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El porteo ergonómico, un camino a una crianza feliz | Alejandra López | TEDxPitic


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I will ask you all please and if
can close those eyes that we imagine
for a moment that we are in a place
super as they are floating in a pool
of very warm water feel super to
There is someone who brings you food
constantly a very dim light of
background and a music with a very beat
interesting someone is telling you
Nice words all day you are the most
pampered consent of the world you
you feel super happy but suddenly a
strange force takes you out of that place and you
transports a place completely
different
there is cold there is a light almost reaper
you no longer have your food you can not
move and on top they all talk to you like
if they knew you and you do not know anyone and
they want to hug you
what would you feel at that moment surely
you’ll be a little disconcerted
zacarias wave and would look is someone
known that you know probably
that’s what a newborn feels
When it comes to the world and seeks refuge
that normally your mother we
adults sometimes we are so focused
with our needs commitments or
social duties when comes a
new being we forget about the
needs him and the family that
just formed
for the same reason when I knew I was
pregnant I realized that everyone
think about what you should do and
by profession I am an engineer and
researcher and I realized that to
being a mother I could also investigate I gave
account that a vast amount of
information about pregnancy and
when you inform yourself temporarily and decide
with informed decisions I realized
that I could establish my birth plan
and decided that was what I wanted and decided
who were with me but
unfortunately in Mexico the majority of
women do not have that ability to
decision or rather we do not know that
we have that capacity and we have the
right to be respected
in Mexico among OECD countries
consider the number one with incidence
of cesarean sections in latin america and also
Who suggests that this should only
happen in 10 and 15% of cases
According to a study in Mexico
this increase is due to a mixture between
economic incentive the time the
comfort the professionalization of
doctors and unfortunately the lack of
Preparation of parents for childbirth
when I tell them that women
they need to be respected is only
that our decisions are taken in
account in fact there are various
organizations in the world that are looking for
encourage a humanized birth law or
respected this only means that the
pregnant women have access before and during
after childbirth so
subsequently they decide what kind of
childbirth who really there is a need
to live and recover our power
as women and be the protagonists of
that special moment and possibly
way we would help reduce the
obstetric violence that results in
hospital practices and it is thanks to the
ignorance and practices
unnecessary hospitals because they are
routine and good since the baby is born
he has several needs one of them
is to establish breastfeeding and it is
super awesome as they know what
what they have to do and crawl towards the
breast of the mother but you knew that in
mexico 85 percent of women
Do not breastfeed your babies maybe because
lack of information for thinking that it is
very painful but with the technique
Proper lactation should be painless
we also have the false belief that
we do not fill our babies but it’s that
breast milk has very few
calories then the children need
breastfeed is constantly
another of the needs and those that most
I like it is that the baby needs to be
stuck I forgot to tell you that the
who also says that breastfeeding
maternity should be exclusive until 6
months of life and complemented until the
2 years and if the duet mommy baby wants it
You can prolong it longer and it is
a decision of them and of nobody else and
as I was telling you another of the
needs is skin-to-skin contact
and establish the sacred hour is the
first contact in the mother’s chest
It helps a lot to establish the
breastfeeding and also to
develop the bond of attachment that a
Baby needs when I tell them what
need is because actually what
need is something like eating sleep and going
to the bathroom for us in fact in 1970
berg arias einstein wrote the term
tracking to refer to those who
they need to be constantly charged or
in contact with his mother or a figure of
addiction
and good in my case the first six
months my baby did not want to separate from me
and I had not follow the roll and the
need to have it constantly
with me I say that I do not know if I because
something very curious happened to me every time
someone other than me was caught
I felt that the blood had me and although
my head and my body told me
head told me you’re fine is not going to
spend nothing my body and my instinct
they said otherwise I gave him a
example to my husband imagine that you go with
a gorilla and you want to take away her baby
it kills you truthfully because that’s me and
then with the babies that have the
need to be close to his mother
because it ‘s part of natural selection
is what guarantees them survival
as the promoter pediatrician says
of the attachment carlos gonzález
and well that’s how I started using
different types of creators to load
comfortably with my baby and with my hands
free and that he wanted to sleep all
his naps on top of me and like every
person is different every baby too
what is what works for others
no and for me it started to become like
in an addiction a shoulder bandolier
elastic a rigid scarf a backpack or
meitai among others and that’s how I went
in the world of portage the portage
definition is to transport then
