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Comment rester sensible dans un monde de compétition ? | Estelle Barré | TEDxNarbonne


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it gives you chills
does it take your breath away
2013 this competition the wind challenge I
managed to win
and well this breath this breath is
that of the competition is something
thing that for me is integrated since I
am very small
because I need it I need it
in the sense that this competition is
my best way to succeed for
to get to know me better to measure at
myself
this competition is a sensation
part of the belly it’s like
thousands of butterflies that twirl to
inside and it’s a sensation
tonic like that that part of the stroke and
are spreading along but arm that
slide along my back and tell me
strengthen the legs and ultimately there is
something that tells me too and go
go ahead go realistic and dream crosses
and ben when I’m on my board
that’s what’s going on I can finally
released all these butterflies outside
it’s this excitement that gives me
want to outdo me and ben it’s on
the water that I express myself
it’s really when this euphoria
it gives way to action etc action
is made room for pleasure
Well, that’s what I call having
the spirit of competition then
dale still seen on the pictures
have been damn many more than 1000
to pursue the same goal
you will tell me but you have to have a
mental steel to succeed or not even
participated in this competition
well yes it is obvious it is obvious but
there is that mind that allows the
athletes to be formatted as a
machine to win because it’s a
mental who are forging themselves and have nothing is
left to chance and also where nothing
could crown this steel
so it actually becomes sports
the waterproof stainless because any
way nothing but everything is anticipated so
there is no doubt to have
he is invulnerable because of all
way nothing reaches it and especially they
insensitive
ah yes because anyway a
least emotion is perceived as a
weakness with all that he has to win
he has to win and he has to eliminate any
competition
so here I hear you go to me
to say but yes but it’s normal all
way it’s not by snapping your fingers
we become champion bah yeah
surely maybe you’re right
but I’m not like that I’m
not like that because for me the
competition it inspires me it’s every
competitor pushes me to go beyond
it allowed me to be with the elements
in this case it is the one in and and
the wind and ben to fly all these
butterflies that are in me goes even more
far
louder still more intensely it’s
really a sensation that allows me that
to say that the competition that the
other
maurice
and in the end, it gives birth to
new butterfly inside me
and then there is something else too
I will tell you a little
story let’s take a small caterpillar
caterpillars whose garden is a beach and
at the end of this beach lease to the sea ​​and
well his curiosity to wake up
when he started having exocet
knew enough flying fish and
start well idea a little crazy
a little crazy to go swimming and flying with
these fish
why not bin the early beginnings
have been a bit arduous a game there you
she drank the cup a bit but then
nothing dropped no
after a good time as long as there was
pebbles and swimmers that is
pushed because anyway a
caterpillar will always remain a finished but
for that, well, it’s well trained in
the sense that we spent hours on
water and then by all the conditions
by all the conditions I mean by
there two because do not believe that the
beach is only sun and
coconut trees we are not on vacation
not all the time but it can be
also bath in the icy water in full
month of January
that’s it too eh ben
from there once she was
ready once it was well
to train rigorously is gone in
competition lc felt it was good
moment the right time to be able to that
it was safe except that she still
discovered the real middle the middle that
goes after a while and the drops
injury disqualifications the
breakage of material then there I pass you
the details
and then small disappointments but
especially a big frustration
well, it’s doing thousands of
kilometers
to see all the conditions together
to make a good competition but he
missing one thing he misses the wind and
yeah because the competition is
that too is either we like it or we
Dislikes but never gave up
this little caterpillar because for
she was convinced to do the
things to love her what she was doing in
done and then so she continued to
to train on your own without
club without coach no problem because
that anyway what mattered was
really going to sail on all
seas it was to cover all the winds
it’s to meet to share all that
well, that was the vision of seven
small caterpillars
except that was not alone in
competition
let’s take the exocet and well he does not
thought no less of his presence than
what does this they do but she
will not stay in the water anyway it’s
not in his genes anyway you
have seen it is too small
and will never get there, well, all these
critics
this little caterpillar and did not
let it go because she finally has it
made the decision to forge this
famous mental steel
this mind that allowed him to
become a warrior and also not to
stop putting the head underwater except
that had not planned it not planned
that she would become the shadow of herself
because she understood that in fact for
to be in competition to exist there
had to excel and that it starts at the
make nervous to make her panic and
ben had people who were shaking her
had a stomach ache but it does not matter
in that sense where anyway she had
this steel mind so that gave him
look like a flying fish
oh well to prove she had her
place is veiling the face
then you will tell me but where is
past his turn dias even beginnings ben
it’s over it’s disillusionment because
that all his means employed to
take up this challenge to live a
bread adventure she began to feel
accountable in the sense that
all those people who believed in
Boy was she sorry she was not
to live up to their expectations
because in the end it was not only
a story a story of potential
it has become an obligation to
result and his dream
she had a nightmare
so I do not do drawing hop on
back in the present moment
well it’s over it’s me here and
then you will ask me too then
how how did I do in
being so sensitive to fit into this
competition environment become so hostile
well I thought that by bringing my
title of champion of France in 2014
I could have approved anything
and that was wrong again I
let it trick because I thought
when you’re in shape and well
that would be the right path
obviously it was not enough to beat
everyone huh from there well
it became complicated because I
so much struggled struggled and struggle and
that after a while I see it’s me
I’m fed up I’m tired of having to
looks like the others because it’s not
the less I’m fed up with locking up my
emotions because if I was happy
I was pretentious because if I
I was crying
and then I even started to moan after
the wind so go ahead go ahead khaled way
who is who is not it is not
you who will change things huh but
also what really hurt me the most
it was two start to make live a
hell to my surroundings and that one day he
there is but a teacher of osteopathy who have me
said but you know the more you try to
get into a mold and more
will look like a pie
I took an hour but at ivato a
lease was not wrong but what do we do
abandoned shot abandoned competition
at home no it’s not possible
ah bah of the coup I went back in my
cocoon that’s what reassures me or ga
thirteen when I dl on fire
Well, it’s with my family
with my family that allowed me to
reconcentrate to understand that they
really nurtured my passion and
to report to my account that
did it was the wind that was always
the wind that gave me this pleasure
intense has been there since just now
actually talking about fish
flying the kennel butterfly that you
apparently you do not mind but I have
took a step back and in the end we got
realizes that the t2 dock between a
flying fish is a butterfly
which of the two cities at best according to
wind but that’s it I understood I
understood that this little united purpose
it was to become a butterfly you
know it’s one of those flying in
my belly so that’s why it’s
for that every morning I continue
to look out the window like salah
is inspected every single leaf the
least twig that can move
analyze the elite speed of clouds
and understand where does the wind come from?
I will ask you
I will ask you to participate and
to close your eyes to esi and trust
close your eyes closed eyes and
imagine
imagine you are at the seaside
you feel the air on your skin you
listen to the sound of the wind
take a good breath he blown
breathe thanks
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