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Does the American Dream Exist for a Girl Like Me? | Yara Awad | TEDxYouth@Wilmington


this is a picture of me at the

Philadelphia International Airport after

the infamous Muslim ban was passed I

being Muslim and simply just human was

devastated when I heard of this ban it

showed discrimination in our society and

in our government and I for one would

not stand for it so I stood there with

America’s flag in my hand and I spoke

for what I believe needed changing and

that itself is a dream come true the man

my father whose shoulders I’m proudly

raised up upon was once this 17 year old

now imagine being 17 years old

in a foreign country where you barely

speak that language all you know about

this country is from the limited

television access you get in the Middle

East in the 1980s which amounted to your

favorite television show chips

California Highway Patrol because this

is what’s up you navigate the transition

from Amman Jordan to Raleigh North

Carolina

so once the 17 year old realized that

the United States was not the land of

high-speed chases and adventures reality

set in he had no money in his pocket and

barely spoke English and got the only

job that he could get which was cleaning

the floors at Subway but from cleaning

the floors at Subway he learned how to

make sandwiches and for making

sandwiches he worked the register and

from working the register he became

manager and for managing he owned his

own subway and then from owning your own

subway you end in 2017 with 13 I hopped

700 employees and the father of three

children whom you sent prestigious high

so now you’re all probably inspired by

this story of an immigrant but you’re

wondering how does this apply to me how

does this apply to each of you I was

born in the United States and I was

raised here and I speak English and I’ve

never seen ships California Highway

Patrol so does the American Dream exist

for a girl like me does it exist for

each one of you James Truslow Adams in

the 1930s a man that was born and raised

in the United States to find the

American dream as life should be richer

and fuller for each based on potential

and ability so I did a quick search of

what people my age thought of the

American Dream in a study conducted by

the Harvard Institute of Politics

it was found that almost 50 percent of

Millennials believe that the American

Dream is dead I cannot find this farther

from the truth as long as we have the

ability to speak up and use our voice to

change what we believe me it’s changing

the American Dream is very much alive

but I can easily tell you what the

American Dream is not it is not one size

fits all it is not having one uniform

dream for a big house and fancy cars and

a lot of money it is not having a

checklist where you know where the next

step is because let’s be honest life

gets in the way you don’t know where

your next step is going to be but the

fact of the American Dream is that

progress is available and is well here

and now so what is the here and now of

the American Dream why is the United

States the place of progress well you

hear all the time this is the land of

the free and the home of the brave so

why is it that we are constantly

questioning how free we are in this

country no matter what we can and cannot

do free speech is the most liberating

tool that we have as Americans take the

protest that I attended sample on the

day that I stood at the Philadelphia

International Airport there was a family

of Syrian refugees detained this family

spent years in brutal conditions

months trying to apply to find safe

haven in the United States only to be

turned away when they got here they had

no voice so I stood with America in my

hands and I was their voice and I didn’t

only fight for what I believe their

rights were but for the America that I

know and I loved and that itself is a

dream and change followed but it can

also look different take women’s

progress for example a century go women

did not have the right to vote now we

are holding office take black lives

matter whether you agree with this

movement or not the fact that we can

stand up and fight for what we believe

needs changing is the ultimate sign of

progress people will tell you that

discrimination is a sign that we are

lacking progress in our society and

they’re constantly doubting the

melting-pot theory that America is the

place where people mesh together into

one culture but I would argue we are not

a melting pot we are more like a stew

where there’s many ingredients but each

one is just as important as the other

and each one has the potential to do

whatever it can so if each person is

different and each person has the

potential to live the American dream

then how can we measure progress how can

we measure someone’s success we often

make the mistake of looking at someone

who has a lot of money in a big house

and expensive cars and we automatically

label them as successful we don’t know

where they started or where they’re

ended you have no idea the journey that

they traveled I would argue that this

looks more like success someone that was

homeless and became valedictorian this

is the power of ambition you might

already look at someone who’s

valedictorian and say that they’re

successful but this man who started out

as homeless traveled with an

unimaginable journey and I would argue

is more successful than any billionaire

but can it also look smaller

it can be the person in front of you at

a supermarket or someone at a fast-food

restaurant because you have no idea

where they started they could have been

homeless they could have battled an

addiction

and now they are providing for

themselves and possibly their families

this is success and this is exact reason

that I don’t say that I live the

American Dream just because my father

did because you can’t be born into

success if success is the measure of

your own progress so what is the point

of me proving to you that the American

Dream exists it is because pessimism

staggers progress if we don’t believe

that we have the ability to change we

will never change so use your voice

change what you believe needs changing

and remember the American Dream exists

for each one of you but it will look

different thank you [Applause]

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