we use it as a means of
transport in which we ensure the
contact with the baby but also his
Physiology and physiognomy is super
interesting the role played by
hormones when we are in contact with
our breeding turns out to be one of the
ways in which we manage to activate the
pituitary gland and this one takes care of
control two hormones one of them is
prolactin is to stimulate the
breast tissue for
produce the milk and the other one that I like
more is oxytocin this is the
responsible for triggering the birth
of the expression of milk and is the
responsible for us to love but also
is a neurotransmitter then it
responsible for controlling empathy and
link formation then imagine
we are promoting a development
brain based on interactions
loving and another of the things that are
they act when we are in contact they are
mirror neurons their function is
reflect and imitate what we are
noting then if they have seen this
example I like very much when we say
someone to take a picture and we
they say they smile and we are also
smiling like loquitos from behind
Aries thanks to these cells and
neurologists agree that they have a
very important activity in certain
cognitive abilities that are related
to the learning processes and the
social life then we are achieving
that children reach the milestones of
growth correctly
good in terms of positions for
load the most recommended are from
front facing the mother on the hip in
back and there is a position that is worth
a little worth talking and is sifted
in the world of carriage or by the possible
over stimulation and lack of control
of the baby but it is the front position
seeing the world this can be used
with a suitable charger and with advice
correct and it is important to get advice
also because there are different types of
chargers depending on the
needs and development of the baby
that’s why it’s very important that we
let’s get close to someone who is in
Contact with this information is
important that we use chargers that
be ergonomic this means that
respect the natural position of the baby
hip is correct the knees are
higher are higher than their
damn the fabric collects the whole body
that is to say that you do not do not pull
that is, we must avoid them
we can respect the position
of frog this consists of an opening
of the legs 90 degrees on the body in
the carrier and according to the institute
international dysplasia this position
helps considerably reduce the
hip incidence in children the
incidence of hip spice forgiveness
and another thing that I love is
that helps you to remain you
when you have your son here you can
continue to develop certain certain
activities for example to me was it
happened to open a company when my baby
I had three months together with a friend and
while he was sleeping on top of me I could
do the activities related to me
store but in addition to the activities the
being in contact helps decrease the
postpartum depression by hormones
that I already commented to them, you have to comment
that portering is not a fashion is something
ancestral many cultures with the step
of time have used various
techniques and different types of chargers
to take advantage of the contact with their
children that last so little and in Mexico
we have a super good example that is the
Mexican rebozo that many women what
have used I do not know if by necessity
practicality or because they know the
benefits of the technique
to be in contact with this type of
information had a radical effect on me
husband also I think that being
present at childbirth was what
empowered and it was the breakthrough that
It also helped to get involved in other
activities corresponding to the
fatherhood and also contribution to it
I found in the port a moment of
spend more with your child and establish a
stronger link is that in the
men a balance is also encouraged
hormonal belonging to fatherhood
that is to say that prolactin and
oxytocin also increase therefore
love his son too and the
testosterone decreases that is to say that
they also have champions
hormonal rightly
according to wenger the association for the
International paternity while
men are involved in
domestic activities helps the
children are better at decreasing the
domestic violence as there is better
a better family planning but still
we have a long way to go
because according to the statistics between
35 and 40 percent divide the charges
equitably
to be something that I like a lot too
is that
we have learned to unite and empower ourselves
as a family through information
to keep doing things that we
love for example my husband and I
We adore traveling and this has helped us
keep doing something we like
as a couple and now I wait as
family
It is super important to establish a network
of support and when you do this kind of
activities you meet with people
wonderful that probably share
your same thought and if not what
tolerate as once you hear a talk
of ted the challenge is to have opinions
different and remain friends as
human beings and more as parents we should
support us and we should stop judging
is all these facts motivated me to
continue to prepare and study and I
I trained as a goalkeeper consultant
they say that we are not born knowing how to be parents
but if we can investigate to be
better I hardly think we can
make perfect parents but yes
we can reinvent ourselves and improve each
day to make a better version of
us and give hope to this
society
I believe
and I feel maybe it’s very idealistic
want to change the world
but with small actions and with few
steps we will achieve and for me and for
many raising a person with the
best instruction possible is a great
step thanks
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