story and then there’s just why I would
like to do like the whole family is very
important so is the light is open
herself and willing to share her houses
a harsher with me but that story didn’t
end because I want to do more and his
found in her family I see lights
daughter daughter now she’s about like I
forget how how old she now I think 14
right 14 years old and I first meet her
she only my years old she’s not a smart
girl but she’s very hard-working
so P through several years I just let
her have a tutor to teaching her in
study and now I see got into the pen one
secondary school so for life is very
happy because the whole family change
and then I just only share the love to
that family now line and I see is very
strong volunteer FG life living out the
shelling to the others it’s very
important to put and the final work let
me um that’s all my teenage anyway so I
can show you the teenage what I training
them and then the third and final work
is a dream so I would like to us is that
anyone have dream now just sitting here
in Ingham your recipe I think you have a
dream right yeah
Germany is very important so for my
dream I set up
from 2012 I set up a charity it’s not
easy
use my own money to stab a turkey I take
care about 850 family unit and some
circle and near area now I have three
Center and I took it over 200 to teenage
my dream come true I take care to prove
community and then it’s very important
dream is very important when the poor
weather is changed to be more positive
and healthy they are able to create a
future for themselves like also have a
dream now I would tell you later the
Empowered aims to plan and to proactive
to works themselves for life daughter I
see she want to be a doctor showed that
she could help others when the person
has dream there’s this possibility right
it’s very important they have the sense
of responsibility and motivation to work
towards their goals helping a dream like
a having a direction the pool will have
the motivation to improve the current
situation so remember where is the first
word values how do ii work I’ll share
how did it for good dream and I just a
normal person with a problematic past
yes with training wellas sharing love
and dreaming for future anyone can be a
change maker just like you and me can
talk to your neighbor
anyone can be a change maker can you
talk to your labor anyone can be a
change maker so like you and me thank you everyone