[Music]
[Music]
let’s talk about the art of
relationships but there is no doubt that what
first thing we have to do is talk
of magic you believe in magic in the
magic of relationships in that space
where it is different is a space that
it is invisible unconscious that occurs
that is produced to give the best of
each one at that moment comes to me a thousand
cases thousand thousand ideas the first ones in
how much to the family or the couple that you
you if you like being with her
generates a special chemistry that always
it takes you to want to stay longer
when you are with the family in a
arrocito in your house how wonderful that the
time is passing and you what you want
enjoy or in the company in the company
the possibility you have when the
people are connected and everything
it works how wonderful that we are not
us what is created and that space
which is also continuously
moving
it’s the magic of the relationship
the objective of the workshop of the chacrita
forgiveness of now is precisely to give us
account of what role we have
us in the art in doing things
in a different way and there’s the
history art is and before art is
the objective the beginning where it starts
everything starts precisely
in the search the point the point of the
relationship starts where we look where
we look at happiness
our first focus is to see the
happiness as a staple
we can be looking at the
happiness or fear fear is not
the insecurity that is the fear the
happiness is full, so let’s go
make a focus there the art
start on the stage of the real
Spanish academy says it’s a
ability or ability to do something
nice definition but prettier is the
pure manifestation of beauty itself
from there I get an idea
idea precisely of the people who
they have a special gift for relating
they are people who directly and all in
our families in acquaintances we have a
people who have that gift have a
spontaneous gift of freshness that arrives
to relationships and flood it well
that’s what neuroscience tells you that
we have all what we have
practiced we have not become aware and
our strength to say hey that
what can I do neuroscience tells you
all human beings we have all
the necessary resources
let’s take advantage of those resources
necessary we are going to have them forward
we have seen that the
depth since we have the art already
we have taken that and that for example what
I can count on my personal life as
as was it was in my personal life one
constant I exercise as a lawyer has been
an emotion always a special interest
in order to help people from there
watching the example of my parents who have
been law professionals and they said
I from there can help but
I needed something more to become aware of
something else that awareness is the
development of all the arts of
human capabilities which is what
studied next to that to see how
people how do they relate
people study it in depth and
take dexterity to do it
life changes and at the moment it has
the structure of those structures
I come to bring you
we have said that the fundamental vision of
relationships is in happiness but
there is another element that we have to take
in mind that is the other element that
is the effectiveness the effectiveness that
for companies it’s called high
performance the high performance
means that a person who delivers what
maximum that you have with other people
who deliver as much as they have
power everything in an impressive way
and the result is brilliant both the
companies like family as such
we want to be people of high
performance for things to work
and work in a different way
the basic structure where we have to
take attention are three elements the
element of the relationship by itself the
relationship with oneself the relationship with
others and how it is done is that it is a
through communication
in a short movement let’s see how
communication works with those of with
ourselves there is a question how
communication works with us
how the relationship works with us
themselves the question would be how is it
living life in you
how life is living in you
that’s to stop the video now and say
I’m going to think about it because what comes to you
tell is life is happening
seeing what you can do with life
that you are what is your role in life
the quality of your answers is going to
determine and they will be the quality of your
life there are two types of response and what
we know all are the answers
immediate mechanics and are also the
creative answers the mechanics are
the ones that always take you to them
results and you say I’m not
satisfied with what is happening to me in
this relationship
I always repeat myself in the same kind of
relationships live always the same
because we are inside some mechanics
conditioned that always give those
answers and our life is there and in
change there are other creative ones that are
magical that are the creative ones where you
you are in all your presence saying this
it is what it is and this is what it is I do
what I have to do is the creative ones
two things appear one thing that is the
intuition and other influence
I’m going to quickly tell you an example
from one in a tiny company where
All the products they have in
catalog immediately sell them
they make computers and also all the
company are super motivated but I’m going to
tell two cases of 22 profiles very
important there is one that the
strategic planning that he from
Little boy had super clear things
he decided in a natural way and felt
that he never left anything behind
they were wrong or he in his decisions was
firm because he felt that way that person
is in the group is a super person
influential inspiring and super
influential
comrades the friends the people
that there are coming and they tell you what
tell him what he can do because he
has the answers answers that
they come out in a natural way there is another
person who is the commercial director
this person approaches from us refers
