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Empathy in Sports | Nolan Fisher | TEDxCranbrookSchools


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well empathy and sports can make teams

and players win will make others lose

hello my name is Nolan Fisher and today

I’m presenting about empathy in sports

now empathy in sports can affect the

team’s overall performance and you may

ask how does it happen but first let me

give you a quick story of mine so when I

was younger I lived in Royal Oak and I

went to this Jamboree Royal Oak Soccer

travel then was a big fundraiser that

all sorts of food stands all these

activities and games and every year

they’d have this juggling competition so

I was about I don’t know seven eight or

ten we I went for three years and and I

would go with my friends we do this

juggling competition and I’d always lose

now I was super frustrated I never

enjoyed it yet because my friends asked

me I was one of them so let’s get back

to uh last year I worked at the seek a

soccer camp for little kids here on

campus and on the first day we had a

juggling game and there was this one kid

that couldn’t get it so I walked over

talked to him gave him some pointers he

still couldn’t get it okay

second day same kind of thing third day

same thing and the fourth day he finally

got it and the expression on his face

was priceless and I definitely

understand where he’s coming from

because I was in his shoes years before

so empathy is quite simple at its roots

we use empathy well enough and the

chances are winning are higher so

there’s a formula for it I have it right

here so if we plug in the right things

we’re going to win the game and that’s

obviously a joke because that doesn’t

where it doesn’t work out mm-hmm but

empathy can’t affect sports so coaching

it right well of course do you need to

know when to push their athletes and

when not to if a player is busting his

tail and not delivering results what do

you do you yell at them you support them

I don’t know a coach needs to balance

the negative and positive remarks coming

out of his mouth because if a coach is

super positive and he’s happy for his

players the player will be more happy

and want to play better now in addition

to coaches players use empathy a team

captain will rally the team up and he

may go up to a player before

or the game and get ready or bring

everyone together for a team chant and

that gets the morale of the team up now

if the player if the player and the team

captain plays well the team usually

follows also the opposition knows how to

use empathy I’m not saying that we do so

if we know how to use empathy well

enough we can understand how the

opposition operates for example if

another player on the other team is

dragging the morale down we can exploit

that like if he’s making silly fouls or

doing things he shouldn’t then we could

get points or we can get an advantage so

if we do that we can have an advantage

we never knew we had also fans exhibit

signs of empathy they understand the

sport they definitely know what it takes

to succeed in the sports they’re

supporting and in some cases they’ll put

more sweat and tears than the players

themselves now if you don’t believe me

if we just look on like any match or

game on TV no like the camera will

scroll over to the fan section you’ll

see everyone with their face paint

you’ll see everyone of sweating jumping

screaming chanting they definitely know

what it takes and if if their team loses

they definitely know how much it hurts

them now epithelioid of a strong leader

for me a team leader should address

their team appropriately and for me

players have not they have called me out

on silly things that they should not

have and then just drag them or all the

team down now empathy can fix that if a

team is empathy they’ll be better now I

have a quick video to show you guys here

and it highlights how empathy of a team

so this is a Barcelona Barcelona Academy

team they are one of the top clubs in

the world if you guys are familiar with

and this is their younger team they just

won a World Championship in Japan it’s

one of Japan’s top to use and it shows

the Barcelona kids actually empathizing

and going over to players and making

sure they’re okay

now these kids 12 a sudden happen a from

a very young age

you’ll know how to

learn and develop others so when we

watch this obviously yeah now because

they’re so empathetic they can really

relate with each other like we’re gonna

go through that because this that

they’ll develop sense of leadership from

a year at very young age

now that’s very important so the next

thing is what’s what’s empathy in sports

today what’s the main example of it so

recently LeBron James reached out to

Ronda Rousey after her big loss in a

tweet he said they build you a size they

can put you on the highest mountain just

to tear you down that’s coming from

somebody who has experienced it and

that’s exactly what she’s going through

because I was that athlete now when she

lost she was very devastated she never

wanted to fight again and LeBron has

definitely lost in big championships he

knows how it feels and even though

LeBrons contribution was small it was

part of a deciding factor to her to

fight once again empathy cares less

about the person it doesn’t care about

how many goals her scores and individual

has empathy cares about what the person

can do now as student-athletes we can

use empathy and more than just the field

or court we use it to understand others

learn about different situations and

rise when everything is difficult now if

we use empathy from a very young age we

can develop and you’re great human

beings and learn the best we can thank

you [Applause]

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