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Daughter of Zayed | Maryam Matar | TEDxAjman


my presentation it’s an English language

but I would like to apologize for the

organizer I would like to go ahead and

do it in Arabic language I’ll start this

page only with English can you see my

name is Vint mutter in my life there I

had many opportunities and Hum Dil and I

was lucky enough to change many things

in my life which affected positively the

surrounding environment and when I say

environment I mean human being as well

as other type of invite other type of

other elements of environments my name

is Miriam Hamid madara Hamid and if one

of my mission I have my plans since 2012

2050 I have my plan and I know what I

have to do and so far I was lucky enough

to achieve all my plan on the same

deadline if not earlier and when one of

my clan in 2000 before 2050 if I will be

alive that all our names in the official

documentation will be changed to be

called Miriam Bentham Hamad bin Fatima

where our mothers will be mentioned as

well so I would like your support to

start from today to make sure our mother

name will be mentioned there and maybe

some of you will not agree which I

respect but I believe our mother she

deserved that that we should be named if

we will change anything in history as

emeriti women I go and I meet soft other

woman from different part of the world

and one of the main topic which will be

started the discussion with is the

competition between female and male and

how they are not well treated or not

taking care of one again I’m talking

personally on my personal level as an

Emirati woman we were lucky enough to be

in she in Zipes country

and we were so much lucky to have a good

gentleman surrounding us so I would like

today through this positive conference

and forum to pass a very well-defined

thank you message to all good gentlemen

in my life who had the biggest support

and biggest effect on me being where I

am I do admit my mother had played a big

role in developing my skills especially

personal and behavior wise while my

father and my brother my husband my

leaders they had the biggest effect on

other dimension of my career development

in 2006 I would owner I was honored

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move men in the air played a her in her