that since boy was always in the
search was a very curious search
because he always said I just met the
last great friend I just met my
last great friend he was going to people
of one of a genuine interest and you will see
what could good to see what I know is that
arose from that magic of the relationship to see
that contributed then with that interest
Genuine becomes a person who
not afraid of the approaching relationship
whoever is selling whatever they are
they sell a material they sell computers
but computers made in cardboard
they open the computer and they have the
keyboard the bottom part in the part of
above they have a screen drawn and in
the screen tells you with this computer
you can do everything you want
everyone buys that computer all the
they buy it
oh I forgot the oldest is 8 years old
the other has 10 children who are passing
the previous recess a recess drawing
the other trying to sell them but notice
you have to be careful because they are going to
make new habits now and that’s going to
do
they are going to strategically go to
all the schools in the world and they go to
be selling in here so much the thing
fundamental is that the influence and
inspiration appear from oneself of a
genuine form
we want to be the writers of our
own book
or we want you not to write it
let’s decide to be the writers of
our own book of life and now
with that from that point we’re going to
approach what the relationship with the
others the relationship with others is very
simple there is a book there are books that is
the robinson teachers the movie of
robinson crusoe where until he appears
my yernes and start living life
change of history he was lost
on an island where there were animals and the
result was very limited when you know
to me to Friday saves Friday they come together
they the characteristics of the novel
they change absolutely
they appear another absolutely world
different as much as you can go to
another country can already return to the country
but it happens also in another movie of
tom ham who is shipwrecked where he had
a manifest need to be with
someone and suddenly a ball appears
that is called wilson with which he
I exchanged those needs of being
human being with others
is a human being that
experience through others we are
what we are because we experience ourselves
in all our characteristics a
through others and that is the magic of
the relationship
the relationships that flow are
fantastic relationships that do not flow
there resolution of conflicts
Now what we bring is a
way to resolve conflicts of
help people manage the
conflicts in a different way
fixes has changed the paradigm
we focus on let’s go to the
companies we go to families we work
with the parents with the grandparents with the
people who have any kind of
relationship
we approach, we try to help him
through an approach that is an approach
wonderful what is happening is a
problem
or what is happening is a
opportunity and from the moment it is
an opportunity
we have to work for the development
and the constructivism of that and the
people remember again that
already know how to do people have the
same resource and sometime in your life
they have been able to do that and how they have done it
and you know, you just have to ask
Find out how you can do it again
there is a challenge the challenge is
do not teach people to know
make a conflict with ourselves
it’s not learning to just make a conflict
but to have the formula to know how
agree disagreements is to realize
of having enough tools
the tools needed to
can have the formula the possibility of
do it in a different way the
communication in all this is the way in
the one that people move and the
people talk and live we are
social beings and we are emotional beings
social beings because we need to be
and develop ourselves in contact with
others and we are linguistic beings because
we express all our emotions to
through language
neuroscience is advancing and it gives us
a variety of impressive words
we have qualified
classified all the words there is a
last study in which they tell you that
two thirds of the words
that work in emotion that talk about
the emotion are not positive there are some
that are neutral others that are negative
but we still have and not you
worry because we have a third
part one third of that which are words
positive
positive words that lead you to
build realities that awaken
ideas
and they make it possible for you to strengthen all your
emotions gives you a chance
world of action
we do not need many more we need
believe us and know how much they impact on
us that that way
that formula of life that is not change the
positivism for positivism but yes
is to transform us into two
opportunities and the opportunity of
work of positivity is the most and the
better for us
Oh
a formula the formula is serves t
means take attention, take strength
realize that life goes by
that you have the possibility to decide
feel of living in experience what you
The relationship contributes what are the
relationships for you
Second, take care that always
would be even more take care, take
that moment
feel that you have the possibility of
do what you want to do because the
conflicts the problems appear in
your life to teach you a lesson and
many times we do not stop to think
what is this happening to me that
is happening
let’s take that moment at the moment
we know it’s not happening we have the
possibility the next sum decides
deciding is not just always casting
step forward knowing that you can
to make a mistake or not to decide is
just be in consciousness with what
that I think it has to be and be
responsible for this that gives you a
strength that for you extra formative and
that transformative nature takes you
to the result
this result is happiness
what we crave and what
we can do for that reason the art of
Relationships If I decide to be happy
and you decide what you decide
[Applause]
[Music]
let’s talk about the art of