hokum any one of us whenever he will be

in any leader position leadership

position or challenge they have to make

sure that what he got

he will maintain it and he will keep it

for the rest of his team this what

happens so before I leave the ministry I

made sure there were thirteen women in a

leadership position in Ministry of

Health and now they are doing that at

home the lion even some of them they are

performing much better than their

colleagues male colleagues in in in

ministries in 2009 hamdulillah again I

was promoted by His Highness Sheikh

Mohammed to be the first woman as a

director general in Dubai government

member of the Executive Council it was

another big challenge and all of them

we’re made surrounding me what I noticed

unfortunately in our environment our

leaders they believe so much in women

but not almonds they believe in women

and always they try to put you in a

challenging position only to try to

bring you down but believe me as a woman

and as a Marathi and with all the

positive messages I got today from my

our previous speaker I decided to

continue it was not easy at all it was

too difficult every day I need to face a

new challenge but again with the team

would insist I was insisting that I will

be able to do it and I’ve done it one of

the occasion where I will never forget

when I was the director general of Dubai

in the Community Development Authority

in one of the meetings where we need to

go and finalize a decision about the

orphans in Dubai especially those who

are with would not known families so

when we went to the meeting and in the

meeting all of them were male I was the

only female in that place I thought I am

lucky but unfortunately when I sat on

that place and we start to discuss about

very sensitive topic I saw the let’s say

unhealthy communication the way the

other male in the meeting walking they

were emphasizing on one subject

indirectly that these children are in

the street or these child children they

don’t have parents simply because a

woman she did a mistake with another

male who was only male not a gentleman

and she ended up having this baby and no

one of them criticized that male who was

the reason of this baby to come the lady

won’t be able to do it alone I’m not

defending that not good behavior from

some woman but when we talk about a

human being in any environment

we shouldn’t criticize women or men we

have to criticize the situation and make

sure to find a solution how we can make

sure things can go in a better

people will have their integrity in a

better way especially the new children

so when we have this discussion I had to

stop it somewhere but I have to do it in

a very polite way which doesn’t conflict

with our culture I mean our culture is

sensitive but we’re very well defined

it’s built on a years of experience from

our grandfathers so what I’ve done I

didn’t to stop the discussion by asking

them stop it don’t blame the women don’t

talk about that lady please feel sorry

for this children I asked one of the

guys there I said can you imagine

yourself one day where the evil was

surrounding you and for you found a very

pretty lady in one corner of a place

where nobody can sees you and you’ve

done that mistake and this boy was your

son what you would be doing for this

would you sit and blame him or when he

will grow up he will go to school and he

will be in the same school of your son

they look like each other and got

forbidden something happened the DNA

test should be done and they knew that

he is your son where you at what time

you will feel shy you will feel shy that

you left your son to be in such position

in not knowing who’s you’re his father

or to feel shy that you were the reason

of this big mistake in life so the

discussion was going in a different way

and before I leave I did although I was

in charge of that meeting I didn’t ask

them to follow my decision I said let’s

have a break for half an hour

and we’ll come back and we will see how

we were tagging this tag of the subject

proudly saying today al hamdulillah

rabbil alameen we have all the children

in Dubai City our hamdullah

in in a different they are under

umbrella of a policy and procedure which

protects them from everything in

environment to protect them in the

community and they are living like any

other child in the school with will no

name with a particular

or a family where they are nominated by

their parents name not not the

biological parents somebody will take

them and adopt them and they will be in

a good condition what makes me what

bring me in this subject and emphasizing

on again as a woman we in the Arab world

and lots of other woman they always ask

for women’s right women’s right I’m

against that we don’t woman’s right and

we don’t want to be equal to Allah to be

to get all the privilege like our male

brother we would like to be treated well

respected and to be given what we need

not extra as a woman I’m proud to be an

American is protected will looked after

and she has a great support from all the

gentlemen’s in the bar in UAE and I’m

talking about to by itself because where

I had all type of support is started

with His Highness Sheikh from him Adela

Avila so as a woman I still we want

somebody to open the door for us ladies

first

as a woman I still want to have the

two-month maternity leave as a woman I

still need to take my I still liked me

as a woman I don’t know I’m I would

apologize that I’m not sure I’m not able

to focus very well because just now I

had I met one of the speaker which

affected me so much I don’t know what

his name Shoesmith no dr. Ahmed Imran

God bless them you know and when I want

to talk about my achievement I feel they

are nothing in front of somebody like a

muhammad imran well they only a young

semester now I see it could you Lisa

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domine who say Allah Allah Allah with

Allah anymore guide our America far

ahead and fill speech Marty yeah as a

woman it’s there is it’s a very big

challenge to be a woman especially in

this part of the world with all the

positive and

part of it as a woman it’s a big

challenge to be a daughter and nine in a

family with nine siblings we were five

sister and four brothers and it was

another talent that we were I was number

five in my family our elder brother his

name is Ali

he was Lexie say it at home but we were

blessed enough to have our Father he was

always reminding abroad my brother le le

madam Andy hey Mark Hasse fell beneath

my domine hey an elbow home went to homo

boom yoga mat with her so we were so

much protected at the home under the

wing of my father so it was a challenge

again to make sure that you deserve that

trust that you deserve that protection

so we had to do our best to deserve his

support and whatever our father gave it

to us

again this is another channel to be a

sister of a brother called daddy javea

life father now I understand why he used

to protect us we’ll shake on and raved

everything available especially after my

father he passed away a liar Hema and he

was so tough more than my father before

I get married and I have my daughter she

is seven years old Sarah I didn’t

understand how precious is your yours

how precious is how difficult it is to

take care of a precious things in your

life like your sisters your brother and

now my daughter now I give my brother

Ali all the execuse when he used to tell

me Miriam Abe my sweet other infidels

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metallic the more challenging part of my

relation with my brother Ali that I

deserve again has a trust I asked him to

open a door one of the door for me and

he opened it and he was watching me

following me in each step and

alhamdulillah

very soon he opened both door for me and

he asked me to fly away

to fly not only to walkin in in the and

the in the career and in my in my way

again there is another challenge to be

as a wife as a woman I was proudly

telling you my my husband he is number

27 of my proposal so I got 26 proposal

and Cara

he was number 27 he was lucky

do you think I always tell him that you

are lucky that I said yes to you but

believe me i was the luckiest the

luckiest woman in the world to have

Karim as my husband because of that I

really tell him thank you very much for

all your support to me when he came the

previous proposal whoever comes to

propose for me I was asking them one

condition

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say thank you for all the gentlemen’s in

our life because of that I always insist

that as a woman we have to be so

grateful with all the positive things in

our life we have to be grateful for all

the gentlemen’s who surrounded us in our

life and they were the main reason of

our success again as a mother this was

another challenge I was blessed enough

with my in-laws nuclear material been a

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there is big difference between a smart

wife and wife for a stop to be a smart

wife you have to make sure that you are

smart enough in your social life I was

smart to make sure that I don’t want a

private house I want to live with my

in-laws

simply because I know that I very soon

I’ll go abroad and continue my study and

genetic research and genetic disease so

I was blessed with my in-laws my my

mother-in-law she takes care of my

daughter Sarah and she makes sure to

teach her all the good things one of the

things which I’m also proud of my

daughter Sarah again she is seven years

old

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certain cabin tea had a clean another

challenge

I have to go frequently to Japan for my

PhD I’m doing my PhD in genetic disease

for the past two years and seven month

so I have to go so frequently talk to

Japan and one of the trips which again

debate the whole plan of my study when I

came back it was the first time I go

away I came back to home and my daughter

she was calling me

hallo aunty it was so painful she cared

she still me hello Yeti

it was so painful that time that my

daughter she called me auntie and when

my mother-in-law she came and she said

Oh Maya it was so painful at that time I

decided to make sure I give my daughter

the right amount

of support and all the social bond which

she deserve it

believe me it’s not easy to be a woman

in every corner there is a big challenge

but you have to be make sure that you

acquired all the skills which will help

you to go ahead with that inshallah

being a woman that’s another big

challenge I did my leadership from

Harvard in leadership and during the

course of leadership there was no single

lecture about leadership in women or

women with leadership and through

through my career I noticed there is a

big difference of my decision and all

those decision let’s say the wrong

decision which I took in life especially

in career was related to my period to my

menstruation as you know as any woman

she would have five days to seven days

per month under the control of estrogen

estrogen is a hormone which the lady

will have it in a very high level and

she would have a period lanessa fear

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this gathering I would like to pass a

message for all women’s and leadership

or in a training or in a position where

they need to take a decision please make

sure to be aware and full oriented about

your mini situation if you are in the

first day second day or third day try to

postpone any decision try to take it as

soon you will feel you are much better

and the bloating is less than your body

again see as a woman it’s a big

challenge in every corner there is a new

challenge for you and as a woman you

have to be like a drop of water you have

to be so soft

nice voice I do remember till today we

were not allowed to raise our voice at

home at the curve idiom we can

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I would say we got a I believe in a I

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terribly messy room con hakuna been

delivered to my staff attorney for the

been a year already

the storm is a theory of one so it’s

very important to be aware that you are

a woman you need to be solved you need

to take care of yourself

you need to be as like drop of water and

you need to be transparent how are you

money mafia LM Nasser aha there is

nothing better than being transparent be

yourself till today I have no locked

drawer or a cabinet

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attacks Allah bless Hawaii mafia

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stitch the beam will let the fear with

Doreen in a setting of such we had more

of and you felt that at that time you

cannot be transparent go out don’t go

forward and that a step

make sure and I’m telling you that it is

not the right way there is something

fishy or wrong is going on so try to be

transparent as much as possible you can

maintain your feminity and maintain your

past through your career what we are

very essential for life sustainability

so make sure everybody will know that

you are very precious let the drop of

water and again as a drop of water we

have to be and make sure that we are

strong as you know a drop of water what

does what it could do to a stone it can

you know how the drop of water is strong

enough and persisting on the same side

it can do something which an ordinary

stick cannot do this is one of the

achievement which I’m so proud of and I

would like to share it with you going

back in 2006 I was so so much involved

in a project called UAE free of Della

Samia 2012 and brought I came to this

point simply because I knew that some

somewhere like Cyprus for the past 23

years

there is no single child born with hello

Samia simply because they did that

awareness and they made sure there is a

screening before anybody gets married on

their land so at that time nothing was

there and I’m proudly saying that I was

one of the reason that the premarital

investigation law and legislation is

approved by the Cabinet and I was

honored enough to be at that time in the

cabinet meeting where they approved this

legislation I didn’t do it alone

but I started and I had a very good team

who believed in what we are doing and

now nobody’s getting married in united

arab emirate unless they will be

screened for common genetic disorder we

started in 2007 and i wanted only 3,600

sample and volunteered to come forward

to be examined to see the level of that

genetic disease in UAE imagine i for the

deadline on 12/12/2012 even before 2009

i might

at 3,600 was the need but I’m so proud

to say that so far we were able to

screen eleven thousand two hundred and

eight and with that we it’s it’s a

sample from all over United Arab

Emirates from Abu Dhabi till fujairah

how much we saved money for the country

and how many cases we were able to

diagnose as you see among the eleven

thousand two hundred and eighty-one

sample four hundred seventy eight of

them were affected we’re carrying the

disease gene of thalassemia which will

increase the chance of their new

generation to be affected with the

disease

2210 to with sickle cell 219 with g6pd

and that cost us only four million and a

half then I went to Dubai Health

Authority I told him can you tell me in

2007 the cause of managing one of these

cases how much cost you the cost was

thirty-five thousand eight hundred fifty

I multiplied it by those numbers which

are which we dot knows it won’t be

suffering anymore you can imagine how

much we saved money for the country and

this is annual based and not considering

the other cost of social support as well

we said 32 million dirhams

while we spent only four million and a

half this is another achievement which

we were able to do this is one of the

slide which were I will end my

presentation with I do apologize I took

2-3 minutes but I was under the effect

of dr. Abdullah in the beginning we were

honored enough this year our Center it’s

located in Dubai it’s mainly about

genetic research

Serena sadaqa jariya and Rogers idler

Hema and our president has Highness

Sheikh in Hanyang we do all the tests

free of charge for whoever living in UAE

they need to have a residential visa and

His Highness will take care of all the

cost of this screening so we’ve done

those screening and our lab is

recognized by three international

Research Centre and in one of the

meetings in conference I was talking

about our lab in more

scientific presentation where I was

honoured enough to have five Nobel

laureates

an interest to come and visit our small

lab this even not come in a dream you

know you can have one or two but not

five of them they came all the way and

they visited our small lab I will end up

but I will end this talk with their

comment they spend an hour in our small

Center and they said you AEG da is a

spot of light in Arab world and in

genetic research and five of them they

sign on the guestbook that’s all what I

can say and I do apologize if I was not

focused in the beginning thank you very much

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