relationships but there is no doubt that what
first thing we have to do is talk
of magic you believe in magic in the
magic of relationships in that space
where it is different is a space that
it is invisible unconscious that occurs
that is produced to give the best of
each one at that moment comes to me a thousand
cases thousand thousand ideas the first ones in
how much to the family or the couple that you
you if you like being with her
generates a special chemistry that always
it takes you to want to stay longer
when you are with the family in a
arrocito in your house how wonderful that the
time is passing and you what you want
enjoy or in the company in the company
the possibility you have when the
people are connected and everything
it works how wonderful that we are not
us what is created and that space
which is also continuously
moving
it’s the magic of the relationship
the objective of the workshop of the chacrita
forgiveness of now is precisely to give us
account of what role we have
us in the art in doing things
in a different way and there’s the
history art is and before art is
the objective the beginning where it starts
everything starts precisely
in the search the point the point of the
relationship starts where we look where
we look at happiness
our first focus is to see the
happiness as a staple
we can be looking at the
happiness or fear fear is not
the insecurity that is the fear the
happiness is full, so let’s go
make a focus there the art
start on the stage of the real
Spanish academy says it’s a
ability or ability to do something
nice definition but prettier is the
pure manifestation of beauty itself
from there I get an idea
idea precisely of the people who
they have a special gift for relating
they are people who directly and all in
our families in acquaintances we have a
people who have that gift have a
spontaneous gift of freshness that arrives
to relationships and flood it well
that’s what neuroscience tells you that
we have all what we have
practiced we have not become aware and
our strength to say hey that
what can I do neuroscience tells you
all human beings we have all
the necessary resources
let’s take advantage of those resources
necessary we are going to have them forward
we have seen that the
depth since we have the art already
we have taken that and that for example what
I can count on my personal life as
as was it was in my personal life one
constant I exercise as a lawyer has been
an emotion always a special interest
in order to help people from there
watching the example of my parents who have
been law professionals and they said
I from there can help but
I needed something more to become aware of
something else that awareness is the
development of all the arts of
human capabilities which is what
studied next to that to see how
people how do they relate
people study it in depth and
take dexterity to do it
life changes and at the moment it has
the structure of those structures
I come to bring you
we have said that the fundamental vision of
relationships is in happiness but
there is another element that we have to take
in mind that is the other element that
is the effectiveness the effectiveness that
for companies it’s called high
performance the high performance
means that a person who delivers what
maximum that you have with other people
who deliver as much as they have
power everything in an impressive way
and the result is brilliant both the
companies like family as such
we want to be people of high
performance for things to work
and work in a different way
the basic structure where we have to
take attention are three elements the
element of the relationship by itself the
relationship with oneself the relationship with
others and how it is done is that it is a
through communication
in a short movement let’s see how
communication works with those of with
ourselves there is a question how
communication works with us
how the relationship works with us
themselves the question would be how is it
living life in you
how life is living in you
that’s to stop the video now and say
I’m going to think about it because what comes to you
tell is life is happening
seeing what you can do with life
that you are what is your role in life
the quality of your answers is going to
determine and they will be the quality of your
life there are two types of response and what
we know all are the answers
immediate mechanics and are also the
creative answers the mechanics are
the ones that always take you to them
results and you say I’m not
satisfied with what is happening to me in
this relationship
I always repeat myself in the same kind of
relationships live always the same
because we are inside some mechanics
conditioned that always give those
answers and our life is there and in
change there are other creative ones that are
magical that are the creative ones where you
you are in all your presence saying this
it is what it is and this is what it is I do
what I have to do is the creative ones
two things appear one thing that is the
intuition and other influence
I’m going to quickly tell you an example
from one in a tiny company where
All the products they have in
catalog immediately sell them
they make computers and also all the
company are super motivated but I’m going to
tell two cases of 22 profiles very
important there is one that the
strategic planning that he from
Little boy had super clear things
he decided in a natural way and felt
that he never left anything behind
they were wrong or he in his decisions was
firm because he felt that way that person
is in the group is a super person
influential inspiring and super
influential
comrades the friends the people
that there are coming and they tell you what
tell him what he can do because he
has the answers answers that
they come out in a natural way there is another
person who is the commercial director
this person approaches from us refers
that since boy was always in the
search was a very curious search
because he always said I just met the
last great friend I just met my
last great friend he was going to people
of one of a genuine interest and you will see
what could good to see what I know is that
arose from that magic of the relationship to see
that contributed then with that interest
Genuine becomes a person who
not afraid of the approaching relationship
whoever is selling whatever they are
they sell a material they sell computers
but computers made in cardboard
they open the computer and they have the
keyboard the bottom part in the part of
above they have a screen drawn and in
the screen tells you with this computer
you can do everything you want
everyone buys that computer all the
they buy it
oh I forgot the oldest is 8 years old
the other has 10 children who are passing
the previous recess a recess drawing
the other trying to sell them but notice
you have to be careful because they are going to
make new habits now and that’s going to
do
they are going to strategically go to
all the schools in the world and they go to
be selling in here so much the thing
fundamental is that the influence and
inspiration appear from oneself of a
genuine form
we want to be the writers of our
own book
or we want you not to write it
let’s decide to be the writers of
our own book of life and now
with that from that point we’re going to
approach what the relationship with the
others the relationship with others is very
simple there is a book there are books that is
the robinson teachers the movie of
robinson crusoe where until he appears
my yernes and start living life
change of history he was lost
on an island where there were animals and the
result was very limited when you know
to me to Friday saves Friday they come together
they the characteristics of the novel
they change absolutely
they appear another absolutely world
different as much as you can go to
another country can already return to the country
but it happens also in another movie of
tom ham who is shipwrecked where he had
a manifest need to be with
someone and suddenly a ball appears
that is called wilson with which he
I exchanged those needs of being
human being with others
is a human being that
experience through others we are
what we are because we experience ourselves
in all our characteristics a
through others and that is the magic of
the relationship
the relationships that flow are
fantastic relationships that do not flow
there resolution of conflicts
Now what we bring is a
way to resolve conflicts of
help people manage the
conflicts in a different way
fixes has changed the paradigm
we focus on let’s go to the
companies we go to families we work
with the parents with the grandparents with the
people who have any kind of
relationship
we approach, we try to help him
through an approach that is an approach
wonderful what is happening is a
problem
or what is happening is a
opportunity and from the moment it is
an opportunity
we have to work for the development
and the constructivism of that and the
people remember again that
already know how to do people have the
same resource and sometime in your life
they have been able to do that and how they have done it
and you know, you just have to ask
Find out how you can do it again
there is a challenge the challenge is
do not teach people to know
make a conflict with ourselves
it’s not learning to just make a conflict
but to have the formula to know how
agree disagreements is to realize
of having enough tools
the tools needed to
can have the formula the possibility of
do it in a different way the
communication in all this is the way in
the one that people move and the
people talk and live we are
social beings and we are emotional beings
social beings because we need to be
and develop ourselves in contact with
others and we are linguistic beings because
we express all our emotions to
through language
neuroscience is advancing and it gives us
a variety of impressive words
we have qualified
classified all the words there is a
last study in which they tell you that
two thirds of the words
that work in emotion that talk about
the emotion are not positive there are some
that are neutral others that are negative
but we still have and not you
worry because we have a third
part one third of that which are words
positive
positive words that lead you to
build realities that awaken
ideas
and they make it possible for you to strengthen all your
emotions gives you a chance
world of action
we do not need many more we need
believe us and know how much they impact on
us that that way
that formula of life that is not change the
positivism for positivism but yes
is to transform us into two
opportunities and the opportunity of
work of positivity is the most and the
better for us
Oh
a formula the formula is serves t
means take attention, take strength
realize that life goes by
that you have the possibility to decide
feel of living in experience what you
The relationship contributes what are the
relationships for you
Second, take care that always
would be even more take care, take
that moment
feel that you have the possibility of
do what you want to do because the
conflicts the problems appear in
your life to teach you a lesson and
many times we do not stop to think
what is this happening to me that
is happening
let’s take that moment at the moment
we know it’s not happening we have the
possibility the next sum decides
deciding is not just always casting
step forward knowing that you can
to make a mistake or not to decide is
just be in consciousness with what
that I think it has to be and be
responsible for this that gives you a
strength that for you extra formative and
that transformative nature takes you
to the result
this result is happiness
what we crave and what
we can do for that reason the art of
Relationships If I decide to be happy
and you decide what you decide
[Applause]
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